Saturday, March 23, 2019

MSV: vacation edition

Went on a trip and took lots of pictures with friends. In the past, i would cry and beg people to delete certain photos of me if i felt they were a ‘bad angle’ or ‘ugly’ when really i was just unhappy with the truth of how i looked and any photo that showed it. But this week, there’s not a single picture i don’t love. We all look so genuinely happy, and even in ‘silly’ pictures i think i look pretty dang cute. He’s to the last 20 months of weight loss and maintenance, but really just working on myself!! I was able to have the best time, I didn’t WORRY about tracking my calories or not, and I feel so genuinely happy after our trip. I can’t think of another vacation where I can say all of that and mean it.

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Staring at a Sisyphean Nightmare

I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, but then again, I'm not sure there is a right place for this - and that might be a big part of my problem.

I've struggled with my weight my whole life. Unbeknownst to me, I've also struggled with PTSD, anxiety and depression, multiple sleep disorders, and PCOS, which probably goes some ways to explaining why the weight loss methods that worked for other people didn't necessarily work for me. My wife has even more health problems than I do, and a lot of the time it feels like we're both struggling to just function day-to-day; there aren't very many spare resources to go around, and as much as she wants to be supportive she isn't very good at actually helping me achieve lifestyle goals because she's got to focus on keeping herself going.

It sucks.

I've got a lot of little problems - I've battled multiple eating disorders, and have to put a lot of work into fighting body dysmorphia on a daily basis, to the extent that leaving the house takes a fairly significant effort of will. I'm seeing therapists, doctors, I'm taking the medications I'm meant to be taking, and I'm trying my best to do everything I know I'm supposed to do - and I keep failing. I'll manage to control my diet for a few weeks or months, and then my wife gets sick and can't cook and I get sick and can't cook, and suddenly I'm up twenty pounds. I'm doing well on my medications, and then my health insurance glitches and I have to go off of everything for three months while they sort out paperwork, and then I'm back to square one getting my head together all over again.

It feels like every time I take a step forward something comes and knocks me two steps back, and I'm starting to get really, really frustrated with the well-meaning people who keep advising me to get back up on my feet and try again. As though I haven't been doing that for the last sixteen years! I have the same doctors trying to offer me the same information they were giving me five years ago, because (I guess?) they assume that if I retained their info I would be following it. I'm starting to run out of ways to deal with people telling me I need to focus on X - sleep, exercise, mindfulness, tracking - not understanding that every time I shift my focus to one thing, I have to take it away from another thing. I'm not fighting a lack of knowledge, I'm fighting a lack of resources, and that's the one thing that nobody in my life seems to be able to offer.

I've tried asking for help; so far, I've yet to have a friend or family member who's actually able to follow through in ways that make my life any easier. My family is helping me pay for a gym membership, but they live far away from me and can't do anything about the part where I don't have the energy to make sure that my wife and I both take our medication, get to our appointments, work, and then also get myself to the gym. Everyone else talks a good game about offering time or resources, but when I actually need it, they're never around.

The biggest challenge, though, is that I'm not giving up, and I'm starting to feel like a complete and utter idiot for sticking with things. I know the old saying, the definition of insanity being to try the same thing over and over expecting different results. I know how stupid it sounds, to say "Okay, I'm really going to try to focus on exercising when I can and keeping a caloric deficit" for the umpteenth time, when the last however many times I've said it have resulted in me falling off track and gaining weight back and getting sick and bedridden and ending right back at square one all over again.

I have absolutely zero sense that I have the power to change my situation. I have zero sense that any of my best efforts will result in success, because they never have. But, I can't just say "okay, I guess I fail then". I don't know why, since I have very little in the way of motivation and no hope whatsoever. I feel stupid, my efforts feel futile, and after years of work I'm at my heaviest weight ever. I feel like if I couldn't succeed at 20, or 25, when my body and metabolism were at their prime, there's pretty much no way I'll be able to get anywhere at 31. Soon to be 32.

And ... I'm going to keep trying to use MFP and go for walks when I can, and try not to cry when someone inevitably asks me how it's going.

