Wednesday, April 9, 2025

My mother doesn’t understand how unhealthy crash diets are

So I’ve bern losing weight with CICO since September, and despite having a number of factors working against me (PCOS, CSU, chronic depression, and agoraphobia) I’ve lost 25lbs. Seeing my success my mother decided to start her own weight loss. She has about 20lbs to lose whereas I have about 100 more to lose, but I told her I’d be happy to help her out with encouragement and any tips I’ve learned.

We live 4500 km apart so I don’t actually see her often but we speak on the phone. She called today and told me it’s been going really well the first week, she’s already lost 3lbs. She said she’s been eating a 6’ tuna sub each day. That’s it. Nothing else. I explained to her that a tuna subway is less than 500 cals and she should be eating 1200 per day. She just kept saying “but I feel fine” and got really angry when I said it’s really unhealthy (how can it be unhealthy when it has so many vegetables and good protein?!). I know ultimately I can’t stop her from making poor choices but I’m legitimately worried about her so I’m wondering if anyone has some tips on how to show her what a healthy diet looks like without coming across accusatory or like I’m “fear-mongering”?

Thanks!

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Tuesday, April 8, 2025

how do you cope with being seen regularly in public?

I [29F] consider myself at the beginning of a weight loss journey after a long, slow battle with weight gain. I am not obese, just overweight, but I spent most of my adult life a healthy weight until the past few years. What I'm struggling with currently is the emotional toll of being seen by others.

I live in a major city in the US. I work onsite at an office 3-4 days a week and have to walk 20 minutes each way and take a long bus ride to commute to work on those days. I dress nice daily, wear makeup, style my hair, but none of that matters. Being out in public to this extent and being seen by others, as well as having to see myself in mirrors and reflections, is really taking a toll on me. When I sense anybody looking at me I get so anxious, and when I am at work I just want to hide. For example, I was just in a work meeting and I was so uncomfortable that I kept my arms crossed over my stomach and my stomach sucked in for the whole hour as I sat in my chair, yet I knew it wouldn't help, that everyone around me was perceiving me and my body and my size and there was nothing I could do about it, nothing I could do to change their perception of me or make myself look better. I am fortunate in that I haven't been bullied and people haven't made rude comments about me, but that's not the issue. Just knowing that they're not blind and they can perceive my body as it currently is is embarrassing in and of itself.

I am going to try to channel this negative emotion into motivation for productive things that will contribute to weight loss, such as exercising consistently, but I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to manage this feeling on a daily basis. It's taking everything I have right now not to break down and cry at work and I can't focus on my tasks.

Also, I cannot currently afford to go to therapy, so please do not suggest that route.

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Monday, April 7, 2025

A loss is worth celebrating (even if you and/or others don’t see the changes) 🩷

https://imgur.com/gallery/eAvfU1p Scared to post these pics… but here we go. 🥲

I’ve officially lost 30 lbs since January. I’m working out every day, eating less/measuring my food, and overall and most importantly, being consistent! But yet, even still, my clothes fit the same, I see the same body in the mirror, and worst of all, nobody has said anything to me or has stated that they’ve noticed my weight loss. I know, I know- seeking validation in the comments of others (and not getting said validation) is not what makes or breaks my success. And I can say it louder for the ones in the back because I swear I cannot be the only one! I feel like I’ve grown up and throughout my entire 22 years of life being told what’s wrong with my body, how I need to lose weight, am fat etc~ so it makes sense that I would be consciously (or subconsciously) hoping for that verbal validation from the opposite end- aka, the desire for positive comments to counteract all of those negative ones. Well, here is my first photo comparison where I feel like there is a bit of change but nothing drastic. Given that I want to lose 80 more pounds, I suppose that 30 may not be all that visible and that’s okay. I just need to keep going. And if you’re feeling the same way- yes. Keep going. We’ve got this. 🩷

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Looking for new protein powder recommendations

I currently have OWYN protein powder in the morning with water. I don’t have any dietary restrictions, I just like the way this one tastes. It’s served me well, but I’m looking for a new option.

This one isn’t keeping me as full as it used to, earlier in my weight loss journey.

I’m looking for a recommendation that’s the same price or lower ($1.30/oz), and has the same or more protein (20g).

And of course, doesn’t taste awful when mixed with just water.

Does anyone have a protein powder that they swear by?

