Saturday, November 2, 2019

It’s time to get back to it

Super long story short:

  • Had some pretty significant personal issues in 2018 that resulted in about 8 months of very disordered eating. I lost about 65 pounds and was the smallest I had been in, basically, my entire adult life. But mental-health wise I was a train wreck, my hair was falling out, and I was fainting all the time.

  • I worked really hard to overcome the disordered eating, started lifting, got healthier (mentally and physically). LOVED lifting and really started to get into it and build a lot of muscle. Gained 20 pounds but was at 22% body fat. Best shape of my life.

  • I decided to donate a kidney, stopped lifting to focus on endurance, stamina and cardio. Donated, healed up great, final restriction is being lifted this week (3 months). Weight has remained the same at 165 (F, 45, 5’ 7,) but I am much squishier feeling. Most of my clothes still fit though.

So, it’s time. I have rearranged my work schedule so I can run a 2-day lifting program (best I can do right now, because life). I’m going to start being more judicious with my food choices and pay more attention to portion control first. If I don’t have to get back to counting calories, I’d prefer not to because it really messes with my head and I have enough stress in my life that I think it could be a slippery slope.

Anyway, no real weight loss goal, Right now I’m not going to have the time to focus on strength building to the degree I was before so I’m guessing I could stand do lose about 10-15 pounds in addition to rebuilding base strength.

Just putting all my thoughts down in writing as they’ve been swirling around in my head for a bit. If you got this far, thanks for reading!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 02 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Friday, November 1, 2019

How do you overcome habitual or emotional over eating?

I have been trying to lose weight for the past couple months. I have lost about 15 pounds so far and have just been hovering around 345 for the past month or so. When I started my weight loss journey I read the book “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg, because I knew a lot of my over eating was habits. It helped, short summary, you can’t completely quit a habit but change it by identifying the cue, change the routine, and keep the reward. I identified that my over eating came from my emotions. So the cue was either happy, or stressed. Celebration? Go out to eat or cook a lot of food. After a stressful or not great day, I tend to eat multiple servings even though I already had my food planned out. Only when I have a good day, or my emotions are straight am I able to control my eating.

So anyone in the same boat or with advice, how do you control emotional eating when the craving is active? Thanks all!

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Dealing with Creepy Comments Etc. After Losing Weight

Hi all,

30F here. I've lost about 35 pounds in the past 2 years, very gradually. It seems that within the past 5 pounds, I've reached a weight that is more flattering to my body. I'm a very curvy gal for context, and since I hit puberty I've dealt with creepy comments from others(mostly men, but women sometimes too) about my body. It's not unusual at all for many women, and yet I've really struggled with it throughout life.

There might be much more here to resolve with a professional, I was sexually abused as a child and gained a ridiculous amount of weight when I hit puberty, I think in some part to hide my body. I could write a book explaining how awful it was while I was living at home, my parents were... not very good with this and my mother blamed me directly multiple times throughout childhood for the attention I received. Years later as an adult, I told her about the sexual abuse and it was a total disaster, after years of keeping it to myself. She brought it up constantly by springing it on me on a regular basis, and after trying to talk it through with her because I couldn't take it mentally, she made her own suggestions as to what to do and when I responded negatively because I was so distraught and didn't want to talk about it anymore, she blamed me directly again and said that it was my "interpretation" that was wrong, not what actually happened. The incidents involved family members on both sides of the family and she essentially took their side without hearing the full side of my own perspective. Needless to say I keep my parents at a distance.

All of this is usually mentally tucked away. I talked my parents into setting up a few therapy sessions for me when I was 16 because I was a depressed teenager. This was also a bit of a fiasco, as for one reason or another my mother got jealous about the therapy sessions and after just 3 with a therapist, she flatly refused to pay for me to go to any more, because she believed I was complaining about her. She told my father that she should be able to quit her job (which was apparently her excuse as to why she treated me so poorly) before they spent money on me to go to therapy. It was a huge fight between them and ultimately I just gave up. I've really resisted any further therapy in adult life because I have bad feelings still associated with it and still get angry thinking about it.

In any case, some minor incidents involving leering and an inappropriate comment from a child (!!! not really the child's fault, they don't know what they're doing, but still it made me feel weird due to the incident earlier in the day) out of nowhere while giving out candy during trick or treating tonight put me in a weird mental spot and I am thinking again now about how to deal with creepy comments and perhaps going to therapy, despite my misgivings. I didn't consider the things that happened today very much until I came home and just wanted to eat a bunch of crap, sending me over my calorie limit and bungling my diet goals for the day. So now I'm sitting here thinking about why I wanted to binge and it's set me down this path of thinking about all I've laid out here, and that I feel the need to do something about this. I don't want to be stuck in a place like this, I want to continue to lose weight and feel good about myself, but I don't want to relive trauma every day when things like this happen.