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Foregoing Old Habits

I have been trying to lose weight (and have seen a bit of success - about 20 pounds so far, need to lose ~60) since January. Recently I have really fallen off the wagon. I am a senior in college and live about an hour away from my family. My husband is away at military training this year so I find that it is beneficial for my mental health to go back home frequently to spend time with my family, but it has been extremely detrimental to my physical health. I immediately fall back into old habits when I stay with my parents. I was an athlete growing up, so eating poorly wasn’t a problem when I worked out 3 hours a day. It wasn’t until graduating high school that I put on weight when I no longer had sports to keep me in shape. When I am at my house, I only eat the healthy foods I have bought from the grocery store. At my parents house, there is only junk food and we go out to eat all the time. It’s incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy diet when I’m bombarded by unhealthy choices. My parents aren’t trying to sabotage me - they’re supportive of me trying to be healthier but they also don’t have any desire to change anything about their lifestyle (like buying healthier food, or fixing healthier meals) to help. Even their cat is obese. I have talked to them about this before and their only response is “well just don’t eat the bad stuff.” I’m not blaming them for my poor choices at their house (although it does bother me sometimes to see them living such unhealthy lives). I would just really like some advice on how to continue my weight loss success (or at least not reverse it) while still being able to go home and see my family. Does anyone else struggle to forego their old habits?

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Never give up! Never surrender!

I forgot for a minute that I ROCK!

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When I started my journey 1 year, 4 months, and 12 days ago, 245lbs was my first goal. The one year date was November 11th, and I was 10 lbs short.

For the last 4 months I've struggled. Between Xmas, Vday, my Bday, and stress from getting ready to move without even knowing where yet; I've tried to look at my maintaining that 70lb loss as a positive. Everybody on a weight loss journey stalls sometimes.

Today was weigh in day. This popped up. I had to click a button agreeing "I ROCK!" before I closed it. I wasn't feeling very rock like when I input my number despite finally reaching first goal, but after a pep talk from my husband, I hit that button and felt just a little stronger.

TL;DR: I'm at 52% of my total goal. "Only" 0.5 lbs a week DOES make a difference... And my husband thinks this is a sign we should get a Labrador retriever.

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1 Year Weight Loss Journey - 215lbs Lost (CICO)

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1 year ago today I finally decided to stop blaming everything and everyone else and take responsibility for my life. At that time I recently turned 31 years old and thought about how many people 500+ pounds I knew lived past 50 years old. In this first photo I weighed a little over 510lbs. I went to the doctor a few weeks earlier and was told once again I needed to lose weight. I heard it all my life. All my life I pushed it off and tired not to think about it. Pushed those feelings in the back of my mind and jumped on my computer and joined my fantasy world where none of those things mattered. People didn't see me as a 500lb man. They knew me for who I really was. That helped me for over a decade escape my reality. Everyone always asked me why I spent so much time on the computer playing video games, hanging out with my friends online. It was because I felt it was the only place I was accepted for who I really was. I finally got sick of hiding and wanted things in life I knew I couldn't have if I continued down this road.

I made up my mind on March 23rd 2018 to finally do it. I told everyone I knew that I was doing it. I did that for one reason and one reason only; The biggest pride in my life is my ability to follow up on promises I make. If I tell someone I'm going to do something I do it. I knew if I told everyone I couldn't back down. The first 2 weeks were hard. Going from 4000+ calories a day to 1200 was pretty much like starving my body. The whole time I had that devil on my shoulder telling me I'm never going to do it. I waited a whole month to go to the doctor to weigh in. I didn't have enough money at the time to buy a scale that will weigh up to 500lbs. The first month I lost over 30lbs. After that it was all downhill. One of the easiest things I ever did. Honestly if you can get over that hump and be focused on your goal and REALLY wanted it anyone can do it. Don't fall for stupid gimmick diets. At the end of the day all that matters is how much food you're putting into your body. Eat less than what your body needs to maintain its weight and you will lose weight. That's what I did for 12 months. Today I weigh a little under 300lbs. I never thought I would lose 200+ pounds my first year. My original goal was 100lbs in a year. I want to lose about another 100lbs but that will take time.

If you made it this far through this brick wall of text I been spewing out thank you. And if you didn't that's fine too. Just don't forget that if you really want something you can do it if you just try. Try everyday

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Questions About Sore Muscles After Workout and Scale Changes

Hey y’all! I’m like 2.5 months my weight loss journey and I lost a total of 23 pounds so far! So proud of my success. I lost most of that weight thru CICO. I added exercise later. So on Thursday, I did some strength training and cardio workouts (most my legs for that. I also shopped at the supermarket that was across the street for like 40 mins. The next morning I noticed my left leg felt sore. I did a bit of research and it led me to it being DOMS. I also think constant standing on my legs at the market right after a workout didn’t help. The But my question is that why is my left leg only sore but not my right? I worked on both legs.

I also gained like 0.2 pounds yesterday (day after the gym) but today I gained 2.2 pounds. I’m still eating within my calorie deficit for the most part.

Will I get that infamous whoosh soon?