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Big Breakthrough on my BED I'd like to share

Warning: very long but m any posts such as this have been what's motivated me mentally through this journey. Hope this fits here.

SW: 220 CW:159 GW: 135 F/27/5'5"

Starting out this journey, I had no concept of what calories were (I believed that the more calories something is the fuller it makes you, the more nutritious it is), I had never ever seriously tried to understand the math and science behind weight loss and had struggled with binge eating and alcoholism. Really, the only thing I did know was that I would need a serious mental shift and lifestyle change in order to heal whatever it was that got me to my heaviest weight.

I've been actively trying to lose weight since Feb 2024 with the exception of a brief break from counting November-January. Since being back at it, I've had several days and even weeks that I'm reassessing what my defecit should be, how much I should move, or if I should give up and just try to be happy where I'm at (yay plateau!). I am extremely goal oriented so I've been really beating myself up everytime I give into the pressures of a quick snack at work, a small bite of something here and there, basically anything that's not on plan. I adjust my food plans almost every day and end up trading some decent protein for an okay snack and regret it.

After going off plan for a solid week, I finally sat down and talked it out with myself. "Why am I so uncomfortable not getting what I want? Why am I so uncomfortable being uncomfortable? What about food excites me so much that I can't stop myself?" Essentially, I was trying to get to the root of my lack of self discipline. Ah, Yes! Chilldhood! More specifically a perfectly blended cocktail of low self esteem given to me exclusively by my mother, LOADS of emotional negligence and a lack of a young social life. Basically, food was my best friend, my hobby, and my comfort. Although this is a very specific set of circumstances given to me, the underlying theme here can apply to a lot people: I had very little if any fulfillment outside of eating. When I was bored, I'd eat. And I was bored most of the time. When I was lonely, I'd eat. The only real hobbies I had from childhood allllll the way until a few years ago was eating and the internet.

I had a big breakthrough when I realized that I will not heal my BED or lack of self-assurance and worth until I break this cycle of always giving myself what I think I want. Or, to word it differently, I cannot heal until I find fulfillment in hobbies, interests, and LIFE outside of food. I had this mental shift a few days ago and since then, a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I've begun to do the things that my younger self would have loved to do but had such little self-worth, she was too afraid to try. Guess what? The food noise has lessened immensely. Yes, of course, this journey is going to continue to be long and challenging- I'm rewiring the same brain I've had all my life! The way I've learned to cope is by constantly comforting myself with food or alcohol or various other unhealthy coping mechanisms. Now, I'm telling myself that I have to feel and not mask the discomfort. I can't just reach for a muffin or a quick snack. I have to reach for my journal, a book,my best friend, a walk, a hobby. I have to go for the things that fulfill me actually and not just temporarily.

To tie this up, I now understand that I will not stick to my calorie defecit if I'm always coddling myself. I need some tough love. That tough love is to tell myself no to what I want and instead, give myself something that I need: love and fulfillment. Food does not need to be the center of my life. I, myself, can be the center of my life. I can fill my days with learning, moving, and creating things that are precious to me.

Turns out the weight loss advice is all valid: It's all a mental game.

TLDR: In order to stop my BED I have to fill my life with life. Get comfortable being uncomfortable.

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30 Easy and Healthy Spring Recipes

Spring is the time for fresh, flavorful eating. Savor the tastes of the season with these easy and healthy spring recipes that show off nature’s bounty!

With an abundance of fresh ingredients hitting their peak, there are so many nutritious and delicious meals that you can make in the spring. From healthy dinners your family will love to tasty sides, breakfast recipes worth waking up for, shareable snacks and some show-stopping desserts that won’t sacrifice nutrition, this list of our favorite spring recipes is sure to inspire you to enjoy the bounty of the season.

With our favorites at your fingertips, what will you be cooking up this spring?

1. Healthy Lemon Salmon Pasta

Healthy Lemon Salmon Pasta

Pasta meals are so filling that they satisfy even the biggest appetites. This Healthy Lemon Salmon Pasta recipe features salmon, a lean protein, along with one of spring’s most popular vegetables: asparagus. A tasty sauce made with lemons, basil, garlic and olive oil gives the fish, veggies and noodles a bright flavor.

