Friday, July 19, 2019

My Fitness Pal versus RP Diet App

Hello All! Would appreciate some feedback & guidance.

25 y.o./ 235 lbs/ 5'6" F

Some history for y'all to understand my frustrations: July 2018- 248 lbs Oct 2018- 225 lbs Jan 2019- 233 lbs July 2019- 235 lbs

I lost 20 lbs once and I know I can do it again to get to my goal of 199. I just need to focus on diet and nutrition since being active and working out is absolutely enjoyable for me and I'm as active as possible. But I know I can't outrun my calories.

I know tracking my food/ nutrition is a huge element of my weight loss/ body recomp. I am familiar with tracking and I've been using My Fitness Pal for over a year. I have a good scale, I can edit everything in the app. It even allows me to track restaurant food and is a solid resource to choose better quality meals while I'm out.

Instagram and a lot of athletes I know personally are heavily recommending the RP Strength Diet templates or the other product, the RP Diet App. It calculates your ideal macros for fat loss and gives you a selection of foods to choose from. After that, you select the foods and it tells you the portions/ weights for each food item to hit those macros perfectly. Takes a lot of guessing out of the equation, which is cool. It even generates a shopping list.

So it's all macro based, but it doesn't let me add in anything not in the app already (like snacks I eat here and there, or restaurant food.) It doesn't show calories at all, so I don't know if I'm in a caloric deficit. It has me eating 4 meals a day, with 45g to 55g of protein PER MEAL. 200g of protein is a FUCK TON and I struggle as it is to get my usual 100g+ per day. 😭

I have 2 weeks of a free trial with the app before it charges me the $15/month. I'm cool with paying for the service, but my question is really: what do I go with?

Can the RP Diet app really be the key if it hides the calories from me, has me eating 2x my usual protein allotment and is limiting what I can eat so drastically that I can't actually log everything I eat?

I'm leaning toward MFP, and just booting the RP Diet App, but I didn't know if anyone else had luck with it or if I'm just not seeing something crucial.

Thanks for all of your guidance and feedback!

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"Your body looks so weird." A story from after my weight loss.

The summer after my weight loss didn't pan out exactly how I hoped it would.

I'm a 16 year old male, down to 160 from roughly 300. I got to my goal weight of 170 back in January and went down a little bit more from there.

Last fall and throughout the winter I began lifting, looking forward to summer where I could show off not amount of weight I had lost, but also just show off what would (ideally) be my attractive, muscular, not-at-all-fat body. Maybe I'd get a girlfriend, even.

So, the weight was lost, and my body certainly looked better. Sure, I have loose skin all over, and there's so much on my stomach that it looks wrinkled, but at least it doesn't look fat. My arms and shoulders definitely have some muscular definition.

But then there's my chest.

Everyone has their problem areas, right? I mean, I hated my stomach and my arms, but I don't think I can really describe the emotional pain my fat, ugly, feminine-looking chest caused me. It seemed to be the most stubborn part of my body. I noticed my stomach getting distinctly smaller, but my chest seemed to be making progress much more slowly. I always thought it would come last and I just had to keep losing weight.

But now, at 160lbs with a healthy BMI and a BF% that can't possibly be higher than 15, I'm still here with my disgusting, stubborn, ugly, and, worst of all, feminine chest. The top portion of it is firm and muscular, but down the bottom towards my nipples and it feels soft. If you pull on it, like any part of my body, it extends. Again, I have loose skin everywhere. The difference with my chest, however, is that it's just so incredibly bulky.

Normally when you're skinnyfat you can look good in clothing and hide your lack of definition. But my disgusting chest pushes through my shirt like a pair of tits. I even look at photos of other men on this subreddit sometimes who are fatter than I am, yet their chests don't even seem to stick out as much as mine do. Yeah, the top portion of my chest feels firm, but the bottom portion is so disgustingly soft. I'm not muscular enough to have a chest that sticks out because I have pecs.

Maybe it's all in my head. Everyone has problem areas that stick with them, right? They always think that their problem area is wrong, while no one else actually agrees.

Except, no. People do agree with me.

I was hanging out with some of my friends from school at a pool yesterday, and like I've been all summer when swimming, I was shirtless and anxious. I keep telling myself that I can actually be shirtless now in public, and that I'm muscular now, not fat. I have nothing to worry about.

Now, this group of friends tends to be kind of honest with themselves about how they look. One of them is very tall and skinny (actually underweight) while most of them are normal, another is kinda fat, and then there's me, the "'muscuslar" guy who lost the weight. If they make a comment about someone's body (particular the tall, skinny one) it's not an insult. It's just what they think.

