Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Don't let perfect be the enemy of good enough.

I am a perfectionist. Unfortunately, that means that if I know I can't do something perfectly, I am more likely to just not do it at all than make any sort of attempt. This attitude is absolutely terrible for weight loss. "Oh, I don't know the calories in my lunch... I guess I just won't track today at all" "Crap, I can't do a full workout at the gym, might as well not even go" I'm sure I'm not the only one who has thoughts like this. And the worst part is that these kind of thoughts can snowball. Before I know it, I'm telling myself things like "Well, I don't even have a workout routine that I'm following, so working out is just pointless right now" or "I know I'm going to overindulge at that party this weekend, so what's the point of tracking this week?"

This line of thinking is nothing more than self-sabotage and I refuse to sabotage myself with the desire to be perfect any more. I'm not perfect. That doesn't mean I can't be good enough. I don't have time to follow a workout routine and go to the gym right now. But I do have time to do the seven minute workout on my Echo Show. I'm not going to be able to track everything I eat, but I can still track what I know and use estimates for the rest. Here's to ending the year not perfect, but good enough!

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(Question) Can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong?

My stat are a 5’2” 26 year old female who weighs 227lbs.

I calculated my BMR and it’s around 1,700 calories a day. I’ve been eating at 1200 or less except one day (I only ate 1580 that day) for almost 2 weeks now and I’ve only lost 6lbs. I walk 2 miles a day for exercise aside from having a super physical job and I drink tons of water. I also account for any condiments or little bites of things in my calories so it’s not that kind of stuff creeping up my actual intake or anything.

Is there a reason I haven’t lost more weight? Am I doing something wrong? This is the first time I’ve really wanted to commit to losing this weight so I really want to know if this is small amount of weight loss on that low of cals is normal with my BMR. I know it’s a marathon and not a sprint, but it feels a little discouraging when I’m eating this low of cal with that little amount of weight loss.

Thanks for the responses in advance!!

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What are your "bad" reasons for weight loss?

Hi all!

We all have lots of great reasons to lose weight, right? We want to be healthier, feel better in our skin, manage health conditions (mental and physical), etc. But if you're anything like me, in the back of your brain, you've got the "not so good" reasons to want to lose the weight. I'm of the opinion that motivation is motivation no matter where it comes from, but recently I was confronted with the amount of my motivation that was coming from a somewhat unhealthy place. So, I'd love to hear your "questionable" motivations to lose weight (in part to make myself feel better and in part because I love hearing about other peoples' journeys)!

Here is mine:

I started getting serious about losing weight about a year ago but it's always been on my mind (literally; the first time I told my mom I was fat I was about 5 or 6 years old). I'd been talking to a close friend of mine about it for a while and he was incredibly supportive, especially since I started getting serious about it. Last winter, he and I had something of a falling out and I think I was fueled by "I want to prove to him I'm better than this and I'm able to do this" since I thought we might reconnect eventually. We did reconnect this summer and started seeing each other this fall, at which point I think it transitioned to "I want him to see my success (and my new body)" and I definitely fed off of his encouragement. We broke up about a week ago and now that I know he won't see the results, I've lost a lot of motivation (between that and finals, I completely fell off the wagon). Of course, I still have my "good" reasons and I've gotten back to my routine now, but I didn't realize how much of my motivation was due to that. Looking forward to hearing yours!

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I have to rethink everything about weight loss, a whole new perspective

Maybe I should start this of by describing my situation really quick: I am a 19 year old female at a healthy weight, but was trying to go down a few pounds to feel more comfortable after I had put on a few, no big deal, right?

Well, right now I am at my parents house for a few days and I decided to treat myself to all the things I don't have where I live now (food is not as available as it is here, so no fancy candy, variety of drinks etc). For the past 3 days I ate a lot, way over maintenance at the very least, I think the quantity could qualify this as a binge, but I feel completely in control and I eat because I want to and enjoy it, plus I stop when I am full.

I expected to feel lethargic and awful from eating so much, but the exact opposite has happened and it's putting everything in perspective:

I feel amazing. I am no longer cold and miserable all day, instead I have energy, so so much energy (Thanks ADHD) and am back to my bubbly, fidgety self. I can focus again and feel so much more creative, I don't think about food every second of the day and am instead enjoying life and feeling much more social and outgoing. My metabolism is all the way revved up again, I am actually having bowel movements (I used to have one a week) and my IBS has significantly improved (I used to scream in pain when having a bowel movement because the cramps were so, so bad).

All of this really showed me that the way I was going only led to disordered eating and a miserable, horrible life. I wanted to feel more comfortable in my body, but I sacrificed everything that made life worth living for it. I know that I can't keep eating the way I am now, but I am not at all worried about that, my appetite is already decreasing again and I never had a problem with overeating to begin with.

I am posting this as a reminder for everyone to be responsible about their diet. Don't cut calories too low! You need energy and you will only feel miserable. I am about to start this all over again, I am not going to let my weight loss goals interfer with my life and I am certainly not going to put my health at risk like this ever again (I bought a shit ton of laxatives because I was scared that only having one bowel movement a week was unhealthy so I wanted to speed things up. I now realize that it didn't work because there just wasn't anything to speed up!)

To everyone who reads this: Learn from my mistakes and please, be kind to yourself and your body. Don't put your health on the line for weight loss, weight loss should aid you to become a healthier version of yourself, it shouldn't damage your health any further!

Some days, I would eat as little as under 1000 calories and I am now seeing that it's way too little for me. I am fairly tall and muscular (for a woman that is), plus my ADHD gives me a very high NEAT to begin with (constantly pace around my room, have to get up often to let out energy, constantly moving in one way or the other as in flapping my hands etc.).

To a new, healthier start!

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I'm dropping weight, fast.

Hey guys, I lurk a lot and this may not be the typical post here. Going from 170 at my highest to 149 today, you think I would be happy. My journey from 170-154 was healthy and gradual. I counted the calories, I worked out more days than not. I ate healthy. The slow gradual weight loss was met with strength training and from loving myself as I am, while wanting to improve my health. But in the past 3 days, I have lost 5 pounds. I am incredibly depressed. I'm scared and I worry that I am ruining my body losing weight too quickly because I cant bring myself to eat normally. The love of my life has just left me and for the first time in my life, I cant really eat. I force myself to right now. I'm scared that this depression will make me too thin too fast. I'm worried about hurting my body. If anyone can help with some tips how to get over this and be healthy again please share.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 11 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Does body shape catch up with weight loss?

As above..... Simple question.

Some context....

In 2014/2015 I lost around 80lbs for my wedding, going from 380 down to 300. I had planned to lose more but the wedding came when I was 300 and you know, lost a bit of interest afterwards and slowly put it back on until I got to around 400 by sept 2019.

Back in 2015, I had bought a smart wedding suit and other clothes off the rack for the first time in a long time. It was great, and I felt and looked so much better.

Fast forward to now, in Sept the scales tipped 400lbs, I was out of control. I have a 2 yo and a newborn and I want to see them for as long as possible etc, you all know this bit... so I’ve given up alcohol, started C25K and try to have between 1600 and 200 calories a day. The weight has fallen off. In 3 and a half months I’ve lost 60lbs.

However, I just don’t seem to be as small as I was at this point in 2015. I have loads of reference points, photos etc from the same weight in 2015 when I was 330-340 lbs, but I just can’t fit into the same clothes?! I know I’ve lost the weight quickly this time and it’s not negatively affecting my motivation, I just wonder, will my body size and shape catch up with the loss numbers?

Cheers 👍

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