2. Strawberry Rhubarb Upside Down Cake

Strawberry Rhubarb Upside Down Cake

Rhubarb is sometimes known as “pie plant” because the tangy stalks are a common ingredient in spring pastries, often paired with another seasonal favorite: strawberries. We bring them together in a light and moist Strawberry Rhubarb Upside Down Cake recipe made with whole wheat flour, eggs, butter and nonfat plain Greek yogurt. The cake goes into the oven upside down and when it’s done, you flip it so the blend of rhubarb and berries becomes the sweet topping.

3. Simple Spring Green Pasta Salad

Simple Spring Green Pasta Salad

Here’s a light side dish that features fresh spring vegetables, including peas, watercress and asparagus. They’re blended with your choice of pasta, such as rotini or penne, and it’s all bathed in a lightly tart lemon dressing. This Simple Spring Green Pasta Salad recipe is so easy, you can serve it on a weeknight. You will also be proud to bring it to any gathering of friends or family.

4. Air Fryer Roasted Parmesan Carrots

Air Fryer Roasted Parmesan Carrots

If carrots are one of your family’s go-to vegetables, this fresh preparation is sure to become a favorite. The orange roots are roasted in the air fryer, which brings out their natural sweetness as it tenderizes them. Add a little parmesan cheese for a bit of salty, savory flavor, then spice this Air Fryer Roasted Parmesan Carrots recipe with herbs, cayenne pepper, garlic powder or any other seasonings you like.

5. Easy Lemon Meringue Pie

Easy Lemon Meringue Pie

The closest you can get to a taste of a spring day just might be this luscious Easy Lemon Meringue Pie recipe. Each bite treats you to sunny lemon filling and puffy clouds of meringue on top of the sweet graham cracker crust. With this simple recipe, you can whip up the pie for a party or anytime you want a diet-friendly treat.

6. One-Pan Lemon Chicken Rice Skillet

One-Pan Lemon Chicken Rice Skillet

Dinner doesn’t have to be complicated to be delicious and satisfying. This One-Pan Lemon Chicken Rice Skillet recipe is a complete meal, featuring chicken breast, brown rice and zucchini or any other vegetable you and your family like. It all cooks together in a single skillet and comes out fork-tender and full of flavor.

7. Air Fryer Asparagus

Air Fryer Asparagus

There are many ways to enjoy asparagus when it’s in season, but we believe that cooking the spears in the air fryer brings out the best in them. All you do is toss them in a little olive oil with garlic and pepper, then heat them for 10 minutes in the air fryer. The asparagus stays firm but tender and juicy, with a lightly sweet flavor. Top this Air Fryer Asparagus recipe with a little grated parmesan cheese for a hint of salty taste.

8. Spring Sausage and Herb Pasta

Spring Sausage and Herb Pasta

Turkey or chicken sausage have all the flavor of standard varieties, but much less fat and fewer calories. They’re perfect for this Spring Sausage and Herb Pasta recipe, paired with your favorite shape of whole wheat pasta, fresh spring peas, herbs and a rich lemon-butter sauce. Make the meal even more filling and nutritious by adding your choice of non-starchy vegetables, such as broccoli, tomatoes or summer squash.

9. Easy Lemon Berry Trifle

Easy Lemon Berry Trifle

If you want to bring out an eye-catching dessert at your next dinner party, this Easy Lemon Berry Trifle recipe will spark lots of oohs and aahs. It’s made by alternating layers of fluffy angel food cake (try our Healthy Angel Food Cake recipe! >), berries, low-sugar lemon Greek yogurt and light whipped cream. Because it’s made with healthy ingredients, you can dig in guilt free.

10. Spring Asparagus Frittata

Spring Asparagus Frittata

Frittatas are light yet filling meals that are ideal for warm spring days. This Spring Asparagus Frittata recipe features Swiss and parmesan cheeses along with seasonal vegetables like shallots, spinach and asparagus. You can serve this for an impressive weekend brunch or make it for yourself and keep the extra servings in your refrigerator for quick and healthy breakfasts or lunches all week.

11. Air Fryer Rack of Lamb

Air Fryer Rack of Lamb

Lamb is a spring holiday tradition for many families, and it can be a healthy choice when you’re trying to lose weight. It’s high in protein and heart-protecting omega-3 fatty acids, and it’s loaded with flavor. We marinate the classic rack of lamb and season it with lots of fresh herbs in this Air Fryer Rack of Lamb recipe. Cooking it in the air fryer keeps it juicy and tender yet it’s ready in less than 30 minutes.

