Monday, March 7, 2022

I lost 1.7 lbs this month and I am proud of myself

Hi! I'm new here and new to taking this seriously.

Here's my stats: 29F | 5'6 | SW: 235.8lb | CW: 234.1 | FGW 199 lb | Ultimate GW 150-160

I wanted to expand on a comment I wrote on another post about if you're getting fast food and you choose the smaller burger and fries instead of the large burger, large fries and shake, that's a healthy choice. I wrote that that's where I'm at right now as I'm addicted to fast food and habits essentially keeping me fat.

I have been on my weight loss journey for a month now guided by my local grocer's nutritionist (I recommend those who can to try this option-- it's usually free or low cost) and my focus has been on not eating fast food, meals at home and daily exercise for at least 10 minutes. That's it.

I absolutely love cooking despite being addicted to FF. My nutritionist allowed me one day to have one fast food meal of my choice but I needed to make healthy and nutritious choices throughout the week. I was struggling with that and was making excuses to squeeze in more during the week because I "had to have it" and then I'd shame myself for making the choice all over again, then eat the fast food the next day etc.

'Til something dawned on me. I am not going to lose the weight if I continue to eat the way I'm used to eating. The way I'm used to eating is a habit. Therefore I needed to replace my current habit with something different. To do so, I needed to re-train my brain to pick a different activity and then repeat it every day. No feelings or excuses.

I just fleshed this out a week ago, and to me I makes a lot of sense. Generally, the effort you put in is what you will see (bar for any health issues, hormonal changes etc that may be going on). Right now I do not have those issues, so it's pretty simple for me. With that being said, the effort I put in my first month is something I can be proud of; that was my best effort this month to a) get started and b) understand what I needed to do mentally for this to stick long term. Because what's going to happen when I get to my goal weight? Just go back to how I was eating? No. I'll gain all the weight back. I'm starting to see that making long-term decisions are really impactful here.

I have to let my brain understand I'm not taking anything away by not eating the fast food, I'm simply replacing the food for something else or replacing the boredom/mental hunger for another activity instead of eating. That was what I was very scared of when having to "give it up." I'm not, I'm just replacing it.

Slowly but surely I'm starting to feel better because while I still eat fast food at this stage, I eat less and less of it. I just need to keep training my brain to go towards healthy foods most of the time so that eventually I will start to crave it and want it over fast food. Hopefully by the time the habit forms to choose healthy/homecooked meals often, more weight will come off month to month. But I will have been putting in the effort long before and long after.

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Anyone who has lost 100lbs+ what did you do to achieve it?

Curious what anyone who has lost 100+ Lbs did to achieve and maintain that weight loss.

I lost 80/85lbs back in 2015 but have gained it all back plus some now. I am currently at 442lbs… but I started 3 weeks ago at 470 and at the beginning of January I was closer to 480. It’s disgusting and I can’t believe that I ever let myself get to this place. I’ve always been big, I graduated high school at 320 12 years ago. I am a 6’1 male and it’s time for a change. I have gone back to IF, I typically just don’t eat until 2 and I stop eating at 8 and I am eating about 1800 calories a day but have switched to healthy foods and cut a lot of the pasta, rice and potatoes out.

My goal is to be at 350 by the end of august since I am going on a family vacation with my wife and our kids and I would really like to look better than I did last year when we went, that would be 100lbs lighter. That’s 4lbs a week and while that’s a little crazy I am fairly large and can make make it close to that.

I am lifting weights everyday, I hate traditional cardio like stationary bikes but instead I have been doing kettlebells as cardio and so far so good…

So what did you do to lose the weight? Any advice?

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SV: I ate cake and ice cream and still lost weight

I ate cake multiple times this past week and still lost weight. I have a fairly sedentary moving towards low activity lifestyle, mostly working from home - or reading, gaming, or netflixing for fun. My daily budget is 1200 cal, 1300 on weekends. While I'm increasing my gym and walk time in general, I was an absolute potato this week.

I lost an additional 3.5 pounds since the start of this past week! I was very good at my deficits, but a little stuck at the same weight for 1.5 weeks prior to this - I suspect for hormonal reasons. I have been skeptical over time since starting weight loss about the ability for some of this to stick, as it's so easy to yo-yo 10 pounds over and over again. Today I'm an overall 29 pounds down and finally definitively feel that my choices are impactful. I will echo other posts here that food scales are a game changer, and understanding that there is a balance to all consumption is really starting to click.

That's my key takeaway - end of post! ...but my food summary / diary for the week is below in case anyone is curious and it is helpful. I was on target every other day not mentioned, which for me means that I ended in range successfully within +/- 50 calories of my goal.

