Thursday, January 23, 2020

Support Friend Group!

So I did this last year; I ended up sick and had surgery, and during the time the group ended.

I’m 22f CW: 240lbs GW: 135lbs (first goal weight 190lbs)

So all that being said, I want to try again! This time there’s many things I want to do different.

-this group does not just have to be about weight loss, We will obviously support each other on our weight loss journeys, but along with that I want us all to become friends that can just talk, laugh, have a good time and support each other (everyone needs that in their life!)

-we’ll do beginning and end of month pictures, put them side by side & send to the group at the end of the month. This is not required but highly encouraged because seeing your side by side pictures makes a HUGE difference in your confidence.

-we’ll do weekly or bi-weekly weigh-ins. And we’ll also do beginning of the month weight compared to end of the month weight.

-set daily, reasonable goals for all of us to achieve (example either 15minute workout or 5k steps depending on the weather around you)

  • this one is optional and can be discussed on; we can do monthly measurements.

-food tracking either on an app or hand written journal

-I’m also willing to make anybody in the group that wants one a weight loss chart (little squares that you color in when you’re past that weight)

-we do not always have to have good positive attitudes, because weight loss is hard! as long as we’re always kind to one another and try to make the person(s) having a bad day smile, then that’s what we can do!

I don’t want this group to die down like the last one. I really want us to be friends.

We will have our weight loss group on discord, since there’s so many different things that can be done on there. We’ll start the weight loss portion on February 1st, but we’ll use the days in between to build our group and get to know one another!

After there’s at least 5 people open to this idea I’ll post the discord link in the comments ☺️

(We’ll trade names and locations in the chat to get better acquainted!)

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Remember to find something that works for YOU, and helps you stay consistent.

I just want to give everyone some advice. There’s a lot of stuff out there that can help you lose weight. I’m sure we’ve all seen it. OMAD, calorie counting, water fasts, IF, etc.

I’m not against any of those things. Fasting is great for you and it’s very helpful! But remember

You need to find something that works for you. It’s ok if fasting doesn’t work for you. There are people who fast then end up gaining the weight back. It’s not for everyone and that’s OK.

You need to find something that will help you be consistent in your weight loss. We all go about in different ways but you don’t want to end up in that cycle of constantly repeating your cheat days.

Take it day by day. Be consistent. If you have a bad day calorie counting, don’t just go on a 3 day water fast to make up for it. It’s better to just move on and start the next day fresh.

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I'm starting again, but with a different approach

Btw F21, 5,4

So back in February 2019 I finally started a weight loss journey with success for the first time in my life, inspired by my boyfriend at the time drunkenly telling me that I was 'physically chunky'. At that point, I weighed around 136lbs, although at my heaviest ever I'd been 144 (the weight loss to that point had been unintentional due to moving away from home). That night he told me that I stayed up all night, found this subreddit, bought a food scale and a body scale and got down to it first thing in the morning.

I set my limit at 1200 kcal a day, although some days it was more around 800 and sometimes up to 1500. I weighed myself every morning and weighed everything that went in my mouth. I started lowish carbs, which eventually became quite committed keto. I flirted with IF for a while. I did start running but more for the mental clarity than calorie burning, I didn't attempt to track calories lost or eat them back. And it worked! Somehow I overcame my chocolate addiction and by July 2019 I was down to 116lbs. 20 lost.

I was happier than ever with my body, felt confident wearing new clothes and my younger sisters clothes! Even posted to you lovely people about my success. Put a load of stuff that doesn't fit in a bag and truly felt I could keep doing this forever. But I wasn't all that happy really. Sure I felt better when I looked in the mirror. But I was obsessed. I was so sick of thinking about food all day, every day. What I was going to eat, what I wasn't. And after a while, I wasn't happy in my body either. At my thinnest, I cried at least every few days because I just felt like a monster. Also I developed an awful binging habit, at least once a week I'd eat and eat mindlessly, food I wasn't even enjoying, shovelling it in, usually late and night. And would be lying awake in tremendous amounts of pain. It was horrible.

It began to affect my relationship because I'd not want to cook with him and then when we did I'd get angry when he didn't let me carefully weigh and portion every single thing. It became all I thought about and I didn't really want to talk about anything else. I guess in a way it became a hobby in its own right, but it wasn't enjoyable.

Then I went travelling around Europe by myself for a few weeks (had a bloody great time). Even posted here about how scared I was about not being able to keep track and would gain all the weight back. Well, I gained back about 5lbs (after allowing for the water weight to subside). Then I really did feel like a monster, even though I knew there were points before where I was proud to be at that weight

.Then almost immediately after I went on holiday with my boyfriend's family. And something broke and I snacked all day. Nuts and Nutella mainly. I came back a couple more lbs heavier. I cried so much, I couldn't have sex with my boyfriend without crying.We soon broke up, around September. It wasn't the only reason by far but I'm sure my new obsession with food had something to do with it. But still, I was devastated (still kinda am). I pretty much ate my weight in peanut butter. I tracked very rarely. I stopped weighing myself out of fear.