So when the tall, skinny friend walked up to me and made the comment, "Your body is so weird. You're arms are really muscular, but you've got a little bit of chub right here [pointing to my chest] and then at your stomach you look like me," I knew he wasn't lying to hurt me. He was telling the truth. That's what he, and, consequently, others, think of me. It's what they think of the one part of my body that I can't hide behind my shirt because it bulges so much that it sticks out. My problem area isn't really a problem area as much as an actual problem.

I go between periods of loving and hating my body. Sometimes my chest sticks out because it's muscular, and sometimes it's because I'm fat and disgusting. It doesn't ever really change, but my perspective does. So I went home and obsessed over my body yet again. I felt my chest, pulled on it where you shouldn't be able to, desperately felt for firmness where there wasn't any, and hoped that maybe, just maybe, I was normal. I'm not. I don't know why my chest is so goddamn big. I'm not fat. I even have abs, for fuck's sake, but my chest sticks out through my shirt in an unflattering way. I hate this disgusting sack of skin, muscle, and fat that makes up each of my... Manboobs? Pecs? I don't know.

I hate myself.

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Advice for someone at the start of the journey?

Hello redditors! This is my first post in this thread and indeed on reddit altogether. I apologise if this is a long ass post, but I was hoping I could tap into the collective knowledge of everyone here to help me overcome various challenges I'll face on my weight loss journey. First, a little about me. I'll try be as detailed as possible.

I am a 5"7, 23 year old male who currently weighs in at 106KG. My goal weight is 82KGish. I'm a care worker (with fairly self-sufficient clients so I have a pretty non-active workday). I play rugby, although I haven't played much for a few years now, I'm just getting back into it seriously. I suffer from developmental dyspraxia which affects my hand-eye co-ordination, exercise induced asthma (recently diagnosed) and long standing (but steadily improving) mental health issues, primarily depression and anxiety. I drank a lot and used recreational drugs when I was younger, but I hardly drink now (once a month maybe, although it's usually a fairly substantial amount). I smoked for about 4 years, vaped for 1 and then quit, I haven't looked back since.

My weight problems began when I was 17/18. I moved from my small highland town to Glasgow to go to university, and my weight just skyrocketed. I discovered extremely regular drinking and takeaways and pretty much ever since, I have failed to manage my diet and exercise regime despite still being a keen rugby player for much of my life. Being someone who is broad/thick to start with thanks to rugby probably allowed me to believe my weight gain wasn't as bad as it actually was. I live in ignorance no longer.

I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in 2014 (after I had already piled on a substantial bit of weight, probably about 9 or 10 kilos). Whether one caused the other or not, being in a poor state of mind did not help my already poor health habits, and I kept eating whilst simultaneously sitting on my fat ass all day. I've made a couple of attempts at losing weight over the past 6 years to varying degrees of success (with the highlight being a 6 kilo loss a few years ago) but something feels different now. I need to protect my health, get the best out of my youth and improve my mental state (meds haven't done it for me for a long time, I believe that however hard it may be I have to do this the old fashioned way e.g. through self improvement).

My various ailments and personality traits give me challenges to overcome, and I'm hoping that anyone reading this can help me. Firstly, a symptom of my dyspraxia (for me at least) has been picky eating, specifically in relation to most vegetables. It could be a sensory thing I guess, it's hard to describe as I have discovered recently I do like the taste of some vegetables/vegetable based dishes, but I still have a certain anxiety about it. If anyone has experienced this and knows of ways to tackle/overcome it, I would appreciate it.

Secondly, I have pizza tooth. Big time. I get cravings for takeaway/fatty foods like you wouldn't believe. My just eat/ubereats history is scary reading. I guess I never got to have takeaway when I was growing up as my mum is a healthnut and was very scolding about even the prospect of eating unhealthy food (an approach that kept me healthy/fit when I was younger I suppose) so when I got to uni, it was a rebellion thing? Idk. All I know is, I just crave it so bad sometimes. I could not care less about sugary foods, but fatty stuff like pizza I just can't get over.

Lastly, organisation is a big problem for me in account of my dyspraxia. I do of course plan things as much as I can but ultimately day-to-day changes of habit will be the focus of my weight loss, I think. My attitude has changed, I just have to execute it. Looser, more generalised tips will be appreciated.

Part of getting to this point has involved admitting my weaknesses and now I can understand the challenges in my way, I am ready to face them. Any advice of any kind will be much appreciated. Have a good day redditors, and thanks for reading :)

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How do you deal with lunch while traveling?

My job is on the road. I do not have a lunch or break room. I do not have access to a refrigerator or microwave.

Part of my weight loss success has been to avoid fast food as much as possible. It is still necessary some days and I have leaned how to make better choices. Subway chopped salads are excellent! I gave up all soda and rarely drink coffee ( I need cream and sugar).