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Fat Tuesday: + ~700 over budget
Got damn I really wanted the king cake... and it's mardis gras, baby! I don't really drink anymore, so I went for it. I ended my day with normal food counts under a hundred calories. All extra calories were attributed to planned and consensual king cake consumption. King cake is hard to log as it was a local bakery special, so I referenced a few online nutritional records and estimated my portions generously in my app.

Friday: +235
Today was mostly a normal food day. My husband's birthday weekend was upon us and he went to go hang out with the boys and so the kid and I had a bum around at home date where we watched movies and played video games. It wasn't fair that they could eat candies during movie time on their own without consequence. I had some regular ass tillamook ice cream hidden at the bottom of the freezer at home I had planned to divvy out, but after an internal debate with myself I found myself being selfish and couldn't let go that I could only have a fraction of the amount of "real" ice cream I wanted to stay in range... so to compromise I got my first ever halo top at target with plans to consume half.

  • Upon measuring time I was frustrated because I wanted the other ice cream and was scared of the halo top. After tasting, I angry-decided that I deserved and could treat myself the entire halo top pint of ice cream. That sent me over budget, but still kept me under maintenance?! Maintenance calories are magical. I was also satiated and couldn't go more damage than the halo top that I already had in my hands... er, stomach.

Saturday: -537
I feel fine(?) doing this during time periods where I know there is a high likelihood will go overboard or will underestimate because restaurant calories are yummy. Maybe this is not the healthiest habit that I could adjust. Usually it means low calorie grazing for a couple of days out of the week, or fasting a day (drinking only hot tea & water) to get things back in balance. Thoughts, yall?

  • I had a fiber bar, and grazed all morning on fruits. This included very low caloric density fruits (raspberries, blackberries) and downed hot teas.
  • The most substantial meal was lunch, where I had a 1/2 cup of trader joes frozen elote corn mixed in with 4oz of leftover taco meat, lightly seasoned brown beans, half a lime and one 50 cal corn tortilla. I had a pineapple spindrift. This came out to around ~400 calories total.
  • Dinner was 2 cups of minestrone soup with a few saltines thrown in.

Sunday: +1103, my only lesser-potato day

  • I fasted in the morning, only had my morning vitamin gummies and water. I was fairly active for around an hour, going up and down stairs, cleaning the house and doing laundry.
  • We went to the cheese cake factory for lunch to celebrate my partner's birthday with family. I looked at the portions and nutritional info ahead of time. Today was a greedy day where we would each pick our own flavor of cake slice. I planned to divide my food into thirds, with decision to split my beautiful 30th anniversary chocolate cheesecake slice into thirds as well.
    • I slowly nibbled the brown rye bread with a smidge of butter while waiting and chatting for the meal. Food service was pretty slow, though the table bread quickly refilled, and I ate too much bread in summary. That's 5 more slices than the two I budgeted for. Oops.
    • I savored my meal, and was sure to put 2/3rds of my meal into a to-go box. That's lunch for two days this week and I'm very excited for it.
    • I became weak when the cheesecake arrived and had no choice but to eat half of it. I was good at reserving the rest into a box.
      • Also, my partner had a bonus birthday cheesecake slice that the sweet waitress gave to us. That warranted a taste (meaning: 1 slim forkful - the thickness of two fork tines from top to bottom of cake). It was delicious and had a lemon curd filling and toasted marshmallow on top. 🥺 This taste was generously estimated for my log.
    • We took a leisurely walk around the mall afterwards for about an hour, mostly window shopping.
  • We went to see the new Batman movie. I planned to not eat any snacks and just sip on some mint tea during the movie. I wanted the popcorn, so I doled out a couple of handfuls for myself and left the kid and my mans to eat the rest of the jumbo bag.
    • We wanted more sweets that evening while hanging out and the second half of my beloved cheesecake was consumed - oops again. I was able to limit myself to just my slice and not any bonus tastes since I already got to do that earlier.

All in all - I had a particularly rough time calorically on Sunday. I was scared to weigh in Monday, but was pleasantly surprised that my weight had not changed by even a tenth since the weigh-in the morning prior!

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Up a few pounds when you "should be" down? It's ok!

My history of self-sabatoge with weight loss looks a lot like this:

Have a "good" day of following the rules, working out, sticking in my calorie range, only to get on the scale the next morning and have the numbers go up rather than down. Cue a "f** it" day where I shove anything sugary within a 3 mile radius into my mouth and spiral for the rest of the day.

Didn't work super well. Weird!

