Saturday, December 4, 2021

NSV/confession: the compliments never stop feeling great

Quick back story- since 2018 I’ve worked for a company headquartered over 1000 miles away. I came into that company obese and was still obese when a COVID-imposed freeze on all travel was put in place.

I lost 70 pounds during that travel freeze and this year I started flying back to the office. Without fail, every single time I go there, coworkers comment on the weight loss.

Last night I attended an office holiday party and again many coworkers, all the way up to the CEO and CTO, complimented me on the weight loss and appearance. And honestly, it felt just as good as when people back home started noticing a year and a half ago.

To clarify I did it for my health, both short and long term, much more than my appearance. But honestly the positive reactions from others have been so helpful in maintaining my goal weight.

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Social situations only cause anxiety

M/19/5’8 SW: 230lbs CW:156 GW: 143

I have zero confidence. Like none. I’ve lost so much weight and I actually became more insecure in my appearance than when I was obese. I’ve gone to therapy over my body image and I got diagnosed with weight loss induced Body Dsymorphia. Basically meaning I developed BDD after loosing the weight. At 19 my body just looks so misshapen even lifting weights has only done so much. I wish I just didn’t have loose skin. That I could have had to loose minimal weight or just have been skinny but that not my story. 2020/2021 have been the hardest years of my life. I have had two major depressive episodes and I had to be medicated for one of them. I am so depressed that I have become a burden to my friends so I just isolated. My school is starting to go down again, I’m calling off of work, the only thing I have time for is eat and gym. I’m so depressed over my skin again because I don’t see it as something to be proud of, because of it I’ve been in the worst position of my life. I just want to take my shirt off around my house, I want to go to the pool and beach, I want to wear tight clothes and tank tops, I want to have sex, I want my body to stop looking so bad I mentally can’t participate in any of these activities. I low key just want to die and come back in a new body.

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Weight loss with ADHD is a nightmare

So, I'm back on this boat ride again. F, 167cm, 120kg, sick and tired of being sick and tired. My feet hurt, my back hurts, my knees hurt, my belly hurts, and I can't sleep comfortably. It is, undeniably, time to try counting calories again.

The problem is, I have pretty severe ADHD. I struggle with:

-executive dysfunction. Making a meal is hard. Food prep is literally impossible. Even making a shopping list and getting everything on it is difficult.

-food is a stim. It calms me and centres me.

-but food also comes with sensory issues. I can't eat anything with the wrong texture.

-object permanence. I put my healthy snacks in a drawer? They're gone and never existed. Did I just eat a whole slab of chocolate? Who knows, time is fake.

To top it all off, I don't drive and I live remotely so buying in bulk is hard, and it's hot as balls here so cooking is not fun at all. Oh, and I'm vegetarian. I've decided I'm willing to eat chicken (and maybe fish if I can stand the texture) while I prioritise myself and get my habits to a sustainable place, if that's even possible. I can't eat much dairy, and since I had my gallbladder removed I'm prone to acid reflux from spicy or oily foods.

So I guess I'm playing on hard mode, but you all are an inspiration and I'm here to give it a bloody good go.

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Hard 75 to jumpstart weight loss?

Hi - I'm 46 F and have gained about 30lbs in the past 2 years. In my 30s I was an athlete - marathons, triathlons, even a half ironman. Since I moved from the city to the suburbs I find myself having a hard time moving as much as I want. Got a Peloton a few months ago & I love it since due to COVID I don't plan to return to the gym but having a hard time staying consistent. Also, hormones are taking their toll with weight gain & insomnia. My spouse & I are planning to start Hard 75 Jan 1 as a weight loss jump start. I think alcohol is probably the hardest thing to overcome since I actually eat fairly well (home cooked meals, little meat). Has anyone succeeded with Hard 75 as a jumpstart???? Any other hints?

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binge eating is ruining my weight loss

i was 377 pounds in January. I am currently 260 but i have been around 260 for about 2-3 months because i cant stop binging. I only have healthy foods in my house and i still binge ex: rice cakes, skinny pop popcorn, string cheese etc. i do good all day until late at night the cravings start, and once i start i cant stop. I cant even go grocery shopping alone because i will buy unhealthy stuff if i see it. Please help im really struggling. Im a 20 year old male btw if that matters

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I've lost 45 pounds since May (and still going), here's what I've learned

I always thought I was unable to lose weight. I would try something new (17 Day Diet, Intermittent Fasting) and always saw results but then fell off the wagon sooner or later. This year, somehow, I feel like I've unlocked some personal secret to weight loss, and it's suddenly so much easier than I could've ever imagined.

