Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Struggling with a soft, stretchy, saggy self after weight loss

Does anyone else feel that even if they are at a weight they are okay with, it's not as "good" as if you were someone who had always been smaller or around that weight? Aside from my breasts I don't have a lot of loose skin, but there is definitely a softness to my body that I notice other women around my weight don't have, even though I live a relatively active lifestyle (especially in the summer months).

I lost 75 pounds 4 years ago (in about a six month period). For most of that time I have maintained a weight between 145-155lbs (as a 5'5" woman). I want that to be good enough for me. Unfortunately 2 years ago I was told by a man I was very much in love with that the reason he didn't want to iniatie sex or actively touch me was because my body felt "wrong" to him, and not like all the other slimmer/thinner women he's been with. Obviously I ended things with him (to his surprise, somehow??), but I have still not been able to forget that. For reference, here is a (NSFW) comparison of what I looked like at the time after losing weight: https://imgur.com/a/Ew0WqeK. I am still around there in terms of size and fitness.

I have stretchmarks and cellulite and somewhat saggy breasts and I don't think losing weight will help me feel more comfortable in my own skin :/

Mostly I am just looking to hear from folks who have maybe had similar experiences (or otherwise). How do you learn to accept your body even knowing there is no hiding it's history?

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My best tips for 2019 newcomers!

So if your resolution is get to a certain weight then this post is for you! Follow this and you’ll be on your way to your 2019 dream body. I’m a 6’3 18y/o M that’s struggled with weight my whole life. I’ve lost over 100 pounds and I’ve been maintaining my weight for one year now, and it’s now time for me to cut the last 15lbs, so let’s do this together! I thought that I might pass along some knowledge that learned to some of you newcomers that may be a little intimidated with weight loss. I’ll cover a few things about dieting and tricks Ive learned along with exercise.

Congrats! You made the first step. You realized that something needs to change. Whether you’re doing this to lose 5lbs, 20lbs or 100lbs all of us need support along the way and you have just hit the jackpot. This subreddit is the most welcoming and supportive subreddit on the INTERNET in my opinion. When I went through motivation struggles with my journey this subreddit is what kept me going, and I hope you use it to your advantage to reach your goals like I did.

Before you go any further I want you to know that dieting doesn’t mean you need to cut out your favorite foods, that’s not sustainable. It’s better to incorporate your favorite foods into what you eat but still have it fit your calorie needs, I’ll cover this more later.

Here is one of the most common misconceptions with weight loss, strict dieting. And some of you will know that this isn’t correct, a lot of people might not. News flash: you need to eat to lose weight. A lot of people will try to just eat salads for every meal and like 1 egg for breakfast. That isn’t sustainable, you’re not a hamster. You need to eat ~500 - 800 calories under your maintenance (amount of calories you need to eat a day to keep the same weight). How do I find this? You’ll need to use a tdee calculator. This is the one I used: https://tdeecalculator.net Input your age, weight, height etc. and you’ll get your result.

You can now take that calorie goal and eat whatever you want as long as by the end of the day you’re at or under your calorie goal. Yeah, I said whatever you want! A lot of people will try to cut out sugar completely because they think it’ll make them gain weight, this is not really true, what is making you gain weight is eating over your maintenance calories. You’ll lose weight no matter what you eat as long as it’s under your maintenance calories. I ate a pint of halo top ice cream almost every night and I still lost 100lbs, but I made sure it fit within my cal goal. Many studies have been done to prove this, for example

Eating only Twinkies to lose weight: http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/index.html

Eating only ice cream to lose weight: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0NwVEiZAHXY

BUT: here’s the catch. This will indeed have effects on your body, specifically energy level and body composition. When it comes to bodybuilding, that’s when the quality of food DOES matter. You can’t eat only fats and expect the retain all of your muscle, because muscle requires protein. So you find a middle ground, if you’re craving chips, eat some freakin chips. But instead of going overboard and eating straight out of the bag, look at the serving size/calories and make it fit your calorie needs! This can be tricky though, because foods like chips might not fill you up and take up large amounts of calories.

“So I’m going to have to look at nutrition facts all day and try to remember them?” Nope! MyFitnessPal... you’ve probably heard of it, and guess what, it’s a literal gift from the gods. It has by far the biggest database of foods, which makes it that much easier to use. I’ve been using it for so long I barley even notice it nowadays and it takes seconds to log a food.

This is where tracking your calories comes in! Guess what, I eat what I’m in the mood for and I still lose weight. Using MyFitnessPal (you can use whatever app you desire this is my just choice) I can type in the brand of the food I’m eating, select how many servings I’m going to eat, weigh it and I’m good to go. It has changed my life for the better and if you use it correctly it’ll change yours as well. I believe that this is the best way to “diet” because you’re not eating the same thing everyday. You can pick and choose what you want as long as you meet your calories needs. This also allows you to have a social life while dieting. I still go out to eat with my friends all the time, but I plan my meals for the day around it

For example, tomorrow I’m going to Outback Steakhouse with my buddies. So I open myfitnesspal, type in what I’m gonna eat, and adjust my meals around that. Say my meal for going out to eat is ~1500cal, I think I’ll eat a large amount of protein/meat when I wake up because meat and protein is VERY satiating and filling This is how I curve any craving I have. Meat is so incredibly satisfying and it’s been a life saver on multiple occasions. And then have a light snack later on. (This will be different for you, because we have different calorie needs). Just like that I’ve already hit my calorie goals for tomorrow and I’m that much closer to my goal weight.