EDIT: Also... I feel the need to say that I'm a 30 year old married woman, and I wear my wedding ring every day. I'm not sure why I feel the need to put this out there, but it somehow makes me feel more tired than ever about this issue.

Has anyone else felt something similar, dealt with similar issues, and have any good coping strategies to push through to a better place where the weight loss journey doesn't lead to a place of feeling awful every day for reasons like this?

TL;DR: Was sexually abused when young, and it affects my weight loss journey because I mentally want to "protect" myself by continuing to be fat instead. Family sucks and makes the problem worse. Therapy is an option but there are other issues involved that make me reluctant. Can anyone provide advice as to how they got through something like this? I just want to be healthy and happy with myself, but it feels like there's no winning.

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Finally Seeing the results for myself

F22, 5’10, SW:230 CW:??

I’ve been intermittent fasting since May, I started for the weight loss but continued because I’ve always had digestion issues in the past and intermittent fasting has made a huge difference.

Anyways, I could tell I was losing just by my back rolls being less noticeable, however I never really saw a true overall difference. A few weeks ago my parents mentioned that they could tell I’ve lost weight but I still saw no progress and all of a sudden today I magically have started to see my results. My sweatpants don’t stay up unless tightened by the draw string, overall I just look smaller, and my stomach is less puffy looking.

I’ve tried losing weight a few times since high school and this is the first time I’m actually seeing results which is so encouraging. I haven’t weighed myself since May mostly due to the fact my scale stopped working, so I’m really interested how much I’ve actually lost.

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New to loseit and going for round 3 of weiggtloss

Hello all, I am 34, 5'8", female and have already been through losing a lot of weight in the past. Before I had children, my hubby and I lived to eat. We ate out all the time with abandon. I was a terrible cook and so it was just the easier thing to do. Before I knew it, I was 240 lbs and miserable. My hubby was in just the same kind of state too. After our first child was born, we changed our habits and dropped 80-90 lbs each. I even kept my weight off for a few years and hovered right around 145. But then I found myself pregnant again, tired, and constantly hungry. My weight leaped back up to 180 postpartum (pregnancy peek was just over 200!). I worked super hard to get back to 160, but could never get back to that lower weight I had been at. And suddenly I was also caring for two children and all that life throws at you in that situation! I found making excusing was easier than putting me first. Once again my weight has creeped up ... Now to 190! It's frustrating and even my doctor is telling me to do intermittent fasting to help curb my weight issues. I find it much harder in my 30s than I did in my 20s. That's for sure.

I guess the whole point of this post is to find a community of folks who are or have been on similar journeys. In the past month I joined an F45 gym which I like. I go between 3-5 days a week depending on what life is throwing at me that week. I've also taken up aerial silks as another fun additional thing to do once a week. I cook almost exclusively at home (I actually found that I have a knack for cooking - once I gave it a try on my first round of weight loss), and generally don't eat much bread, pasta, rice and the like. Diet wise, I feel like if I'm tracking my calories, I do well. But I struggle with binging sometimes. Tell me about yourselves and what has worked or not for you on your own journey? :)

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Medical Weight Loss?

F28, 5'4", CW: 190lbs, GW: 130

Hey everyone! I'm needing some advice regarding medical weight loss. Over the past 10 years I've put on 80lbs and I've really been struggling to get to a healthier weight. My LDL levels are high as well as my blood pressure and I know if I don't do something about this now I'll have more health issues.

I set goals for myself to go to the gym M-F for 1.5 each day but then I get too nervous about not knowing my way around the equipment and looking the way I do. So I end up chickening out and staying home. Then I start kicking myself because that voice in my head is telling me "why didn't you just go?!".

Another hard part about this journey is going at it alone. I don't have anyone to workout with because most of the individuals in my circle are healthy. I've seen my doctor and she's prescribed me phentermine but I'm still having cravings for sugary drinks.

At this point I'm considering a medical weight loss clinic to assist me with the process of getting healthier and losing weight. The thing is - it's expensive! I spoke with a couple clinicals and they both offered personalized meal plans, appetite suppressants, and lipotropic B12 injections. Has anyone had experience with medical weight loss clinics (good/bad)?

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