Sunday, December 29, 2019

I have a date which will probably end up in bed (having pseudogynocomasty)

First of all am sorry if this is not the right place to ask it.

Throw away because my wife can see it (jk :D)

I have lost about 85 kgs (187 lbs). I have been with women during that time but i have informed everyone about at least my weight loss journey, since it was a part of my past and something i could share.

But now, this woman do not know what she will see. And i am not planing to inform her about my saggy man boobs and saggy arm skin. So my questions are simply: Is it unethical not to inform her about it, since it might gross her out? How do i encounter that situation? Thanks, in advance!

Tl; dr: got man boobs and she doesnt know about it, she has a greatt chance to see me naked soon

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 29 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Eight days postpartum - starting the weight loss journey again!

I just wanted to share my experience with weight gain and loss in case it's helpful to someone else.

When I decided to have a baby, I was pretty worried about the weight gain and how it would affect my self-image; how difficult it might be to get it back off.

I lost 38 pounds in 2016/ 17 to go from 5'2/ 138 to 100 pounds. Then I maintained it up until getting pregnant in April 2019.

I gained about 60 pounds in my full-term pregnancy. My OB/Gyn was never concerned since I started off on the leaner side, but I was pretty concerned!

I came home from the hospital last week at 154 (having checked in at 161 pounds). I'm happy to say I'm down already to 144 pounds. A lot of it was water and a lot more comes off so easily with breastfeeding.

Overall, it's been a super positive experience. I'm happy I went through with trying to conceive despite my body image fears, and for me at least it has been a wholly better experience than I expected and I would not be afraid to have a second pregnancy and gain the weight again.

Anyway, I looked all over before having the baby for some perspective and didn't find much so hopefully someone finds this helpful. I've got a long way to go still but I'm feeling upbeat about it.

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I really want it to stick, but I feel so stuck

I'm a 37yo female and I'm literally at my wits end with weight loss. I KNOW all the things I should do:

Eat less than I burn Get at least some exercise every day (I'm very sedentary) Eat lots of plants (I actually love veggies)

I find that I eat pretty mindlessly. I'm hungry, so I eat. Exercise I just find to be a chore. And while i feel myself ballooning I feel completely powerless to stop it. What is wrong with me?!?!? I want more than anything in the world to lose the weight. But when it comes right down to it, I just don't do the things. I used to be SO active and loved being so, now I get winded on walks :(

I feel stuck in a rut of sitting on my couch eating snacks. My job is sedentary. It's like I've become complacent doing nothing. But inside I feel like I'm screaming.

Has anyone else been in this position and gotten through it? I really want 2020 to be my year (I know that sounds dumb) but I dont know where to start.

TL;DR Feel super stuck and frustrated and would appreciate tips and/or encouragement

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Saturday, December 28, 2019

Approved for my work’s weight management program!

Without getting too much into details, I work for the State of Florida and threw in an application to the weight management program to hopefully get a chance at finally losing the weight that I’ve slowly been adding to my entire life.

This happened a couple months ago and I was told I’d hear back from them sometime in December. And it happened!

“Good afternoon, your application to the Weight Management Program has been approved.”

The amount of joy I felt when I saw this email is immeasurable. That’s why I had to share it with y’all! I’ve been overweight for almost 20 out of my 25 years on this earth and I’m ready to be done with that. I know it’s gonna be a long process but I’m hoping that this program can keep me guided and honest about actually losing weight.

So... here’s to finally accomplishing my New Year’s resolution of losing weight in 2020!

Has anybody gotten into any weight management programs like this before? They say they’re going to work with my state-provided health insurance company to enroll me in a wellness program and that will also allow me access to prescription weight loss medication as well. Kinda curious how this is all going to work out.

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Phantom Fat?

So...I lost a lot of weight in the past twoish years - 75lbs (34kg) and most of that this year alone. I've done it through exercise...a lot of it...and controlling calories as well as just being aware of how much I'm eating - so I've been there mentally for the whole process.

I've gone from about a size 16 to a size 2/4...but I still feel HUGE. People comment that I'm tiny but I just....don't feel it most of the time.

I've been big my entire life, constant bullying as a child, comments from family, the whole nine yards so self esteem has never been great.

My husband tells me how good I look and when I look at before and after photos I can tell that I've lost a substantial amount. I just still look in the mirror and see the fat woman I've been for 20+ years.

I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same or has felt the same "phantom fat" kind of thing and how they moved forward.

TL DR: Difficulty accepting new body shape and size after substantial weight loss. Any tips?

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I’m a 16 year old male and in the last 7 months I have lost over 100lbs

With new year coming around I was thinking about some of the things I have achieved during 2019, And in a year of personal highs and lows for me there is nothing that quite parallels my pretty successful weight loss journey over the past couple of months. I am 16 (soon to be 17 come January) and in the last 221 days or just over 7 months I have lost 7 stone 8lbs or 106lbs total.

