Wednesday, November 13, 2019

Back on the weight loss train again!

I did very well about almost 5 years ago. I lost about 65 lbs from CICO, exercise, and a low carb diet. Then I met my now husband- and while I love him to pieces, he brought me back to some awful eating habits.

I've been using mfp again, and doing high fat, high protein, low carb has been working for me. I've lost a bit over 17lbs in the last 80 days. I wanted to take it slowly, and for the first month or so I didn't lose much weight but user it as a period of time to figure out what foods work and don't work for me, what I like and don't like, and how I stay full. I'm starting to get food pretty under control- I loosely use keto as a guideline but eat a lot more vegetables than what is generally recommended for it and that brings my net carbs up a bit high, but I'm losing weight steadily now and that's what I care about as opposed to following a strict diet.

Now it's time to get back on the exercise train!

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I've waited a month to post this.

April 24 of this year was the first time I weighed in on my first day of my official weight-loss journey: 270lb, as a 5'4'' 27yo female. That was a very hard day.

For the next 5 months, I danced around any real progress; I was scared. Scared of loose skin, scared of cutting out things I loved to eat, scared of what I would do with my time I otherwise spent binging at night, and scared of how I would actually go about resetting habits. But mostly, I was scared to face that reality that if I succeeded, my "weight loss journey" would become part of my identity. I would have to talk about it. I would have to accept that I had been fat enough to go on a "journey" to become not fat, and other people would know. I hated that idea. I thought that if I ignored the weight, if I pretended to be okay with myself, if I just made sure not to be in anyone's pictures, or end up on instagram where someone from high school or college might see me (as 100+ of these pounds have been put on in the last 4 years; most of my life I'd been fit and athletic), I could just will this weight to disappear and never have to think about it or admit it to anyone, and I could leave it all entirely behind me. I actually believed that.

It took a lot of reading this subreddit and of facing the reality of what I was consuming every day and googling images of "270 pound woman" for me to realize that wasn't true. But mostly, it took me moving to the other side of the world.

A little over two months ago I moved from NYC to Hong Kong, on a 6-month assignment for my job. For the first month or so, I didn't really seem to move in any direction; I needed time to adjust to an entirely new space and culture and job. I wasn't eating great, but I wasn't binging to my usual degree either. And then roughly six weeks in, I realized I had an opportunity. Everything around me was different: I had none of my usual triggers or foods, no Seamless, no bodega downstairs, I couldn't even access weed (I usually smoke 1-2 joints per night), and I had a gym three floors down.

And then it just...happened for me. I went out and bought a scale (264.2 on October 13). I started tracking every single day. I cooked broccoli at home and learned to absolutely love it (and cauliflower, and asparagus, and cottage cheese with orange slices for breakfast). I stopped eating sweets, almost entirely. I joined a boxing gym, and started going 2-3 times a week. In my off-days I hit the treadmill or the elliptical in the gym, for a total of 4-5 workouts per week. And I did not want to say it had "clicked" or "finally stuck" until I had done exactly 30 days. And today is that day.

Today, I weighed in at 246.8lb.

I can get up a flight of stairs without heaving. I don't feel the urge to binge. I have developed a deep love and craving for truly healthy foods. I've come to realize that most junk food, or meals eaten out, really aren't worth it. My clothes are starting to fit better. I'm sweating less. I have more energy, I'm happier, I can look at myself in the mirror and am too distracted by the progress I can see to focus on the the things I've grown to hate about my body. I'm not perfect, and I'm still nowhere near my goal weight, but I cannot wait to keep going.

30 days down, and a lifetime to go.

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Alcohol & Weight Loss

Hi- I was hoping to hear from this group about your experience with Alcohol & Weight Loss.

My husband and I have always been “drinkers” I guess, not huge binge drinkers but the kind that have a beer or glass or wine with 75% of our dinners and have 2-4 almost every Friday and Saturday night.

Since I began focusing on weight loss, I’ve been treating alcohol like everything else I consume, either cutting back on portions or finding lower calorie “healthier” alternatives (ex. Vodka/Soda instead of craft beers or wine). I always track calories for alcohol (though sometimes I’m not confident of the accuracy because I feel like wine is so hard to find stats for).

I’m not opposed to cutting out alcohol for a month of so (plan to do this in January anyway). I’ve also considered cutting it out Sunday-Thursday but allowing it Friday/Saturday. But a lot of what I’m reading is about making changes that you can maintain the rest of your life, not just temporarily, based off of our lifestyle/hobbies/friends I don’t think going cold turkey will be the best long term.

Do you have any other strategies that work for you? Or what has been your experience in general?

Just interested to hear from this group in general!

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I just reached my starting weight again!

I don't want to tell any of my irls cause I'm afraid I may end up losing momemtum if I get too much praise, so I'm posting here instead. Sorry for the long post. Maybe a small trigger warning? I'm not sure.