12. Baked Hot Spinach and Artichoke Dip

Baked Hot Spinach and Artichoke Dip

Get the party started with this warm and cheesy Baked Hot Spinach and Artichoke Dip. It’s made with two tasty spring vegetables blended with parmesan, mozzarella and cream cheeses. Serve the dip with carrot and celery sticks, whole wheat pita bread or whole grain crackers.

13. Ham and Spinach Quiche

Ham and Spinach Quiche

Quiche, a kind of savory pie, can be a filling breakfast or lunch. Like the classic version, we make this Ham and Spinach Quiche with eggs and lots of Swiss cheese, along with low-fat ham and fresh spinach. It’s all baked until the filling is firm and the whole wheat crust is crisp. Each slice is a balanced serving of SmartCarbs and PowerFuels, all in one dish.

14. Healthy Blueberry Muffins

Healthy Blueberry Muffins

Muffins are sweet and fun to eat, but the ones that come from bakeries and coffee shops usually are loaded with fats and sugar. Our Healthy Blueberry Muffin recipe is moist, fluffy and crumbly, and has the lightly tart taste of blueberries. We make these muffins with healthy ingredients like whole wheat flour and Greek yogurt, so you can enjoy one for breakfast or snack time without derailing progress to your weight loss goal.

15. Shrimp Pasta with Garlic Asparagus

Shrimp Pasta with Garlic Asparagus

A healthy meal can be delicious and sophisticated, yet simple to make. This Shrimp Pasta With Garlic Asparagus recipe, for instance, has tender and juicy shrimp sauteed with asparagus, garlic, and lemon juice and lemon zest, then served over pasta. It’s a complete meal that’s not too heavy for a warm day but still hearty enough to satisfy any appetite.

16. Creamy Radish Feta Dip

Creamy Radish Feta Dip

Spring is prime time for radishes at farmers markets and grocery stores, and in gardens. We like to use their lightly spicy flavor to put a little zip in this Creamy Radish Feta Dip. The red roots are blended with feta cheese, sour cream, plain Greek yogurt, and herbs to make a zesty partner for dipping fresh vegetables or whole grain crackers.

17. Spring Quinoa Salad with Basil Vinaigrette

Spring Quinoa Salad with Basil Vinaigrette

Quinoa, the high-protein grain, makes a hearty foundation for this easy spring salad. It features creamy feta cheese, crunchy walnuts and fresh parsley. An easy homemade vinaigrette dressing flavored with basil and shallots ties it all together. You can make this Spring Quinoa Salad with Basil Vinaigrette recipe into a satisfying meal by adding grilled chicken or salmon.

18. Spring Beet Orzo Risotto

Spring Beet Orzo Risotto

Treat yourself to the naturally sweet taste of beets with this simple Spring Beet Orzo Risotto recipe. The roots are roasted to tenderize them and then pureed before mixing with orzo, the rice-shaped pasta. Creamy goat cheese is added for its tangy flavor, while toasted almonds give the dish a bit of crunch and a hint of salty taste.

19. Iced Lemon Loaf Cake

Iced Lemon Loaf Cake

We understand that it’s hard to resist the iced lemon loaf at the popular coffee shop chain, so we came up with a version that tastes just as good but has healthy ingredients. Our Iced Lemon Loaf Cake recipe is moist and sweet, with a rich lemony icing, just like the store-bought cake. But it is so nutritious you can enjoy it for breakfast.

20. Creamy Avocado Pasta with Vegetables

Creamy Avocado Pasta with Vegetables

The creamy texture and mild taste of avocados make them a healthy base for a simple pasta sauce you don’t have to cook. To make this Creamy Avocado Pasta recipe, you just put the avocados in the blender with basil, garlic and lemon juice. The smooth sauce is tossed with whole wheat spaghetti, cherry tomatoes and asparagus tips, or you can use any non-starchy vegetables you like, such as mushrooms, bell peppers and summer squash.

21. Mixed Triple Berry Scones

This Mixed Triple Berry Scone recipe can be the highlight of an elegant brunch or just a healthy companion for your morning coffee or tea. We make them with whole wheat flour to provide lots of fiber. A combination of raspberries, blueberries and blackberries add color and natural sweetness. If any scones are leftover, store them in the freezer and pull one out whenever you’re ready for a tasty start to your day.

