Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Not looking on the outside the way you feel inside during weight loss.

I had a really horrible moment this past weekend where I saw a photo of myself (149 lbs) and was awakened to the fact that no, I am still nowhere near “slim” or even normal looking.

When I started this journey, I was 210+ lbs. I don’t have many photos of that time period but I know it wasn’t cute. I’ve lost 60 lbs since then and 13 of them this year. My clothes fit better, I’ve gone down a size or two in shirts, and my workouts have gotten easier. I guess in my head I thought I must look GREAT because of all the progress.

This weekend we went out for celebratory drinks with some friends and someone snapped a picture of me not from straight on. They texted it to me later on and my jaw absolutely dropped. I expected a little stomach pooch, some moderately thick arms, etc, but what I saw looked grotesque to me.

My stomach stuck out and rolled, my face was round and puffy, and my paints were straining around my thighs. 60 lbs of weight loss and I still look...well, like crap. Since then I’ve been super depressed and feel like I don’t even want to be around people. The wind is just completely gone from my sails and I feel like even if I keep losing weight it’ll be a loooong time before I look the way I thought I did before that photo. Another year of dieting just to lose 15 more lbs and still be overweight for my height.

Has anyone else dealt with this? Mirrors and front-facing photos lying to you :(?

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Lost almost 65lbs - you can too!

I hit 246 pounds in April of last year. I was so uncomfortable, out of shape, and disappointed in myself.

I told a friend I needed to do something to get started and he told me about this CrossFit thing he was doing. He also told me he would see me Monday (this was on Thursday). I also decided to go with CICO... I knew I would not do well with Keto or other ‘diets, and CICO has worked in the past.

I set a goal be under 200 and run a 5k by my birthday in September.

I called the ‘box’ and signed up. The first 4 weeks were torture, but I started to see progress. It hurt... a lot, and my mantra was, “last place still finishes”

By the end of June, I was down to 220 and the workout, while still challenging , were not nearly as painful!

I was all in and going 4x per week st this point! I continued that until about September. On September 5, I hit under 200 for the first time in 15 years.

My birthday was the end of the month and so I signed up for a 5k. It is amazing how well the CrossFit cardio translated.

3 weeks later, I did a 5k in around 27.5 minutes. My body was pretty beat up from CrossFit though and it was losing its luster. I found I really loved running and also did a couple free Orange Theory classes. I also reset my weight loss goal to 185 lbs!

It was really hard, but I left CrossFit and stared OTF Nov 1st and really focusing on my running. I really did not care about getting bulky, and enjoyed the cardio more. CrossFit was what I needed to build a great base, but man is it hard! Mad respect for those folks!! I still lift at OTF and planet fitness, but not focused on muscle gain!

On Nov 3rd, I ran my first 10k in 59 minutes! My goal was under an hour so I was pumped!!! The next day, I signed up for a 10 mile Turkey Trot.

I ran that race three weeks later in 1:39! December was a lot of running , OTF, and using the Aaptiv app. If you have not looked into Aaptiv, it is pretty amazing! I checked in this morning at 181.3, nearly 65 pounds down!

I feel amazing, I have great Enegy, I can keep up with my kids, I play basketball with a bunch of folks 15 years younger than me and they can’t keep up with me :)

I have lost 10 inches on my waist and wear medium shirts... started at 2xl...

My goal is to do a half marathon in March and stay around 180 pounds. People think I weigh much less... My legs are tree trunks and I do not fit the ‘weight chart’.

So basically, I was a sloth for a long time and never thought I could lose weight! I found some friends to keep me accountable and my wife also helped by cooking better for the family. Side bonus, she lost 20 pounds just by eating better and is now working out also!

I NEVER thought I would run 10 miles or wear a medium shirt. I was resigned to be large and unhealthy! If you are in the fence... just get your butt going, push through the pain, and watch amazing things happen!

Thanks for reading!

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Small improvements over Christmas period give me confidence

Hey everyone, longtime lurker here. I've always been a heavy set person, but last year I started reaching 101kg (222lbs) and decided that change was needed. I'm really bad at this it turns out. I started running, playing more sports (squash is something I'm actually decent at) and I went about fixing my diet - low carbs, high protein. All good, except that I break easily, and when I break I break hard. So after a year of this my net weight loss was actually 0. I felt healthier, but I was still packing on loads of extra weight.

16th December I went away to travel and then spend Xmas and New Years at home with family. So I set myself a challenge: lose weight over the festive period.

I worked my arse off, running, going to the gym abroad and when I got back, continuing to eat healthily. Weighed myself today and in those two weeks I've somehow managed to drop from 101kg (222lbs) to 97kg (214lbs)! It's not a huge drop but I'm happy with it, and I now know that I can drop further over the coming year. My target is 85kg (187lbs), and my little challenge this festive period has given me the confidence that I can do it.

Have a good 2019 everyone, I know you can all do it as well <3

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Please tell me it is just my period

I am having a breakdown. I have been exercising daily and eating at 1500 calories daily. I am 5'6 and weigh 166 pounds. My first weigh in is in 2 weeks (out of a total of 8). I thought I was doing great and felt my waist shrink and just felt great overall. I used to be at a 33.5 inch waist but now 31 inch! So I was hopeful for my weigh in until today.

I am 3 days away from starting my period and one of my outfits that would fit easily even before this diet was super uncomfortable and tight around my waist. I started crying because I looked so fat and when I measured my waist it was 33 inches again! I am starting to doubt myself so much and wonder if it is all in my head. My parents have not noticed any changes in my physical apperance (not even any weight loss) and I am starting to wonder if I ever will lose weight.

