Sunday, September 8, 2019

Finally doing it right.

My mom was a fad diet supporter, so growing up I only ever lost weight through those sorts of methods. First was the cabbage soup in middle school, then the cereal diet in high school. She was highly averse to anything that required work, I had to beg for years until she even let me take Karate. I don't know why she didn't like the idea of ME working hard. I wonder if it just made her tired to see, or if she just didn't want me to have too much of a life outside of home because I'm her youngest. I always kind of felt like more of a valued pet.

"You can eat as much cereal as you want and lose weight!" She'd tell me, but I decided to have three portioned servings of Special K, barely wetted with soymilk. I went from 160 pounds to 140 pretty quick. I branched out and had 15 teddygrams or a slice of bread with peanut butter and honey sometimes. I played DDR until the game said I'd burned 500 calories. It "worked," but the doors at school were pushing back pretty hard! Some protested my weight loss, but that made me stick to it even more.

Then I severely sprained an ankle while chasing the school bus in winter and wanted real food again. Weight shot up to 175, and after several more failed fads I managed to get up to 205 as an adult. I've been 5'2 since middle school, so waaay too many lbs for me to have.

Now that I'm trying to just be reasonable and track my calories, and have started running, I'm doing a lot better. Yesterday I just weighed in at 189.8! It's been great to see what happens when I'm not constantly sugar crashing, running enough to see the soreness go away, and my breathing get better!

Shout out to my gf for being the kind of person that likes to do things which require effort. My mother keeps telling me to "Just go back on your cereal diet!" to this day. TO THIS DAY!

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My jeans fit again! Yay!

Hi friends! I just wanted to celebrate my small victory- This is my first time tackling a major weight loss and I’ve been feeling a little plateaued lately. I’m a little obsessive about the scale even though I know it’s not the end all be all, it’s an unhealthy habit that I’m working on.

Today I decided to try on a pair of my old favorite jeans that I first looked at and said to myself that there was no way they would fit- the waist looked too small. Tried anyways, and wouldn’t ya know it they fit perfectly. Not too tight where they’re digging into my stomach and I didn’t even need to suck in to get them on. I feel so elated!

I still have a long way to go but it’s the small victories that remind me that weight loss is happening even if the scale is being a jerk! Keep on keeping on- changes are happening!

A serious and huge thank you to this and all weight loss communities on reddit for being a place where we can celebrate and motivate each other. This is one of the most helpful tools i have to keep me going when the going feels slow or overwhelming. Sorry for the sap!

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Today is my Day 1, for the third time. If you want to get back on the weight loss train, I want it to be your Day 1 too.

I've had a really hard time keeping myself on track to lose weight this past year-and-a-half. I had a really good 3 or 4 month stint in early 2018 where I lost 20 or 30 pounds, but I've since gained it all back due to being inattentive and lazy.

I need to lose weight. I'm not incredibly obese or anything, but it's literally a requirement of my job to be within a certain BMI standard and I'm not there. If I can't get myself within standards, I run the risk of not getting promoted or, worse, losing my job entirely.

What I'm saying is that after almost a straight week of eating like crap, and eating a whole of it, I want to get back on the weight loss train. I'm tired of being one of the most out-of-shape guys in my workplace. I hate breathing hard after going up 3 flights of stairs. I hate being embarrassed when I take my shirt off. I hate the judgement I get from my coworkers for being so fat and, yet, being in a position of leadership at my workplace.

I'd like to ask you guys for help. I know what I need to do; I've done it before. But I would really like some help with accountability. I'm willing to give out my email or converse through reddit; I feel like it would help if I honestly just had someone checking in to make sure I'm eating the right way and living a more healthy lifestyle. I don't know if anyone else feels this way, but I'm also willing to be a daily "texting-buddy" or whatever to make sure someone else stays on track.

Here's hoping that I get it down this time. Thanks.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 08 September 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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It's taken the process of losing and gaining 100+ pounds multiple times over the last 5 years to finally settle into behavior patterns that I believe are sustainable.

The first time I tried to lose weight, it was out of anxiety that I would give myself health problems if I didn't change my ways. At 360 pounds I didn't really know where to begin, but vegetarian people seemed healthy, so I decided I would cut out meat and focus on improving my cooking skills, keeping as much of my diet as fresh and free of processed foods as possible.

I lost 100 pounds in 6 months, after which my anxiety faded, and slowly, my results faded too. I gained it all back.

The second time around I found this subreddit and was relieved to discover that I did not in fact 'just have a slow metabolism' and that my weight was under my control if I simply could eat at a calorie deficit. In my late twenties then, I was just about ready to stop being a kissless virgin and to get myself in shape and start dating. I knew that if I could willpower through on about 1200-1400 calories a day and throw in some cardio I could be one of those inspiring success stories. I kept it up for a year, but more and more frequently I would sabotage my progress by binging thousands and thousands of calories in a single day, like an addict who fell off the wagon. The binges started to add up, and the shame weighed heavily on me. I just knew that all of the friends and family I had been constantly talking about my weight loss with and who were always kind and encouraging to me were know ashamed too. I could tell that they now thought I was as much a failure as I did. The binges blurred together into one long 6 month binge where gained back 100 of the 120 pounds that I had lost.

Most recently, over the past year, I started eating more calories than I had the previous time around. About 2000-2400 depending on the day. I'm not as strict anymore. I also have a rule for myself that I have to do 30 minutes of cardio at least 5 days a week. I've lost 120 pounds again and I'm now at the point where I had started drastically failing last time. But I don't spend all of my time obsessing over my calories, and what I'm going to eat, and wanting to spend them all on junk food because I was ravenous, and getting cranky with my family at unexpected nights out. In fact, I usually now end up spending 2 hours cumulatively per day doing cardio, just because it puts me a good mood and I enjoy listening to audiobooks.

One of the most encouraging things for me is one of the employees at the gym I go to caught me checking her out one time and now I often catch her glancing at me when she thinks I'm not looking. I'm still not comfortable enough with myself to start dating but it's a real nice reminder that I'm headed down the right path and I can finally achieve my goals by focusing on meeting my daily goals rather than pressuring myself to go as fast as possible and sprinting towards longer term goals.

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I just want to say thank you for all the random strangers that come up to me and compliment me on my weight loss.

I've been working at in-n-out burger for a little over 5 years now. when i stated i was 430-440 lb i'm currently sitting at 235 lb and every couple of months or so i get a customer that comes up to me and ask how long i've been here and when i tell them 5 years they realize i used to be that big guy and they tell me how proud they are and happy they are for me. i had it happened 3 times tonight and just...gah i'm on cloud 9! so to all the people that are out there randomly encouraging people on their weight loss journey THANK YOU! every little thing helps the keep it up, god job, high five..all of it. it really means alot!

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Saturday, September 7, 2019

Have your boobs changed much with weight loss?

Hi Ladies of Reddit! I have some boob-related questions and was hoping that those of you who are further along might help.

I've always had a large chest naturally, and it's partly genetic (46F at 300lbs). I've recently gone down to 262lbs and I'm slowly seeing changes - everywhere except my chest. The last time I was at a somewhat decent weight had to have been around age 15 and I think I was something like a 40D.

Is there a chance that I will go back to that? Can boobs shrink properly with weight loss? I'm just scared that I'll end up with some insane size as my band size decreases. Plus I'd LOVE to own a bra that's not beige again!

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