Here's what I've done:

I was in a low calorie deficit at the beginning (too low for my body), so I now use this website (https://www.calculator.net/calorie-calculator.html) to see where I should be calorie wise in regards to weight loss. I recommend calorie counting for at least a good while (a few months perhaps), just to get used to knowing how many calories are in food. Calories are not bad, they are really fuel, and you need to know how much you should be taking in. It also helps to keep in mind that even if you literally sit around all day, your body still needs some amount of food. You never have to do anything to deserve to eat. It is important to have a healthy mindset while you do this. Going over your "allowed" calories is not something to shame yourself about (unless it becomes a consistent, extreme issue), especially around holidays or birthdays. I firmly believe that there is nothing wrong with fitting treats into your day. You need balance for this to work. When I was counting calories more strictly, I had a few meals that I loved that I would eat on repeat because I knew they fit in with my calorie goals (fried eggs on Dave's thin sliced bread with pesto for breakfast, vegetable noodle soup, tacos with carb balance tortillas and avocado, etc.). Make sure to fit in carbs, protein, fats, fiber, etc. Nutrition is still important. Figure out if you like 3 meals a day, or a bunch of snacky meals throughout the day (perhaps 5 smaller meals instead of 3 bigger ones). Whatever your preference is, fit it into your calorie goal.

My second huge thing is exercise. It helps to be inspired. If you have a goal in mind (mine is that I want to build a lot of strength and muscle definition, which does come with the added difficulty of making sure I get enough protein) it makes working out fun and easier. I'd recommend a mix of cardio and weight training, although to be honest I've done much less cardio than weight training and have still managed to lose weight (added this because it feels like everyone who tells you how to lose weight emphasizes cardio SO much, but I've found success elsewhere). Building muscle mass is important because it increases your metabolism (https://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/features/get-more-burn-from-your-workout#1), AND if you're looking to get smaller in size, muscle takes up less space than body fat. Find a good playlist, songs that really get you excited, and add them to a workout playlist. I still get excited to go to the gym and just have that time to myself, listening to my recent favorite songs and working out.

So, my focus has been on calorie counting and exercise. Make sure you are eating enough, because otherwise, as far as I understand, you will be confusing your body in a certain sense. It won't want to lose weight/burn fat if it doesn't think it's getting enough to eat to be in a place to do so. Don't beat yourself up at any point in the process. Miss several workouts? Your body still needs rest, too. If you feel it becomes a problem (never wanting to work out), I'd recommend reexamining your motives/inspiration. Also, it is important to focus on your mental health as you do these things so that you aren't becoming physically healthier at the expense of becoming mentally unhealthy. Don't stress too much about weigh-ins. Weight fluctuates day to day, so be prepared for that and know that there's almost no way you've gained a pound in a day (my scale likes to tell me this sometimes, but it's just not physically possible with what I've been eating/doing).

Making these things habits is the key. It might turn out that after a while, you don't need to calorie count much anymore, because you know what a XXXX calorie day looks like for you. Going to the gym/exercising will eventually just become part of your routine. Just wanted to share because it is so much easier for me than I thought and I can't believe it took me so long to work this all out.

I'm definitely biased, but this is the best way to lose fat/weight in my experience. It's simple changes that make sense, and since it's not a fad diet or anything, I find it easier to stay "on the wagon". Giving up tons of things I like just isn't for me (i.e. cutting carbs, all sugar, etc).

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Help with calorie deficit...

My starting weight was 120 kg (265 lbs), so I started doing CICO and ate 1400 to 1600 calories per day with some occasional running (C25K program). I had sedentary lifestyle at that moment and diet was rich in carbs with barely 40-50 g protein intake. Over couple of months, I lost 13 kg and now I weigh 107 kg (236 lbs). I started going to to gym last week. I usually do strength training and then cardio on treadmill. Since last week, I have increased my protein intake, to approx 130 g per day. I am only active in gym and have sedentary lifestyle otherwise. The question, I had was that should I increase my calorie intake to approx. 1800-1900 calories/day or stick with 1400-1600 calories per day but this time, with more protein intake. I read some stuff online, and they recommend that I shouldnt drop my calorie intake that low because my body will decrease BMR but I dont want to risk gaining weight again because weight loss is a difficult journey. My current TDEE is 2,275 at sedentary and 2,939 at moderate exercise. I have no problem eating 1400-1600 calories per day, but I dont want my body to decrease BMR.

Thank you in advance.

My height is 5'11 or 180 cm.

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