Monday, October 21, 2019

Am I being overly sensitive?

Am I being overly sensitive?

Yesterday was a friend from college's engagement party. Was great to see my closest friends of 10+ years. Now that we're all in our 30s and have jobs, kids, etc I'll often go 6-12 months without seeing them.

We all sat down for lunch and one friend who I've had probably gone the longest without seeing was being so kind and raving about my weight loss. He asked "how in the hell did you lose so much weight? It's amazing!" (I spent most of college 360-380lbs, hitting 415lbs the year after graduation. I'm at 245lbs now.)

I'm finally have real results and it's because me finally addressing my mental and emotional well being rather than ignoring it. So I shared that. It's not easy for me to be vulnerable but I think being open and honest is helpful. Mentioning how changing jobs, coming to terms with my anxiety and working through it, calorie counting, measuring literally everything to re-train my mind on portion sizes, intermittent fasting, etc.

Then my SO says, kind of looking over to my friend's wife who just had a baby and is carrying some extra weight "yeah but it's also easier because he's a man"

I know she didn't mean anything malicious by it. Like sure, yeah I can eat more calories because my TDEE is higher as male but man I felt so fucking bummed out. Like it just discounted all my work because I'm male. It's been anything but easy.

I was 200+lbs by age 10. I was 300+lbs by high school. I was bullied. I had very little self-esteem growing up. After college I felt so isolated. I spent most of my 20s living alone in a studio apartment. I spent many nights binge eating and drinking until I was sick just hating myself. I'm finally the healthiest I've ever been but it's literally been 15-20 years in the making with dozens of failure along the way.

On the other hand I'm aware how much of a trigger my weight is and I know I can make a mountain out of a mole hill on the topic. So I don't know.

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15 Plant-Based Recipes for a Vegetarian Feast

Maybe you only eat vegetarian. Maybe you want to participate in Meatless Mondays. Maybe you’re just looking for ways to lighten up your favorite meals. These plant-based recipes fit all those bills—plus, with their hearty and tasty ingredients, they are sure to please your palate, fill your belly and keep your body energized.

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Here are 15 delicious plant-based recipes for a vegetarian feast:

1. Chipotle Tofu Breakfast Burrito >

breakfast burrito

Calories per serving: 216

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb and 1 Vegetable

Why have a good morning when you can have a delicious one! It starts with sautéed peppers and onions and sweet cherry tomatoes. Mix the veggies with crumbles of tofu coated in a flavorful combo of tomato paste, cumin, chili pepper and garlic powder. Then nestle it all into a soft tortilla. One bite will give your taste buds the wake-up call they crave.

2. Veggie Power Bowl >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 302

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb, 2 Vegetables and 2 Extras

More filling than salad or soup and so simple to make! Toss arugula with oil and lemon pepper to create the base of your power bowl. Top the zippy greens with protein-packed quinoa, cubes of creamy butternut squash, colorful bell peppers and wedges of red onion. Add a dollop or two of hummus and finish with a healthy sprinkle of pumpkin seeds for added fiber and satisfying crunch.

3. Jackfruit Crab Cakes >

jackfruit

Calories per serving: 116

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb

If you haven’t yet heard of jackfruit, let us introduce you to this fascinating plant. It has a sweet taste and meaty texture that closely resembles shredded chicken or pork. It makes an awesome plant-based meat alternative in this classic summer dish. Small pieces of jackfruit serve as the “crab,” which is mixed with peppers, onions, Dijon mustard, old bay seasoning and panko bread crumbs. The mixture is formed into cakes and baked to golden perfection.

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4. Chickpea Dumpling Stew >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 153

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1/2 Vegetable and 1 Extra

The list of ingredients is long. However, one sip of this stew makes all that prep worth the effort. The broth is simmered with a medley of veggies, such as carrots, parsnips and potatoes and flavored with seasoning, like thyme, sage and bay leaves. The chickpeas add protein and filling fiber. The homemade dumplings are made with healthy whole wheat flour and chives. This recipe yields many servings—perfect for reheating leftovers when you need a quick lunch or dinner.