This is very important to practice logging your food, because the alternative is eating the same thing everyday. Which leads me into another misconception about dieting, “I’m going to eat only eggs toast and peanut butter for breakfast for the next 5 months with no substitutions.” NOT SUSTAINABLE. You can’t eat the same thing everyday and not get sick of it, and if you say you can you’re lying to yourself. This is where a lot of dieters fail in my opinion. They start to get tired of their meal plan and slowly wean off... MYFITNESSPAL! USE IT! IM SERIOUS! ITS A LIFESTYLE BRO!

Macronutrients and it’s importance: this may be confusing for newcomers and it’s more aimed towards people that are focusing on muscle growth and preserving it. The 3 main macronutrients (macros) there are is 1. Carbs 2. Fats 3. Protein. In myfitnesspal on the diary page, at the very bottom there’s a “nutrition” button. There you can tap macros and you will be able to see all of macros for the day. It is controversial about the amounts of macros you need because everyone is different, but for me I aim to eat 1gram of protein per body lb. and 0.4gram of fat per lb and fill the rest with carbs. (CARBS ARE ESSENTIAL TO MUSCLE GROWTH!) if you’re serious about bodybuilding you should head over to bodybuilding forum, it’s a great resource and has helped me a lot..

Exercise: I want you to know that 70% of weight loss is what you eat. 20% is your physical activity. 10% thermic effect Of food. People in comas can lose weight, because it’s what you put in your body that matters, don’t get me wrong though, exercise is also extremely important and it’ll be a key factor in getting your dream body.

Now for the most common exercising misconception. “Cardio cardio cardio cardio and then maybe a little bit more cardio” STOP! Cardio is great for you and you should definitely use it as a tool in your weight loss journey, but if you want to look lean and normal once you get the weight off you should focus on weight lifting, weight lifting burns calories in the moment as well as after your workout. For me, I lift 3-5x a week and do a cardio/hiit exercise either after lifting or on off days. What’s hiit? High intensity interval training. It’s the better version of cardio. For example, I run as hard as I can on a treadmill for 45 seconds then a swift walk for 15. There is tons and tons of hiit exercises online, but if you’re serious about exercise stick with lifting, it’ll do you weight loss wonders.

As of now this is all I can think of, but I’ll update later on if I think of more tips. Thanks for reading and get on that grind!

Edit: spelling/thermic effect of food

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M/40/6’[251>240=-11] first goal met!

After several lighthearted attempts to lose weight over the years, I’ve finally gotten back into a successful routine.

I’ve been in to camping for several years, and that has recently grown into a desire to do some long distance hiking. So I set May ‘19 as a date, and my goal is to complete a 76.8 mile thru-hike of the Foothills Trail in SC. I’ve budgeted 5 full days plus a half day on each end to give us enough time to complete the trail with some side adventures.

One of my friends heard about my trip and immediately started voicing his reservations. When pushed, his reasoning boiled down to the fact that he thinks I’m too out of shape. This finally lit a fire under me because I thought “who is he to tell me I can’t do it?” So after our conversation (Monday 11/26/18) I started CICO. No other weight loss methods. My starting weight was 251 and my first goal was to lose ten lbs. by the end of the year. I’m proud to say I hit my goal — I weighed 240 for my final weigh in of 2018!

For January I’m planning on adding cycling to help accelerate weight loss, and once I get to 230 I’ll start the Ease into 5k program, which I’ve had success with before. If I can keep up the 10 lbs/month, I should be in great shape for a May hike!

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Has anyone unexpectedly had more success without tracking?

So I’ll keep this as brief as possible.

I (25F) started losing weight 3+ years ago, starting at 215 lbs (5’4”). Lost most of the weight slowly but healthily, through calorie counting and exercise. I got down to 155 by mid-2016 and then ended up developing disordered eating and exercise patterns. Dropped down to 135. For most of 2017 I was getting better with habits but still would track meticulously, wanted to lose weight and would end up bingeing quite a bit (especially when stressed about lack of progress, etc.). Throughout this period I was generally fluctuating between 135-140.

I went into 2018 with the goal to develop a better relationship with food. I still tracked for the most part but increased my ‘regular’ intake goals to what should be my maintenance because I realized if I can’t get to the point of eating enough every day, my weight loss attempts with fail as I will binge.

Fast forward to now. I’m doing pretty well emotionally but for the last two months of the year, still failed to lose weight despite trying to be in a deficit (still ended up overeating, etc.). I went on vacation two weeks ago and decided not to track (for the first time in 3.5 years). This continued the week of Christmas. I was intentional about not overeating and about trying to eat foods that nourish me and not eating too much junk as it makes me feel like shit the next day. Im mostly plant-based and I kept that up but ‘treated’ myself more too.

