Monday, October 28, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 28 October 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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having a tough time.

i’m 17, 213 pounds and 5’4. i’ve been overweight my whole life and ever since i can remember weight loss has always been on my mind. i’ve tried to lose weight before but i cant last more than a week. i need help. i’m getting desperate. i just can’t seem to loose weight. i gain around 20 pounds per year and it never stops no matter what i do. i’m getting so sick of myself. i’ve been in a terrible place because of this. my entire family loves making fun of me for my weight and i just go along with it though it really hurts. i want to stop hating myself so much. it’s just really difficult to stay on track because i fail every single time. i’m starting to think i’m incapable of loosing the weight. i don’t want to give up on myself but it’s just really hard. if anyone has any tips please feel free to share! thank you

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Sunday, October 27, 2019

I had an unintentional cheat day... AND I FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT!

I had plans with a friend to help her plan her wedding today and have a girls day. I was also going to go on a long run, since I haven’t done any sort of good run this week.

We ended up going to our local greasy breakfast joint and then out the the movies (popcorn and beer included!). After the movies we went out to sushi, and I ate my heart out. Also enjoying some drinks.

I’ve been slow and steady in my weight loss and have gotten into a very good habit of being consistent with my meals. I needed a day to indulge in things I haven’t for a while, and tomorrow I will be back to my normal healthy habits and (hopefully!) get a good run in.

It’s not fair to deprive ourselves from modern life and experiences, as long as we’ve got our foundation there everything should buff out!

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how to have weight loss motivation?

i'm about 40-50 pounds overweight for my height and am extremely out of shape. i struggle with mental illness a lot which causes a major lack of motivation in everything i do. i know health could be motivation-but for some reason that's never worked for me. i've tried to 'scare' myself into losing weight by reminding myself diabetes runs in my family but i still can't get motivated. i also know i would look better if i lost weight but that doesn't really motivate me either for some reason. the main reasons i'm overweight is because i struggle with emotional eating/binge eating, PCOS, and medication (abilfy) weight gain. i feel like i have too many cards stacked against me and i should just give up. any advice on how to motivate myself and where to start?

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Man with Autism Loses 56 pounds in less than a Year.

My name is William, I am 30 years old, and I have Autism. For those of you who are unfamiliar with Autism, it is a Learning Disability that effects my ability to socialize, communicate, and understand certain things. I am also prone to certain behaviors and challenges that typical people are not.

I am 6, 5". At the beginning of 2019, I weight up to 276 Lbs, due to working Graveyard Shifts, and bad eating habits. I could not stand how I was looking, and the stress was killing me. So I decided to make a change, and committed myself to working out 6 days a week, and eating better.

Here is the video to my Weight Loss Journey: https://youtu.be/Ivh6ztN_ZzA

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Weightloss emocional effects/reactions

Hi, I started getting into weightloss in January of 2018 but didn't start seeing results until January of 2019, and ever since I've been losing a good amount of weight. SW 270 and currently at 187, w/ GW of 160 ish. 6 foot 24 years old male. The last 20 ish lbs I lost were from an unhealthy mentally place.

I live a life of constant travel but normally I stop home for a few days every 4 months or so and last time I had a hard time dealing with the following, therefore would like to rant/ask for advice:

1) How do you react when people comment on your weight loss? I had to show my passport and driver's license to get into two clubs. My family and friends say things about it and I almost feel guilty/ashamed of losing weight. I don't know why I feel ashamed though, it's been a battle! 2) my family doesn't understand I don't eat how i used to and finds offense when I only eat one plate of food, albeit the food is normally very caloric sense etc. They sorta laugh at me and tell me I'm crazy. 3) I'm overwhelmed by food and inactivity in America. Like grossed out by it. I spend maybe 8 weeks a year back in the States and the food and the lack of walking is overwhelming. I'm mostly on rustbelt America when I am there.
4) I'm very concerned for my nephews and their size and all my family for that matter. Is there anything I can do? 5) I don't understand how people can be so nice to you after losing weight. It really, really bothers me, especially with dating, but I know I didn't l wouldn't want to date me either. But there will be guys who didn't talk to me or told me their not into bears( fat gay guy with body hair) all of a sudden interested in me after years of rejection. Or like, I feel like people want to suddenly make conversation with me more ? If that makes sense.

I'm still working really, really hard to lose weight while in Europe (my nemesis is gelato and pasta) yet at the same time enjoy it but I'm returning home again for Thanksgiving and would love some personal storiesnoe tips on how to cope with these aspects of weightloss.

