Friday, October 25, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 25 October 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Weight loss followed by a baby... your experiences?

Hi all!

This seems like a really silly post to make, and I know everyone is different with lifestyles, genetics, age and a lot more! But as I am now firmly into a weight loss regime/lifestyle change, I’m having some concerns and I’d love to hear anyone’s personal experiences or thoughts

I’m almost 32 and I’ve been overweight to some extent probably all of my life - my highest adult weight was 97kg (5 weeks ago) but typically from ages 20-30 I’ve hovered around 80-85kg.

My skin has (well faded) stretch marks on my belly and I’d say I tend to carry a fair bit of my weight there. I’m down to 90kg now and hoping to slowly hit 65kg (or thereabouts, I’ll keep reassessing as I lose) by mid next year - I’ll be 32.5.

I know my skin will never be taut or perfect, but I’m hoping that with good hydration, losing at a sensible pace (7kg in 5 weeks is a fair bit, but it’s early on and slowing down quickly), exercising (cardio and a weights program) and general skin upkeep (lotions and sunscreen) I will minimise the appearance of skin damage as much as I can control with a 30kg weight loss.

My fear is that my partner and I would like to stay trying for a baby around age 33-34 - I’m concerned that weight loss, then another huge skin stretch and rebound, will leave me looking an absolute mess. A bit of loose skin is part and parcel, and I’ve accepted that... I guess I’m wondering if anyone has experience with this? Anything they found to minimise damage?

Thanks in advance all! Such a great community- I don’t post often, but lurk daily and it’s been such a positive influence for me :-)

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Thursday, October 24, 2019

Need to get motivated and just start.

I need to lose weight and quite a bit of it too. Years of emotional eating and bad choices landee me here.

I also some days dont care if I die early (25F). Depression is my biggest hurdle, but I'm trying to work on it. I often view weight loss as black & white - I messed up one day, so let's just restart tomorrow. Then its I don't want to disrupt my week, so I'll start next Monday. It's a rough loop to break.

But I need to improve my health. And to hopefully be a viable liver donor for my mom, who has NAFLD. Right now, she doesn't need a liver but the time is coming within a few years. I know i wont loose weight overnight, but this is enough of a reason to finally get my head in the right place.

Plus I want to travel easier and not be that passenger people look at.

I'm thinking about buying a rowing machine, as I have previously used one and really liked it. I even lost 45 lbs using one and clean eating. I also prefer it more so than walking on a treadmill or using a recumbent bike.

Eating wise, I'm just going to focus on reducing sugar intake and processed foods. Stick to some tried and true low carb meals.

Any tips, friendly words or general advice is welcomed!

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Only 15 more pounds until I’m no longer obese

My weight loss has slowed since the academic year has started, since I have to eat more campus food and spend more time working on homework and less working out; however my weight is still going down pretty steadily, just slower.

I got stuck around 188 for a week or two but now the scale is moving again and I’m down to 185. I had intended to be at 180 by the end of the month but I think it’s gonna take a little longer. That’s ok though! I’m ok with taking my time as long as I’m moving in the right direction.

Once I hit 170, I’ll be officially out of the obese BMI range

I’ve been finding time to run more often lately which feels great. For the first time ever I’m able to run a full 5k without stopping to walk which is really cool. Even before I started loosing weight I liked to run, and being able to run a 5k without walking has been one of my goals from the start.

I’m more healthy and in shape than I have been in a long time and I’m really proud. By this time next year I’ll be at my goal weight, and hopefully even stronger and more in shape than I am now— assuming I stay on track

I’ll get to spend my 20’s strong and healthy, and that’s really special. I’m glad I started working on my health while I’m young.

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I finally got my confidence back after losing 61 pounds.

Hi All! F25 / 5'3 / SW: 240 / CW:179 / GW: 125

https://imgur.com/gallery/P53BNLn

warning, this is going to be a long read.

I have officially lost 60 pounds and i cannot be anymore happy. 7 months ago, I was severely depressed and also had a very low self esteem. For years I had hated the way I had looked and always told my cousin that I was going to lose weight but only to eat good for one day and then go back to my same eating habits. How I started losing weight was sort of an accident. I had started a new logistics job that required of lot walking and lifting packages. One day in March 2019, I weighed myself to see if i had gained weight and to my surprise, I had lost 12 pounds in 3 months. I just continued on until i weighed myself again a month later and realized i had lost another 10 pounds. Thinking something was wrong, I had went to my doctor to have my thyroid checked. Turns out, the reason for my weight loss wasn't due to my thyroid but it was because I had started cooking more at home and not buying a whole lot of fast food. I was still buying sodas and hot Cheetos but i was no longer eating out 5 days a week. My doctor was proud of me but wanted me to lose more weight as I was still classified as obese in class 2. My whole childhood and teenage life I was always skinny. It wasn't until after high school that once I had a job, I would go out and buy fast food everyday despite me living at home with a full fridge of food. My mom used to nag me from buying too much fast food, that I used to hide fast food in my backpack. I never realized how fat I had gotten until I weighed myself years later and saw that I was 166. That was the first time when I knew I needed to lose weight. However, it took years to do something about it.

Back in day, I used to go to the gas station every day and buy Large sodas and small bags of chips. I used to binge eat until I had gotten heartburn's. I got them so bad that I would throw up at work until it was just acid that i was throwing up. I even used to go to my local coffee shop 4 days a week and would buy medium drinks mixed in with red bull. One thing that I was really ashamed of, was when i was flying out to Texas and the seat belt was so tight it was uncomfortable. I was too embarrassed to ask the flight attendant for an extender. So I just dealt with it. When holidays came, I hated taking pictures. I was so ashamed of how far I let my body go.