5. Chunky Veggie Chili >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 245

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel and 1 Vegetable

No need for ground meat when you’ve got beans, corn, tomatoes and zucchini—plus an awesome mix of Mexican spices to zest up this satisfying meal. Top your warm bowl with shredded cheese, crushed tortilla chips and a handful of chopped cilantro to add a little crunch and freshness to each spoonful.

6. Garlic Soy Sheet Pan Tofu >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 228

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuel, 1 Vegetable and 2 Extras

Calling all tofu fans! Treat your favorite protein to this tasty glaze before baking. It’s made with garlic, soy sauce, honey, fresh ginger and the juice and zest of an orange for a hint of bright citrus. Serve the tofu cubes with a side of sugar-snap peas sprinkled with red pepper flakes, scallions and sesame seeds for a perfect mix of Asian flavors.

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7. Southwestern Spaghetti Bowl >

Spaghetti Squash

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels, 3 Vegetables and 1 Extra

Strands of squash twisted around black beans, chopped bell peppers, diced tomatoes, corn, olives and cilantro. All dressed in lime juice and served in a scooped-out squash “bowl”, this recipe makes for a dish that’s both gorgeous and delicious. Skip the shredded chicken to go meatless, but feel free to top the nutritious meal with shredded cheddar cheese before digging in.

8. Mega Beet Burger >

plant-based

Calories per Serving: 322

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuels, 1 SmartCarb and 1 Vegetable

Mega flavor, mega filling—without a morsel of meat. Here’s how: Combine beets, walnuts, lentils, oats, garlic, onions and a “flax” egg (made from flaxseed meal and water) to make the patty. A touch of cinnamon adds a surprise flavor. A slather of homemade honey goat cheese spread takes this veggie burger to another level of delicious. Serve with fresh baby spinach on a toasty whole wheat bun.

9. Instant Pot Italian Lentils >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 248

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

If you don’t have an Instant Pot, this recipe may convince you to get one. That’s because you can toss a whole mess of ingredients into this awesome kitchen tool, hit a few buttons and voila! You have a warm, healthy dish ready in 20, with minimal effort. We threw in onions, garlic, cans of tomatoes, seasonings and of course, lentils to make this delicious plant-based meal.

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10. Tofu Stir Fry with Tahini Soy Sauce >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 427

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable and 2 Extras

The magic is in the sauce. Savory tahini (made from ground, toasted sesame seeds), soy sauce, garlic, ginger and a little corn starch create a flavorful blend that’s soaks into the brown noodles, vibrant veggies and tofu cubes. Top your plant-based bowl with peanuts for extra crunch and sprinkle on sriracha for some heat.

11. BBQ Jackfruit Sandwich >

BBQ Jackfruit

Calories per serving: 195

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 Vegetable and 2 Extras

It’s the kind of sweet and savory sandwich you’d get from a roadside barbecue shack—except much (much) healthier. Shredded jackfruit stands in for pork. It’s coated in a homemade barbecue sauce that includes maple syrup, molasses, tomato sauce, Worcestershire and spices. The slaw on top is made from a mix of cabbage, green onions and vinegar dressing. You get familiar tang and texture of a BBQ sandwich in every bite—minus the saturated fat (and the guilt).

12. Veggie Paella >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 137

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb and 2 Vegetables

The vegetables are plentiful: asparagus, artichoke, tomatoes, red peppers and peas. The brown rice is super satisfying. The pinch of saffron adds beautiful color. This is one vibrant veggie dish that’s packed with vitamins and sized perfect to feed the whole family.

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13. Cauliflower Sweet Potato Soup >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 127

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 Vegetable and 1 Extra

Nothing warms your bones and fills your belly better on a chilly day than a piping hot bowl of soup. This cauliflower and sweet potato combo offers a version that’s high in vitamin C, low in calories and loaded with health-boosting nutrients. The powerhouse veggies simmer in a broth with garlic, onions, paprika, coriander, cumin and ginger to create a flavorful plant-based side to your lunch or dinner.

