Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 11 September 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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At a standstill and I don’t know how to fix it

Hey everyone, hoping I can get some advice from people that can relate to what I’m saying...

I’ve been on a very long, slow weight loss journey. I’m female, 5’6”, and my highest recorded weight was 275 lbs around 2009 or so. Starting in 2010, I began my weight loss journey because I was tired of being fat, and I was also going to be in a wedding the following year, and I didn’t want to be the fat girl in the wedding pictures. I managed to lose around 50 lbs before the wedding. I am still continuing to lose weight. I had a major setback due to personal reasons a few years ago, but got back on the wagon.

I currently weigh 193, but my problem is that I have been in this range now for the past few months. I cannot for the life of me get out of the 190s. If I do, it’s a temporary thing and I immediately gain the next day. I don’t understand what I am doing wrong. My doctor says I am just a “slow loser” at losing weight. My nutritionist seems to agree. Insulin resistance was brought up at my last physical, but I am not at risk for diabetes as my bloodwork was normal. I’ve tried CICO (what I currently am doing and what helped me lose the previous weight), weight watchers, low carb....I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong and I’m getting frustrated and upset over lack of progress. I exercise around 3 times a week and I definitely prefer cardio (I like running and swimming) but I have started doing more strength exercises and started a strength program. Some friends suggested it’s muscle weight, but it’s the same 3 lbs coming and going. Has anyone experienced something similar to me, and found a way to break the cycle? Really would appreciate any advice!

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Am I getting enough exercise?

Sorry if this is the wrong sub to ask this, but I wasn’t sure where else to ask.

So I’m a 19F college student trying to lose weight. I have somewhere around 100 to lose and have been making progress over the last couple weeks. It’s a lot easier since I have a kitchen this year! No more relying on dining hall and microwave food.

I’m worried that I’m not getting enough exercise. I know that it’s not necessary for weight loss, but I really hate being inactive. I want to do more cardio, but I’ve exhausted myself the last couple times I went to the gym. I had to cut my last session ten minutes short (total of 20 mins) since I just didn’t think I could go on. I was on the elliptical and had it set at the most basic settings for resistance and incline, and I still struggled. I wasn’t going too fast either.

But as a college student, I’m not completely sedentary. I walk to/from classes four days a week, which can add up to about 30-40 mins of walking per day in 5-15 min spurts. I’m not sure this really counts because it’s not like I’m pushing myself extremely hard or doing it for long periods of time.

Also, as I lose weight, I do hope to be more active. But with how exhausted I get when doing “low-intensity” cardio, I don’t see that as being an option yet.

Does anyone have any tips? Is this enough? Is there anything I should add into my routine to help me get more active?

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Tuesday, September 10, 2019

Anyone else hate it when family comment negatively on your weight when you’ve actually been losing it?

My dad keeps making hints about my weight. When I weighed 187 pounds, I remember he straight up said to me when he saw me at uni “I think we both need to lose a bit of weight don’t we?”. I said I know, I wasn’t actively losing weight at that stage but was planning to as I joined the gym. That was the first time (back in July) a family member commented on my weight gain and though I knew I needed to lose weight, it still almost made me cry because it was the first time a family member had mentioned it.

I’m now 175 pounds, and this is the most weight I have lost in one go and I’m proud of myself. I go to the gym regularly and though I don’t eat the healthiest (I’m at home, I tend to eat healthier when I’m at uni as I choose what goes into my cupboards and fridge, if there’s junk there I’m very likely to eat it) I’ve been losing weight at a gradual pace which is healthy. I went on holiday for 10 days and gained 3 pounds so I had to take a week or two to get back into the routine and mindset of losing weight.

I don’t think my weight loss is visible, I understand the first chunk of weight loss is water weight, I’ve actually noticed the weight loss in my arms more so than my thighs or waist.

My mum however would still make hints, to this day. She would make hints about healthier eating and calories, I even straight up said to her when it started to annoy me “look, just tell me I’m overweight, stop making hints it’s not doing anything for me, I’ve actually lost weight, did you know that?”. She didn’t respond to the first part but in response to knowing I lost weight she said “yes” but she seemed surprised, I don’t think she knew but she doesn’t like to admit when she’s wrong so I think she lied.

