Monday, October 12, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 12 October 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Does anyone want an accountability buddy?

Hi All!

I had stared my weight loss journey back in May/June and lost about 10lbs (not much, but it’s honest work) I had changed my mind set on food, as I have always been an emotional eater. I was cooking meals at home and I really thought it was a life style and and it would stick...

About 3 weeks ago I had a medical procedure done and it threw me off my rocker. Started eating out again and buying junk food I even gained 6lbs back...I’m just so utterly disappointed in myself.

I know so many of you are out here doing your thang and I was just wondering if anyone needed a buddy to check in with as we all work towards our goals together 😭

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How can i be having a plateau if i'm still well in calorie deficit?

I've been eating/exercising the same as i have the past few weeks when i have maintained a steady loss, but now suddenly the loss seems to have slowed to the point where there's barely a loss at all?

How can this be if i'm doing the same as i did during the loss stage? And how do i get back to the loss stage now?

The definition of a plateau i found online:

When the calories you burn equal the calories you eat, you reach a plateau. To lose more weight, you need to either increase your physical activity or decrease the calories you eat. Using the same approach that worked initially may maintain your weight loss, but it won't lead to more weight loss.

I don't feel i can possibly increase my exercise, or decrease my calories any further than what i'm doing now, i'm giving it my absolute max.

This is very discouraging.

Advice please??

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Need some real advice on starting massive weight loss and issues with junk/snacking.

Hey everyone,

I'm sure this has been asked a million times, but we're all different, and I don't really like older posts because it stops anyone with newer advice actually helping.

I have the motivation to lose weight. I have the knowledge. I know what to do. I have read every single website on starting, not snacking, stopping cravings, blah blah but they're all just ... useless.

I KNOW the snacks/food is bad, I know I will gain weight, thinking that doesn't change the craving or lack of control. I know I'm probably thirsty not hungry, drinking water doesn't make me not want to eat it, I never thought I ate chips because hunger. And I know I'm bored/stress/fidget eating, but I can't help that I need to sit here at my desk and study. I will want it.

Thinking of someone sneezing on it doesn't work for me because if someone can sneeze on the junk item, they could sneeze on the good items too. And if I start thinking that, then I will just use it as an excuse on healthy eating too.

I was hoping for some REAL advice, REAL opinions from people that have started where I have (140+kg/~320 pounds). People that actually stopped their junk, managed to stop it, what they did at the start to help themselves. A bunch of websites just saying "think of how unhealthy it is" or "drink water" isn't helpful, if it was, most people wouldn't get as big as they do!

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Sunday, October 11, 2020

I think my weight loss is negatively affecting my relationship

Hey everyone! First time poster here but longtime lurker.

I’ve been at a healthy body weight for a few years now but a few months ago I made it my mission to truly get into the best shape of my life. I downloaded the LoseIt app and although I’ve had ups and downs the last 6 weeks, I’ve lost about 8 pounds. I’ve also been biking most days and also incorporating some toning workouts so I’m building muscle tone too.

I can say I’ve never been so confident about myself and my body. I always had a fear that calorie-counting would make me feel restricted and limited, but it’s been totally the opposite — it’s so freeing to be able to eat the foods I love (in moderation, of course) and still lose weight.

At the start of our relationship, my boyfriend was super in shape. Hit the gym several times a day, really muscular, etc. I can genuinely say I never cared how he looked — I fell in love with the person he was and honestly as long as he’s healthy at his weight and feeling good, I don’t really care about aesthetics.

He had several intensive back & shoulder surgeries shortly after we met with months-long recovery periods. This made it impossible for him to do his usual gym workouts. He stays strong through it all, but I can tell his body has been in nearly perpetual pain the last few years. He can’t even go for a 30-minute walk without being in pain.

In the last few years, he’s lost quite a bit of muscle and put on fat. I honestly hardly would’ve noticed except today he kept looking in the mirror and calling himself “fat”. I haven’t calculated his BMI or anything but he’s still in a relatively healthy weight range, he’s just lost a lot of muscle and (in his opinion) has put on a little belly fat. I tried reassuring him and told him I thought he looked amazing as always, that I just wanted him to feel good and healthy but I loved him exactly as he is.

He gestured at me and said “but you always look so sexy and you get to bike and work out and everything”. Now I’m feeling guilty because although it still takes self-discipline to eat moderately and exercise, I feel guilty for being able to exercise when I know he can’t due to pain from his surgeries. I tried suggesting we could walk together; or he could use my stationary bike to avoid hurting his back. He said neither would work because his hips would still hurt.

I feel at such a loss because if exercise is completely out of the question, all that’s really left is to change eating habits. I started telling him about the LoseIt app I’d downloaded and how it helped me lose about 1-2 pounds a week but he immediately rejected the idea because he doesn’t like the idea of counting calories and says it’ll only make him feel worse. He told me he just wants to go on a months-long fast without eating anything. I told him I thought that didn’t seem like a sustainable or safe idea, and why not just try intermittent fasting to lower calorie intake if he doesn’t like counting calories.

He told me intermittent fasting would only work if he had a high activity level, which again isn’t possible since he can’t move much because of pain. Now, I feel totally stuck on what to do. It almost ended in an argument, not because I think he needs to change but because I know he’s feeling bad about himself and I also have no idea how to help.

I think my own quest to get in killer shape probably isn’t helping. I’m feeling so great and exercising a lot, meanwhile he’s feeling worse about himself and unable to move without pain. What can I do to help improve his self-esteem and motivate him without causing him greater pain?

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What are some of the reactions you’ve gotten from people who who haven’t seen you for a while because of quarantine ? (Or just in general?)

A neighbor saw me the other day and I wasn’t even thinking about the fact that he hasn’t seen me since before I started my weight loss. He was floored and said how great I looked and wanted tips for himself.

A relative saw a photo and said “He lost how much? Who does that? Everyone’s here gaining quarantine 20 and he goes and loses 50lbs? Who does that????” (Lol 😀)

We’ve had some posts here with the negative side of reactions, with some of us realizing now that they’re thinner how shallow the world is and how people treat them better. It really is upsetting because we’re the same person inside.

But that got me thinking about the positive side, and I’ve started asking people here and in /r/cico and in /r/progresspics how friends and family are reacting to their weight loss. It warms my heart to hear about all the positivity people are getting and upsets me to hear about jealous friends and relatives being not supportive.

But I love or appreciate both kinds of stories. I feel like those reactions in some ways are to each and all of us, so I’m taking all of your stories personally. In a good way.

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A question that has always bugged me...

I know that at the end of the day the most effective way to lose weight is to be in a calorific deficit.

However, the most reasonable and stapled term is that weight loss "comes from the kitchen" and its "90% food 10% exercise".

But theoretically speaking, is it not possible to achieve your desired calorie deficit through exercise ONLY?

If I ate at maintenance and burned for example, 500 calories a day through exercise, wouldn't that then put me in a deficit to lose a pound a week?

FYI this is just theoretical as I have lost my weight with a combination of intake restriction and exercise

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