Tuesday, December 17, 2019

I'm 17, 300+ lbs. And I have no idea how to get healthy. Help.

I live in an obese family. I'm the only one who wants to lose any weight. I've tried and started weight loss many times, but every single time I eventually give up because I have 0 support. My mom cooks very greasy, sugary, fattening foods. (I live in the South). I have no money to buy healthy foods, and everyone around me ridicules me for making an effort to lose any weight. "You just think you're better than us" or " Why are you trying to lose weight, you're always going to be fat" are just a few of the things I hear when I try. I leave for college in out of state in August, but I want to lose now. Please help.

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(Journey Progress) Does calorie-counting help to avoid binging?

I'm still a bit new to the community, but hello! I wanted to use this resource as a place of personal encouragement-- just update on my journey, even if no one necessarily looks at it.

I've made a post before about how I'm an obese teenager. I mentioned there that I've just about done everything. I've been reading Dr. Peter J. D'Adamo's BLOOD TYPE O: FOOD, BEVERAGE, AND SUPPLEMENT LISTS. My grandmother lives by that book, for the most part, and it works really well for her. After reading it, I was able to confirm the fact that a keto diet might work best for me. So I've bought some almond flour, and made bread with it a few times. I eat mushrooms almost on the daily, and eat lean meat constantly, so I'm good on proteins.

More than anything, it's portion control. I eat "healthy" for the most part, I make my own meals, and I drink water by default (I try to drink about a gallon a day). I intermittent fast 18:6 (I think that's the way to write the ratio? I eat after 12, and before 6). It's just that I eat too much, and when I get in a rut, I immediately turn to binging on food, unhealthy or not.

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A lot of people do calorie counting here, and they say it works for them. I understand that weight loss journeys are very personal, they are what works for the person doing it. But when I think about it, it seems daunting. I'm a young teen, and for everyday, for years, I'd have to record everything I was eating, until I couldn't do it anymore. I think that it encourages an accountability factor. However, when I've done it, experiencing the guilt from realizing I went so many calories over my goal... Ugh.

To calorie-counters out there who had binging habits, did calorie-counting help you avoid doing it? How? Would you encourage it to those who binge?

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Losing Weight and stop smoking?

So i am currently losing Weight. Starting Weight was 264 and my goal is 200. Currently on 250. The main question i have is if its smart to stop smoking while losing Weight or if i shouldt focus on one thing at a time?

I read a lot of articles of people stopping smoking and losing Weight and find themselves a hard time doing it. Because of the hunger and taste that comes back after smoking and a slower metabolism. So shouldt i just focus on reaching my goal first, in about 5 months and then stop smoking or try to stop smoking right now next to Weight loss

Wouldt like to hear some experiences from people on this :)

tl;dr i am losing Weight but also want to stop smoking. Shouldt i do this at the same time or focus on one thing at a time

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[F25 - 5’5 - SW173/CW153/GW145] NSV - I saw an old picture and could actually see the change

https://imgur.com/gallery/ZfgbXpP

https://imgur.com/gallery/pmKMcmm

SW - 173 CW - 153 GW - 145 UGW - 130

3 months now. Intermittent fasting 16:8, strength training 4/week, yoga 2/week, running 3/week. Low fat + no sugar diet. 8 hour sleep, lots of selfcare days, quitting alcohol and smoking and saying no when you feel like you dont actually want to do that plan or meet that people. Kissing and hugging my cats everyday (used to do this before as well haha)

I’ve been overweight for my WHOLE life. I am still a few pounds apart of having a normal BMI but I feel I got the point of all weight loss journeys - enjoy the ride and make it a lifestyle. I lost 20 pounds in 3 months and I want to lose 20 more but I wouldnt honestly mind if it takes a little longer than that. I want to preserve this forever - the exercise, the calm, the health, the love I have for myself and my body. I want to get to the point where I dont need to count calories anymore, yes. But I never want to eat the way I used to anymore, I never want to not exercise everyday even if its at least a 20 min walk, I never want to abandon myself like I did. I want to be this person. Forever.

My humble advice for you:

  1. Most important one: DONT LISTEN TO OTHERS. Everyone is an expert when it comes to health. They will tell you youre eating too much. Or not enough. They will tell you IF is not safe. They will tell you you’re exercising too much. They will tell you strength exercises arent really that good for girls. They will tell you you need more cardio. Or less. They will tell you exercise while fasting is dangerous. They will laugh at you. They will ask you for advice when they realize you lost weight and once you tell them they will discredit you. Believe me. Happened lots of times. Just DONT LISTEN. Don’t let others destroy your motivation. No one is worth it.

  2. DO WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU. Try different things. I started swimming. Wasnt really my thing. Tried spinning. Got hurt. Tried jogging. Got hurt because I was too heavy... At the end, baby steps were the only help I got. Try this, try that. Try everything until you feel comfortable. Then challenge yourself when you’re too comfortable. Repeat.

  3. Read this sub and weight loss stories everyday before going to sleep. It has helped me keeping the motivation.

I want to say big thanks to this sub that has helped and is still helping me a lot day by day! This community is great. Keep the good job!

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 17 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Monday, December 16, 2019

Advice for Losing a big tummy?

I am a 5’0 female at 150lbs (down from 167 in November!) I was doing Keto aggressively but stopped due to a complete loss in appetite from a serious bout of depression.

Now that I’m feeling better with treatment I’ve found that Keto is too restrictive for my lifestyle and will likely just bring about too much stress again. At this point I’m watching my calories and doing IF (16:8).

My stomach has always been my biggest source of insecurity. Even at my heaviest I was a 10, and now wear a comfortable 8. At my thinnest within the last 5 years (120 lbs) I still wore a size 6 due to my wider waist. So size wise until I get to my ultimate goal of 110 I’ll only have about a difference of one size. This kind of puts a damper on my motivation.

I’ve read that we can’t target specific areas for weight loss. Any anecdotes that counteract this? Is there anything I can do to really focus on my stomach mostly, such as mostly doing an workouts?

Thank you in advance!!

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