22. Simple Smoked Salmon and Spinach Frittata

Simple Smoked Salmon and Spinach Frittata

You don’t need a special occasion to whip up this flavorful and filling breakfast. The smoked salmon provides a salty, savory contrast to the creamy eggs and cottage cheese, with spinach and scallions adding color and nutrients. Best of all, this Simple Smoked Salmon and Spinach Frittata recipe is easy to make even if you’re an inexperienced cook.

23. Garlic and Mint Lamb Chops with Spinach and Mashed Sweet Potatoes

Garlic and Mint Lamb Chops with Spinach and Mashed Sweet Potatoes

We’ve put together this complete dinner that’s perfect for sharing. It starts with tender and juicy lamb chops, a perfect portion of protein, which are topped with a flavor-boosting garlic mint sauce. Spinach sauteed with garlic and mashed sweet potatoes round out the meal. Whip up this Garlic and Mint Lamb Chops recipe for a hearty main course that’s perfect for spring!

24. Roasted Radishes and Brussels Sprouts

Roasted Radishes and Brussels Sprouts

Roasting softens both the texture and taste of these two spring vegetables, allowing their natural sweetness to come out. To make this Roasted Radishes and Brussels Sprouts recipe, you need only a little olive oil, pepper, garlic powder and a half hour in the oven to be transformed into a side dish you can enjoy with your favorite chicken or seafood entrée.

25. Skinny Strawberry Rhubarb Crumble

Skinny Strawberry Rhubarb Crumble

Sweet strawberries and tangy rhubarb bring out the best in each other. You can enjoy them in this super-easy Skinny Strawberry Rhubarb Crumble recipe that also features the flavors of cinnamon and maple syrup. Almond flour and real oats keep the calories down and the nutrition up.

26. Easy Cheddar Scones with Spinach

This Easy Cheddar Scones recipe is buttery and crumbly. We give it a savory flavor with cheddar cheese, spinach and green onions. They bake for about 20 minutes in the oven and come out golden-brown on the outside, yet warm and soft inside. For even more flavor, top them with salsa, an unlimited Free Food when you’re on a Nutrisystem weight loss plan.

27. Healthy Homemade Carrot Cake

Carrot cake usually just sounds healthy but is loaded with empty calories. Our version is made with freshly grated carrots and crisp walnuts, it’s seasoned with plenty of cinnamon and nutmeg, and it’s topped with rich maple icing. We use Greek yogurt and applesauce to ensure this Healthy Homemade Carrot Cake recipe is moist and lightly sweet. Now here’s the best part: each serving has less than 150 calories, so you can enjoy it while you’re losing weight.

28. Leek Mushroom Quiche with Quinoa Crust

Leek Mushroom Quiche with Quinoa Crust

This Leek Mushroom Quiche recipe is bursting with the flavors of spring, thanks to leeks (a mild relative of onions), mushrooms and fresh goat cheese. They’re blended with eggs and milk to make the creamy filling. The simple quinoa crust provides a crisp, protein-rich base for each slice.

29. Roasted Rosemary Beets and Carrots

Break up your same-old, same-old vegetable routine with this simple and savory Roasted Rosemary Beets and Carrots recipe. Roasting brings out the natural sweetness of beets and carrots, while making them perfectly tender. We add a little red onion and rosemary to pump up the flavor.

30. Crustless Spinach Feta Pie

You can have pie for lunch when you make this easy Crustless Spinach Feta Pie recipe. Along with the spinach and feta, it includes eggs, cream cheese and asiago cheese, so you get lots of protein. There’s no crust, so the pie comes together in just a few simple steps and is ready to eat in under an hour.

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Sunday, April 6, 2025

Weight loss is weird.

So back on January 8th of this year I (32f) had a heart attack that I shouldnt have survived (my genetics are trash). But for whatever reason, I'm still here.

Now I didnt really eat like shit to begin with but since then I've been keeping better track of what I eat and had substantially cut back on my sugar intake. No I'm not diabetic but holy cow what a difference its made!

I've never been skinny, I've always been insulted and I've only lost 15lbs so far but my jeans are lose and my knees dont pop anymore when squatting or kneeling!

My husband noticed it today and I jokingly said I didnt want to lose anymore because hed be able to throw me around more 😉 lol

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