Tuesday, July 23, 2019

something they don’t tell you about weight loss

hello! this is my first time posting here, and i’m on my phone so sorry for formatting issues background information, i am a 17 year old girl and i’ve been on a weight loss journey for 2 years now, followed a lot of diets and finally found something that works now and i’ve been losing weight in a pretty ok pace. i weight around 172-176 pounds (water weight fluctuates) and i’m 159 cm. i’ve lost around 20 pounds, but i went from an XL to a medium.

I’ve been reflecting over something for quite a while now. When i was fatter, i used to think a lot about weight loss and how much happier and more confident i was going to be if i just lost the weight. But now that i am more than halfway to my goal, i found myself becoming unhappier and unhappier with the way i looked. i realized that the more weight you lose. the higher standards of yourself you get. the more you “erase” your flaw, the more flaws about yourself you’re going to notice. i found myself comparing myself to others who lost weight quicker, and who looked a lot better than me. This can, and in my case did quickly lead to an unhealthy obsession with the way you look.

i would always read about weight loss and the success stories of people who lost weight, but i don’t think this was talked about enough, that focusing on your mental health and your mindset is just as important as focusing on your actual physical weight loss, because this will he the leading factor to your happiness.

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It works!

I've been a lurker here for a long time. I loved reading the motivational stories, and daydreaming that it could be me some day. I work a Fairly physical job, and walk 527 miles a day at work despite that I was gaining for maintaining 350 + pounds. I always told myself that I was overweight, but I was athletic so I wasn't unhealthy. As I've gotten older things have become more difficult. My knees and hips ache, and I just can't do the kind of work that I used to Still, nothing ever convinced me that it was time to start losing. Then last month something clicked.

I just decided one afternoon that I was tired of eating junk all the time. I was tired of being miserable trying to chase my kids around. I quit beer, sodas, and fast food cold turkey. In a split second I decided that I'd had enough and I changed my entire lifestyle. Luckily my wife indulged me, and began to help select and cook healthy dinners. While she would still eat junk for breakfast and lunch (we eat these meals at different times) she committed to making better choices at dinnertime. After a couple of weeks of seeing me be fully committed to counting every calorie, and the weight loss victories that came with it, she got fully on board. Now a month into my weight-loss Journey, she and I revel in each other's successes. I'm down 30 pounds, and feel great. She's down 10, and is really beginning to hit her stride. At my heaviest I was 355 lb. When I started my weight-loss Journey I was close to 340. Because of cico and IF 16:8 / 18:6 my pre-diabetes is also in check. MFP and Samsung health (with my smart watch) have really made it easy to stay honest with myself and track everything.

I feel like I've unlocked determination that I didn't even realize I still had. I believe in the power of this community. Even for someone who lurked here for years and never joined in, it was seeing success in others that finally made me decide to change. If I can do this, you can do this.

The best time to plant a tree is twenty years ago. The second best time is today.

TLDR: Long time lurker, first time faster. Y'all mean a lot, even to people that haven't started yet.

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I eliminated (for the most part) Soft Drinks from my diet a month or so ago and I'm starting to feel a lot different..

A little back ground information, I'm a male, 26 years old around 6 foot 1 and I'm not entirely sure about what my weight is. Last weight in was pretty big, I was around 280 - 300 lbs.

I WAS Drinking almost an entire 2 liter of Soda every day and it has been this way for a few years with a very sedentary life style. It started when I turned 21 / 22 and got a management position at a local fast food place, got hooked on soft drinks since I was there for 8 - 10 hours a day and they were free and I ended up building a really really bad habit. I drank very little, or no water at all for the majority of this period in time.

A month or a little over ago I got tired of it. I just looked in a mirror and for a moment I saw where my life was headed and I wanted to try and be a bit better.

So I did it. I cut Soda as best as I could. I realized a while ago quitting something cold turkey is not super easy and can often result in total failure so I try not to beat my self up if I drink 1 16 oz Soft drink every now and again (Usually anywhere between 3 days to a week apart) the longer I got, the larger the gap between drinking them gets. I've just heavily been drinking water. I think its quite the improvement. Down from a 2 liter a day, to maybe a 16 oz every couple of days to a week.