So for the last couple of years, I've been stuck on the same weight. I've gone to the gym, I've tried eating less, I've tried and failed going on diets - nothing worked and I ended up giving up very quickly cause I wasn't seeing results. I got depressed and a little obsessed to the point where I think I almost started developing an eating disorder, but the fact that I had the desire to purge my food after binge eating was a massive warning sign for me, so I stopped myself and worked on my mental health for a while.

Since I've gotten better mentally, I've managed to work harder on my studies, I improved my relationship with my family a bit, and I've come to terms with a few of my social issues (definitely not all). I also got a part time job at a bar, mostly night shift. Everything was starting to go well; I was no longer obsessing over my weight (although I did think about it often), and I had gotten my depression unter control (with a lot of help from loved ones). However, due to balancing my studies with working night shift, I've gotten really stressed and tired (it didn't help that I spent hours on my phone or something instead of sleeping when I could). I have no time or energy to go to the gym, and I'm mostly too tired to care about eating healthy. The bar also offers 50% staff discount for one meal per shift, so I would eat something very unhealthy for dinner (such as a whole pizza or lots of fries) 3 times a week. The rest of the time, I'd buy food on campus, none of which was healthy at all. I was letting myself stress eat.

All of this eating and no exercise besides what my everyday life demanded of me was making my weight, which hadn't changed for years, start to pick up, and I didn't like how it felt. So I decided that now that my mental health is better, I want to improve my physical health as well: better sleep, better food, some exercise.

I took a different approach than I always have; instead of going on a diet and vigorously doing a ton of cardio, I started counting calories and doing yoga at home. I barely ever stay under my calorie limit, but I'm still learning and getting used to it, and it's making me super conscious of my portions. The yoga is helping me a lot with with movement my body doesn't normally get, and it just makes me feel good, even during the exercises - something that cardio doesn't do for me.

Since it's only been like a month or so, I didn't have any weight loss expectations; my aim for now was to just feel better - and I do! I'm keeping this in mind, even as I'm seeing the numbers very slowly drop on the scale.

Today, however, I'm letting myself feel triumphant, cause I just got myself back to the weight I've been on for years now. And, this time, I'm hoping to finally surpass it.

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To those of you starting out: I offer a helping hand

I see many posts on this subreddit from people who want to embark on their fat loss journey, but seem a bit lost. There is a host of good information on this subreddit, but I would love to help further.

To preface this post, I feel it prudent to highlight that I am a qualified level 3 personal trainer as well as a qualified physiotherapist. furthermore my wife is an FRCS (Plast) surgeon in the NHS. I say this to give you peace of mind that information i give is based on a strong foundation of biological knowledge, evidence as found in peer reviewed literature and experience (my wife has 20 years experience as a doctor).

Having said that, I invite any and all questions in relation to this subreddit. Unfortunately i cannot give tailored medical advice, as that would require a consultation, but i can certainly try to help enlighten those of you who have come across conflicting or confusing information.

Possible topics (not an exhaustive list):

Where to start, Psychology of change, Planning, Diet, Exercise, Nutrition, Aesthetics, Pain, Neurology, Medical conditions in relation to weight loss/exercise, General health, Hormones and homeostasis.

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I've lost 10kg and no one can see it

19F / 5"1, 79kg

I was the heaviest I had ever been at the end of my high school exams last year, and a full year later, I'm the lightest I've been in 3 years, but still very overweight. It feels like no one can see my progress except me - and I'm shocked because 10kg is the most weight I've ever managed to lose at once. I've been a yo-yo dieter since I was 14, always losing 6kg and then gaining it all back and more until I plateaued at almost 90kg at 18. I lost the 10kg in three months through calorie restriction and walking everywhere, and in the middle of it, got into a relationship with someone and lost some more due to fear of looking and feeling fat during intimate times. My boyfriend went through significant weight loss before dating me, and has a pretty healthy lifestyle now - he loves fitness and working out what foods are good for his body, and always encourages me to exercise and eat better in a way that doesn't pressure me because I know he genuinely wants whats best for my physical and mental health.

I haven't lost any more weight since August, and its November now. My lowest weight in June was 77kg, and its been slowly creeping back up. I desperately don't want to hit 80 again, but I have a huge fear of exercise and feel like everyone would be waiting for me to fail if I try to put myself back on a diet. I don't know how to healthily get back on track - I lack motivation and hate being perceived as the "fat girl on a diet". I'm having trouble finding someone to hold me accountable and share my progress with - all my friends who have experience with weight loss did so in a very disordered, unhealthy way, and I'm scared to ask my boyfriend for help because he's my safe space, and it would suck if it felt like I was disappointing him when I accidentally binge or slip up.

It feels like I'm comparing myself to everyone around me, and what little progress I make feels invisible. I want to feel lighter and stronger and more confident in myself. How do I get into a healthier mindset about weight loss to start my journey again?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 13 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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