Thursday, May 14, 2020

Uncomfortable with my body after weight loss

This isn't a post about stretch marks or anything like that. I'm about 25lbs now away from my ideal weight, I've lost about 126lbs now; on a 4'11 frame that's a lot.

Now I can feel my bones in my wrists and my face looks really different and I don't like it anymore. I just feel uncomfortable. I know I'm healthier and I don't want my body to go back to the old way but it's still very psychologically shocking to me to notice some aspects of how my body is now and I don't know why I'm so disturbed by it. It feels like it happened overnight, too, even though it's been gradual. I'm just starting to notice it now.

Anyone else had this experience? What is this?? What do I do?

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How do I get there again?

This may be long winded. Apologies ahead of time.

I’ve lost about 30 pounds before. I know what to do. How to calculate my maintenance calories and what I should be eating at to be successful in weight loss and improving my health. That I should be eating in moderation and the whole skit. But I just can’t get there.

My mental state is flat for a lack of a better word. I can’t find any motivation to even go outside for a walk. The quarantine hasn’t been great on me either as I’ve been working from home for about 10 weeks now. I’ve known that I needed help mentally for quite some time but never put myself in the position to receive it. Well I have my first counseling session Monday and hopefully a psychiatrist appointment soon as well.

I say all of this to ask, those of you struggling with mental health issues on top of weight loss how do you get up again? It’s like I’m just sitting outside of myself saying “get up, let’s go” and my brain is just like “not right now.”

I wanna get there again. I want to be healthy and in shape. But I just can’t find the will.

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Hit My Goal Weight (Again)

Feeling pretty excited this morning.

I'm male, 28 years old, about 5' 10" (178cm).

Starting Point (July 2018, 240 lbs)

In spring and summer of 2018 I weighed 240 lbs (109kg). My goal was to get to a healthy BMI of under 25, which was about 175 lbs (79kg). It took me many months before I really personally bought into the idea that the discomfort of dieting was something I really wanted, but by late July I had begun my weight loss journey. It started with telling myself if I tracked my calories for three weeks in myfitnesspal then I could buy myself a pair of airpods. It was quite a lifestyle change. I remember spending a week on a lake with my family for vacation and constantly resisting the urge to eat more than I wanted to track. But that's the power of tracking your calories, it makes you mentally acknowledge all the food you eat and by default makes all eating mindful.

First time hitting goal weight (April 2019, 175 lbs)

Anyways, I kept up the discipline (with lapses for sure, but was always able to get right back to my healthy habits) for about nine months and hit 172-175 in about April of 2019. That was a loss of 65 pounds (30kg) in about 40 weeks, or about 1.5 lbs per week, aka an average daily deficit of 750 calories. It felt amazing to achieve that goal and was an enormous boost to my self confidence and self pride.

That summer I played on a competitive ultimate frisbee team (relevant username), felt healthier than ever and maintained pretty close to my goal, like always under 180 lbs (82kg). Though to be honest, I really did want those numbers to be a few pounds lower and found myself being really calorie conscience even during tournament weekends when people can eat thousands of calories of snacks during a day of games, then have a huge dinner with a beer or shake. I would try to stick to about 2000 calories, and probably end up a few hundred more.

Celebratory Asia Trip (September 2019, 175->185 lbs)

After the season ended in September, I had a few weeks off between jobs, and had a trip planned to Thailand and Taiwan. This was my first time in Asia, after a lifetime of loving all Asian food. I had been dieting for over a year, and it was a constrained three week trip, so I decided to give myself cart blanche and eat whatever I wanted for three weeks. It was phenomenally delicious and freeing to eat everything, but I for sure went overboard. I ended up gaining about 10 pounds (5kg), which I really think was actual weight gain, not water weight. That, plus ending the season about 5 pounds over my goal weight meant I was about 15 pounds (7kg) away from where I wanted. The past 6 months has been an effort to shed those 15 pounds and today I reached my goal.

