Sunday, December 27, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 27 December 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Concerned about my weight loss, please help!

Hi there everyone, I am a 22 year old male, 175cm in height nearing the end of my 8 month weight loss journey. I initially started around 78 ish kg and am now 65 kg (my goal weight). I achieved this by going on a caloric deficit of 1500 and cardio exercise which includes long distance biking (50km) per session so around 150km a week.

Now that I have reached my goal weight, I did a self analysis on my body and I felt like I wanted to go lower in body weight because I still have a muffin top and fat around my lower belly area. After further research into the reddit comments this seems to be the last area to go. I am afraid of going under 65kg as I may be considered underweight at this point. What are your opinion?

My plan is to get down to sub 10% body fat or somewhere close to that so I can have a good baseline to start a lean bulk.

https://imgur.com/a/L5FmIxu - please take a look at this and maybe give an estimation on my body fat percentage if possible? I heard that I could have what woman would call "violin hips" which are hips that protrude slightly outwards, but its clearly fat as I can grab a chunk of fat from that area and not bone. Any suggestions will be appreciated. thank you

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I lost 8kg / 17lbs, I am no longer obese, I am almost halfway there, but I look and feel the same. This is so discouraging.

In August when I (f21) started to actively lose weight I was 90 kg / 189 lbs. I am only 1,69 cm / 5'6 ft, so I was considered obese. Since then I lost 8 kg / 17 lbs very steadily and since beginning of December I am no longer obese. Looking at the numbers it seems like so much should have happened, I almost lost half of what I have to lose to be considered normal weight. But still I don't see shit.

My pants fit a little better but I haven't dropped a size, non of my other close fit any better than before. When I measured my waist a few weeks ago I didn't even lose a single centimeter. I took pictures of my body before and after and I can't see any difference, not even the slightest. And it's not like the fat on my body is well distributed, I am a woman and I have a prominent belly which doesn't look very feminine. I also don't see any change in my face. I also don't feel like walking has become easier, or basically anything has become easier. No one except for my mum has noticed my weight loss, but she already knew I was trying to lose weight, so yeah.

This is so discouraging. How can it be that I see or feel almost nothing when I almost lost the weight of an entire car tire?

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Saturday, December 26, 2020

Battling with self acceptance and weight loss with parent who has NEVER been positive about my body

So I 26(f) have never had a good relationship with my body, and in the last few years have tried to talk to my mum about some of the things she has said and done while I was growing up to contribute to that (I’m not blaming it all on her). She never talked positively about my body, and mad me feel like absolute garbage about myself too many times to count. Here are a few examples:

  1. When I was in grade 4-5 she poked my belly and said that I’d better be careful about my weight because if I gained anymore I’d start puberty soon. (I was 5’3-5’4 at the time and weighed around 100 lbs)

  2. Always gave me smaller portions of everything, to the point where people (including my younger siblings would notice)

  3. When I was in grade 6-7 I ate 2 granola bars between breakfast and lunch. My mom found the wrappers in the trash and asked me if I had eaten them. When I said yes she then screamed at me about all the sugar and made me go outside and run around the driveway while she watched so I would burn it off. I was sobbing the entire time.

I brought this up to her a couple years ago and she denied ever doing it. My sibling told her that they remembered it too, and my mom proceeded to go on about how she was such a terrible mother.

  1. In high school she yelled at me in front of a friend for eating almonds because they were too fattening.

  2. In my second year of university she told me that if I wanted a boyfriend I’d have to lose weight because guys only liked skinny girls.

  3. In university I was going through a particularly stressful point in life. I went home for the weekend one summer and she proceeded to question everything I ate, and then texted me after I left to tell me that this is the biggest she’s ever seen me and told me that she was concerned for my health and that I should go on a diet, that I didn’t look good and that other people had mentioned it to her too after I left.

This has had a huge effect on my self confidence and how I see myself. It’s also put a huge strain on my relationship with food- and I’ve struggled with disordered eating in the past.

