Tuesday, November 12, 2019

Progressing well, but loose skin?

I really started focusing on weight loss this spring/summer when I stepped on the scale and it tipped 225.

Small bit of background: I am 5’3”, 49 yo and have had four children. I’m through menopause and unable to take any hormone therapy. I have an underactive thyroid and am on daily meds for same.

I started walking 1.5-3 miles per day, time permitting; bought a rowing machine for the house and returned to cooking from scratch daily vs. processed or going out.

Currently I weigh in at 164, have gone from a 2x to a 12.

Still walking daily, still rowing 3x per week and thrilled where things are going.

However, I have so much loose skin that I am really struggling to find the joy in my unclothed body. I have moments where I wonder if heavier didn’t look better, aesthetically.

I understand that I have lost a considerable amount in a relatively short period of time and also recognize that I probably have 20-30 pounds to go before I will feel more comfortable in my body.

All of that said, other than hydration and continuing with my exercise are there ways to help facilitate the tightening of some of this? I don’t think surgery would ever be something that I could justify, so I am hoping that there are other things that I could do as well?

Thanks in advance. I know I don’t post much here, but know that you all have been an inspiration for me, and I have been so grateful for this group.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 12 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Monday, November 11, 2019

Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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[21F]Looking for weight loss buddies :)

Hey guys so I’ve never posted anything so not sure if I’m doing this right so sorry if I’m not. Im looking for weight loss buddies. Just someone to text about food and fitness and whatever to be honest and someone who can be an accountability buddy :)

A bit about me: I’m 21 and study Computer Science at university in the UK. I love pretty much every sport and played sports everyday as a kid and abruptly stoped at 16 when moving to boarding school so that’s how I gained my weight as I was a skinny kid before that. I gained even more at university :(. I need to lose about 35 kg to be at my ultimate goal weight but right now I’d be happy with like 20 tbh. I’ve already lost about 17 this summer but I’ve really been struggling with food lately. I do love healthy food but always crave fast food and crisps and break my diet. I go to the gym every other day :)

If you’re interested in a weight loss/accountability buddy, dm me. I don’t have any “criteria” but please be over 18 :) Also if you have any advice on dealing with cravings plz dm me hehe :)

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I came back from vacation last Tuesday surprised to find I had actually lost 2 lbs during the week I was gone!

(26F 5'3" SW: 211 CW: 195)

During the week leading up to Halloween, my husband and I went on vacation to Las Vegas and were away for 6 days. I told myself I was going to try my best to log the food into MyFitnessPal while I was away, but I also tried to make the resolution that if I forgot to log a few things, it would be fine. I just had to try.

And I did try. I know I didn't log every meal, but I made sure I had at least one meal logged each day that I was in Vegas to the best of my ability. But I suppose I shouldn't have been surprised that I still lost weight while I was away considering the fact that we walked SO MUCH on our trip. My main format of exercise during my weight loss journey so far has been making sure I get at least 10,000 steps in a day, so I guess the amount of walking around Vegas we did ended up just continuing my process. For context, on one of the last days we were gone, I hit a bit over 40,000 steps, or an equivalent of somewhere around 15 miles that day.

So, I guess what I'm trying to express is that vacation doesn't have to automatically mean a hindrance to your progress, but it's absolutely ok to give yourself a break. I still drank probably too much while I was away, and a lot of the food I did eat was definitely not the healthiest option, but it ended up still working out. Everyone's journey is different, and we all have to do what feels best for us personally. I'm trying, just like all of us are, and that's what's most important.

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I don't think you have to love your body to love yourself

I think this might be a bit of a controversial post, but I'm interested in hearing the different perspectives on it.

Often I will see people promoting the idea that you have to come to some sort of level of love in your body or physical appearance in order to make way in weight loss. Simultaneously I often see the idea of loving yourself being directly conflated with loving your body.

I don't love my body. I actually would say I'm much closer to hating my body. It's not attractive, it's not sexy and it's not beautiful. I don't get anything but discomfort and sadness when I look at it and all of that just fuels me to change, not to find a way of loving it. I had all the jiggly bits of fat, the big round waist and the man-boobs. I hate the flabby butt, the sausage fingers and the rolls.

I've hated it from the moment I started getting overweight and the ONLY thing that has improved it is weight loss - not finding a way to accept or love it. I also don't find much meaning in the idea of "loving it to allow it to change" or "loving it for everything it does for you, i.e. allowing you to get to the gym to work out". I get the nice message behind those but I still think those things are completely distinct to learning to love what you see when I look down.

Now just to be clear I do love myself. I think I'm a kind, thoughtful and nice person, who is good at telling a joke and knows how to take criticism. I'm not "number one" or anything but I think I'm a fairly rounded person. I'm pretty confident when it comes to socialising, I'm always the first one on the dance floor and the last one to leave it.

I understand that a lot of people here suffer from mental health issues, and perhaps because I don't suffer from those, I don't see how it's necessary to love your body to love yourself. But for me personally, being told to love my body for what it is feels like telling me I have no control over it, and I do, and I am changing it for the better.

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Maintenance Monday: What Brings You Here Today?

Bit of a meta post today, but what brought you to the Maintenance Monday thread this week? Further to that, what brought you to - and what's keeping you in - r/loseit? There could be a lot of reasons we keep coming back to a sub built around weight loss while we're maintaining, from accountability, a desire to pay it forward, habit, wanting to be around people who 'get it' etc., and maybe you have multiple reasons. So feel free to share them below!


Anything else on your mind pertaining to maintenance? Is your diet going effortlessly, or have the last few weeks been more of a struggle? All questions, remarks and worries are welcome topics of conversation!

Previous Maintenance Monday threads can be found here.

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