Explicit definition of new goal

My criterion for declaring the end of cutting and the beginning of maintenance is a bit complex, but I'm happy with it. I want to be safely in the healthy BMI range (<25), so if the cutoff for my height is 174 lbs, I set a goal of having a true weight most days around 172 lbs. To account for daily fluctuations, I like using an average of the past 7 days. I like the free Happy Scale app on iOS, the default "average" function is more wonky, but you can change to settings to make it a simple 7 day trailing average. And I didn't just want to dip down, I wanted to really hit and stick at this weight, so I decided to go for 7 days straight with a 7 daily trailing average under 172. Today was the 7th day!

I'm officially out of weight loss phase and into maintenance. I have a lot of thoughts and anxieties around this phase. For now, my goal is to aggressively track my calories, weigh in every day, and check in with myself every week. I don't know if I will try to consistently eat more (like 2000 calories) every day, or go for a daily goal of more like 1500 but have more budget for desserts and special occasions. I think the latter, but that's a lot less controlled, which gives me some pause.

How I lost 15 pounds this time

What I learned from reading this forum almost every day for months and months is that the advice and stories are almost never novel, but that just means if you're unsure where to start, good news: there are tried and true techniques and learnings! Read the quick start guide, it's gold!

My steady state for losing weight ended up like this:

No breakfast, but hot black coffee if I'm in the mood for a hot drink. It also works for me as an appetite suppressant. Mid size lunch at noon at around 500-600 calories. No snacks at all. Start cooking dinner around 6pm, eat at maybe 6:45. Eat 1000 calories for dinner.

Track track track my calories so I know what 500 calories and 1000 calories looks like. Often, that means planning out my meals component by component and adjusting amounts to fit the calorie goal.

Lapses

They happened to me. It's tough, because you want to be able to rebound from it quickly, but acknowledging it as a big deal failure might make it less likely to happen again? Certainly capping high calorie events at a day is far easier to recover from than a week. Another thing is that in the same way you might have an unplanned high calorie day, see if you can have an unplanned extra healthy day. Maybe you get a run in, have a normal lunch and a slightly smaller than normal dinner.

Exercise

I've slowly but surely become a big runner and having a few runs a week burn off an extra 500-1000 calories is great. I try not to eat back those calories as a general rule, like I will often go for a morning run and not eat until lunch. But there is definitely a correlation between doing a big run and then binging that day or the next day. It's an ongoing process.

Cooking

I've gotten really into cooking. I find spending a good 20-30 minutes (sometimes more) making a meal has become an important part of my routine, if I were just given a plate of food and ate it I think I'd have a harder time convincing myself I was satiated.

I recognize that I have a lot of free time and no kids or other constraints that make things much harder for many others.

One last piece of advice

TRACK TRACK TRACK

Tracking calories (for me) has really been that one weird trick diet companies don't want you to know about. When I track, I have confidence in my choices, I sometimes get to eat more food than I thought, especially if I'm going big on vegetables or lentils or beans and light on pasta, bread, oils, cheese. But also, if I try to guess what looks like a reasonable portion and then look it up, I was probably wrong. Calories add up and knowledge is power (France is bacon, which you should track).

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[NSV] I finally fit into a dress I bought 5 years ago!!

Let me start off by telling you guys a little bit about my journey: I've been in constant battle with my weight, always losing well for 3-6 months, and then an occasion comes around and i get off the wagon and regain the amount I've lost, hovering at a max of around 79-80 kgs for another 3-6 months. Usually I'd get hit by reality and realise how I have to lose weight and the cycle restarts itself all over again. This has been going on for as long as I remember since my teen years, I'm turning 27 this year, so you can imagine my frustration and my discouragement every time. The lowest I usually get is around 67kg, before something comes up and I screw my progress and revert back to my old ways.

