Saturday, October 19, 2019

Needing some advice

Hwy everyone hope y’all are doing well!

I need some help in reloading some weight.

I’ve was diagnosed as anorexic in February, and I’ve been in therapy for it. However I’m not what you think of when you think anorexic.

I’m a 38 year old man who has a BMI over 30.

Over the last 7 months I’ve been gaining weight and i despise it I hate being told that some people are bigger. I’m tired of being told that my weight is fine, and I’m tired of being told to stop worrying about my weight.

I have an obese BMI and I’m done being told it’s ok. I’m tired of people saying that BMI is not a good indicator of health when every medical professional in my life uses it. I hate the mixed messages.

So, I’ve ditched the people telling me that eating “normally” is ok, and back to get serious about this.

Previously, I lost 170 pounds and I was on the edge of Obese/Overweight BMI when I had a feinting episode and forced into “recovery.”

I’ve gained 30 of it back through “recovery” and therapy and I feel it’s a complete joke. I want to lose 75 pounds so that I’m within a normal persons BMI range.

In the past, I’ve done CICO + Keto + fasting and I found that this is the only way I can effectively lose weight. My issue is that I’ve let others convince me that I was anorexic as a result and I’ve fallen off the wagon.

I am also have been walking 3-4 miles a day, but I’m upping that to 6-8 miles now, and climbing the steps at work (I work on the 27th floor of my building so it’s not just sounding like I’m doing something) so that I can keep the weight loss going.

I am (re)cutting out carbs, sweets and snacks, and take out foods that lent to over eating. No more pasta, no more bread, no more restaurant food or takeaways. No more processed foods.

It’s easiest for me to have very prescribed foods and Portion amounts every day. I’m perfectly fine having the same food each day and frankly, it’s preferred. When I lost the 170 pounds, I basically ate the same menu for 8 months.

I don’t want to get bogged down into fat logic, I don’t want to be told it’s ok to be obese, I don’t want to be told that dieting is bad or that restricting my food isn’t safe. If people can lose 200+ pounds, so can I. I can CICO very well when I determined to do it.

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Or even a basic meal plan where I can have a meal for under 500 calories.

Thanks so much.

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Tips for staying on track PLEASE?

Hey!

So I'm a university student on a weight loss journey (aren't we fucking all?). Last year I lost around 20lbs while at school (eating ~1600 cal/day, working out 4-6 days/week) and then gained it all back when I went back to live at my parents' house over the summer break.

It's super easy for me to stay on track when I'm at school because I'm in complete control of what I do and don't eat -- if there's something I know I'm going to binge on, I just don't buy it and the problem is gone. I only make exactly the portion of food I'm going to eat and no extra for seconds. My schedule is firm. It just works.

When I'm back at my parents' house though, everything is thrown off. There's always everything the fat girl inside me wants to eat -- cheese, cookies, WINE, ice cream, and at every meal my mom makes enough for each person to have seconds (which I can't resist). Every time I go back there it's like I'm in highschool again and I remember how I got fat in the first place.

So anyway, that was my long winded way of asking: Does anyone have any tips for staying on track/not bingeing when you're out of your normal routine (and every fattening food you could possibly want is right in front of you in huge quantities)?

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Lost 13 lb this month, giving myself cheat days when I need them!

Hey guys!
I just felt like posting today in order to remind myself of my progress and also to share what I have learned! I have recently hopped back into my weight loss routine, but this time it is different. I'm not beating myself up when I eat Chinese food or a cookie. I am not crying in the bathroom and deciding "screw this I am going to eat everything in the fridge" whenever I go 400 calories over my goal for the day. I simply am allowing myself to have days where I eat what I like. foods I love into my plan on top of foods that I know help me stay on track. I lost 13 lb this month! It is working so well. Every day I think "I am so ready and excited to feel good wearing a crop top this December, I am SO CLOSE!", and for some reason it is finally clicking. That motivation is helping me make better choices every day, and it makes my occasional cheat day stay at just that, and. not. turn into 5 days of emotional binges. I want to fuel my body properly, I want to give it the love and nourishment I deserve.

