Sunday, October 27, 2019

After regaining 40 pounds, I'm choosing to get a fresh start again.

This is my new Day 1. This year has been full of so many highs and lows in both my professional and personal life, as well as ongoing struggles with depression and anxiety. I see a therapist regularly, which helps a lot, but some unexpected things that have come up throughout the year were so bad at times that I couldn't even get out of bed. When that happened, I went into survival mode to focus on my mental health first. I'm really glad that I did, because I'm so much stronger and mentally healthy today than I have been in a very long time. However, I had to put my weight loss efforts on the back burner, since I just couldn't deal with that along with everything else at the same time.

I just looked at my weight logs and saw that I've regained about 40 pounds since this time last year. Considering everything that I've been through, I'm sort of surprised that it wasn't more than that, but here I am now, ready to stop the backslide and take control of things again.

I'm currently off from work and starting a new job in two weeks, so I'll have some time to really begin building better routines again for grocery shopping, meal planning, and going to the gym. I think I need to return to what works best for me, with setting small goals, rather than trying to change everything all at once.

This time last year, I was running my first marathon, and what I learned from training for it is that you just can't expect change to happen overnight. Rather, it's all about putting in small but consistent efforts over a longer period of time, and building habits that are realistic and sustainable.

I can't change anything that's already happened this year (and believe me, there's been a lot of stuff that I have no idea how I managed to push through), but what I can change is what I choose to do from this point forward: Take things one meal at a time, get back into the routine of pre-tracking food before I eat it, and set aside time to do some kind of physical activity each day.

It's great to be back here again. I've got this.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 27 October 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Saturday, October 26, 2019

50 lbs down, face gains are making me feel confident again!

Here is my face progress picture.

Height: 5’2” SW: 218lbs CW:168 GW: 128

I’ve started the weight loss process for a year now and it doesn’t seem like 50lbs is a lot, but that’s 50lbs less I’m hauling around! I’ve plateaued for a few months but I’m getting back on it.

I try to exercise 3-5x a week, eat 1500-1800 calories a day and sneak in as many veggies as I can. I had some trouble with depression and anxiety, but as soon as I found the right medication and therapist, I became myself again. Determined, hard-working, and caring. If you have either of those, I highly suggest finding someone who can help you. It can help you immensely.

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Frustrated.

I've been on my weight loss journey on and off for years, and am now at a healthy weight (however I want to lose a little more because I am unhappy with my weight) so I've been counting my calories and ensuring that I don't go above the caloric intake I have set myself with. (I calculated my TDEE). So far, everything has been going ok, with some falling off the wagon days, but one thing I really can't understand is my family's lack of support? (18, f, 174cm and 61kg currently, I wish to drop to 59kg)

I try to eat healthier these days and within my budget (1500) so I eat foods like oats and more vegetables and reject those I think would be too unhealthy... but my family constantly brings me food when I'm stuffed and don't want to, and then they berate me for not eating what they tell me to eat. I get that they show me love through food, however, forcing me to eat when I'm full or to eat a bigger portion than I have to is not the way to go, and getting upset when I don't eat the way they want to... I really have no clue. I feel bad for making them mad but I am genuinely dissatisfied with my body, so am I wrong for trying to change it?

Moreover, they have a thing against healthy foods. For context, a few months back I got onto eating healthier and exercising more, but one day I overdid it and ended up w a concussion lol (to clarify, it's not because of my diet, but because of dehydration) My family got really freaked out (understandably) and from then on, had this firm belief that it was these healthy eating that caused me to faint. They think I'll die if I continue eating like that, and I understand their fear and have been telling them that I'm getting sufficient calories and nutrients but they just won't listen...?? It's not like I don't eat unhealthy foods completely, I just eat less of it compared to before, and suddenly its not ok.

I get that they are concerned about me, and I really appreciate their concern, but it's causing some tensions between my family and I, and I'm frustrated and at a loss. I don't want to stop losing weight, but I'm not willing to sacrifice my relationship with my family. I don't know what I should do, and it really sucks to have your family NOT support you (and even say that you're sick because of your wish to lose weight)

Am I a terrible person for being this way?

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I have been living a lie for years (my height)

The last time I got my height measured was at the doctors back when I was around 19 or 20. She said 6' 1" so that's what I been using since. Now, I don't know if it's due to age, bad posture, etc but I can safely say I am no longer a member of the 6' 1" category.

This made so much sense to me after looking at countless progresspics, before&afters of men in the 6' 1" range. Now I know why I don't look a certain way, and why the body fat distribution seemed much higher on me than other people. I used to look at people of the same "height" and be astonished that they had way more definition than I did and I was wondering why.

It's kinda incredible how much difference an inch can make when it comes to the physique of an individual. I also learned that a persons height will decrease during the day, morning being your tallest (after you wake up) and gradually lose height during the day. When I wake up I am 6", before I go to bed I have lost about half an inch.

If your weight loss physique is not similar to other individuals, I recommend you measure your height at home... you may not be as tall as you thought you were.

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I've been plateaued for 6 months... Losing motivation.

I started my weight loss journey 13 months ago by joining WW and eyeing this subreddit. I dropped 30 lbs, going from 210-180. I'm proud of what I achieved so far, but within these past 6 months, I've stopped losing. I'll admit that there's been added stress in my life (college graduation, moving in with fiancé, finding a job, financial struggles, etc.) which has thrown off my tracking of food, I'm a huge stress eater, and I'm not an avid fitness person. I'll occasionally go to the gym with my 80 year old grandma (God bless her... She's a lot better at Zumba then I am!) then get roughly 30,000 steps a week. Plus I work with small children, so I get some arms, legs, and abs workouts in with them.

I'm just at a point where I've lost all care about my weight loss. I do have my "why's" as WW calls them (getting married and just being more healthy), but I've been okay with how my body is. Not 100% estatic, but just okay. My goal is 135 lbs, so I have 55 lbs to go...

So, people of Reddit, how did you get back on track? What helps you get out of a plateau?

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[ADVICE PLEASE!] Down 8 lbs since about a month ago!

I started off with cutting rice off out my diet, it worked great at first but I still had a bad eating habit where I’d binge eat. Recently learned and adopted CICO where I log and calculate calories into MFP for a more standardised diet plan, great stuff but I realised for my weight I can only have 1000 calories a day.

This is honestly the first time I’m sticking to a plan for this long, the previous ones are all a big failure cos I usually go pretty extreme and then give up after a short while. HUGE thanks to this community for opening my eyes on these lovely and useful methods!

I’ve got a few questions about weight loss and would definitely appreciate any help!

How do y’all keep up with the CICO plan? Do you increase your physical activity to cope up with the calories intake?

(5 ft 3) I’m about 123 lbs now, about 13 lbs away from my goal weight. For now I’m concerned about my body fat level, which is 24% according to my bathroom scale..

What should I do to cut down on my body fat level?

Thank you so much!

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