Sunday, May 12, 2019

Is weight loss really just simple math?

So I (22 F) weigh around 205 lbs at 5'6. I had recently started a weight loss regimen with regular diet and exercise, and it was going well. However, not too long ago, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. Thankfully, it was detected early enough that it is fully treatable and reversible. Nevertheless, this whole process has been emotionally devastating to my mom, and will continue to be for the next few months throughout her treatment and recovery.

That being said, I have been the sole source of support for my mom. I have taken over all of the house responsibilities and spend the majority of my day, every day, with her to get her through the various moodswings she goes through as well as to keep her in a positive and happy mindset.

Because of this, I find myself absolutely spent by the end of the day. When I finally get some time to myself, I just want to embroider or read or game or do some sort of activity that I actually enjoy. I just can't get myself to work out even though I know I should.

Most of my life it has been drilled into me by the people around me that working out is the ultimate tool for weight loss. That diet alone is useless if my lifestyle is mostly sedentary. I've also managed to lose weight in the past through a rigorous exercise routine and no calorie counting (just healthy food choices). So I've become worried and scared that exercise is the only answer and that without it I'm doomed.

I really want to lose weight. I start school in September, and I want to feel better about myself by the time I go, even if I know I won't be at my goal weight by then. I've calculated my BMR and am ready to properly count calories on my meals every day in order to lose weight through my diet, but I'm terribly worried that my current sedentary lifestyle and lack of exercise will cause me not to drop any pounds.

I've seen a few posts here saying that weight loss is just simple math, and that the variables in the equation can be adjusted to fit our needs as long as the end result is a significant enough caloric deficit. Is this really true? Can I really lose a significant amount of weight through diet changes/ calorie counting and nothing else, at least for now?

I plan to introduce exercise later on, but that will happen whenever my mom no longer needs my full attention, so it's a long ways away from right now. I'd really like to drop some weight before I go back to school in September. Can I do this through caloric deficit alone, even with a sedentary lifestyle? Any tips and suggestions would me wonderful as well. Thank you so much!

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Saturday, May 11, 2019

A story I’ve never shared before

Growing up I was always overweight. As a gay male in a rural area far from a city it wasn’t easy. I remember being in middle school and people yelling at me all day how fat and ugly I was. I also never forgot the time my grandmother said to me when I was 14 or 15 in the middle of a busy store check-out that “you’re so fat now you need a bra”. At one point in my pre-teens to around 16ish I was about 300lbs. I felt terrible about myself and going into Highschool after a terrible middle school experience sounded terrifying. I started high school as the fat kid I always was and to my surprise people left me alone but I still always felt the shame and hurt of years prior. When I was 17 I finally decided to change my life style. I started monitoring what I ate and was walking daily on a treadmill. Very quickly I lost 5-10lbs and I felt very excited. This is where it began. I moved up to a brisk walk in the treadmill eventually up to running. Soon I was seeing 10lbs, 20lbs going so fast. As I was exercising more regularly my weight loss had slowed down a bit and it was frustrating me. I decided to cut my calories way back and was obsessed with logging the few calories I did eat on an app. I continued to run vigorously for months and eventually starved myself for days. After a year and a half I made it to around 140lbs at my thinnest when I started grade 12. The most of my weight loss was in the summer before the school year and people were shocked to see me this thin. I felt like I owned the world and I was so vain with my appearance and shopping for clothes in “skinny people’s” stores I could only have dreamed of wearing in the past. I became that mainstream, selfie-queen on Instagram when I was 18 and 19 and savoured every like. During this time I felt sick. I was always light-headed and tired every hour of the day as I still didn’t eat much. My mother would struggle to get me to eat some dinner each night. I had my blood work taken and everything was extremely low. My doctor had even told me that the weight loss had gone beyond enough and was no longer healthy.

I’m now 21 going into my 4th year of university and I weigh about 260lbs. Once I left home for a bigger city for school my schedule was so much busier I didn’t have the time to maintain the exercise I once did. My care for food started to slip and the weight slowly has come back over the past few years. I’ve been in denial thinking it hasn’t been much but every day in the back of my head looking into the mirror I do feel ashamed and ignorant for the way I mistreated my body. I’ve always told myself I’ll go back to the gym eventually for the past several months and i would go for 1 or 2 days and that would be it for another few months. The motivation feels completely gone. My self esteem has been affected and I feel constantly embarrassed. Im worried now because of this weight loss past it won’t stay off again and i wonder if it’s all a waste of time. Tonight I deleted every picture of myself on social media from the past when I was thin because the reality of it all seemed to just come now for the first time in years. Anyone have a similar story?

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Having trouble controlling my food intake..

So it’s been about 4 months now, I finally decided this was the year that I was going to start my weight loss journey and it’s been going well so far. I started exercising (treadmill, steadily been increasing speed and duration) in January and it’s practically been a regular thing now ever since. I’ve managed to go from ~270lbs to where I’m at now, 230lbs.

However, I’ve been having some trouble recently losing more and I’m positive it’s likely my diet. For the most part, I haven’t really changed my diet that much (except for lower caloric intake) and I tried going on a diet(keto), but that did not work out lol, so I just settled for watching my portions.

I’ve been having a lot of trouble just stopping myself from eating out of stress/boredom and I’m scared of just ruining all the progress I’ve made. It’s like my cravings just completely take over my willpower even though I know I shouldn’t be eating those things. Anyone else been in this situation and gotten past it? Would appreciate any advice.

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45 lbs in 9 months, old pictures of me are incredible reminders

I cut back on sodas and junk significantly when I started college again. Eating regularly was an enormous part of how I went from 260 to my current 215. What made me happy enough to post here about it was a great friend noticing and commenting that I lost weight. It made me feel incredible and reminded me what is possible so I pulled up images from before the weight loss started and the differences are staggering. Taking a step back and admiring how much 45 lbs lost actually looks like is such a huge motivator to continue losing and getting into a healthy weight threshold. My face is smaller, my stomach is no longer a disgusting, bloated looking size and I've almost lost my double chin. It's such an unbelievable reminder of all the changes you don't notice over a long period of time but still happen. The changes are worth everything and one day, you're faced with the progress and the feeling is incredible.

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How to overcome mental drawbacks/self-esteem issues tied up in weight loss?

Basically I have low (virtually no) self-esteem. I struggle to look people in the eye and am nervous to leave the house for fear of everyone’s judgement. A decent portion of this is tied up in shame over how I look/my weight. Every time I try to lose weight I hype myself up by imagining all the benefits/how much greater my life would be if I lost it. Then a while in, I (due to low self-esteem) subconsciously self-sabotage and begin thinking I don’t deserve that better life/the benefits that come with a healthy weight. I tell myself I’m doomed to be like this and soon enough I relapse and just fall off the wagon. These episodes have made me think I really need to get better self-esteem and believe I’m worth it before I can lose weight, but to get that self-esteem I also feel like I’d need to lose weight! It’s a terrible cycle and I’m wondering if anyone else has esteem issues/has sabotaged themselves by believing they’re not worth it and has any insight on how to overcome this?

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