Days that I am in town, I pack my lunch in a small ice chest and eat in my car. Some locations have a place I can eat inside, which is nice for those really hot days.

How do all of you who work on the road or in non traditional workplaces handle lunches? I get tired of eating the same things every day and am always looking for new lunch ideas. I think sharing information like this can open up new ideas for others also struggling with this type of situation. And cutting out fast food due to limited food options is a great first step in weight loss.

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Life changing mindset switch - I'm just mentally fat. lol

I've been struggling to lose and maintain healthy weight for YEARS. I can't stop thinking about food, constantly falling into binge eating episodes. I've recently stumbled upon this youtube vid https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3xFLux8FfE and it made me wonder - why am I out here counting macros, calories, tracking my steps, forcing myself to go the gym, constantly depriving myself of treats, planning every single meeting in a restaurant waay ahead of time ("will I cut my calories the day before? do extra cardio? or maybe order the lowest calorie option?") etc and still being nowhere near my goal weight meanwhile my slim friends just dont care about food?

Then I realized.

I've been struggling with eating for years not because I'm unlucky or I lack will power. It's just that I will never be able to change my body and maintain as long as my mind isn't in the right place. I won't lose weight because my fat mindset will keep trying to hold me back lol. I have a lot of knowledge about food and nutrition but I'm secretly mentally fat. I will give you some examples of my habits:

  1. We all have that one skinny friend that can open a pack of cookies, take one or two, close the pack and move on with life. Well, obviously my fat ass wouldn't be able to do that but the thing is, I wouldn't even buy the pack of cookies. Why? Because I always instantly look at the calorie label and do the math how much calories is in the ENTIRE pack. Like, I don't even consider something like portion size - I count how much is in the entire thing and if I don't feel like it's worth it then I won't buy it.
  2. I can easily down a pound or two of low-kcal high volume things like strawberries, veggies, low fat yoghurt, melon etc. It sounds healthy, filling yourself on low kcal but it's actually a binge-eater habit. Because VOLUME VOLUME VOLUME. I have to eat eat eat. Stuff my face. If I can't portion control these types of food then how am I supposed to control the portions of high calorie/junk food? Whenever I cut up strawberries I'm always like "it's low calorie, why won't I add more and more, it won't do harm...?". And yeah, it doesn't affect my body or my health but just the mindset and the urge to have as much food as possible - that's not good.
  3. It's not that much of a "fat habit" but it kinda counts - whenever I make a meal I have to make the most out of it. Like, for example - I can't just take an apple and bite into it. No, I will slice it, put it on a nice plate, dip it in peanut butter, sprinkle chocolate chips and drizzle over some honey. Oatmeal with banana? No, I have to top it with every single type of nuts and seeds I have, add the honey, flax seeds, granola etc. And when I allow myself to have a treat then I won't just have a cookie - I'm going to "offset it" by crumbling the cookie on a yogurt, adding fruits and every single topping option I own making a 100 kcal treat into a 400 kcal meal where I can't even taste the cookie anymore lol. It's not a bad thing to make your healthy meals pleasant and spice them up but sometimes it adds up so many calories and just the habit of having to enjoy every single bite of food and having to add up as much volume as possible is not something that I feel like person who eats to live not lives to eat would do.
  4. Overdosing on aspartame. Lol. Obviously a lot of people consume diet soda and coffee but I can't sit on my ass just sipping on water - I always need a diet soda, coffee or tea next to me. I need to have the flavor. I'm constantly thinking about food so I need to curb it with calorie-free flavors all day long.

After realizing these things I started to work on creating new habits (obviously this will take a while since I've been developing this "fat mindset" for years but I'm pretty sure it's doable!) and I feel so much better and more positive on my weight loss journey. If I'm craving a toast with pb then I will get a toast, put the pb on it and eat. Not putting the banana, nuts and a side of giant fruit salad with it just because "gotta make it filling". I guess this does conflict with the overall idea of eating for weight loss but I do feel like for someone with unhealthy relationship with food and struggles with binge eating realizing those habits and trying to remove them might help. By fulfilling my cravings and working on my satisfaction cues, eating slower, embracing every bite of food instead of stuffing my face with tasteless VOLUME VOLUME VOLUME etc I do end up eating less calories throughout the day! That's my "small" rant.

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Lost over 20lbs down to lowest weight in 10 years

Over the past 6 months I’ve gone from 183.2 to 163.6. I’m 5’9 and 29 years old.

I’ve always been active but went went through some personal and health problems and ballooned up. At one point over 190. Although I was never considered traditionally fat, I was made fun of for my large stomach.

