Sunday, March 13, 2022

Medically assisted weight loss without the woo-woo?

TLDR; Does anyone here have experience with medically assisted weight loss programs? I’m looking for something with weekly check ins, at least one medical professional, and a dietitian that doesn’t push a really out there diet like juice cleanses, low carb, etc. Just normal, healthy eating with reasonable portions. A focus on fitness would also be nice. I like the idea of a long term support system that isn’t weight watchers or Jenny Craig or whatever.

Long version:

Over the course of my life, I’ve gained 100 pounds four times and lost it three times. One of those times was through intuitive eating, the other two times was through classic CICO. Regardless, each time I gained the weight back. I have a very hard time maintaining my weight once I lose it, and I’ve been considering more intensive (and invasive) measures to ensure this time is different.

I do have diagnosed binge eating disorder that I’ve addressed with therapy, dietitians, outpatient, and PHP multiple times in my life. It’s been four months since my last binge and six months since I started my last round of treatment for BED. I also take vyvanse and topamax which have been helpful. At this point, I’m considered in remission. However, eating disorders are fickle and I know it could pop up again. I do have a support system if it does.

I started looking into bariatric surgery as my next step, specifically the gastric sleeve. My thought process was based on the 5 year statistics available for the surgery compared to my own track record. Patients who get the surgery on average only gain back 50% of their excess weight after 5 years. I’ve always gained back 100% (and studies show something along the lines of 80-90% of people gain back all the weight they’ve lost, so I fit right into that statistic). 50% vs 100% of my excess weight would be a huge win for me! I’m all good with that. My doctors were happy with my decision to get the surgery. So were my parents.

But then I had a really unpleasant session with my therapist, who specializes in eating disorders. She believe that regardless of remission status, no one with an eating disorder should ever get bariatric surgery. The mere suggestion of it earned me a referral back to PHP (partial hospitalization). Now I feel like I’m making the wrong decision, and I’m looking for alternatives. All I know is now would be a really inappropriate time to go back to PHP. Patients in the program are expected to maintain their current weight. They up your calories if they see that you are losing, and if you don’t finish your meal they force you to drink Ensure before you can leave the meal room. Exercise is actively discouraged in case it triggers binging. I don’t see how any of this will be helpful when my eating disorder is in remission. I’m trying to move on with my life.

As far as I see it, I’ve done everything right. I addressed my eating disorder. Now I need to lose weight. I’m heavy, I’m unhealthy, I will feel better in a smaller body. I’m not married to the idea of bariatric surgery, though I thought it might be a good tool for longer term results, but I’m open to other suggestions.

One thing I’ve heard of is medically assisted weight loss. Something with weekly check ins and long term commitment. I just don’t want “weird” diet things. Like keto only, or juice cleanse only, or cabbage soup diet only. Does anything like this exist? Has anyone had any lucky with? My PCP doesn’t know a thing about nutrition and recommended I try the Whole 30 or whatever. Most dietitians I found were very against calorie counting, particularly when they found out my history of BED. However, I work hard on my BED and it’s not a constant in my life. I’ve only had it show up during very stressful times, and it generally only lasts for around 6 months. It’s not triggered by calorie counting. I’ve had 3 BED episodes, none of which had any relation to restriction. It was always after I moved or changed jobs or experienced a death of a family member. Life changing, often traumatic events.

Anyway, sorry for the long rant. I’ve already start counting calories on LoseIt and I’m down 10 pounds. I’m not as worried about the weight loss as I am about the long term maintenance. Normally this wouldn’t be stressful decision for now… but I have to decide soon because I just barely have the BMI for bariatric surgery. If I lose much more it won’t be an option.

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Why did I lose so much this week and is it concerning?

Hi all. Started my journey early January. 23F, 5’7, SW: 165.2, CW: 152.6, GW: 145

I started my weight loss journey exactly 9 weeks ago and have been steadily losing between 0.5 lbs and 1.5 lbs every week. I weigh myself every day. This week, I lost 4.8 lbs and I have no idea why. I weighed myself every morning and went down between 0.5 and 1 pound every day.

I did not change my water intake (minimum 48 oz every day) or activity level. In fact, I decreased my exercise from running/strength training, to only walking between 30 minutes and 1.5 hours every day. I consumed a little less calories than previous weeks, averaging 1,500, but definitely not enough that it should result in that much of a loss. (As a note, I measure as much as I can but tend to overestimate if I don’t measure).

Is this concerning in any way? The only other thing I can think to add that might be relevant is that I had my period this week, but in previous months that did not affect my weight loss.

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NSV: to-go lady at my sushi place asked if i lost weight!

i’m documenting this because very few people have noticed my weight loss and it’s been a hard week not binging. i went to my favorite sushi place that i haven’t been to in several weeks and the to-go lady that usually serves me asked if i’ve lost weight 🥺🥺 i haven’t had very many people notice my weight loss so far. i’ve lost 30 pounds so far (which is huge for me) but i’ve been stuck at 215 for over a month now. it’s such a reassuring feeling that it’s noticeable. for a while i was discouraged because i felt like it wasn’t noticeable at all.

even though my weight loss is stalling for right now, i feel so glad to be maintaining and not gaining.

making small choices daily has helped me so much. instead of two sushi rolls today i got one.

congrats to me!

