I (29F) have lost 60 pounds (From 200 to 140). And I'm not done yet, but I'm just so confused about my mom's reaction.
I visited her a week ago. And she said nothing. She is one of the biggest reasons why I have eating problems, but a part of me still wanted her approval. So I embraced myself for positive comments, but nothing came. She always comments on my weight. When I went through a divorce I was in a very dark place and I lost about 5 pounds in a week. And she even then commented ''to keep going, because I looked great''. Well, unfortunately I can not divorce every week, so that was a very stressful comment. And of course I gained the 5 pounds back.
However, now I'm in a very happy place and continuing to lose the weight the healthy way, there is radio silence. She even told me that she wanted to buy me a tailored dress (not unusual), but then proceeded to say. You can always call me if you do want the dress because I already have your measurements from 2 years ago. Okay? Well obviously I am a little different now? Or is it not that obvious? Even though I am disappointed, I am also very confused and want to know what your insight is about this?
I don't want to ask her yet, because discussing my weight loss is still uncomfortable for me.
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