Friday, March 6, 2026

Burn out/ frustration

Hi everyone

I’ve always been a fairly skinny person, but at one point through drinking and bad eating/ not as active I gained about 15-20 lbs. which put me at 5”8 150 ish lbs female.

I have always been very into weightlifting/ physical activity and have seen great progress.

Through this weight loss I ended up getting pretty lean with some visible abs( not a 6 pack, but defined legs and shoulders/arms aswell)

Now that my lifestyle is in check, I don’t really drink, I hit my protein every single day, I’ve been trying to cut down a little more to get extra lean.

Every time I feel I get some progress, I feel like I eat a ton for a few days and essentially undo it all and just stay stuck at the same place I have been for months . Which is now 5”8 133ish lbs.

I look good don’t get me wrong. But I have goals I want to achieve. I’m getting increasingly frustrated with myself and I feel like I was so disciplined before but now I just can’t seem to make steady progress.

I will add when I eat more it’s all my usual foods, like just a bunch of extra yogurt or cottage cheese or whatever.

My current workout split is 4 days heavy in the gym, 2 lower 2 upper. Minimum 10k steps every single day. And I do hot cardio or hot Pilates workouts about 4 times a week.

I track all my meals( except when I find myself snapping and going and getting some extra of everything) and I know that’s taking me out of the deficit I want to be in.

I’m just really really frustrated and need some advice on how I can get this back on a downward trend weight wise and also feel a lot less burnt out of everything. It feels a lot mentally and physically.

TIA!

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60 day check-in, currently at 29lbs lost

Well here I am. Technically this topic is a lie, I will be at day 60 tomorrow, but I also won't be on my computer tomorrow, so I'm doing my check-in a day early. So at "59" days I am now at 251lbs (still huge, still got a long way to go) but back at the beginning of January I was 280lbs.

I have been weighing myself daily, it's my every day morning routine: wake up, use the restroom first, then weigh myself. And then, I record the weight on Notes in my phone so at some point I can dump it into Excel on my computer. I know that all sounds like a little much, and I'm not suggesting to anyone else to do the same, but for me personally, putting every weigh in into Excel and creating visual charts really helps me stay extremely motivated and excited about my weight loss. It also helps me nerd out and crunch the numbers.

I lost 17lbs in the first 30 days, and an additional 12 in the second 30 days. At first the number be smaller (12 versus 17) alarmed me.. but I know that I have read about a million times, like all of you have, that in the first 2-3 weeks of weight loss we commonly see the "woosh" effect where you drop water weight quickly, but then it will level out, depending on where your deficit is.

I would like to say one thing, and this MIGHT get me the "torches and the pitchforks," because I know how you guys feel about AI. Last time I mentioned AI on here, I was immediately downvoted and told by multiple people "dude, don't." but.. the truth is I am using AI to calculate my calorie intake and maintain my deficit, and it seems to be working.

I am also the guy who was on here whining before about how I'm not able to count calories because my wife home cooks dinner every day. She adores cooking, and its her "zen" but if I tell her "honey I need you to weigh every single ingredient you are putting into this pan and tell me how many cups, ounces, etc of each ingredient went into this so I can look up how many calories this is" she gets extremely upset and says that she doesn't want to do that. And I can't really blame her! Even typing that out just now makes it sound so incredibly unrealistic, lol. Like, who is going to do that?

So instead, I have been just "ballparking" it with AI. (I don't subscribe to any AI service, I just go to Google Search and click "AI Mode" and that's it. I will ask it "estimate how many calories this meal is: sauted salmon with couscous and brocollini, cooked in lemon butter sauce with penzies spices on it. I had one plate with about two "fist-sized" portions on the plate, and a glass of water."

It will respond to me that this meal is around 550-750 calories. Since it's AI, and an estimate, I always go with the high number. So I calculate my calories for the day as being 750 for that meal. And when I ask it to calculate my TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure) I always go with the low number. For example if it thinks my TDEE based on my exercise I did that day (or lack thereof) is let's say 2400-2800 calories, I always go with the 2400. So that way I am leaving a TON of wiggle room, and using "worst case scenario math" to make sure I consume significantly less than my maintenance level. Usually I aim for 1000 less than maintenance. That is just the standard number I am using. I don't know if it's too much, or too little, but it SEEMS to be working. When I look at my weight loss each 7 days, there are weeks with higher and lower numbers, but the overall AVERAGE over 8 weeks so far (I'm still in the middle of the 9th week) is 2.26lbs a week lost.

And that lines up almost perfectly with what most sources are saying "healthy, stable weight loss" should only be 2lbs a week.

Now if I do look at the average of the first four weeks, it's 2.6lbs per week average, but if I look at the average of the second four weeks, it's 1.8lbs per week average.. so MAYBE the overall rate IS starting to slow down a little. It's too early to say. I'm not panicking yet and not planning to change my routine in any way, YET. If the rate starts to slow down significantly more to where I'm SEEING it slow down in my excel chart, then I will probably be back here hat in hand asking how I can do better lol.

One big thing that is kicking me hard right now is that I've had a cold for the last 7 days, which means zero exercise this past week. It is absolutely KILLING me to be missing out on my routine that I was so proud of establishing, but.. it is what it is. I have to rest up and refrain from any exercise until the virus is completely wiped out, that way I can bounce back and jump back on the routine next week.

I don't really expect anyone to read all this, lol. But if you do, I thank you for your time! I know I write like a novel every freaking time I write, and it annoys people (especially on reddit) and the trend lately is to just immediately say "he used AI to write this" because it's more than 2-3 paragraphs, and I already said I'm using AI for other purposes earlier in the post, but for what it's worth I wrote this whole message directly from my heart lol.

