Wednesday, August 21, 2019

My roommate is the worst support system

Hello, I’m a 25 year old male working on his weight loss. I started at 268 and now I am down to 217. The hardest part about my weight loss has just been my roommate who criticizes everything. Even though they’re the one who breaks out in a sweat going up the stairs because they gained so much weight, they actually used to be a normal size but over the past few years just ate nothing but fast food and gained a lot. It just gets frustrating because I want to keep going without hearing let’s get fast food let’s make this or that. I’ve been able to say no a lot more and I’m proud of it but it just gets hard. I even make healthy versions of food I like and my roommate will just go oh that’s so sad. They have expressed interest in losing weight but they don’t want to track anything because they shouldn’t have to? What frustrates me the most is that I brought this up to my therapist and my therapist told me I’m enabling them and that I should help them? But I don’t think it’s my place to tell another adult what to do especially if they aren’t related to me.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 21 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Obsessed with the scale

I want to make a life change to encourage healthy weight loss but i find myself fighting off my old obsessive ways.

I used to weigh myself 4 to 6 times a day, usually when i woke up, when i got home from work or school, before id go to sleep and anytime before AND after i ate (if i thought i weighed too much that day i didnt eat or would take naps and weigh myself until i though i deserved to).... it was toxic! It made hate myself and eating. I would pull at my stomach at night and cry driving me in a awful circle...I went from weighing 205 to 168lbs and was still steadily losing still until i got with my bf. He helped by making me focus on my hobbies and getting me to eat more frequently but now im more than what i started out originally ( now 215lbs) after 3 years.

Now im trying lose again without falling right back into my bad habit. Is there anyone out there that had to break their obsession with the scale and how did you ward off these temptations?

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Losing Weight After My Eating Disorder

I'm recovered from bulimia, I use to have a very terrible binge eat/purge/starve cycle. Currently, I don't have many urged to relapse into my eating disorder, however, I do overeat quite a bit. I gained back all the weight I lost during my eating disorder, my goal is to not be a certain weight but to not feel the need to over eat all the time.

Here are my obstacles:

- I cannot use the scale to weigh myself

- I cannot "crash diet"

- Calorie counting is very iffy and I'm unsure if I can do it.

- I do not hate my body, I do not think It's ugly. I'm sick of people trying to shame me into losing weight over fear of being "fat" or "ugly".

Every sub I go on seems to trigger my eating disorder. Whenever people talk to me about weight loss they often themselves are using disordered eating as a means to lose weight. I don't agree with using self hatred or disgust to fuel weight loss, that's how I ended up with my eating disorder in the first place.

Does anyone have any resources for me? Is anyone in the same situation?

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I desperately need help with weight loss motivation. I lost 40 lbs 2 years ago and have spiralled even worse now and am at my heaviest weight ever. F/5’7”/245lbs.

As the title says I feel trapped. I was thin in high school and played many sports. Once I left the weight crept on, but didn’t skyrocket until I had to move in with my in laws. Then it exploded, I was depressed and without direction. I now live with my husband in the same house but my in laws have left. Almost everything is the exact same as when they were here. I feel completely lost. I’ve bought multiple gym memberships at multiple facilities but I never go.

I just joined a gym last week that I really like; quiet, not far from me, private. There was an error when we signed up with the card machine and we were supposed to return the next day to receive our passes. I never went back.

I have a lot of issues with myself that I wish I could change and 90% of them surround my diet and exercise habits. I drink between 1-3 sodas per day. If I go for too long without one my mouth feels completely dry. I honestly don’t drink water at all. I always buy breakfast and lunch and sometimes dinner. Despite this I still have a happy disposition, a good relationship with a very supportive spouse.

I don’t know how to help myself out of this mess or what steps I can take to even get myself back on track?

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I binged on chips today

I've been doing so well at calorie counting over the last 4 months. I'm down 10 pounds. I started at 180.2 pounds, an all time high. Yesterday I weighed in at 168.3. Its a bit of a slow weight loss but my routine is sustainable for me. A couple more hundred calories a day in exchange for sanity has always been a good way for me to diet. I feel satisfied and have enough in my calorie budget to have a little treat on occasion.

Until today. (Dun dun duuuunnnnn...)

I came home from work today, absolutely famished. I told myself I could wait until dinner to eat, but I didnt.. About an hour before dinner time I broke, and ate like 3/4ths of a bag of potato chips.

800 calories later, I felt absolutely disgusted with myself. I wanted to give up on 4 months of progress and hard work. I thought about how I'd have to skip dinner tonight and be hungrier in the morning. I was really down on myself, until it was like a switch flipped, and I wasn't sad anymore.

I tracked those chips. I honestly can't say how many chips I ate. I just sort of had to ball park it. But even an attempt at tracking, even if it wasn't 100% accurate, meant that I took accountability for my mistake. No one shoved the chips into my mouth, except for me.

I took a few minutes to get ahold of myself, and went to the kitchen again to prepare dinner. I ate dinner as I normally would. Now, I am something like 500 calories in the hole today, but I told myself I wasn't going to let it bother me. I took it as a lesson that I get snacky when I get bored. So instead of sitting around doing nothing after dinner, I went for a jog.

One binge is not going to ruin our progress. We did not gain weight because of what we ate on Thanksgiving. We gained because we ate like it was Thanksgiving every day.

I messed up. I am taking responsibility for it, but I am not going to let it ruin my progress. Tomorrow is a new day, with no chips. (Especially because I ate them all)

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is losing weight while maintaining a healthy relationship with food possible?

Hi everyone, I am a 17 year old 5'7 (170cm) female weighing around 67kg (148lbs). I would really like to get to 50kg (110lbs) by next year, would you help me?

I have been in a cycle of binge eating (emotional-based) and restricting as punishment for about a year now. I am at my heaviest and am not slowing down as my purging spells have messed up my metabolism quite badly.

In an attempt to resolve this I tried eating 3 meals a day, calorie-counted to a total of 1200, but always end up binging at night when my willpower is on empty.

I want to be able to lose weight quickly, but sustain the new lifestyle instead of yo-yoing back. Does anyone know any healthy weight loss methods that are sustainable and largely effective?

[first time on reddit hehe]

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