I struggle with eating in front of her, talking about anything related to being fit/healthy/happy because she’s so negative about it all, and me. I hate it when I go home and choose to have a snack with my dad because she’ll make a comment about it in one way or another. I find it really has an effect on how I see myself and my journey to becoming healthier. Has anyone else struggled with this? Have you ever fixed a relationship like this? Id really like to separate how she sees me from how I see myself but that has proven to be difficult.

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I'm terrified of excess skin tw: ED

I've been obese since I was 18 and I'm now 25, I have had an eating disorder since I was 12 and it was restrictive until I was about 17 when I started eating properly and found I couldn't stop, I ended up gaining about 170lbs.

Since then my weight has yo-yo'd for years as I found in 2015 I reached a high of 290lbs at which point my whole family was getting super concerned and I decided to lose weight for my health to be honest. I managed to get my weight back down to 252lbs and I've had a years where I get down to 220lbs and then I end up going back up to 260. This year I decided I really needed to get my weight down because I'm already at severe risk of hospitalisation or death with covid but I've realised I have a food addiction and whilst I don't binge or purge anymore (something I did for years no matter my weight) I still struggle with wanting food as its my main coping mechanism for some severe trauma.

I can't afford therapy and I'm on a waiting list for NHS therapy for my PTSD. So far this year I've gone from 250 lbs down to 232 lbs but I find I always lose about 28 lbs and then I suddenly lose all motivation, I've come here to ask for advice on keeping motivation and to talk to you all about my intense fear of loose skin.

I have some lose skin on my breasts about an inch of it at the top of my breasts and a little bit on my belly, thighs and upper arms from all the yo yo weight.

It's not noticeable to other people but I know it's there and I'm so scared that if I do lose the amount I want to that I'll have bags of excess skin and I'm terrified of feeling uglier than when I started. Weirdly enough I'm finally at a point where I don't hate my body, sure I don't love it but I don't hate it or fixate on it anymore like I used to.

my goal weight is 150lbs which would give me a bmi of 24 which I know isn't ideal but I feel like it's a reasonable end goal for now.

Ive seen a lot of Instagrammers who make channels normalising their loose skin especially ones who have a lot of loose skin on their stomachs and whilst I'm so happy that they are happy I'm terrified that if I start getting lots of loose skin or bunching that I'll hate myself?

Also my method of weight loss is 1800 calories a day and so far its working really well and I'm not unmanageably trigger to overeat and I'm not getting overwhelmed or feeling like I'm going without. I have tried drastic restriction before, keto, fasting, juice diets etc and I found they all made me feel really unstable mentally and they resulted in severe relapses with binge/purging and yo-yo weight.

I hope this makes sense and someone here can share their thoughts with me.

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Weight loss is not going to happen overnight...

This is something that I have had to come to terms with over the last fourteen months while losing 100 pounds. If you want to lose weight in a healthy way (and keep it off), it is not going to happen overnight.

So many people want quick fixes to lose weight. Many of them do not realize that the quick ways to lose weight often lead into a downward spiral of losing-gaining-losing-gaining for years before they finally figure out how to keep the weight off.

There was a solid three months where I didn’t lose a single pound. Yes, I was very discouraged. I wanted to see the numbers continually go down like I’ve heard has happened for so many others. BUT. Please remember that every body is different. Do not be so hard on yourself. You will lose weight, you will gain weight and you will plateau. This is all a normal process of a weight loss journey. You’ve already made is so far already and I am so so proud of you.

Do not be discouraged. The scale will move soon and your journey will continue. Be strong and brave, and most importantly, make today your little bitch

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Going to start New Years once again and got a few questions

If I already walk 20000 steps a day should I aim to do any more exercise? I feel tired after work which is where I get my steps in and just want to sit down at home but I’m not sure if that’s just typical work exhaustion or if I’m genuinely physically crushed. My friend wants me to join the gym with him and I’m thinking I may get involved. I need to also start eating wayyy healthier. Any tips to not be tempted by crap? I’m hoping my girlfriend will also join me on the weight loss journey but I’m worried that if she gives up so will I. She’s always been a bit overweight however I took a medication which done this to me and it seems altered my eating habits long term. I have tried a few times now and after a couple of months I lose all motivation. It’s like I lose the fight in me. Please help a brother out. I’m 5’10 95kg for the record

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