When I think about it I’m not to sure why I’m writing this post as I doubt many people will see it or gain anything from it but I feel it’s somewhat necessary as some form as self celebration or pat on the back so to speak.

My starting weight was a quite honestly embarrassing 301lbs and after just over half a year of blood, sweat and tears I’m now down to a more modest but not perfect 195lbs.

Now before I get into any major detail of how I’ve managed this I do have to say I am by no means a dietitian or personal trainer (as a matter of fact I’m probably as far from it as possible) and I’m not sure if my methods so far are healthy or would cause anyone harm in the long term so I do not recommend you try this without doing your own research and encouraged our to find what works for you personally.

I stared my weight loss journey as a bit of a spur of the moment act, I was on exam leave and meant to be studying but after about a month of constant mental stress I decided I had to leave the house and just do something physical to clear my head. This was extremely rare and out of character for me as a person and despite being willing and able to play football, rugby etc and enjoying sports as a whole I was definitely not someone who would go out for a run not only for the fact of the incredible lack of stamina that you have when you are that size but for fear of people looking and judging me what would cripple me more than I’d let on to anyone who’d ever ask.

However after a matter of minutes of jogging in a fairly secluded cycle path I was absolutely exhausted and needed a break. And in this realising how out my depth I was doing basic exercise, in that moment I finally realised how far I’d let myself go and decided to take action.

I started by joining the local gym and figuring out how many calories I would eat in the average day. I downloaded MFP (MyFitnessPal) and started to track my calories and was absolutely appalled at how much I ate without realising the amount of calories inside all my favourite comfort foods and snacks and the effect it was having on my body. I am also extremely fortunate to have a good fairly cheap gym so close to my house, meaning I don’t need to worry about transport there and back or talking myself out of going down to the time it takes to get there what I believe really helped me in the early stages.

I believe these to things to be the two main fundamentals of weight loss, experimenting and finding the balance of diet and regular exercise that worked for me helped me more than any online diet or magical pill advertised in the TV ever would.

I started by cutting down from around 3000 calories a day (consisting mainly of carbs and fatty foods and general snacks between meals) down to the recommended 2000 calories a day for someone of my age and size (at the time 15 and 5’8) and replacing a lot of these carbs with lean meat like chicken or turkey and or fish and when I felt hungry would drink more water to help satiate the hunger I felt. I would also go to the gym roughly 3/4 times a week doing a mix of cardio mainly the exercise bike and walking on a gradient on the treadmill and the weight machines for around an hour at a time.

I found this a good baseline for starting of as it’s didn’t consist of any massive changes and were all reasonably manageable and that is ultimately what is most important, as I mentioned before finding what works for you personally.

Now one thing I will say that some people may not agree with is that loosing weight as a concept is incredibly easy. In reality all you need is a calorie deficit (burning more calories than you intake) and you will lose weight that is a fact. But what Is difficult is sticking to it and having the will power not to stray of course and I know a lot of people do struggle long term with this and as a result end up doing really good work early days and have a few “cheat days” here and there and suddenly all there good work is gone and there left scratching there head how they have put the majority of the weight back on. Now that is why I think that motivation and willpower are pivotal to losing weight and without either of these two things I would say 99% of people fail to achieve the goals they set out for themselves.

Now the good news is the longer you are being successful and keeping up the good work, loosing weight the motivation comes along hand in hand. Wether it be random compliments from people like friends and family or whatever they help massively to motivate someone to carry on making the positive change to there health and life as a whole.

I have now reached the point where I will preemptively reiterate that I am not a professional and do not know the long term effects of this so try this at your own distress ion but it’s if you have the kept the diet and exercise going strong and you start to plateau and can’t seem to break past a certain weight this is when you incrementally drop the daily calorie intake by small amounts. As a man I would not recommend going below 1500 calories or dropping the amount by anymore than 200/300 calories at a time but I have adapted to life on around 700/1000 calories a day and regular exercise and I have experienced no negative side effects to date but as mentioned before once you find a level you are comfortable at and works for you I would stick to that and not push yourself to far and potentially harm yourself long term.

As a summary.

Step 1. Find out your average calorie intake pre lifestyle change and then work out your maintenance calories using a calorie calculator online

Step 2. Put yourself at a small calorie deficient of 200/400 calories to start of with and increase the deficit over time

Step 3. Exercise regularly (or as much as you can with you schedule) and stay consistent with what you do

Step 4. Try and think about all the reasons you want to loose weight daily as this will help for motivation.

Rinse and repeat. It really is that simple...

In conclusion as I mentioned I am still not finished loosing weight (I ideally want to drop a something between 13lbs minimum and 27lbs maximum) but I just made this post mainly for self indulgence but I would love to see it help anyone who believes they need it. (It would really make my day)

I encourage any questions anyone may have but I don’t really know what I’m doing as I’m new to reddit :).

Depending on how this does I will update this post whenever anything of note happens and maybe even before and after photos if anyone would care to see them.

Have a good day x

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