As I’ve been home and seeing friends, as a 19 year old I’ve been going out and drinking one too many. My parents claimed to have never gotten drunk in their lives so they do shame me for it despite me being a university student. I often get McDonald’s after a night out with my friends because, and this isn’t an excuse, if I don’t eat something substantial after drinking I more likely than not will be sick, and McDonald’s is usually the only place open. My mum has used this to berate me, saying she sees me eating nothing but junk food (she rarely sees me eat as she’s at work) and when I say what she says “McDonald’s”, which I’ve only had twice in two months. She berates me if I throw up from being sick, so whether I get a drunken McDonalds or not I’m going to be shamed by my mother, who isn’t healthy either, she’s eaten a multipack of 12 crisps in 2 days, I haven’t touched crisps since being home.

Sorry for going on a tangent, I’m just saying I wish my parents would be as happy with my progress as I am, and yes even though I still have some way to go, they know I go to the gym regularly, and 12 pounds weight loss is really good for a stubborn young adult aha. They only see a small snippet of my diet and routine and think they can judge me for it, if my diet was really that bad I wouldn’t have lost 12 pounds since mid july (with a 10 day holiday in between).

If you are a parent worried about your child’s weight, please be encouraging when they do lose weight, don’t shame them into trying to lose even more when they’re already trying.

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(Advice Needed) I'm a bridesmaid in a March wedding and I'm debating on what size dress to buy.

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this. I considered posting in r/weddingplanning but this is more of a weight loss question than a wedding question.

My best friend and old college roommate is getting married in March 2020 and I'm a bridesmaid. I'm thrilled for her and I'm honored to be in her wedding. She sent the bridesmaids a link to the dress she wants us to get (through David's Bridal) and I'm concerned about the size I should get.

Obviously I'm going to go to a David's Bridal store and try it on first, but I've lost 54 pounds since March 2019 and I know as I continue to lose weight I'll be dropping dress sizes pretty quickly. I'm holding off on buying the dress until the deadline that she's given us so I can get the most accurate size for my body at that moment (I have to buy a dress no later than October 31st).

I'm at a deficit of -750 to -1000 and I lose about 1.5 to 2 pounds per week. I do moderate exercise in the form of Couch to 10k and I've been building some muscle which is exciting!

I've never lost this much weight before (yay!) so I have no idea what my approximate size would be when I'm between 210-220 pounds which is the weight I am aiming to be at by this March. Has anyone been in a similar situation? I'm concerned that if I buy a dress now, I'll either spend a fortune in alteration fees (which I can deal with I guess) or I'll be stuck with a dress that I can't wear.

Am I putting the proverbial cart before the horse? What do you guys think?

Edit: In case it matters, here's my stats. 27F SW: 306 CW 251 GW 200 to start and adjust after that

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Losing friends after losing weight?

So I've dropped 30 lbs and want to lose 5 more to reach my goal. I've worked very, very hard on my diet and exercise to do this. When you're older, it's a lot hard to drop lbs. I've been noticing some friends aren't too happy about it. I hear I'm getting too thin. Not true at all! lol. Also, when we go out to lunch, they keep asking when am I'm going to be finished with this diet already because I'm careful about what I eat and don't eat. I say I'm never going to be done because I want to to maintain this weight loss. I don't discuss my diet with these ladies, so it's not like this needs to be an issue. It's just frustrating to me.

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Small win but I'm happy with myself!

I've been on again off again with weight loss for about a year now. My biggest issue has been committing too fully to one idea and then I'd burn myself out after a week. This time around I decided to do things more slowly. Bring a lunch to work, go for a walk if I have some downtime, do at least 10 push ups a day, ya know, small easier things just to get myself going.

I started working the gym back into my habits last week. I am not trying to make it a daily habit, but rather something I do a few times a week to help out with the process. Today I had a rough day at work and was craving a beer all day. Instead of heading to the bar right away I went to the gym and rode a stationary for 20 minutes instead.

I feel great! I worked up a sweat, rode a bit further than I thought, and, maybe most importantly, the beer craving diminished! Like I said, not a huge win, but I'm happy I went

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