Saturday, May 9, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 09 May 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Desperate for advice about dealing with depression and weight loss

So I am sorry for any possible grammatical errors, I'm not a native english speaker. I am 19 years old, female, 160 cm and weight 76.5 kg, I am very motivated to lose 16 kg and get my life back together. The problem is, this is not the first time I am on a weight loss journey, back in 2017 I Iost 14 kg and was almost done with it (weighted 62 kg), wanted to get as healthy as possible, things were going great at the time, I was exercising, eating right, was very motivated to feel good for the rest of my life... But then life hit me. To make a summary my parents started fighting, a lot (their marriage was deteriorated since 2015-2016 or so) and I just couldn't bare with it anymore, I was the one who told them to get a divorce and that was what happened some months after, and to be honest I don't regret it, but what came after really fucked me up. On my 17th birthday they went to get a divorce instead of celebrating with me, fortunately my dad took me out to dinner in the evening, and right there we saw my mom with some man, none of us said anything. My dad left one month later, and it really crushed me, I was talking to him on the phone but it wasn't the same, at that point I started to emotionally eat again, but it wasn't so bad. My mom started going out A LOT, and really, she was not the type to do so, but I couldn't do anything about it, I had school, studying a lot to get into university bla bla bla... But then she brought home a man. I didn't really like the idea, especially when things changed so quickly, but what could I do? After some weeks I started to binge eat, I felt alone, my dad was far away from me, my mom was meeting some weird guy, things didn't go that well at school and my "friends" didn't really care about me or my life, so my only comfort was food, a lot of food. This was the point when things started going downhill. Then my dad visited, and in the same time my mom came to me and said that guy would live with us from now on (so they knew each other for 2-3 months and wanted to live with that guy already? Yes, I suspected she cheated on my dad when they were still together), of course I was angry, I started crying and went to my dad, who got furious when he found out. Went back to my mom, took all of my things (that was the most crushing thing I've ever done, that room will never be mine again) and just put all of them in my dad's one room apartament, where we lived together when he was not working. Now the story is already too long, so to speed things up I was sad, ate a lot of cheap shit because we didn't have a lot of money, then my dad left for work. Now I was alone for real, my mom was mad and she choose that guy over me, my dad left and same deal with the other people. There were days when I would binge on candy and nothing else, only chocolate for 2 days or even more, I felt like shit. In the meantime I got into university and lived in the dorm, witch was the best compared to the nasty apartament with cockroaches. My mom was in and out of that relationship with that guy, now he doesn't live with her anymore. I started to feel better, still sad and eating like shit tho, at this point I regained all of that weight. Coronavirus came and I left the dorm, didn't have a place to go now because my dad sold the apartament... So I came to my mom. Oh boy she is now taking that sweet revenge by verbally abusing me, bringing home weird guys and shoving it in my face that I can't get a date. I'm not even staying in my old room, but the guest room because she moved her things there. So the first weeks were super depressing and I kept stuffing my mouth. But right now I am super motivated to lose weight, I want to get out of this quarantine looking healthy again and not wanting to die, my depression is not as bad as it was 1 year ago and I hope I can deal with this. I know how to lose weight, I've done it before, but I am afraid that life will hit me again and stupid me will deal with that by eating food. So please, tell me what can I do to prevent that?

TL;DR : Depression came, ate a lot, depression a little better, want to lose weight, but afraid of what would happen if it gets worse. Need advice.

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Fellow Moms: I’m needing support... feeling hopeless.

I‘ve never asked for support in a public forum but it’s come to this. I need support. In my professional life, I give support all day long. Today, I’m reaching out, I hope someone hears this.

Long story short, I’ve had 4 kids over the past 5 years. I did a good job of losing weight after each pregnancy, but the last one (twins) really kicked my ass. I’m no longer in the “postpartum phase” that seemed to accelerate my weight loss via breastfeeding, good diet, and exercise. Well I’m up 25 pounds from my lowest weight following the twins. And well, I’m sad.

Mother’s Day is just around the corner and I am so grateful for my children, my family, and my life. But I’m also grieving the pre-kid me. The pre-kid body, energy, etc...