Here’s how I did it:

  • eat 1500-1700 calories a day

  • no food restrictions. I ate everything I wanted and normally did just far less. Example: 2-3 slices of pizza instead of full pie

  • diligently tracked everything I ate and still do

  • took phentermine 37.5mg

-4-6 hours a week of prone paddleboarding

Honestly there is no secret to weight loss except hard work and motivation. People can say I cheated using phen and oh you’re a guy you lose weight easily it’s not true. I worked hard tracking food and limiting my intake daily. Weight loss drugs make it easier but no pill makes you lose weight without cutting calories

I feel much healthier and most of tummy is gone.

Wish everyone else great luck with their weight loss journey and happy to help anyone who wants to make changes

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Social Media and Self-Esteem: What You Need to Know

If your daily routine includes a scroll through your favorite social media feed, you’re not alone: According to pewresearch.org, approximately 70 percent of U.S. adults use YouTube and Facebook, 37 percent use Pinterest, and more than 20 percent use Linkedin, Snapchat and/or Twitter. The same source reports that nearly 75 percent of Facebook users visit the site every day, and the majority of Snapchat and Instagram users do the same.

These stats aren’t surprising, given that social media can be a great source of information, inspiration and connection. But research suggests that there are downsides to these popular online platforms. In fact, a growing body of evidence suggests that the more time people spend on social media, the worse they feel about themselves.

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But why? As it turns out, people are using social media for more than just socializing. They’re also using it to draw comparisons between themselves and others which, in some cases, is wreaking havoc on their self-esteem.

The Social Media, Self-Esteem Connection

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According to a study published in Psychology of Popular Media Culture, participants use social media to make what they call “upward social comparisons”–they compare themselves to others they perceive to be better off. The result? They end up feeling worse about themselves.

Multiple studies suggest that social media users are comparing how they look to others as well. Research out of the Florida House Experience, a mental health and addiction treatment facility, reveals that women’s opinions of their bodies are more heavily influenced by social media than by TV, movies, even their significant others.

Unfortunately, this is leaving many woman dissatisfied. Research out of York University in Toronto suggests that young women felt worse about their own appearance after viewing the social media pages of someone they perceived to be more attractive than themselves.

The “Highlight Reel Effect”

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One of the most interesting findings to come out of recent research on social platforms and self-esteem is that users report feeling the worst when comparing themselves to distant peers–those they are connected to online but have little to no interaction with outside the social media tunnel.

Researchers attribute this to what’s been deemed the “highlight reel effect.” Social media, they say, enables users to share only the best aspects of their lives. And unlike family and close friends, with whom users interact outside of the online world, distant peers can hide the negative or imperfect aspects of their lives and choose what to share–perfect images of beautiful vacations, toned bodies, stylish clothes, countless friends, etc.

This theory is supported by the York University study, which revealed that although scrolling through images of celebrities and distant peers made users feel negatively about themselves, scrolling through family member’s feeds did not. Given that users are likely close enough to family members to have a bigger picture view than what they see on social media, this makes sense.

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The Takeaway

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Before you close all of your social media accounts, know this: It isn’t all doom and gloom. How you use social media can have a sizable impact on your experience. Here are some tips for making sure your experience is a positive one:

1. Pick your friends and followers wisely.

By following only close friends and family members, you’ll keep the social connection element without falling victim to the Highlight Reel Effect. And if you do choose to follow distant acquaintances or celebrities, keep in mind that what they are sharing online is only a small piece of the bigger, real life picture.

2. Be choosy about inspirational accounts.

In a study out of the University of West England, Bristol, 160 female undergrads viewed either #fitspo images (pictures of attractive people exercising), self compassion quotes (like “You’re perfect just the way you are”), or a mix of both, from real accounts on Instagram. Those who viewed only #fitspo images scored lower on self-compassion; those who viewed the compassionate quotes were nicer to themselves and felt better about their bodies.

Another study of 195 young women who were shown either body-positive content, photos showing thin women in bikinis or fitness gear, or neutral images of nature, the women viewing the body-positive content reported feeling more satisfied with their own bodies.

These findings suggest that by being selective about the content you follow on social, you can create a positive environment that’s actually great for your self-esteem.

3. Take a step back.
Although multiple studies have established a correlation between social platform usage and low self-esteem, it’s something of a “chicken or the egg” situation. While some researchers theorize that engaging with social media can lead users to have lower self-esteem, others speculate that people who already have low self-esteem are most drawn to social media since they can obtain approval and positive reinforcement from others via likes, comments and shares.

Understanding why and how you use social media may help you shape a more positive experience. If scrolling through your feed makes you feel worse about yourself, your time might be better spent engaging in a different hobby–one that makes you feel good and reinforces the things you like about yourself.

On the other hand, if a daily scroll through your feed brings you joy and makes you feel more positive, there is no reason to cut social media out of your life.

Looking for some positivity? Check out Nutrisystem’s Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest pages!

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