Now I don't know how much I weigh but I don't like what I see in the mirror. The clothes I once proudly put away to the back of the wardrobe are fitting again. I'm pretty sure I'm back to what I was before but honestly I can't bear to actually look at the scale.

But here I am, and I'm starting again. But I think this time it's not about just losing lbs but instead I need to actually change my mental relationship to food.I'm not going to count calories. I know this sub is big on CICO and I know it works (and I appreciate for some people it's amazing). But I think I was using it in a way that didn't work for me mentally. I would still snack loads I just replaced all my snacks with lower calorie things, which is fine for some people, but for me, I felt I still had this huge hang-up about food and was still using it as a crutch and thinking about it all day.I want to stop that.

My plan is to just enjoy eat two healthy, protein+fat based meals a day. Although be more lenient with vegetables than I was before on strict keto. And not snack, at all, although will allow some treats for special occasions because I feel like if I don't it'll be an obsessive again. I need to relax about food by basically not thinking about it. I've started running again, but only because I know it makes me feel good, same with yoga.I want to lose weight but it is also about long term repairing my relationship with food and my body.

Even if I'm a little chubbier right now I'm not a monster and I'm not disgusting. I don't have to stop dating new people and wearing nice clothes and being happy with myself until I'm thinner. I still deserve those things now. But at the same time, I want to look after myself, long term, which includes my mind and my body.

Anyway sorry for such a long post. I mainly wrote this as a way of getting my head clear. Hopefully, some of you can relate in any way.Good luck with all your journeys and finding what works for you! x

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What 100 Calories Really Looks Like

You can absolutely snack and still lose weight. In fact, the right snacks can help keep your fuel your day while crushing those between-meal cravings. But here’s the thing; what you choose to munch on drastically affects how much of it you can eat and how satisfied you’ll feel afterwards. When comparing 100 calories worth of different types of snacks, it is clear that not all calories are created equal.

Think about it; you can have three tablespoons of ice cream that tastes like pistachios or you can chomp on 25 actual pistachios. Both contain about 100 calories yet the whole pistachios are healthier, provide more nutrients and leave you feeling fuller for longer. We’ve put together this guide so that you can compare 100 calorie portions of different snack foods in order to make the healthiest choice for your Nutrisystem program.

Read on to learn what 100 calories really looks like:

1. Strawberries vs. Fruit Leather Roll

strawberries

Strawberries: 2 cups

Fruit Leather Roll: 1 large

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup whole strawberries = 1 SmartCarb

Bright, juicy strawberries are packed with vitamin C and belly-filling fiber says Healthline. While fruit leathers and fruit snacks with the same flavor may be convenient, they don’t offer the same nutritional benefits and often contain added sugar. Opt for the real deal when a sweet craving hits. If you love the idea of an on-the-go leather, use fresh strawberries to make your own healthy version. Try this delicious recipe: Strawberry Kiwi Fruit Leather >

2. Popcorn vs. Potato Chips

100 calories

Popcorn: 3 cups

Potato Chips: 15 chips

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup plain popcorn = 1 Extra

You say you’ll stop at just a few. But once you start chomping down on salty potato chips, your good intentions go out the window. All it takes is a measly 15 chips to set you back 100 calories, plus a whole bunch of extra fat. With popcorn, you don’t need to test your restraint. If you think popcorn is boring, think again! Check out Four Ways to Pump Up Your Popcorn >

3. Apple vs. Individual Apple Pie

100 calories

Apple: 1 medium

Individual Apple Pie: 1/3 of a pie

On Nutrisystem: 1 medium apple = 1 SmartCarb

You get maybe two bites of an individual apple pie before you hit 100 calories. Pick the actual fruit for a snack and you get to eat the whole kit and kaboodle. Keep the skin on for more fiber. It will fill you up fast and leave your belly feeling satisfied for longer. Try making these Air Fryer Apple Chips >

4. Grapes vs. Jelly Beans

100 calories

Grapes: 60

Jelly Beans: 10

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup (about 40) grapes = 1 SmartCarb

That’s right—you get 50 more grapes than jelly beans (which are pretty much all sugar anyway). Go with red or black grapes for the sweetest flavor and weight loss benefit. Healthline explains that Resveratrol, an antioxidant found in grapes, has been shown to provide protection against cancer and heart disease and lower blood glucose levels. Freeze your grapes for a refreshing treat that tastes like candy or try this Lean, Green, Grape Machine Smoothie >

5. Sliced Peppers vs. French Fries

100 calories

Sliced Peppers: 4 cups

French Fries: 1 kids’ size

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup raw bell peppers = 1 Vegetable