Have a great weekend everyone.

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I will never have a flat, pretty tummy and I'm okay with that

I had abdominal surgery a couple of weeks ago. When the nurse was removing stitches she said "don't worry, if you use x cream these scars will fade soon enough". I felt like she's joking for a second but then realised no, she meant it, people actually really care about their bellies. Ofcourse they do.

I don't, not really. Not anymore. I've been losing weight on and off for 25 years. If I had a chance for a nice belly it was three weight loss cycles ago before I went up to 190 pounds, got pregnant and went up 20pounds more, lost about 50 pounds in the last couple of months and now... now my belly will forever be striped. Pink, purple, stretchmarks that break if they chafe, some overhang and now, additional scars from surgery. It's okay. I'll probably never have the courage for surgery to clean this up as well.

So, I will simply never know what it's like being that skinny fuck model on the pictures I taped on my notebooks in 8th grade. I'll never be that. I'll never look good in a 2 piece. That train left the station forever a couple of years ago. I'm angry because most of the damage did not come out of pregnancy, it came because I was overweight before I got pregnant so double the damage. Oh and don't get me started on the boobs. But that's just the way it is now.

And in a way it's liberating. I'm just not one of those people, I have other things going for me. I'll grieve the feeling of freedom that comes with body confidence forever. But it is what it is.

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Thursday, March 5, 2026

I'm so proud of my weight loss but nobody's noticed it

To be fair I've only lost 20 pounds (5'6 female, started at 153 lbs now at 133 lbs), but I've never been able to lose weight before and I'm really proud of myself! I've been sticking with calorie counting and walking since September and have had really good, steady success. Turns out they were right all along, it was all about eating less and moving more. I haven't told anyone about my intentionally losing weight, and I always hide my calorie counting app like it's a secret. But the changes to my body must be at least a little noticeable? So I'm surprised that not even my family, close friends, or nosy coworkers have said anything. Anyway, I never thought I'd see the day that I was offended by people being respectful and not commenting on my body lmao. But I guess I'm just feeling kind of alone in my accomplishments now, which makes me sad. How do you strike a balance between not inviting people to monitor your body and eating, and sharing your weight loss successes? It's definitely a weird spot to be!

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Did losing weight make a significant difference to your face/facial attractiveness?

I (23F) have been chubby most of my life. I’m inactive, I mostly don’t leave the house and I binge eat so it’s entirely my fault. I’m actually at the lightest weight I have been since growth stopped (~55kg ish at 5’1) and within ‘normal’ BMI but likely due to lack of muscle it all goes to my stomach, thighs, upper arms and face and I feel frumpy.

I know it’s silly to say but I’ll confess: the reason why I’ve never really bothered with watching my weight or what I eat is that I’m facially ugly anyways. I won’t get into details, but I’ve actively avoided cameras since I was 11, been a shut in for most of my teens and young adulthood and I can hardly even look at myself in the mirror because my face just looks off and it makes me spiral. So I’m not motivated at all to lose anything as I think I’d be ugly even if I was skinny, and I’d have to part with the junk food that has given me comfort and helped me cope with that all this time so it’s just a toxic cycle.

I’ve seen a ton of very pretty chubby women, so I think it’s just my face. But I’ve also seen some drastic before and afters where even peoples faces look entirely different after weight loss. What has been your experience?

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New to the community, and new to weightloss

Hi I'm new here and new to weight loss in general.

Just wanted to introduce myself and share my journey so far.

I decided it was time to try make a real effort to improve my body and mind just before Christmas 2025. I started at 100kg on December 20th. I've been eating in a calorie deficit of around -400 to -700 a day based on my TDEE and I've managed to really commit to an exercise routine that is working for me. I try to eat more calories on walk days as sometimes I get light headed or dizzy when my intake is lower on exercise days.

I walk 5kms Mon, Tues, Thurs, and Friday, so 4 days a week. And I've just started adding into my routine on a wednesday and a Saturday beginner strength training routines with 1kg weights. Yesterday was leg day and boy do my thighs ache today 💀

I don't measure often or weigh myself daily. I did initially but I found that it was actually making me more anxious about it and changed to weekly weigh ins and bi weekly measurements.

last Friday I had lost a total of 8.5kg, that's about 18lbs, where i'd been sat at for a couple of weeks, and I have my weigh in tomorrow to see if it's started to shed again.

I measured myself today, and I've lost several inches all over from my last measurements so that makes me super happy even when the scales haven't moved for a while.

It's still a process and my goal weight is somewhere arround 65kg so there's a good way to go yet, but I wanted to share my excitement that something is actually working for me.

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Trying to Lose Weight During Ramadan: 6x Gym, High Protein, Big Calorie Deficit – Sustainable?

Male, 21 years old, 6'2" tall (188 cm), currently weighing 113 kg (249 lbs). I started 20 days ago at 120 kg (265 lbs). I go to the gym 6 times a week, working out for 1.5 hours each session, following a large calorie deficit, with high protein intake and very low carb carbs. Right now, during Ramadan, I’m eating only two meals iftar and sehri. Before gym, I have 250 grams of chicken with two boiled egg whites and 3 tbsp cooked white rice , and after gym during sehri, I have 250 grams of chicken with three egg whites along with 3tbsp of cooked white rice totaling my both meal to 5 egg white? 500g chicken, 6tbsp rice. This brings my total protein intake to approximately 170–180 grams. My question to those who have already done weight loss like this: is this sustainable? Since my goal is to reach atleast 80kgs (176lbs)

And yea I've ordered protien powder with 120kcal per scoop and 25g protien. Imma take 2 of that scoop bringing my protien to total of 220-230gs.

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