I lost a pound without trying and fully expecting to gain.

Is there anyone else who has had an easier time losing weight after quitting tracking or who has had tracking end up being detrimental to their journey?

Thank you for reading and for any advice/thoughts/input!

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Not looking on the outside the way you feel inside during weight loss.

I had a really horrible moment this past weekend where I saw a photo of myself (149 lbs) and was awakened to the fact that no, I am still nowhere near “slim” or even normal looking.

When I started this journey, I was 210+ lbs. I don’t have many photos of that time period but I know it wasn’t cute. I’ve lost 60 lbs since then and 13 of them this year. My clothes fit better, I’ve gone down a size or two in shirts, and my workouts have gotten easier. I guess in my head I thought I must look GREAT because of all the progress.

This weekend we went out for celebratory drinks with some friends and someone snapped a picture of me not from straight on. They texted it to me later on and my jaw absolutely dropped. I expected a little stomach pooch, some moderately thick arms, etc, but what I saw looked grotesque to me.

My stomach stuck out and rolled, my face was round and puffy, and my paints were straining around my thighs. 60 lbs of weight loss and I still look...well, like crap. Since then I’ve been super depressed and feel like I don’t even want to be around people. The wind is just completely gone from my sails and I feel like even if I keep losing weight it’ll be a loooong time before I look the way I thought I did before that photo. Another year of dieting just to lose 15 more lbs and still be overweight for my height.

Has anyone else dealt with this? Mirrors and front-facing photos lying to you :(?

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Lost almost 65lbs - you can too!

I hit 246 pounds in April of last year. I was so uncomfortable, out of shape, and disappointed in myself.

I told a friend I needed to do something to get started and he told me about this CrossFit thing he was doing. He also told me he would see me Monday (this was on Thursday). I also decided to go with CICO... I knew I would not do well with Keto or other ‘diets, and CICO has worked in the past.

I set a goal be under 200 and run a 5k by my birthday in September.

I called the ‘box’ and signed up. The first 4 weeks were torture, but I started to see progress. It hurt... a lot, and my mantra was, “last place still finishes”

By the end of June, I was down to 220 and the workout, while still challenging , were not nearly as painful!

I was all in and going 4x per week st this point! I continued that until about September. On September 5, I hit under 200 for the first time in 15 years.

My birthday was the end of the month and so I signed up for a 5k. It is amazing how well the CrossFit cardio translated.

3 weeks later, I did a 5k in around 27.5 minutes. My body was pretty beat up from CrossFit though and it was losing its luster. I found I really loved running and also did a couple free Orange Theory classes. I also reset my weight loss goal to 185 lbs!

It was really hard, but I left CrossFit and stared OTF Nov 1st and really focusing on my running. I really did not care about getting bulky, and enjoyed the cardio more. CrossFit was what I needed to build a great base, but man is it hard! Mad respect for those folks!! I still lift at OTF and planet fitness, but not focused on muscle gain!

On Nov 3rd, I ran my first 10k in 59 minutes! My goal was under an hour so I was pumped!!! The next day, I signed up for a 10 mile Turkey Trot.

I ran that race three weeks later in 1:39! December was a lot of running , OTF, and using the Aaptiv app. If you have not looked into Aaptiv, it is pretty amazing! I checked in this morning at 181.3, nearly 65 pounds down!

I feel amazing, I have great Enegy, I can keep up with my kids, I play basketball with a bunch of folks 15 years younger than me and they can’t keep up with me :)

I have lost 10 inches on my waist and wear medium shirts... started at 2xl...

My goal is to do a half marathon in March and stay around 180 pounds. People think I weigh much less... My legs are tree trunks and I do not fit the ‘weight chart’.

So basically, I was a sloth for a long time and never thought I could lose weight! I found some friends to keep me accountable and my wife also helped by cooking better for the family. Side bonus, she lost 20 pounds just by eating better and is now working out also!

I NEVER thought I would run 10 miles or wear a medium shirt. I was resigned to be large and unhealthy! If you are in the fence... just get your butt going, push through the pain, and watch amazing things happen!

Thanks for reading!

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Small improvements over Christmas period give me confidence

Hey everyone, longtime lurker here. I've always been a heavy set person, but last year I started reaching 101kg (222lbs) and decided that change was needed. I'm really bad at this it turns out. I started running, playing more sports (squash is something I'm actually decent at) and I went about fixing my diet - low carbs, high protein. All good, except that I break easily, and when I break I break hard. So after a year of this my net weight loss was actually 0. I felt healthier, but I was still packing on loads of extra weight.

16th December I went away to travel and then spend Xmas and New Years at home with family. So I set myself a challenge: lose weight over the festive period.

I worked my arse off, running, going to the gym abroad and when I got back, continuing to eat healthily. Weighed myself today and in those two weeks I've somehow managed to drop from 101kg (222lbs) to 97kg (214lbs)! It's not a huge drop but I'm happy with it, and I now know that I can drop further over the coming year. My target is 85kg (187lbs), and my little challenge this festive period has given me the confidence that I can do it.

Have a good 2019 everyone, I know you can all do it as well <3

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