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NSVs - Quitting some damaging habits and hope for future self!

F25/SW200/CW167/GW135 - 33lbs down this morning since around June 2019 and some NSVs that I have noticed in the past month and some this week! Sorry it's a bit of a long post, my first post here.

I've been lurking this sub for a while now and all I can say is wow, I feel so inspired every time I come on here. You people are amazing.

I wanted to share some of the good stuff that has come with my weight loss and makes me so excited to get to my goal weight. In high school I was always fairly active, I've been riding and competing on horseback since I was around 5, so riding horses has always been a large part of my life. In high school it was not unusual for me to wake up early, ride a horse, and come home to ride 2 more that evening. This burned a lot of calories so I was always around the 140lbs mark and muscular. I had a great appetite for a young woman and never worried about what I was eating.

Then came college, an abusive relationship, depression, lack of exercise, a drinking problem, and then a demanding job. I quickly jolted up to the 175-180 mark and stayed for a few years. I left the relationship I hated and moved away with my horses. This spring I finally hit 200 and was so upset with myself. One thing I will say is my fiance I have now (who I met shortly after I left the toxic relationship) has been so incredibly supportive. He has always told me he wants me to be happy with myself first and foremost and that my size has never changed his feelings.

When I was in the 200s early this spring/summer I competed a one of my local shows with my horse, we have always done well, I had not ridden much that winter due to the cold and snow we got and not having access to indoor arenas. We did OK but not our best times (the competitions are speed/time based). I put my horse away for the day and noticed something that hit me where it needed to. I made my horse's back sore. You can be a heavier rider and have good balance and be fine, but obviously I was obese at this point and my physical condition had suffered, my balance was off and my equine partner took the brunt of it. I was a mess. I cried. I vowed I would not let this interfere with the animal and sport I loved.

Things I changed:

1) Alcohol Consumption: I was the type to drink every weekend, I was a expensive drinker as I could put away a lot of beverages and still not feel buzzed. I believe the drinking started when I started working in my current job. My job is stressful emotionally and physically and drinking made me feel "relaxed". I am sure now, that I was probably drinking my daily caloric needs if not more 2-3 nights a week. I made a hard stop. Since May I have had only a few vodka sodas, no sugar, at social events but nothing else.

2) No more snacks in the house!: Me and my fiance made a vow to no longer bring chips/candy/snacks into the house. We live rurally about 30 mins from any sort of store. If there are no snacks in the house you can bet that we are not snacking on things on "days in" on the farm. We both were not big soda drinkers but obviously we banned any sort of soda. I will admit I may cheat and have one can every couple of weeks.

3) Weight training: We don't have access to a gym but my fiance has purchased some used weights and a bench for us to use. I essentially use it daily now. If I want to sit on the couch and scroll on my phone for a bit I tell myself i'll do it after I do some squats or bench presses.

4) Drinking 3L of water per day, no excuses!

5) CICO : I started this about 5 weeks ago, 1200kcal/day, sometimes a bit more if I had a competition or was riding a lot. 10lbs down in just over a month, awesome! Thanks Loseit! app.

Now the awesome part, NSVs!

1) My doctor is thrilled, I have successfully been taken off of betablockers for my tachycardia/hypertension/SVT. A lot is diet related, but stopping the drinking and managing my work stress better has also played a huge role. I have less migraines (more weather related now) as well. I still get the occasional feeling of SVTs but nothing like before.

2) I beat my own personal record at the beginning of Oct for my horse competitions and had the fastest time of the weekend. I shaved a whole second off of our barrel times at one of our circuits we run. If my math is correct I believe we may have won senior year end champ. Will find out in November! My balance is better and my horse is way happier. Also looking at videos I see myself as a more balanced rider, better posture and more confidence. Also my jeans fit way better lol.

3) I had a regular client at work come in for an appointment, the first thing she said to me was "My god girl, you look great!", I had a great week at work after that.

4) I have self control with the snacks brought in at work now. We often get a lot of candies, baked goods, or chocolates brought in by well meaning clients as a thank you. I feel my self control is so much more improved.

5) I can do pull-ups now! Holy crap it's been at least 7 years since I have done one. Now I can almost do 2 in a row.

Something I am really looking forward to is March. My Fiance has been on a deployment to the middle east since Sept. By March I should be at my goal weight again. I can't wait to surprise him when he gets home! He knows I've been working really hard and has been so so supportive.

I don't really have many friends to share these successes with so thank you all for reading if you did, I really appreciate the supportive and positive environment this sub has to offer.

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