So since Nov of 2019, I've been trying to lose weight for my wedding, and I did manage to go from 79kgs down to 69kgs by the time I got married. But then the honeymoon came around and I lost my progress again, but i only regained like 2-3kgs. Only since March this year did I start focus on my weight loss again and it's obvious on the scale, there seems to be good progress. But lately, these past few days I have been feeling quite down and feel as though my progress is being screwed again, despite the scale showing that my weight has not risen. Plus my eating habits have been in check so there is no reason for me to believe that I'm losing control again, right? WRONG. My mind keeps telling me I'm gonna screw up, and I feel scared that I'm about to go back into the same cycle.

So this morning, I decided to dig up some old dresses I bought 5 years ago that I never really wore. This dress in particular was a little tight around the belly, which I somehow still decided to buy it back then despite the tightness (maybe my self confidence was higher 5 years ago than it was today). And would you know, the tightness around the belly is no more!! The fabric around my wait was loose, and my rolls aren't poking out as they would when I first wore them.

Now this made me even more pumped up and determined to get to my goal. And I'm just writing this to tell you guys that sometimes, you just need other methods to measure your progress, be it pictures, measurements or even just trying on some clothes to see how they fit. We can do this! Just don't give up and keep on going.

Since my country has had me indoors due to lockdown, I am mostly doing home exercises with weights and resistance bands. Also since it's the fasting month for me, I've basically been doing OMAD for a month. But after I'll probably continue with 18:6 IF.

I hope this post helps any of you out there who may need a little bit of inspiration, or just want a story to read in these trying times.

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I figured out why I plateaued

Hey guys!! I’ve recently started seeing movement on the scale again. I am 5’7 male and I weighed 190. Currently weigh 165. I started my journey back in September 2019. Between September and January I lost 20 lbs. I was excited to see progress and all I had done was intermittent fasting (16:8). I was still eating the same garbage and not exercising.

Fast forward to the end of January and progress just kinda stopped. Between January to April I didn’t loose a pound! I was devastated. I was Intermittent fasting less regularly, but still at least 4/5 days a week. I figured out why.

Between January and April, I fell into the trap that if I exercise to loose weight I can eat more. I would over eat and undo any progress that I made at the gym. I know everyone says that diet is more central to weight loss than exercise, but I didn’t really believe it. Please please please—the old cliche is true—you can’t outrun a bad diet.

You guys inspired me to actually count my calories! Between mid April and today I have lost 5 pounds. I am eating 1500 calories a day and I am still exercising but my mentality has changed. I think that the majority of my weight loss will come from my diet, but I exercise for the other physiological benefits it provides my body. If you’re struggling at a plateau and if my story sounds familiar I hope this helps! I am excited to keep pressing forward and loosing more weight!!! Good luck everyone. Let’s keep putting in the hard work and the results are sure to come.

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11 Instant Pot Recipes You Need to Try This Instant

If you got an Instant Pot as a holiday gift—or if you went out and bought one for yourself—you’ll be happy to learn that you can make Nutrisystem-friendly meals in a snap using your new kitchen toy. According to the manufacturer, Instant Pot speeds up cooking by two to six times using up to 70 percent less energy.

The Instant Pot is the Swiss Army Knife of kitchen tools. It’s the next generation pressure cooker, but it also sautés, and acts like a slow cooker, rice cooker, steamer, yogurt maker and a food warmer. If there’s ever an attachment that slices and dices or sends your shopping list to a grocery delivery service, you’ll be able to call it your own personal chef.

We’ve developed 11 delicious recipes that make good use of this versatile appliance:

1. Quick & Easy Pot Roast >

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You can have this Sunday night special meal any old time since the Instant Pot makes it ultra easy and quick to prepare. Loaded with flavor from garlic, Italian seasoning, onions and black pepper, it’s equally loaded with nutrients since you’re adding carrots and potatoes to the dish. This recipe calls for two pounds of lean beef, such as rump roast, eye of round or bottom round. The cooking method is what turns these normally tough cuts into tender, juicy morsels luxuriating in a rich tomato-laced gravy. Only 359 calories, this dish counts as one SmartCarb, two PowerFuels, one Vegetable and two Extras on the Nutrisystem program.