14. Vegetarian Meatballs with Zucchini Noodles >

Vegetarian Meatballs

Calories per serving: 279

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb, 2 Vegetables and 1 Extra

Step aside beef and pork: lentils and mushrooms are joining forces to create a no-meat meatball that pays homage to the classic combo in flavor and texture. Serve with zucchini “spaghetti” and marinara sauce for an inspired, plant-based twist on an Italian dish.

15. Tofu Taco Bowl >

plant-based

Calories per serving: 293

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 1 Vegetable and 2 Extras

Taco Tuesday meets Meatless Monday with this dish—thanks to the tofu providing a perfect protein-loaded stand-in for standard beef or chicken. The tofu cubes are coated in lime juice and zest, rolled in jalapeno and seasoned with south-of-the-border spices before tossing in a skillet until golden brown and crispy. When the bowl is layered—flavored rice on the bottom, then tofu, sautéed peppers, shredded cabbage, pico de gallo and avocado on top—you have a meal that’s as beautiful as it is nutritious.

Nutrisystem makes losing weight easy with healthy, plant-based meals. Learn more about our Vegetarian program >

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How to Stop Eating Prepared (Packaged) Food?

There’s no question that prepared food isn’t good for you, but it’s oh so easy to track your calories when you eat it! I have high cholesterol and this packaged food garbage isn’t helping (hello, Trader Joe’s butternut squash Mac and cheese for 510 calories and a heart attack in two years). How did you stop eating stuff in boxes and move to real food? I can make some soups from scratch that leave me with leftovers, which is preferable since I’m in graduate school, and some other stuff. But how the heck do I track these calories?? Cooking is so much cheaper and healthier for you, but I don’t want to sacrifice weight loss. It’s complicated.

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Don't know how to get back on track

I'm a 21 yr old 5 ft 8 woman who got to 200lbs in 2018 and decided it was time to do something. I managed to get down to 150lbs by April 2019 but since then I've fallen off the wagon and reached 170lbs. I don't know how to get back on track because I comfort eat a lot and also drink a lot too (I'm a student) which leads to all the calories of alcohol and then eating junk food the day after when hungover. I just want to have healthy eating patterns again but after trying for the past few weeks I can't seem to get back into good habits which lead to my original weight loss. I would just appreciate any advice as I feel terrible about myself for gaining 20lbs after how well I was doing.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 21 October 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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How does HCG Help with Reducing Weight?

The amazing HCG diet drops take care of the stubborn fat deposited over years. These homeopathic drops have made weight loss easy and effective. It works on the stubborn fat deposited on specific areas of your body.

The fat storage in our body is available in two forms - Visceral fat storage and Subcutaneous fat storage. The visceral fat storage is short term and used as immediate source of energy. This fat being stored in abdomen would not be deposited at any other part of body. The subcutaneous fat storage on the other hand is the stubborn fat deposited in the fat cell located on problem areas of the body like tummy, hips, thighs and arms. This is the fat that makes you obese. HCG diet drops are naturally powered to act on this stubborn fat and that is why it is so popular amongst weight watchers. This artificial HCG works in the same way as the natural HCG found in pregnant women. It offers quicker weight loss without bringing down the energy levels.

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Maintenance Monday: Regain Edition

This week's suggested thread, from u/rhinowithahat:

I don’t know if this is the place for it, but I’m nearing maintenance mode (this is the first, and hopefully last, time I’ve lost weight) and the people I’d most like to hear advice from are people who lost weight, gained it back, lost it again, and then maintained - what was different the second time around? What should first-time losers watch out for/be careful of?

For me, I haven't regained to my starting weight after hitting maintenance, though I've been a higher weight and had to eat at a deficit for stretches. Since weight fluctuates and maintenance isn't a straight line - just like weight loss - I'd question what 'gaining it back' is in the first place. What do we each mean when we talk about gaining weight back?

My short answer to what anyone entering maintenance should watch out for or be careful of is to keep on top of the habits that led to you losing weight in the first place! Keep counting calories, eating whole foods, walking 10k steps, exercising or playing sports, weighing yourself etc.


Anything else on your mind pertaining to maintenance? Is your diet going effortlessly, or have the last few weeks been more of a struggle? All questions, remarks and worries are welcome topics of conversation!

Previous Maintenance Monday threads can be found here.

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