In the last week or so I've been feeling completely different. I feel more awake, I don't sleep for nearly as long as I have been. I used to call out of work a lot because I'd be just tired all the time, but I actually volunteered for more days this week and am looking forward to getting out of my house. (I no longer work fast food) I find it really hard to actually sit down on my computer and play games like I used to. I've actually been really not liking the whole sitting around thing and have been trying to find ways to get out more.

Its almost like I woke up from a really long sleep.

I'm a little surprised by all this, I didn't think cutting soft drinks would have this kind of effect on me, but I have some questions.

Is this normal to feel like this after the removal of such a large intake of liquid sugar? Given the amount of Soda I WAS drinking, what kind of weight loss should I be seeing with a somewhat active job (on my feet for 6 - 8 hours, stretching, lifting, squatting) Should I be concerned?

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After 2 years of maintenance, I’m back and ready for my next challenge

I used this subreddit two years ago and I lost 50 pounds. It changed my life. I felt good in my skin, enjoyed clothing shopping, and finally developed confidence in relationships/dating.

After the weight loss, I kinda plateaued at around 140 lbs. I was really happy though and didn’t feel like I needed to keep restricting 1200 calories a day. With everything I learned from counting/CICO, I’ve been able to maintain my weight without having to count/weigh my food for the past two years.

Here I am now and I’m ready for an upgrade. I want to feel even better in my skin, feel comfortable in crop tops and shorts, and feel even more confident in relationships/dating. I want to cut off the extra fluff and become strong. Also, I kinda miss doing this, since it definitely takes up a lot of time and it’s productive.

I’m ready to rejoin this community and appreciate any tips/support about getting “stubborn” weight off. I realize that this time around, the weight won’t come off as quickly.

My stats: I’m a 5’ 8” woman I was 22 and went from 189 lbs to 139 lbs. Now I’m 24, hover around 140, and my goal for now is 125

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I walked today, just because I wanted to

This may seem insignificant, but it's a huge victory to me, and I wanted to share it with r/loseit because this community has inspired me to start losing weight, and I'm beyond grateful for everyone in this community.

I started on my journey about a month and a half ago, starting at 310. I'm now down to 288, so I've lost a total of 22 pounds. I've been doing only strength training since the beginning, with plans to start cardio that I never seem to act upon. But today, that's changed.

After having gone to my gym, as I was walking back to my car, I decided instead to walk to a local park. Not for weight loss or any weight related reason - I just felt like walking. As far as I can remember in my life, that has NEVER happened.

Once I got to the park, I walked around the park entirely (a two and a half mile trail) twice, feeling amazing for the length of the walk. It doesn't feel like much, but to me, it's a massive step in the right direction. Thank you to all of you in the r/loseit community for continually giving me a source of inspiration to continue, and for letting me share my small victories with you all. I don't think I ever would have taken that walk without you.

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Want to Shrink Your Belly? Stop Doing These 6 Things

Losing weight can change your whole self-image, helping you feel better about yourself and your appearance. But even when you stick to your weight loss plan and steadily shed excess pounds, belly bloat can spoil your results. How can you get the flat belly you want? Battle the bloat and shrink that belly by avoiding these common causes:

1. Eating Fast

When you’re feeling very hungry, you may be so eager to satisfy your appetite that you wolf down your food. But when you eat fast, you tend to swallow a lot of air along with the food. Air in your stomach can noticeably bloat your belly. The excess air will pass or dissipate eventually, but for a few hours it can leave you with a swollen gut.

Bonus: Taking time to chew your food thoroughly and eat slowly lets you enjoy the food more and, studies show, discourages overeating.

Count your bites, lose weight?

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2. Chewing Gum
There are lots of reasons for chewing gum. It can refresh your breath, relieve dry mouth and even help stave off hunger. But when you chew gum—or suck on hard candy—you swallow more often than you would otherwise. And because there is no food to swallow, you take in even more air than when you eat.

3. Drinking Soda
Carbonation makes fizzy drinks fun, but the bubbles can cause belly bloating. Even diet soda or low-calorie flavored seltzer can produce a paunch. Try drinking peppermint tea—hot or cold—because it aids digestion, further reducing the risk of bloat. Want some help cutting back on soda? We can help!