The fact is - our weight is going to fluctuate 2/3 pounds naturally. Excess water weight / where you are in your cycle / whether you have pooped, all this feeds into it.

There will be frustrating days when the scale progress doesn't match your effort. These are high temptation days to through the towel in.

When I starting reframing my weight as a range rather than one specific number, and mentally preparing ahead of stepping on the scale for any number +/- 2 or 3 pounds, these fluctuations no longer bothered me. I was doing the things I needed to do to see the changes long term, and I was actually able to stick to my plan without self-sabatoging with an emotional roller coaster.

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Sunday, March 6, 2022

The stats around "long term maintenance"(I'm talking 3+ years) are really, really discouraging.

I don't know what spurred me to do it today, but I went down the rabbit hole of articles talking about long term weight loss maintenance.

I don't really follow a "diet" per say- I've permanently adjusted my eating into plant based intuitive eating. If I am not hungry, I don't eat. If I eat, it's something that is mostly a combo of rice and veggies and some protein. Exercise wise I workout with weights and walking/some other cardio 4-5 times a week, gradually increasing weights or reps each week or two. It's steady and slow and something that my body is gradually adjusting to rather than jumping into a 12 week program or a diet because neither of those I have NEVER ever been successful with- this I am even if it's only a few pounds every couple of weeks. I like exercising to get stronger and help manage my anxiety/ADHD and I like eating plant based because it makes me feel good and satisfied.

Anyway I am reading some articles that call long term weight loss maintenance almost impossible even with healthy eating and exercise (which I think is irresponsible journalism, but still discouraging nonetheless), various ones that give a stat somewhere that only between 5 percent and 20 percent of people that don't gain half to all the weight back, and many that call maintenance harder than weight loss.

I guess I would love to hear stories from people that maintained weight loss over the years- what do you think the articles that call it impossible get wrong? What put you in the low successful stat group?

And those of you currently losing weight- I know some of you do Keto or something that you may or may not do for the rest of your life- so what's your "post goal weight plan?" How are you preparing yourself to NOT gain the weight back?

I do feel there is merit and known fact that many people gain the weight back and I think it's foolish to not really take this fact in. I don't think any of us trying to lose 20+ pounds dreamed prior to gaining weight that we would gain that weight. It just... happened. So unless you are actively taking steps and making plans for it to NOT happen, I can see it being extremely easy to become part of the 80%.

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I want to hear about how people got started on their weight loss journey.

Heya. So I hardly ever post or comment on anything on Reddit, but this sub has been inspiring to me. I'm hoping that some people may be able to share some of the things they did on day one that helped them get started on their weight loss journey?

Losing weight has always been difficult for me. I'm a 6ft male and back in 2018 at my peak I believe I weighed somewhere around the mid 260s (lbs). I graduated from college in 2019 and started my career and I actually dropped a ton of weight. It felt like it just melted off while reaching my lowest weight ever at 215 in early 2020. Of course then COVID hit and my routine got really messed up. At the time I had roommates that I think were a big part of getting me active and motivated before the pandemic but we didn't see eye to eye on how to handle things and I moved into a single apartment. Fast forward through quarantine which was unfortunately full of anxiety and depression (from which I have always struggled) and I have now found myself in 2022 at a weight of 281.

I'm at a point now where I know I can't keep making excuses. I need to make a change but I'm struggling to get started. It's this weird situation now where I'm so ashamed that I avoid going out which obviously means I'm even less active. When I am trying to be active I get ashamed that I can't do the same things I could do at 215lbs and I just stop. I get so in my head about it, I actually turn to more food to cope (and this has unfortunately been a coping mechanism for me since I was very young). I don't know how many people here have been in a similar situation but it's a nasty spiral I need to get myself out of....

So.... Here I am. Again, I'd love to hear from people on how they got themselves started on their journey. If there's anyone who's been in a similar spiral like what I'm in now I'd love to hear how you got out.

Thanks 🙏❤️

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A month into a caloric deficit and all I want to do tonight is eat

F 5’2/ SW 151 lbs/ CW 139.8/ GW 115

I started my (second) weight loss journey a month ago. I’m a very motivated person when I have my mind to something and I’ve had no trouble at all sticking to my calories. (I’ve been doing around 1200 a day)

Today though I’ve been having so much trouble. I felt so hungry so I ate my dinner already. I still have calories left over, but the problem is I don’t even think I’m hungry. I think I just really want to eat.

I haven’t had this problem before. All I can think about is having some crackers and chocolate and pasta and fries. I do not restrict what I can eat and I usually do have a small amount of sweets and chips every day so I am so confused why this is happening and what to do.

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