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Saturday, March 12, 2022

I'm tired of being tired

My post title says it all. I am tired of being tired from being overweight. When I was a young teenager, I was slim and fit. I couldn't hit a baseball for anything but on the off chance that I walked, I could steal a base without breaking a sweat because I was so fast. I could go on a 50 mile backpacking trip without being winded. Now I'm in my 30s and with the weight gain in my 20s, there went the energy I once had. Back in November, I began making an effort at weight loss and it started great. I lost about ten pounds from early November to Christmas. Then my old nemesis, anxiety, got in the way. Since my mid 20s, I've struggled with medical anxiety and became completely convinced that some symptoms I was dealing with were indications of cancer, regardless of how irrational I knew I was being. Every time I would lose weight, I would convince myself that it couldn't be from my own efforts, I had to be sick. I finally worked up the courage to see a doctor about my issues, and was definitely given a non-cancer diagnosis. My battles with anxiety are something I will continue to address but I am glad to be at a point where I have conquered one of my biggest issues/fears and can lose the pounds without the anxiety. So I'm back to around 197 pounds, and this day one kinda sucks. The hunger pangs are annoying, but I know it will pay off to get back at it. I know I can lose the pounds. My last effort was my best in years and I know I can do this. So day 1 is almost in the books. I've got this.

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Advantages and disadvantages of losing weight quickly and slowly?

Hello everyone,

I'm a 22-year old female, I come from England. I'm 23 stone 13 pounds and 5 foot 9.5 inches tall. I'm feeling really disappointed within myself because since January 1st 2022, I was about 24 stone 4 pounds. I haven't lost as much weight as I would have of liked to. I'm feeling really disappointed with myself as I know I could lose a lot more weight than this. At my highest weight I was 25 stone, this was back in 2021 (can't remember which month).

I've lost a lot of weight before, so I know I can lose weight, but for some reason it's not coming off now?! I'm going for walks nearly everyday, I've cut down all fast food and food delivery services, and I'm trying to drink more water. I'm not counting calories because I feel like it leads me to binge and eat more.

I'm just so sick and tired of being morbidly obese, but I'm not losing anything. I feel tired all the time which I think is to do with being morbidly obese. I also have some mental health issues which I'm currently getting treatment for. However, I feel so much pressure at the moment as my family are going away in August for a holiday. There will be a lot of theme park rides and I know I won't be able to fit in them unless I've lost weight. I need to ideally be 17 stone by August. I'm thinking of eating about less than 800 calories a day to prompt fast weight loss. I know when I have the hungry feeling that I'm possibly losing weight. I then starve myself further until the morning. And I'm weighing myself every single day just hoping I've lost a few pounds. I'm also drinking about 3 cans a day of Coke Zero so I don't get hungry until the morning. At night, when I'm sleeping, I am literally starving, but I don't eat because that would be bad for the morning weigh-in.

Should I join the gym and have 3 meals a day instead? I want to lose weight quickly and stop feeling so low in life.

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Weight loss journey intact. Want to see if i'm proceeding to my next cut okay.

Hello,

Backstory. Covid depression got me down bad. I ballooned to 355 lbs.

Over this last summer started tracking calories, doing keto, and practicing IF. Walked a little.

Weight melted over 4 months and I lost 50 pounds. Not bad.

I took a break, not over eating, but not going as hard as I was with diet until about a month and a half ago.

Instead of doing keto and IF this time I'm simply prioritizing protein, and allowing a moderate amount of fats.

Stats

34/M 5'10.5 (ish) 307 lbs.

Current macros

80g carbs

225g protein

94g fat

Maintenance is 2610 calories and daily intake for weight loss is ~2110 calories according to my calculator.

Eating more veggies and mostly lean protein. (thank you airfryer)

I've been going at this for weeks and my weight has only oscillated between 303 and 310.

I'm in a 500 calorie deficit, walking a few times a week and lifting weights at home.

Yet there's no weight loss. I know it's never going to be an overnight sensation but I can't help but feel I'm doing something wrong. I know lifting weights changes things slightly, but even after a month I expected to see some progress.

Also supplementing with a solid multivitamin and magnesium.

No alcohol, no foods I'm not logging unless I take a day off from tracking (where I still don't overeat).

I'd really prefer to not go back to keto because it's so intensely limiting.

Thanks for your time.

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is it possible to drop to a bmi of 20 when you've been around 25-28 your whole life?

for my whole life, i oscillated between 25 and 28 (bmi). I'm a 26 year-old woman. i have pcos but I don't think I have insulin resistance. i was never tested for it, though. I've been counting calories for 2 weeks and I lost 8 lbs. no exercise.

do you think it's possible for me to have a bmi of 20?

when do you think I'll hit a plateau?

is a bmi of 20 an unrealistic goal considering my past?

is there anyone who had been slightly overweight for a long time and later lost a significant amount of weight and managed to keep it off for a long time?

i wish success and health to everyone in their weight loss journey.

any tip will be appreciated <3

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