What do you guys think? I really am at my breaking point and if I see no changes on the scale in two weeks, I will officially give up and just accept my destiny to be fat ( please DO NOT say this is a matter of overeating: I weigh everything, write everything down, and I have literally stacks of books recording everything).

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Beginning of 2018, I promised myself to lose weight and lost 20lbs in he first six months, at the end of the year, I ended up 10lbs heavier. How do I start over?

Help. How do you start over?

Basically I’m a 5’3” F and 18. I had lost 20lbs in the first half of the year, and got all the way down from my initial 156 to my lowest weight 136. Then life happened, family troubles and hospital visits caused me to justify crazy amounts of stress eating . I gained all my weight back and then some. I’m currently weighing in at 163.6lbs.

I know my weight loss and gain isn’t as drastic as most people here, but I’m very afraid it will get out of control, as it has for the rest of my family. They’re all overweight and no one wants to fix any of their dietary habits. It makes it difficult to eat healthy when the kitchen is under construction (no oven, stove, dishwasher, and the fridge is hidden away in the garage). It’s been like this for maybe 4 months now. Because of this, I’ve eaten an insane amount of takeout, pizza, and fast food.

Kitchen reconstruction + very stressful life right now + a family always bringing unhealthy foods into the house = weight gain.

How do I cope with this?

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How to Have More Weight Loss Willpower

When you’re trying to reach your weight goal, it can sometimes feel like booby traps are around every corner: TV ads for big burgers, easy-to-grab snacks at the checkout, and birthday cake after birthday cake at the office. It’s time to fight back. Use these seven tips to turn your whole world into a willpower-generating super machine and keep flying toward your goals.

In the kitchen: STOCK UP
Part of what makes bad-for-you foods easy to grab is that they’re, well, so easy to grab—just unwrap it or dig your hand in a bag, and you’re satisfying your hunger faster than you realize what you’re eating. The solution: Make “unlimited” foods just as easy to grab. Cut celery, broccoli, cucumbers, and other veggies up long before you’re hungry, so when you want a quick snack, these no-guilt options are just as easy to down as a handful of chips. And if you want something sweet or crunchy, make some tasty chips. Try one of our #veggiesexy recipes in the Recipes section, or turn unused broccoli stumps into crunchy veggie chips that keep for days: Cut the stems into 1/2-inch chips, place them on a cookie sheet, and spray lightly with cooking spray on both sides. Sprinkle with salt and bake at 350 for about 10 minutes, then store them in containers for upcoming to three days to chow down.

In the bedroom: POST YOUR MOTIVATION
Arnold Schwarzenegger, somewhat of an expert on achieving the body he wanted, has suggested that people post imagery of how they want to look in a place they’ll see it every day, like the bedroom. This daily reminder can help you remember the vision you have for your long-term goals. One caveat: Be careful to choose inspirational images that are realistic. In a Dutch study, dieters who consistently looked at pictures of models who were too thin engaged in more “goal-inconsistent” behavior than those who looked at normal-sized models. And in a study from the U.S. National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, doctors noted that unrealistic weight loss goals often sabotaged results. So reinforce your vision by choosing pictures that are of real people—or choose to hang a piece of clothing you’re hoping to wear as you progress towards your goals.

In the hall: GRAB A QUICK REP
For less than $20, a doorway pull up bar can offer a daily reminder to exercise and stay moving all day. Place one in a door you pass through often—and that doesn’t need to stay closed very often—and try to perform one rep each time you cross the threshold. It won’t replace a prolonged strength workout, but you’ll do a lot of reps of an oft-neglected movement pattern—pulling. Can’t do a chin up? No problem. Negative chin ups help build toward the full exercise. To do one, grab the bar with an underhand grip and jump so that you’re at the top of the chin up position, with your chest at the bar, core flexed. Descend as slowly as you can until your arms are straight and you’re safely on the ground. If you don’t want to commit to a piece of equipment, simply place a sticker at a spot above the door. Each time you walk through, jump to touch it. Once it’s too easy, move the sticker up so it remains a challenge.

On your phone: PICTURE YOURSELF ACHIEVING
Nokia found in a 2013 study that people check their phones around 150 times per day. Make each one push you toward your goals. Try changing the background on your lock screen to an image or phrase that inspires and motivates you to stick with your plan and remember your long-term goals. They’re easy to find: Fire up Pinterest and search for “inspiration,” “motivation” and a keyword that you like.

In the car: GET PACKED
Have you ever come home from work, planning to go to the gym. . . and then you don’t? The couch feels a little too comfortable or the pile of mail distracts you and you wind up skipping your sweat session. A little preparation can shut down this excuse: Keep a fully-packed gym bag in your car. You won’t even need to come home from work before heading to your class, run, swim, or strength session.

In your purse: ARM YOURSELF
You can’t always sit down to a fresh meal or snack. But you can be ready when cravings strike: Carry a packet of FreshStart Shake, a sandwich bag of raw almonds or homemade trail mix—in your purse. That way, when you need a little blood sugar spike, you’re ready with options that you control, rather than letting hunger pangs steer you toward something you could regret. The Dark Chocolate and Sea Salt Nut Bar is a an absolute craving crusher you can stash anywhere!

At the office: MOVE AWAY FROM THE DISH
Few things in life sabotage the best diet plans faster than the office candy dish. You’re working on something, hit a wall, get up for a walk and there it is, right in the break room across from accounting: a huge bowl of gum drops. Decrease your tendency to grab from that communal bowl by moving away from it. Scientists who studied the candy dish found that subjects ate 1.8 more piece of candy per day when the bowl was placed on their desk versus two meters away. Get that candy far afield and save yourself from unwanted acts of cheating.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 01 January 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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