Don't get me wrong, there are days where I go overboard. For instance, today I feel a little discouraged about what I ate. I just finished a crazy 7 week "semester" and my daughter had an ear infection, and I am straight up worn out. My friend brought us pizza. Then. my Dad brought a Latte and Chinese food. Then I had a cookie. Before this. would have made me feel terrible, but now I totally enjoy it, let sit happen, and then keep eating healthy and staying on track.
Because I have had a few days like this while losing weight, I have come to realize the biggest thing when it comes to losing weight (for me): It is okay, and healthy to have a day where you eat like crap, try to make it in moderation, but if you have a day where your eating is all over the place, that is fine! Enjoy it. Meet it with acceptance! Don't sit and think "UGH I am SO FAT, this SUCKS, WHY AM I EATING THIS?!"! And then, pick yourself up the next do and KEEP PUSHING YOURSELF. This is so important. You didn't "ruin" your entire plan to lose weight just because you got a little wild in the Crab Rangoons one night. You have to enjoy it, suck it up, and keep going, and oh my god, the weight will melt off!
I am saying all of this knowing full well that it is a hundred times easier said than done when you have been following a psychological battle with food your whole life, and if you are like me, who has always had an "ALL or NOTHING" relationship with food, you have to literally learn a new outlook, relationship, and way of interacting with food (lmao sounds silly, but seriously) in order for this to work.

I have never approached weight loss this way, and I could cry, because I feel years of binge disorders, anorexia, bulimia, being so pissed off about my weight and so confused on how to eat and love and nourish myself, just washing away. I finally feel free!

Thanks for reading this rant! Xoxo

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I need help with a sugar addiction.

Sugar dependency? I dunno. Either way, I've got a major sweet tooth that's slowing down my weight loss. Turns out even if I'm only eating 1200 calories a day, my body still gets mad at me when 60% of those calories come from sweets.

I wanted to try going cold turkey altogether for a couple of weeks but broke that streak on the first day. I'm thinking I'll try to limit myself to 2-3 sweet things a week, but I feel like I need more tools and knowledge to be able to stick to that goal, if it even is a good one.

What are ways to manage this craving, or to work around it? How to I actually manage to not put sweets in my body, beyond just... not putting sweets into my body, lol. Break it down for me, please. I need help.

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My breakdown on diets.

So I've been dieting for the past 2-3 years and I've lost 140 lbs. Along the way I have tried pretty much every diet in existence. Keto, HCG, Cleanses, IMF, etc.

First and foremost I'm not trying to refute any scientific claims or am I trying to deter anyone from a diet that is working for them. I couldn't care less if you're drinking the purple brew from a leprechaun's shoe, as long as you're getting healthy.

What I did want to know is why these diets seem to work. Was there really a magical hormone that targeted fat? Could I trick my body into entering some sort of ultimate metabolic state? Maybe...

Here's what I do know...evidence and claims for weight loss is all over the place. Its a multi-million dollar industry and unfortunately, people will say whatever to make money (even doctors). I decided to break down my knowledge of energy into the most fundamental form....whatever excess we put in gets stored, whatever excess we use up gets taken out. I used this knowledge to break down how these diets work and why they're successful.

My first experience was with the HCG diet. The idea behind it is that you take some pregnancy hormone and stick to a very stringent diet (500 kcals) you would lose a pound a day. My friend told me about it and so I jumped on board. The diet turned out to be legit, I was losing a pound a day and became a huge advocate.

We would spend so much time going out of our way to stick to this ridiculous diet and then inject HCG hormone into our behinds every morning (seriously). One day, I watched a documentary on a guy who was losing weight by simply eating calorie regulated portions of fast food. He was eating the worst of the worst, but never over 2,000 kcal. This made me wonder how much of this HCG diet was actually real.

I decided to come up with my own 500 calorie diet. It was similar in design to the HCG but with much more food options and no injections. I discovered that I lost weight at exactly the same rate. With this in mind, I did a bit more research to see what the HCG was actually for in terms of dieting. I found information saying that it was an appetite suppressor all the way to a hormone that targets belly fat (by a bunch of random HCG advocates). I also discovered that, the person who invented the diet and then resurfaced it were nothing but con men. I decided that the HCG was a pointless placebo and never used it again. It was the 500 calorie diet that was the real bread winner. With this new knowledge in mind, it helped me break down other diets I came into in the future.

The next diet I experienced were cleanses. You drink some lemonade or magic juice from some plant from Alaska with something secret in it and you lose 10 lbs in 3 days...something like that. How could a lemonade possibly cause your body to expend nearly 2 weeks worth of energy in 3 days? Something to do with toxins right? Well, even if you cut your calories to 0, if you are passively burning 2,500 kcals a day, it is impossible to burn 35,000 calories with this method in 2-3 days. So losing 10 lbs on a lemonade diet is just not possible.

I started to think more about this, where were these extra pounds coming from? I remember that at the start of the HCG diet, they would instruct you to have a gorge day (where you at as much of what you wanted) and over the next few days you would magically lose 10 lbs. What I started to realize (and a lot of people have trouble wrapping their head around this) is that if you eat an apple that weighs 1 lb, you are going to gain 1 lb until you body poops out the excess matter. This means that if you eat 3-4 lbs of food a day and it takes about a day to digest, you're probably always holding a descent amount of fecal matter (or undigested food) inside of you, especially if you're overeating. With the lemonade diet, you don't eat for 2-3 days and your body is completely clear of any fecal matter that would normally be going through the digestion process. This can possibly attribute to 2-3 lbs, maybe even more, of weight loss. Well, as soon as you started eating normally again, that fecal weight would be accounted for and you would jump back up 2-3 lbs. The other thing is that depriving your body of sodium and carbs can actually cause you to drop in water weight which can also attribute to a portion of the "weight" you've lost.