So, if you are still reading and you have a minute, I would deeply appreciate your encouragement, wisdom, and support. I have 50lbs to lose. I know others have it worse- but my brain is telling me I should give up before even starting.

Thank you for reading and sending your beautiful vibes my way.

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Friday, May 8, 2020

Don’t let the scale not moving discourage you

When I first started my weight loss journey I lost weight quickly. But after two months I would have phases where the scale wasn’t moving and I almost lost motivation back then.

Honestly what saved me was that my scale linked to my phone and I could look at the data there. I went on weekly and monthly views and saw a downwards trend there and felt better. I also noticed through this something: the week before I get my period I never lose weight. It doesn’t move bc I keep water weight and then suddenly just before I get my period I lose it all.

The last days it happened again. Ate a deficit of about 800-1,000 calories a day - I should have lost 1kg or 2lbs this week. But the scale went from 76.6kg to 76.8kg over 7 days. I didn’t mind. I knew what was coming and was just patiently waiting. And then within two days from 76.8kg to 75.6kg. Obviously I didn’t lose 1.2kg in two days. My whole week before was finally showing and it’s the best feeling.

Here you can see how it looks.

Don’t let the scale not moving discourage you! Personally I prefer to weight daily because it’s just more data points. It’s okay that it will go slightly up some days as long as the trend is downwards. Your body is complex but if you eat in a calorie deficit it will pay off!

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I need some advice, just a place to start.

Hey all. So I'm currently 6'3" and 340 pounds. I want to get down to 250 or 275 if I can manage it. I've spent my entire 20 year lifespan eating junk, and getting almost no exercise aside from sometimes walking for 20 minutes a day. When I was 15 I wanted to lose weight, as I was sick of being fat. I lost my motivation, and went back into the depression I've been in since I was 11 or 12 (Another can of worms that doesn't need to be opened). I'm currently able to do about a mile a day on an exercise bike I bought before my knee flares up and becomes nearly unusable for the day. I don't have anywhere outside of my house to walk or bike, and I have no at home weights. So basically, I just need maybe a few suggestions as to where to start for an at-home weight loss routine. I have heart and joint issues I shouldn't have at 20 years old, and I'm finally ready to change.

Thanks, Galaxion

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Ive been walking 10km(6.21 miles) everyday and I think its working! Today is day 7. I’m so excited to finally see some progress.

When I started I was already on my weight loss journey starting at 218lbs (5’ 8”F) and starting my walking at 207 after reaching a plateau. Ive lost 1 lb this week. So I’m currently at 206. I know, not really losing weight but I’m optimist that I’m just replacing that fat with muscle as i am pretty weak. (Cant even do a shitty push up)

Anyways i just came back from today’s walk and dont feel all that tired. Which is crazy because every single day before this has been a real struggle. I even found a route that avoids my house just so I wouldn’t give into the temptation of giving up early.

When i first started I couldn’t even go the full 10k and straight up would give up at 10,000 steps (for reference a 10k is 13,000 steps) or split up the walking session like 2k here, 6k here, and 2k here. But once i found a good route, i had no choice but to go the full way.

Today we(me and my mother, as im dragging her along with me) jogged more then any other walk and for the first time managed to finish the 10k under 2 hours at 1hr and 47mins. I eventually want to be able to jog the full thing without getting that jabbing pain in your gut and burning lungs.

Im also getting a really nice tan too!

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Why don’t people support my weight loss journey?

Hi all, hopefully I’m allowed to post this. I started my weight loss journey at 140 pounds (i’m 5’5) and now I’m at 128 (goal weight around 120-115 still deciding)

I have dropped 8 pounds in the span of three weeks, since I started my work out routine, but when I told my friends they didn’t receive it well.. like I’m trying to be a healthier and happier person? Why would they be so negative? They sent me messages about how I was already beautiful, and didn’t need to lose weight, and I shouldn’t starve myself etc.

Aren’t they supposed to be supportive? I’ve always struggled with my weight and they’ve known that, but it really feels like they just don’t want to see me slim down, like they don’t want me to change. The only person who has supported me is my boyfriend- which I really appreciate.

But like I said, I just don’t get why they responded with caution and not excitement, like they’re scared of me being confident in a bikini. Can somebody explain to me why? It’s a big motivation killer.

Thanks for reading

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