Monday, November 18, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 18 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Maintenance Monday: NSVs

Posting early today! NSVs during weight loss can help motivate and encourage us to push through a plateau, resist those calories we didn’t plan for and won’t appreciate that much, and embrace positive changes outside scale victories. With maintenance, NSVs can have an even bigger role to play. We’re either succeeding at keeping the numbers the same - not a big serotonin boost like hitting a new LW - or going through a weight creep. In either circumstance, remembering a previous maintenance NSV or experiencing a new one can help stem the tide or just give us a chance to appreciate how far we’ve come and how well we continue to do by simply continuing.

What was your latest NSV? What do you remember about your first maintenance NSV? Are there any you’re still looking forward to achieving? These could be anything from the new experience of acquiring clothes, becoming a recognised regular at the gym or in a running group, the well stocked fridge you keep, setting and meeting new activity goals, or even that you don’t spend much time thinking about being a maintainer at all!


Anything else on your mind pertaining to maintenance? Is your diet going effortlessly, or have the last few weeks been more of a struggle? All questions, remarks and worries are welcome topics of conversation!

Previous Maintenance Monday threads can be found here.

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First week of trying to lose some weight and I...gained 3 pounds

Throwaway because frankly I'm a bit embarrassed.

At 5'7" and 222lbs, I decided I was starting to venture into unhealthy territory. Though my insuline levels and blood pressure are still great right now, I really wanted to grab the bull by the horns and get into better shape.

I do have an undiagnosed auto-immune disease (It's been 13 years and at least as many specialists. Right now I've heard chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, leaky gut, and that awkward cricket sound most often). Either way, this leaves me feeling lethargic and in a lot of pain (joints/muscles/head/intestines) most days, so I have not been as active and healthy (cooking is tough for me sometimes) as I should have been.

I figured I would start adding in a few healthy habits and then adding in more and starting to count calories in a few weeks. I am doing this gradually because I want my habits to be effective and sustainable.

I also realize I have to change my relationship with food and that is not going to work overnight. I know food is too much of a delicious indulgence and a coping mechanism to me right now, so that's going to take some time.

Healthy habits I already had:

I pretty much only drink water. I don't drink alcohol so when I go out dancing/"drinking" (which I do maybe once every two weeks) I'll go for a diet Coke but that's about it.

I work out with a personal trainer for 30 minutes every week. Twice when I can. I know half an hour is not much but after being bed-ridden for a long time (being sick did come with a couple of surgeries), it has felt like a good start and most sessions I feel a bit too sick to power through much longer.

I go ice-skating for an hour once to twice a week.

I try to get in and out of bed every day at roughly the same time.

Last week I started adding some new habits that I had hoped would slowly ease me into a better lifestyle and gently kickstart my weight loss.

I started intermittent fasting, so no food before noon. I've set this to a minimum of 5 days a week. This week I managed to do all 7.

A minimum of 3 healthy, low-cal, low-carb dinners a week. I wouldn't say my usual cooking is extremely unhealthy. I try to start from a lean protein (usually chicken breast or beans) and then add a good amount of veggies (I am big on bell pepper, mushrooms, carrots, corn, beans, tomato, zucchini, beets, cauliflower, broccoli, peas, onion, Brussels sprouts, ... not a picky eater I'd say) and other carbs. I think that I'm a bit too reliant on condiments, oils, cheese, and carbs (specifically pasta, rice, potatoes, tortillas) right now, which make many of my meals too calorie dense. That's why I would like to start experimenting with "cleaner dishes" with a better balance of all these add-ons. The hardest thing for me right now is that when I don't absolutely love the flavor of a meal, I struggle to eat it and then resort to snacking (fruit, nuts, air-popped popcorn) later. I know that this is purely psychological and a major working point, but it's something I really struggle with. I have enough mental strength to eat clean for lunch, but then often cave for dinner. Hence the 3 clean dinners a week.

Ten minutes of exercise every day. Again, I know it's not much and it doesn't burn many calories but I want to get my body moving and my heart racing. I'm hoping to gradually increase the number of minutes I exercise every day.

No sugary snacks at least four days out of the week. I don't binge but I will usually sneak a piece of chocolate or a cookie from somewhere pretty much every day. I want these to become more of a treat than a daily occurrence and it's an easy (well, in theory because I do love sweets) way to cut out 150 calories.

Limiting eating out to a maximum of once a week. I cook a lot, but we still end up eating out 2-3 times a week. Our outside meals are almost always unhealthy and you have no idea what they put in there. I want to limit this to once a week max. I want to substitute this by trying to meal prep for days where I'm too sick to cook.

When I see all these measures written out like this... I guess it makes sense that I'm not losing weight. I had hoped to maybe start losing about a pound per week and then ramp it up as time went on.

However, I actually ended up gaining 2-3 pounds this week and it hacked into the little courage I had to get out of the dumps.

The tricky thing is that I would want to focus on how it makes me feel rather than on the number on the scale but the truth is... I feel pretty sick and weak and terrible most of the time so honestly, that's not a good metric to go on. It feels to me like the scale is all I really have right now, so seeing it go in the opposite direction of what I wanted is a bit of a sting to be honest.

I know I can't be expecting any miracles and I'm not expecting to lose 20 pounds just like that, but just a tiny nudge in the right direction would have really fed my confidence and my motivation.

Are there any techniques you use to keep yourself psyched and motivated when things aren't exactly going the way you were hoping? Should I just go for a more unsustainable diet at first so I see some results and then scale back?