2. Simple and Spicy Instant Pot Carnitas >

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Choose your protein—chicken, pork or beef—and add garlic, Mexican spice and fire-roasted tomatoes to your Instant Pot for instant, South-of-the-Border flavor. Avocado adds a dose of monounsatured fat—the one that’s extra good for you—and this dish is garnished with pico de gallo and chopped cilantro. This recipe makes four, two-tortilla servings at just 306 calories per serving. On Nutrisystem, this Instant Pot recipe counts as two PowerFuels, one SmartCarb and one Extra.

3. Tomato Basil Frittata >

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You’ll bounce out of bed to enjoy this egg-based breakfast made with cheddar cheese, tomatoes, spinach and hashbrowns that’s ready in just 20 minutes… And so will your entire family! This recipe makes enough for eight servings. Whatever you don’t eat, you can save for later in the week. One serving is only 115 calories and counts as one PowerFuel and one Extra.

4. Rotisserie Chicken >

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With your Instant Pot, you don’t need a rotisserie, nor do you need to spend extra money to buy a ready-made chicken at the grocery store. All you have to do is use the “sauté” setting on the appliance, add one whole chicken, garlic powder, paprika, dried herbs (your choice) and some low-sodium chicken broth and olive oil. After the skin is golden brown, use your Instant Pot as a pressure cooker. Your “rotisserie” chicken will be done in 25 minutes! One two oz. serving of chicken is 116 calories and counts as one PowerFuel. Pair it with a large salad and a whole grain roll and your Flex meal is complete.

5. Instant Pot Pasta e Fagioli Soup >

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This soup is a hearty, satisfying, nutritious meal, bursting with flavor and warm comfort on a cold day. Don’t let the lengthy ingredients list daunt you. Once you get your veggies diced—or you get your already prepared vegetables out of the fridge—it takes no time to make. Imagine yourself sitting down to tuck into this steaming tomato-chicken broth-based soup rich with vegetables, beans, ditalini pasta and chicken, spiced with red pepper flakes, Italian seasoning, pepper, thyme, bay leaves and rosemary. The recipe makes six servings, each 303 calories. On Nutrisystem, a serving counts as one PowerFuel, one Smart Carb, one Vegetable and one Extra.

6. Instant Pot Chicken Creole >

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It’s easy to whip up this traditional dish from Louisiana’s Big Easy using the slow cooker setting of your Instant Pot. Six hours before you plan to eat, place one pound of boneless chicken breast in the pot with onions, minced garlic, bell peppers, carrots, tomato, Creole seasoning, some broth and cayenne pepper for a real bayou flavor. When it’s done, shred the chicken and serve over cooked brown rice. This recipe serves six. Each serving is 262 calories and counts as one SmartCarb, one PowerFuel, one Vegetable and one Extra.

7. Instant Pot Salmon with Chili-Lime Sauce >

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You’re going to wonder how anything that tastes this good can be good for you, but it is. Salmon is rich in heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids that help douse dangerous inflammation in your body, which can contribute to heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer’s and arthritis. Salmon is also an excellent source of lean protein, as is the cup of chickpeas in this recipe, which are blended with raw vegetables such as zucchini, asparagus, bell peppers or broccoli. And did we mention Chili-Lime Sauce? That mix of chili powder, garlic, honey, lime juice and other flavorful ingredients makes the meal. The recipe makes two servings, and each clocks in at just 342 calories. One serving counts as one SmartCarb, one PowerFuel, half a Vegetable and three Extras.

8. Easy Instant Pot Herb Roasted Potatoes >

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In the world of side dishes, this delicious Instant Pot recipe reigns supreme. Imagine roasted potatoes done to perfection in seven minutes! You’ll need three cups of baby potatoes and a mix of herbs like thyme, rosemary, marjoram, oregano, some garlic powder and water. After sautéing briefly, use the pressure cooker setting to finish. