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NSV - Arms same size as SO's

Hi loseit community!

I started my weight loss journey/lifestyle change 8 months ago in February at about 170lb. I’m currently about 138lb and trying to lose 8 more slowly by next March when I go abroad for vacation (slow and steady is the name of the game).

Anyway, one of the several goals I had when I embarked on my journey was to be lighter than my SO, who is basically a stick at 5’10 and 135lb. Understanding that our bodies are simply different, I knew I would never really look like him and I should just do my best until I’m happy with the way I look and my confidence is where I want it to be.

The other day, we were cooking dinner and I was telling him how toned my arms have been looking recently, and struck a pose to demonstrate. We started to compare our arms, and I thought mine would be larger than his, like they had been for a while now (I don’t have any picture evidence but they were 😞). We did a side-by-side comparison for good measure in the mirror and wouldn’t you know it… they were about the same size!

https://imgur.com/a/v8lP2OW

Achieving this NSV was pretty funny and made me feel good about my progress :) Thank you for reading, and for being a part of my daily source of inspiration and entertainment! Happy Thursday!

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I find it difficult to lose weight with my SO

I’m making this post because I am looking for some tips on how to approach my girlfriend about the issue.

I’ve always struggled with weight loss and recently I’ve started to eat better and try to go to the gym but it’s been pretty difficult to say the least. I always seem to run into a problem when my partner who also says she would like to lose weight buys unhealthy food and always claims she is too tired to go to the gym but wants to go with me.

We’ve tried to have this conversation before and it always feels like the same thing of saying that she’ll participate more but I feel that we aren’t getting any where.

One of the question I have is, should I feel guilty for going to the gym without her and turning down unhealthy food when she buys it?

Secondly, have you guys had an success approaching your SO differently so you can have success as a couple instead of by yourself.

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Two Years of Maintenance - An Update with pics!

[F/33/5'7"/SW: 187lbs/GW:150lbs/CW: 147lbs) Two Years of Maintenance

About a year ago, I made this post about why my latest attempt at losing weight was ultimately my most successful. Well, it's been another year year and I'm back with some updates and a few more tips/lessons learned that I hope are helpful! Everything I said in my original post is still true for me more than a year later, but I have some new perspectives on some of it.

1) I still track my food consumption, just not everyday. I know in my original post I said to never stop tracking, but after a year, I wanted to see if I could maintain my weight while practicing eating in moderation and it turns out I could. I will say that weight fluctuations are sometimes bigger, but I know what I need to do after a particularly indulgent couple of days. Moderation for me looks like no more than one carb-heavy meal per day and if I've had a big event (a wedding, or BBQ) where I eat in a way that isn't typical for me, I often skip breakfast the following day, or do a egg/meat/veggie omelette for brunch (combining breakfast and lunch).

2) I still weigh myself every day. I know this is somewhat extreme and some people are anti-scale, but it's always been my best gauge for how I'm doing. I don't let the number on the scale determine my mood for the day, but since I practice eating in moderation moreso than counting calories now, I use the scale to help me determine if I need to cut back a bit or perhaps opt for less salty foods. If the numbers are off without reasonable justification, something isn't right and I can make adjustments quickly.

3) DRINK WATER and LOTS of it. My weight is always its most stable when I'm consistently drinking at least 64 oz of water per day. Even if I eat an excessively salty meal or drink a bit more than usual, the consistent hydration levels help offset the impact. I use a 32 oz water bottle and fill and empty it at least twice per day (sometimes thrice). As a bonus, I sleep better, feel better and look better when I'm well-hydrated.

4) Make sure your reason for losing isn't a temporary one. This is a big one for me. My mom has lost and gained the same significant amount of weight multiple times (like I had) for the last two decades and asked me why this last time was so successful for me. My motivation this time wasn't for an event (my wedding) or simply to look better (which is highly subjective). My motivation this time was much bigger and much more permanent - I wanted to set a good example for my new daughter and I wanted to be healthy enough to be active with her. I never want her to go through the weight issues I did, so I want to teach her good habits from the beginning that she can carry with her the rest of her life.

5) In my original post, the point I made about not wanting to lose weight just to look better caught a lot of flack. From experience, more justification for this is that eventually you may stop receiving compliments on your appearance or feeling as enthralled about it yourself. You get used to seeing yourself at a certain weight and others get used to it too. If you're losing weight only for the validation, you may find yourself disappointed when you stop receiving it. I started strength training about a year ago to enjoy the benefits of my weight loss and found this helped a lot. My goals now are driven by my physical ability rather than just by how I look.

This community was a huge help when I was losing, I hope this update was helpful!

Before Now

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I am completely stagnant on the scale

I weigh myself every day. The scale is not budging an ounce. I guess I should be grateful that I'm not gaining but I am eating perfectly and there's no fluctuation at all. It's so frustrating because my goal is to look amazing when I meet my boyfriend's extended family at Thanksgiving. I eat between 1220 and 1300 cals per day and my TDEE is around 1900. When I use my Fitbit (15000 steps per day), the app always clocks my TDEE at being around 2100. I just don't understand why the scale isn't moving at all. I'm portioning out my food, I've given up cheese, the food scale is my best friend. I don't know what's going on and I'm super frustrated. I'm about to hit day 800 of my weight loss journey and I thought I'd be done by now. I'm just really depressed. Has anyone else experienced this before?

Also, please, no comments about how I must not be eating at a deficit. I know that I am and I find those remarks to be equally disheartening because the person making them wasn't there this morning when I weighed out my Huel and wasn't there last night when I put back some chicken to make sure I only ate exactly 4 oz.

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Lost 25 pounds, quit dieting for two months, and have been slowly gaining the weight back. How do you get yourselves remotivated?

Hi everyone, over the past few months I have joined this community and it has been an amazing support for me in my weight loss. You guys have really helped me in the past and I am hoping to get motivated again with your help.

So we have a classic weight loss story here. I got engaged last December, wasn’t my ideal weight (and was the biggest I have ever been weighing in at 198 pounds), and decided I wanted to lose it by the wedding. By the time the wedding day came I lost 25 pounds and couldn’t be happier! Yay me, I did it!

Well... now I have caught myself going downhill. I have gained 5 pounds in the past 2 months and have lost my motivation to count calories and stay on my fitness routine. I feel like my only motivation has been these outward goals/dates and I really want to change that. I felt so much better and more confident when I was treating my body well, but can’t seem to keep on track.

So lose it fam, how do you guys keep yourself motivated AFTER you reach your original goals? Any tips on how I can keep moving forward instead of starting all over again?

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I'm Confused

So I try to use various ways to track my weight loss. I weigh myself every Wednesday morning and because I know weight is only one variable in the weight loss journey I also measure my chest, waist, abdomen and also use a body fat measurer to track body fat. I only measure myself and track body fat every couple of month because I know this can be slower to see results.

So today I did it. I weighed myself: down two pounds, yay! I measured myself: lost an inch in my chest, an inch in my waist, and an inch and half in my stomach, yay! And then I measured my body fat: up 1%. I know I'm getting caught up in something so small but I'm just so confused! Why did my body fat go up? Would anyone know why this would happen when it seems like I'm making progress in other aspects of my weight loss? I'M CONFUSED :(

Sorry this is long and ranty and there's probably a ton of spelling errors:

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