Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 22 December 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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I'm confused about diets, intuitive eating, and just want to have a conversation about it all

Hi all -

Firstly please forgive me for this post, it’s a bit ramble and I’m just trying to figure things out.

I have been reading about intuitive eating and begun trying to practice it. Just a quick FYI - I have had VSG surgery and lost 25ish kg this year - which is under what I should have lost but COVID and staying at home more hasn’t helped but also overeating the ‘wrong’ kind of foods has crept back in - being stuck at home 24/7 has just compounded things a bit.

Now I know some people may think intuitive eating is just an excuse to eat everything etc but it is not and I am not treating it that way. I know that intuitive eating can take a long time to master and even practice consistently.

I want to lose weight, I’ve tried every diet under the sun and while I know logically staying within a calorie deficit will help me lose weight I also believe that restricting can lead to binging. Now i believe you can restrict in 2 ways - you set a calorie goal you have to stay within or you say no to certain foods.

I don’t believe in good or bad foods, I believe all foods can have and should have a place in a healthy lifestyle - it’s about balance.

But to get that balance do I first need to eliminate certain foods that I’m overeating?

I’m just confused because the goal with IE is NOT weight loss - which I understand, it may be a side effect but it is not the goal. There is also some IE advocates that say forget diets, and 1200 is based on a 12 year old child, etc etc. I don’t feel comfortable with these statements - but I know diets haven’t helped me, because even though I lose weight initially from diets, I ended up gaining it all back and usually extra. Yes, I’ve lost the 25kg but I attribute that because of surgery and physically impossible to eat at times.

So if I want to lose weight - should I try? I’ll admit I’m not really doing it for health reasons - my blood work has been fine. It’s pretty much I want to fit into nice clothing.

Should I follow deficits that I know lead me to spiral? Seems like I shouldn’t but how else can I lose weight but changing what I eat - and quantity and quality is important.

If I am trying to intuitively eat how do I rely on my body to tell me what I need when I have PCOS, Depression, and have had a sleeve surgery (cut out stomach) and taking various medication - like how can I trust myself?

I’m just very confused about a path forward and what is going to work - I don’t want to keep thinking about food I just want to reach a place of moderation.

Would love to hear just general thoughts/opinion/advice on the topic!

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It's been almost 3 years and my weight loss journey failed

I'll keep it short but.

September 2017 I discovered I was considered obese. I'd never considered myself as such so I decided that I'm going to go on a journey to lose the weight.

I did CICO. I didn't really exercise. But it worked, from about September to October 2018. I lost probably close to 40 pounds.

Then because of some stress I started to lose weight again. But I couldn't let that happen, because I knew in Spring 2019 I was going to a big event and wanted to look good. So I not only went in on CICO, but I added crazy strenuous exercise. I lost a lot of weight.

Then disaster struck. Maybe I restricted my calories too much or did too much exercise too soon. And maybe it was the stress of a new job, my insecurities...but I ended up having panic attacks.

I actually lost a lot of weight after that because I couldn't eat. My family was worried.

But then people in my family and friend circle died very close to another in the second half of 2019. I ate maybe one thing the entire week. Then I started binging.

Then the pandemic hit. My anxiety is better, but 2020 has been so stressful and dealing with the fall out from 2019 I've probably gained back all my weight and am back to where I was September 2017.

Now I'm at a point where I want to start getting healthier. I don't care about looking a certain way. I just want to be healthy and happy. But I don't know where to start.

That's my journey. I guess when you fall, you just have to pick yourself back up and keep going with what you've learned to guide you.

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Monday, December 21, 2020

[help] Lost 75 pounds and went vegan for a while, now my family’s saying that I have eating issues

(20F) Starting weight: 175 pounds Current weight: 100 pounds Height : 5’1

Disclaimer : Long paragraphs ahead, couldn’t fit all texts in the title // I went on a fully vegetarian and vegan diet for two months. I’m now back to eating meat, but at half of my usual intake before going on a diet. I mainly decided to do this because I realised that 90% of the meat I ate were fried or with tonnes of sauces. Yes, I loved fried food. But unfortunately, it really isn’t too good for my health.

My weight loss journey started in 2015, under the encouragement of my family to lead a healthier lifestyle. For years, my elementary and high school had to send me to a nutritionist because I was severely overweight. I went for a blood test and had very high LDL. After 2 years and without any form of exercise, I gradually cut down my intake of fried food and sugared drinks (it used to be a forth-nightly event). At this point, I was 100 pounds.

However, here came the yoyo effect and binge-eating. I gained 15 pounds within a few months. I was ranging between 108-112 pounds for the next two years until 2019.

This year, I hit 115 pounds during the quarantine and lockdown period. Couldn’t stop munching on sweets that i baked and just lied on the sofa all day long. I was always huge on meat, you could have called me a Carnivore.

Hence, with all the esteem issues and worries about going back to my previously high LDL levels, I decided to lose weight! I don’t ever fast or starve myself. I merely cut down unnecessary snacking and went back & forth on a pescatarian, vegetarian or vegan diet. Also, i track calories -> a deal-breaker for my family. For two months, I tried to eat within 1200cal and for the remaining (like now) I’m eating within 1300cal with the exception of days when I hang out.

I currently weigh 100 pounds. Unfortunately (?), my once chubby cheeks have turned into a gaunt face. My boobs dropped a whole cup and booties have shrunk. I have, for a month so far, done workouts at home every other day to maintain this weight and get my assets back (upwards & outwards lol).

This change in appearance, calorie tracking and cutting down meat in my diet have led to my family thinking I have an eating disorder. I do admit, I likely had Orthorexia a while back. I’d like to think I’m much better now.

Is there any way to eliminate the mindset of cutting down meat = lack of nutrients, starvation, eating disorder? Nearly everyday I hear my close and extended family comment that I’m ‘anorexic’ because I track calories and don’t eat enough meat.

Nope, I’m not seeking psychological help here on reddit. However, I would definitely appreciate some advice and your take on this.

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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Maintaining in 2020

I did it! This year has been awful emotionally. Between covid and my brothers sudden passing in May. I’m very proud to say that I have been able to maintain my weight loss.

You guys have been a constant encouragement, I don’t post often, but I visit a lot and gain strength from all of you. Your hard work, your tips, your real life stories are all greatly appreciated, so thank you!

Of all the habits that I had to learn and unlearn over the past 2 years, the hardest by far has been working through emotions in a healthy way and not turning to food. This has been extremely helpful this year. From suddenly working from home, our dog passing and my brother passing at 37 with a heart condition that potentially is genetic, my youngest moving out, and the continued stress of covid and what that all means, it has not been easy.

The most helpful thing I read a long time ago, was that it is ok to feel. To let yourself feel. If you need help, seek it. It’s ok, you are worth it.

I hope this is encouraging to someone out there. 40 pounds feels like a long time ago now. One day I will worry about the last 10.

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9 weeks in, weight loss mostly stable

I started a food mindfulness journal 9 weeks ago. I add in my weight every day and what food I've eaten. I still allow myself carbs and sweets, but I've cut down on what I allow myself. I also try to keep the carbs and sweets to before 2 pm, and keep to protein, fruit and veggies after that.

I'm fairly stable at this point, bouncing between 4-6 lbs of weight loss. I know that some of that weight is due to water. Depending on what I've eaten for a couple of days will heavily impact that.

I also added video workouts from youtube by Joe Wicks. I do 1-2 of them a day, depending on the amount of time i have and how I'm feeling.

I know that it takes up to 6 months to see anything occur in your abs/belly. But I feel like I'm starting to see my obliques! Has anyone else seen this?

Thanks for listening everyone!

-C

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