Anyway, my apologies for the pity party. I guess I just needed a bit of a vent.

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Sunday, November 17, 2019

First weigh in since being more “realistic” with weight loss

So this morning I had my first weigh in since I started being more realistic, in the sense that I stopped ONLY eating at home, eating at home before going out to meet friends or family, even canceling plans sometimes that revolved around food. This change has only been 3 weeks ish, but I weighed this morning and I lost a kilo. I know this isn’t a lot but I don’t have a lot left to lose, and the final few kilos have been the hardest struggle by far since they refuse to budge no matter how hard I’m trying.

This past month I had a few social instances such as birthdays and family get together where I ate mindfully, but I took a break from tracking that day since one of them was a buffet and I couldn’t possibly track everything accurately. I didn’t stuff myself in any of these days but I ate more indulgently for the first time in forever and it felt SO GOOD. I still worked out even on those days, but I didn’t make any of them “OMAD”.

I don’t feel too bad at all, and I actually have a little bit of hope that I can make this lifestyle more realistic for myself by not being so fucking anal about every molecule of food every second of every day.

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Food addiction!

Hey guys I’m a 17 year old male I started losing weight 6 months ago when I was at 110 kg Now I’m at 97 but I have been stuck at this weight for a looooong time now I can’t seem to find the motivation to keep going until 80,it’s like my body is screaming for me to stop 😆 Any tips or advice you can give me from your experiences? I really wanna lose weight for once it’s been a lifelong journey for me and it really means a lot for my self confidence and image I tried to get back into the diet lately but I relapsed these last two days.I ate way too much and pretty much screwed it over once again. To get to 97 kg I used the no carb diet which is really strict and makes me feel dizzy all the time but i really don’t know any other way or strategy for weight loss to be honest and this is why I’m asking for help I have a food addiction that makes me quite annoyed and angry at times when I restrict my food intake... Thank you for taking the time to read this, means a lot !

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Overeating Rescue Series (2): My Boundaries Are Inviolable

We can imagine ourselves as a house: there are all important things such as thoughts, emotions and memories inside, but outside the door, there are pleasant bird calls and the fragrance of flowers, as well as malodorous air. All these things will float into the house and affect us.

Sometimes smelly things are hidden in the aroma, just like air fresheners can cover up the smell of toilets, but does the smell not exist?

If you keep covering up your smelly ideas with "spirit freshener", you will suffer even if you cannot smell them. Please think carefully about the content of lesson 1.

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The process of getting rid of smelly ideas has been long and repeated. Please keep doing it.

Now, start the second step: build your own shield.

Because someone entered the house and brought in the malodorous air at the same time.

Everyone is surrounded by people who diss you at will. They may be family members, colleagues, good friends, classmates, netizens or even strangers everywhere.

Most people have good intentions and may say this:

"Honey, you've gained weight again. It's time to lose weight."

"If your waist were thinner, it would look better."

"Don't eat this, it will make you fat."

……

Without any emotional color:

"How are your recent weight loss results?"

"You look fat again."

"Why do you eat so much when you lose weight?"

……

Hurtful:

"You are almost as fat as a pig. Stop eating!"

"Do you know how thick your legs are?"

"Don't lose weight, you can't stick to it anyway."

……

As long as you hear these words, no matter how calm you think you are, you will definitely be affected (anxious, depressed, etc.), and you may also act in anger, such as eating and drinking to relieve your anger.

Therefore, it is very necessary for you to control your public opinion environment. You should not let others tell you "what to eat, when to eat and how much to eat", and you should not allow others to judge your weight and body shape.

Perhaps you are used to being criticized and will not resist. But from today on, I hope you will slowly change and rebuild your boundaries. You need to let others know clearly that my boundaries are inviolable.

Then, within the boundary, you can do what you should do without being affected: how to eat, how much to eat, when to eat, all are things you can choose and control.

Do two things:

1. After being dissed, tell your true feelings immediately.

"I don't like you dissing me."

"If you diss me, I will feel uncomfortable."

"I hope to be encouraged and supported, not hit."

"Do you know it is rude to diss others?"

……

Please adjust what you want to say according to the specific situation.

The key is that you have to face criticism bravely.

I suggest you start with the person whom you easy to say "no" and accumulate the experience of expressing your feelings, then you will get used to it.

2. Make a prior agreement with the person you most often spend time with.

Whether these people lose weight or not, they should abide by the agreement: they cannot talk about obesity/weight loss.

If anyone fails to do so, you will immediately remind them to correct it. This strategy is very effective. It can pull you out of the endless whirlpool of losing weight and leave you undisturbed.

Examples of obesity topics:

"I am too fat to go out."

"I can't eat that cake. I'll grow fat."

"You look really well. Have you just lost weight?"

"xx has gained a lot of weight recently like blowing balloons."

……

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Starting my weight loss journey. I have several questions!

Hello all!

Male

5'8

204 lbs

26 years old.

Sedentary lifestyle.

To start off, I'm trying strictly CICO. I am limiting myself to 1500 a day, and I've been doing this for a week. Is this really effective for some people? It kinda worked for me before, but I can't see results without exercise. For example, I had 1300ish calories today, but 1010 of it was a giant Chipotle bowl with guac, sour cream, etc. The reason being it really fills me up, unlike other things. Thoughts? Any success stories with strictly CICO?

Also. what is the consensus on diet soda? I love diet Mountain Dew and Gatorade Zero, but are these things just making things harder to lose weight?

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