10 Reasons to Battle Belly Fat — and How to Do It!

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4. Consuming Artificial Sweeteners
Sorbitol, xylitol and other sweeteners found in sugar-free foods are carbohydrates that some complain can generate gas in your digestive tract, leaving you with a bloated belly. If sweets are what you’re after but you want to lose weight, opt for foods that are naturally sweet, like fruit. If you’re looking to add a little sweetness to your morning cup of joe, sprinkle in some Stevia, a natural sweetener with no calories.

5. Eating Wheat and Dairy
Even people who don’t have allergies or food intolerances can experience excess gas and belly bloat from consuming common foods containing flour or milk. As your body ages, its capacity to digest wheat and dairy products can change significantly, so food you have enjoyed in the past may cause you discomfort now. If you find that your belly blows up a bit after consuming either of these foods, try minimizing their role in your diet to see if doing so has a positive impact on your midsection.

The Show-Down of the Sugars: Added vs. Natural

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6. Over-salting
Salt is essential to your health, but too much can cause your body to retain water and make your belly look bigger. The salt shaker on your table isn’t the only source of sodium in your diet—processed foods can contribute lots of sodium to your diet as well. When grocery shopping, check product labels to be sure that they are, like the Nutrisystem program, aligned with the United States Department of Agriculture’s (USDA’s) recommendation for the general adult population—2,300 milligrams or less of sodium daily. Get the skinny on the sodium content in Nutrisystem diet foods right here.

Craving more belly-blasting tips? Read this article to find out six foods that will help you battle belly fat, get some belly-friendly recipes here, or try these five yoga moves for a whittled middle. Still not enough? Enter the word “belly” into the search bar in the top right-hand corner of this page, and get a full arsenal of flat belly and weight loss tips!

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I don't like talking about my diet.

(Apologies in advance if this type of post doesn't belong here!)

I'm back on my weight loss journey after a one-month-long hiatus due to exam season & some mental health issues. This sub is a great motivator! But, now that I'm back on track, I'm reflecting on why I don't really like talking about dieting, particularly with those who haven't experienced it (healthily, at least).

I feel like talking about it always leads to one or more of the following:

  • People giving unsolicitied advice. What's worse is that these same people usually don't have any idea what they're talking about.

My mom thinks that counting calories and measuring food "is too much" and useless, because she believes that I could achieve the same results if only I stopped eating after 6 PM, exercised more, and (my favorite) drank lemon water on an empty stomach each morning. However, she's also the person who (figuratively) pushes fatty meals down my throat regularly and encourages me to empty my plate despite me being full already. I really don't understand logic and at this point I try to avoid the topic entirely.

  • People assuming you dislike / hate your current self. Some people (particularly those who might not like you much) will simply put on a pitiful look, as if you just told them you'd like to grow fairy wings or something. Others will hijack the conversation and turn it into one about their struggles with their body image, often in really negative ways ("lmao same i look like a whale!!"). This makes me really uncomfortable for the same reasons as the next scenario.

  • People starting circlejerks about weight, weight loss, and how they wish they looked like XYZ celebrity. This one is especially true in all-female settings, at least in my experience. Here you'll get a combo of unsolicited advice, objectively thin people moaning about how fat they are, ideas of dubious or unhealthy weight loss methods thrown around nonchalantly ("fit tummy tea"), and worrying amounts of normalized self-hatred.

I found that these conversations don't really achieve anything, and, in fact, leave me feeling worse after. It makes me feel like no matter what I look like, I'll always find something to want to change about my appearance, just like them. Or that no matter how good I will ever feel about my looks, everyone, including women, will compare themselves and others to pictures that belong on /r/instagramreality. It leaves me feeling like there's no way to win this self-esteem game.

Luckily, my childhood best friend just lost a ton of weight (more than 40 pounds, I believe) and trying to lose some more, so I have her whenever I need a more down-to-earth approach to weight loss.

Has anyone experienced similar scenarios, or others as bad as them? Did it discourage you from talking about your journey?

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