The part of the cleanse that actually works is the intermittent fasting portion of it. You are basically cutting your calories to nothing for those 2-3 days which awards some genuine weight loss. You don't need a magical lemonade in order to do this. You can intermittently fast with just regular lemon water (cayenne pepper if you're feeling cute). Whether you choose to do a cleanse or just a regular IF session, you can expect the same results. You will lose a lot of water weight and fecal matter and some actual fat as well. (I'm not suggesting you IF btw, that's something you should talk to a professional about)

The next diet is Keto. Being that this is the most popular, I'm going to get the most hate for this one. Before you guys bash me to death, please realize that I do believe in the evidence of ketones in the body and I get why this type of diet is extremely useful in the fitness community. What I don't buy into, is the hype of all of it. We've experienced many forms of the keto diet in the forms of the atkins and paleo diet, even the hcg diet was borderline keto. All these diets worked perfectly fine without forcing your body into some ketogenic state. So what is it about these low carb diets that work so well? Well, carbs can carry a lot of water weight so that's definitely part of it, but what I think makes people so successful at these types of diets is the food selection limitations.

Most of the foods that are easily accessible to us have carbs. Ordering a protein burger at most places makes you sound like a complete weirdo. Everything has a bun, has sauce on it, or has potatoes on the side. Because we avoid these types of foods, we avoid the convenience of being to eat whatever and whenever. Most of the places we were eating before are now off limits.

These diets almost always force us to start making our own meals and measuring how much food we're consuming. When we start keeping track of what we put in, we start to keep track of what we put out. We're using apps and now all of the sudden people are keeping track of their progress, and I think it's a huge part of the success behind all of it.

So be basic, get the app, keep track of everything and the numbers will never lie to you. This worked for me, I really hope it works for you guys too.

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A thread for those of us who's brains are not keeping up with our weight loss progress. (It's a long Post :) )

f/28/sw236.6 -> cw190.0.

I was going to wait until I officially was at 50 pounds lost to say thank you to the community for being a source of motivation over the past year. In February I kind of just decided that it was time to lose weight, so I did. 46 pounds later, an incident at the gym forced me to realize just how much my body has changed.

After a particularly rainy lazy morning I finally got off the couch and made it to the gym. As usual I hopped on the treadmill and just started to run. One mile went by and then a mile and a half... then came two. I finally stopped the treadmill, my brain was concerned that someone my "size" shouldn't be running that far. I honesty thought there must have been something wrong with the treadmill. How tf was it even possible that I just did that? I even felt like I could have gone longer.

I stopped and went to the locker room and started to really look in the mirror. My shirt was way to big, my shorts were falling off, even my bra looked too big. I got into my own head, left the gym, and started to tear up in the car. I have worn the same couple of dresses to work every single day since I started losing weight, I have literally one pair of jeans that fit. My underwear is constantly falling, and I'm always pulling at my shirt.. even though there is nothing to hide. I want to be proud of my progress but I always look so sloppy and the baggy clothes are not helping my self esteem at all. I guess in my head 46 pounds isn't really a big deal and shouldn't be at a point where I need to buy a whole new wardrobe yet, but it seems there isn't another choice. My friends don't get it. "Just buy new clothes!!" they say, but for some reason i can't find a better answer other than "idk it feels weird"

I would love to hear from anyone going through something similar. I think i'll go today and pick up a new outfit to cheer up. Also thank you to this community for being a place of solidarity over the past 9 months.

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weight loss without a scale - new here first post ever

hi!! i am beginning a weight loss journey without weighing myself. i'm a 5'3" woman with a business trip to miami coming up in two months, just trying to look hot in a thong bikini again/for the rest of my life. :) i swore off the scale two years ago after i lost 24 lbs, and made it to 143 from 167. i felt like the constant weighing in was leading to a toxic relationship with my body and a rehashing of OCD related depression and anxiety. not looking at the scale *did* help a lot with that, but i am pretty sure i gained all of the weight back this past 8 months after some big life changes and a new job. i plan on sticking to a low carb diet, cutting back on alcohol, exercising 4x a week, and measuring myself in inches instead of pounds. does anyone have advice/success stories re: weight loss without weighing yourself? suggestions for accountability? is this an unrealistic plan of action? looking for a real lifestyle change, just turned 30 this year and need to stop consuming food and booze like a trash human college student. thanks all!!

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