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Superfood Saturday: Ginger the Great

Pound for pound, ginger must be the most powerful food. Just a couple of teaspoons can help knock out many minor health problems and even help defend you from more serious conditions. Ginger punches up the flavor of all kinds of dishes, turning ho-hum ingredients into food that delights your senses. Now here’s the kicker: Ginger is a Free Food on the Nutrisystem program, so you can enjoy it often and abundantly without slowing progress to your weight loss goal.

Check out the other countless benefits of ginger and how to include it in your meals and snacks:

Health Power

Ginger is the underground root of a leafy plant that’s native to Asia, where it has been used for centuries as both a traditional herbal remedy and a flavoring for food. More recently, researchers in the U.S. and around the world have been documenting the effects of ginger on human health.

Your mother may have given you ginger ale to soothe an upset stomach or other kinds of indigestion. She was right (as always): A wide variety of studies have shown that ginger relieves nausea caused by motion sickness and morning sickness, and it eases other gastrointestinal discomforts such as gas and diarrhea. It’s even been effective at helping to restore the appetites of people in treatment for cancer and HIV/AIDS, according to research published in the Journal of Medicinal Food.

RELATED: Why We’re So Sweet on Sweet Potatoes >

Arthritis—both rheumatoid and osteo—are painful, all too common afflictions that are accompanied by chronic inflammation. Daily consumption of ginger has diminished both the inflammation and the pain in clinical studies of people suffering from these conditions.

The spice also helps stabilize blood sugar levels, yet another one of the countless benefits of ginger. People with type-2 diabetes who consumed ginger daily for 12 weeks reduced their blood sugar, insulin and cholesterol levels, while those on a placebo did not, according to a study published in the International Journal of Food Sciences and Nutrition.

Nutrition Highlights

Now this might be one of the most amazing benefits of ginger: Five, half-inch slices (or less than a quarter cup) is enough to deliver all of these benefits, yet you get only nine calories and almost no sugar or fat. Ginger has trace amounts of many minerals, notably potassium and calcium. Still, the real bonus is that ginger adds lots of flavor and no unwelcome pounds.

Buyer’s Guide

You’ll find ginger roots in the produce department of the supermarket. Look for pieces with shiny, taut skin that’s thick and fibrous. Avoid any pieces with soft spots, which indicate that they’re no longer fresh.

A little ginger goes a long way, so you can take only as much as you want. If you see only big roots on the shelf, just break off a chunk. It should snap easily—if it doesn’t, the root is beginning to decay.

RELATED: Why You Need to Eat More Garlic >

Store fresh ginger in your refrigerator for a week or so. If you want to keep it longer, keep it in your freezer and take it out and grate it when you’re ready for it—no need to thaw it out first. Put it back in the freezer when you’re done.

In the spice aisle, you can pick up bottles of ground ginger, which keeps much longer. Its flavor is more concentrated than fresh, so you should use a quarter teaspoon of ground ginger for every teaspoon of fresh ginger that your recipe calls for. Steer clear of crystallized ginger, also known as candied or glace ginger. It’s been cooked in sugar water and rolled in sugar, so it’s full of excess calories.

Fresh Ideas

Before you use fresh ginger, you want to take a moment to peel off that tough skin. It’s a simple process, as you’ll see in this quick video >

You can use ginger in so many recipes, from breakfast to dessert—another one of the many benefits of ginger. Add a bit to your hot breakfast cereal to give it the flavor of ginger snap cookies. You can also use it to perk up the taste of dishes, smoothies, dressings and even desserts!

Spice up your menu and fight off unwanted sickness with these four recipes that include ginger:

1. Peachy Green Ginger Smoothie >

peach ginger smoothie

A rich, filling smoothie can be an energizing start to your day or fuel for a busy afternoon. This one brings together the sweetness of juicy peaches and the powerhouse nutrients of spinach, flavored with the zing of ginger.

2. Wasabi Ginger Salad Dressing >

wasabi ginger dressing

The classic ingredients of Japanese cuisine—spicy wasabi, savory soy sauce and zesty ginger—dress your healthy salad with so much flavor but very few calories.

3. Ginger Soy Noodle Bowl >

ginger-soy-noodle-bowl

Pass on takeout from the Asian noodle shop and instead whip up this quick and filling dish for your flex lunch or dinner. You get plenty of pasta to fill you up, the fresh vegetables you need, and the spunky flavor of ginger that makes takeout so appealing.

4. Gingerbread Freezer Fudge >

ginger fudge

Yes, you can enjoy gingerbread and fudge without derailing your weight loss plan. This easy-to-prepare recipe makes a treat that will satisfy your craving for something sweet.

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