Sunday, October 14, 2018

Gained 55 pounds but am going strong again.

A few years ago I went from around 260, don't know the exact number because at the time I was scared to step on a scale, to 180 and thought that I was done and could maintain that weight without paying attention. This worked for about a month and then the weight started to creep back without me even paying attention. I think that I subconsciously thought that since I was not as bad as I was before then a few pounds was fine and I was doing fine. This was until around a year when I saw a picture of myself and didn't even recognize myself, I forced myself to step back onto the scale to see the damage and I was back up to 235 pounds. This was a wake up call for me and I started to get back onto the wagon.

I was having a much harder time maintaining any sort of weight loss and kept losing a bit then gaining it back and realized I needed a different method to lose the weight. I finally realized that I needed to exchange my unhealthy snacking habits with healthy ones. I turns out that when you eat when bored you just need to fill up free times with some sort of activity and for me it has been lifting weights. Every time I get a craving to go and snack on something I lift weights for a few minutes and that usually makes the cravings go away. I have not really built up much muscle because I am on a calorie deficit but I have gotten a lot more toned than I was before. I am currently at 185 and at the rate that I am going I will reach my goal weight in around 2 months.

Here are some pictures of the progress, I don't have any from my heaviest but here is one from my sophomore year of high school an a current pic https://imgur.com/a/A7V5WlU

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I’m getting frustrated with lack of progress everywhere but the scale.

I’m going through a bit of a rough patch with my diet and I really don’t know what I can do about it. In the last 7 months I’ve lost a little over 80 pounds from about 325 to my current just over 240. I’ve managed the weight loss pretty well,straight CICO with a focus on protein. I’ve hit a couple of plateaus and I think I’m due to lower my calories again but overall it’s gone pretty well. . It should be a great thing, but it really isn’t.

I look basically the same. Still the same basic proportions, I’ve gone down a couple of pants sizes but there’s been no real visual difference and just pants sizes, I’m wearing the same shirts and they fit fine, now there’s just some deflated loose skin at the arm holes. My face has changed a little but forbthe worse. I don’t feel better. In fact I probably feel a little worse. I feel weaker and I’ve had a couple of injuries that I suspect I wouldn’t have gotten if I was still bigger. My knees still hurt despite that being the second most driving reason for the decision to lose.

It’s getting really hard to stay motivated at this point because I am going through all this trouble and denying myself for at this point what is just a number on a scale without any real difference. You assume someone loses 80 pounds that there’d be a difference. The progress pics you see are always crazy and it’s someone who has lost 40 or 50. Or people say they feel so much better and I just don’t. It’s really hard to stay positive at this point when I just feel like I’m wasting my time and working for basically no reason.

I could use some advice or words of encouragement. I guess this is mostly just venting and a reminder not everyone who loses a lot of weight ends up a great success story.

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I have been in denial about gaining weight. Now I am 190 lbs and scared about how hard it will be to lose weight in my late 30ies. It is so daunting. How do I start?

The last 2 years have been a very challenging time for me (leaving high pressure job close to burnout, starting a new job in a different country). I gained a lot of weight, without having the energy to do anything about it. I just let it happen and did not question my unhealthy habits because other things were more important. I have been in the upper region of healthy BMI all my life, but now I can no longer ignore my overweight. I need to do something.

I have done this before, 5 years ago when I decided I had to lose weight. I lost 20 lbs over 4 months through intermittent fasting. However during the period of weight loss, it completely consumed my daily life and I was hardly thinking about anything else, I had to structure my days around it and at times I was fairly miserable. I am at a stage in my life where I have a lot of things that I need to achieve and take care of. I am scared that when I start trying to lose weight again, I will have to devote all my energy and free time to this goal at the detriment of everything else in my life. How do I prevent this from happening? How do I start losing weight without completely obsessing about it? Also, I know the changes I will have to make are pretty drastic, and this is scaring me too. I am in my late thirties and from a family where all women in have become heavy in their middle age. So I am afraid I will make a lot of sacrifices but in the end I won't see any success.

Please I need some encouragement and pointers on where to start. Also, advice from women who lost weight in middle age, because I know it is not as easy as in your twenties.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 14 October 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Note for Fatties During the Struggle - Remember the things you are working for

A month ago I posted here about how getting close is the most dangerous part of the weight loss journey, and many expressed appreciation for the thought. Those expressions of appreciation were very helpful to me for my own struggle.

I read so many comments about plateaus or the difficulty and the frustration, and certainly, I experience those myself. I was thinking about it in my own life as I was getting dressed this morning. Then I realize I just picked some pants and a shirt and threw them on. Without even thinking about whether they would fit. They just slid on easily. This still shocks me because I still feel like I am as fat as I was when I started my weight loss. And it made me think about the things we give up when we let our weight go, and the things we get back. So I thought I would post a reminder for those who may be wondering if the challenge is worth it.

  • Picking from any of the clothes you own, knowing it will fit without being uncomfortable or looking like a stuffed sausage
  • Going clothes shopping and knowing if you find something you like, you can more than likely get it in a size that fits you
  • Not being forced to buy and wear clothes because they fit, but because you think it looks good
  • Shopping for things online confident that when it arrives, it will probably work
  • Not worrying about someone filling the empty chair next to you in a theater or an airplane, or being embarrassed when they do
  • Not having to check the Max Wt. Limit on anything you want to try
  • Being fine when you visit the doctor, and they tell you to get on the scale before the exam
  • Getting a haircut you want, not the one that looks fine with your full face
  • Not struggling to wipe your ass, or wash yourself, or having to treat any rashes or other maladies that come with the constant friction of living your life
  • No longer having that sick feeling after bingeing on too much food, and the cycle of self-hatred that comes with it
  • Having the option of getting stronger and healthier, instead of just worrying about losing weight

I am sure there are a ton more. These are just the ones that have come to me. Share your own. My own struggle and journey continues. It always will I think.

The world is built for people of average and healthy weight range. To be outside that range is to exclude ourselves from the world. To be in that range provides options. It provides freedom. And that is more important than cheese fries.

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Saturday, October 13, 2018

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Sunday, 14 October 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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How can I strive for weight loss without triggering body dysmorphia?

I have struggled with self esteem since I was a kid. Most times, it revolves around my weight.

I am definitely overweight (F, 5'7, 260lbs) and have been told by my doctor that I need to lose weight. However, every time I try to diet and exercise, I trigger my symptoms of dysmorphia.

Some background:

- I experience depression and anxiety, and am on medication for both.

- I have a history of self-harm (cutting, biting, hitting) that began when I was 12 (last episode was 2 years ago).

- I was anorexic at 12 and attempted bulimia around the same time.
(r/BodyAcceptance doesn't allow posts on weight loss, but yes I am following r/EatingDisorders)

- My most recent bout of weight loss happened 3 years ago, when I lost 60 pounds. Unfortunately, I did this by limiting my calories to 600/day and doing at least an hour of cardio every day.

It is SO hard for me to diet and/or exercise without falling into these old ways. And when I try to do things in a healthy way, I get impatient and angry with myself. Trying to diet and exercise brings a lot of my energy and attention to my weight, which makes me depressed and irritable.

I normally see a therapist, and we have discussed this issue multiple times. Typically, it ends up with me either deciding to love myself the way I am, or making some healthy weight loss commitment that I don't stick to.

Does this describe anyone else's experience? How do you handle all the conflicting pressure?

TL;DR: I need to lose weight, but have a history of serious self esteem issues. How can I manage my physical health without jeopardizing my mental health?

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