After losing 20 pounds, I decided i didn't want to gain those pounds back. I wanted to be more confident and be healthy. I was tired of feeling the way i felt about my body. I had two goals in mind. 1. to be 125 pounds and 2. to love myself more. So this is what worked for me. Once i lost those 20 pounds, I decided that I wasn't going to workout yet. In the past, I would restrict myself and workout. It never lasted a day. I didn't want that to happen again, so instead I just continued my routine and started CICO. I started just doing 1200 calories a day and just logged whatever I ate. Even chips and soda. Months later I started to minimize soda to once a week as well as mini chips. Whenever I had the urge to eat out, I just grab Panera Bread and buy a salad. Months later, that's when i started to workout. I did zumba, running, and even cardio at home. It was 3 days a week and a 30 min exercise. I also started to check my weight once a week and to drink zero sugar drinks and teas at Starbucks. Currently I'm doing weightlifting and cardio 3-4 times a week. I also took the leap to take a hip hop class once a week.

Things that I learned while being on my weight loss journey.

  1. High waisted leggings are your best friends. I love them so much because they hide all my fat and the leggings don't fall down when you run.

  2. I learned that when eating on a diet, you don't have to be as strict. just count your calories and have it in portions.

  3. This is not a race. I Learned that I need to eat healthier in the long run and not just for losing weight. Its a lifestyle change

  4. I learned more about the nutrition label and learned when I gained weight, its not fat and just water weight. It happens because i either consumed to much sodium or carbs.

    I still struggle time to time. I struggle when it comes to portions. I still binge even if its healthy. Heck I even binge when i go to my family's when they are having a party. I'm glad that one day won't hurt my progress however my goal is still to to lower my portions. I also struggle with exercise. I hate it but i still try to get at leas 3 to 4 workouts a week. Drinking water is also the hardest for me. I try to drink at least 30 oz a day but there are days where i only have 16 oz. my goal is to drink 60 oz of water a day. Finally, my self esteem is still a struggle. Even though i'm more confident, i still have those thoughts in my head that I am fat and ugly. When i was bigger, i always told myself i would date once i lost the weight. now my mindset has changed. I don't date because i want to focus on myself first. I don't think i can handle dating right now. When I was on tinder, i was afraid to meet my dates because they only saw my face and not my body. i was afraid i would be a liar in their eyes. Now i know that its just my mindset.

Right now, I don't want to date because i want to work on myself mentally and physically. I'm currently in therapy and will continue to work on it with my therapist. I have held myself off for years when it came to dating and hopefully when i'm in a good place, i can go back. What feels good now that i lost weight is the airplane seat belt. I noticed that its not as tight as it used to be and i'm so damn proud of it. My back acne has also cleared up once i started exercising. My depression is not as bad as it used to be but there are still days where i don't want to workout or take showers. Fourthly, my feet no longer hurt as much as they used to be at 240 pounds. they still hurt from time to time but I'm happy! Another plus is fitting into old clothes. I'm kinda sad that I donated half of my closet from back of the day but at least i still have some. Its nice to fit in them again.

So whats next for me? Well, I'm finally taking a dance class that i always wanted to do but out of fear of my weight, I never took the leap. I want to stop drinking diet soda and also drink more water. I'm also thinking about doing crossfit. I did crossfit once at 240 pounds. It was a pain but now that I'm 60 pounds less, I want to start getting back into it.

All in all, i'm happy with my journey and i can't wait to show you guys my progress when i lose 115 pounds.

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I lost 25 lbs!

I am absolutely over the mood and ecstatic!

I am officially 25lbs lighter and at my lightest point in five whole years! I have been focusing on positive thinking and CICO this time around and it has actually been working! Despite all the ups and downs from before that I've suffered through these last few years and my mental and physical health conditions, I am triumphing! My boyfriend and I make a majority of our meals, we focus on eating a ton of veggies and lean proteins because we love our veggies in this household. One of my big hobbies right now is cosplaying in which I make all of my outfits which requires...a lot of physical activity, hunting down of material, physical contortion to make projects as well as a lot of walking during the con season and I think it's actually contributing to the weight loss.

My first appointment with my doctor after my first 15 down my doctor was surprised but excited for me and I can't wait til my next appointment for her to see that I've lost another 10!

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Parents trying to sabotage weight loss

I'm 23 years old and still live at home because I'm in school; my job doesn't really pay enough for me to even rent a place because I can only work 8-12 hours a week. So I have to put up with my parents, if I were under 18 I would think this is borderline abuse tbh. I'm 5'3" and weigh roughly 155-160 pounds, since I have a larger frame my goal is get down to my previous weight of 125 that I had before I started working nights and overeating.

Though I'm significantly smaller than everyone in family I'm still a good 30 pounds overweight, my family are acting as though I'm underweight. My dad deliberately destroyed the scale so I couldn't use it, he tries to make me eat more than anyone else at meal times and even called me a "psycho b***h," and accused me of making myself sick. I still eat around 2500 calories a day and lose a pound a week; at my highest I was eating around 5000 + and I consider myself really lucky that I wasn't larger than I was. I've probably lost more weight since going by my thigh, upper arm and lower waist measurements but can't tell for sure because I don't have a working scale atm.

I have a naturally faster metabolism than everyone in my family and it's clear I'm not meant to be this size or I wouldn't be losing weight on 2500 calories a day and only being lightly active. I'm at a loss for what to do, I can't afford to move out nor do I want to mooch off of my friends but I can't deal with being shamed by someone 5'6" and over 320 pounds for wanting to lose weight (my dad)

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