Sure, sliced red peppers may lack the salty bite of fast-food fries. However, the vitamins, minerals, satisfying crunch and sheer volume you can eat for 100 calories makes up for it. Add some flavor by dipping your pepper slices in a yummy dip like this Artichoke Basil Hummus >

6. Baby Carrots vs. Crunchy Cheese Twists

100 calories

Baby Carrots: 30

Crunchy Cheese Twists: 12 twists

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup raw carrots = 1 Vegetable

They share a hue and are heavy on crunch. However, you can eat more than double the amount of baby carrots than you can of unhealthy twists. According to Healthline, studies show that carrots may help lower cholesterol and improve eye health. They are also a good source of fiber and antioxidants. Carrots are delicious raw or cooked. Check out this recipe for Honey Balsamic Glazed Carrots >

7. Salsa vs. Guacamole

100 calories

Salsa: 18 tablespoons (about 1 ¼ cups)

Guacamole: 3 ¼ tablespoons

On Nutrisystem: Salsa = Free Food

Don’t get us wrong; avocados have earned superfood status. They provide healthy fats, fiber and potassium but are quite high in calories. It’s important to watch your portions as only one tablespoon of avocado counts as one Extra on Nutrisystem. A lot of pre-packaged guac also comes with added saturated fats that you want to avoid. So, if you’re looking to dip a bunch of veggie sticks, consider lower-calorie salsa as a higher-volume alternative. Learn how to make your own delicious salsa here >

8. Blueberries vs. Fruit Flavored Candies

Blueberries

Blueberries: 1 ¼ cups

Fruit Flavored Candies: 1/8 cup

On Nutrisystem: 1 cup blueberries = 1 SmartCarb

Both of these little brightly-colored gems provide a pop of sweetness. However, you get more than an extra cup worth of fresh berries to fill your belly. You also get a healthy dose of antioxidants to help keep your heart and brain healthy says Healthline. Check out these 10 Tasty Blueberry Recipes >

9. Banana vs. Chocolate Chip Cookie

Banana

Banana: 1 medium

Chocolate Chip Cookie: 1 ½ cookie

On Nutrisystem: 1 medium banana = 1 SmartCarb

Granted these may not be an obvious pairing for comparison, but when one is sitting in a bowl on your countertop and the other in a jar right next to it, which do you go for? Preferably the yellow-skinned sweet and creamy option. According to Healthline, bananas are packed with heart-healthy potassium, fiber, vitamins and minerals.

When you’re not snacking on this healthy fruit, try these ideas: 10 Banana Recipes You’ll Go Bananas For >

*All calories per serving provided are from the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA).

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Weighed myself after a bad week

I went on a trip over the long weekend where I didn't eat very well and drank a bit more than I would have liked and, having lost some discipline, continued my not-good eating and drinking habits this week. Last night I ate more than usual, including a lot of sodium that I knew would spike my water weight. I weighed myself this morning and I had gone up on the scale 4 pounds from a week ago. It's demoralizing, although I know it's probably mostly water weight, but I'm glad that I did it.

In the past, my pattern would be to avoid the scale after bad weeks or a period of time when I ate a lot of sodium or drank alcohol such that I knew my water weight would spike and I'd be demoralized. Avoiding the scale would, for some reason, cause my discipline to slip and that would be it for the weight loss effort. For me today, it took discipline to get on the scale even though I knew it wouldn't show a number I liked. I hope that this will become a new habit where I can weather bad numbers and avoid breaking my streak of weighing myself!.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 23 January 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Has anyone else learned to not look at the scale so much?

I’ve been purposefully trying to get fitter and lose weight since September 19’. It’s been going really well, and since starting at 87kgs I now weigh in at 74kgs. I look better, I feel better, I have more muscle tone and I have even noticed that my stomach has slowly been reducing it’s ‘pouch’.

Here’s the thing though, as I’ve lost more weight, the rate of loss has been getting slower and slower. I knew from other people’s posts to expect that ‘leveling out’ or plateau. But it still didn’t really prepare me for the emotional frustration of not seeing my weight on the scale go down as quickly as it had before. I was doing the same healthy meal preps and more exercise than what I was at the beginning, and still not seeing a difference.

So eventually, I just stopped looking at the scale so much. I used to weigh myself every morning, and now I do it about once every two weeks. I’ve learned that as I work out more, it is probably just me gaining muscle that I didn’t have before. It doesn’t mean that I am not still slowly losing fat. I used to have all of my progress tied up with the numbers and I have learned to transition away from that. Now, instead, I focus on the new shape of my body, how I can see my collarbones more clearly, my thinner face, ect. I found using the markers in the mirror a more valuable positive motivation to use when the numbers on the scale slowed down.

My next weight target is still to hit 70kgs, but it’s okay if I take longer to get there. I would love to hear your stories of dealing with the slowing down of weight loss if you care to share :)

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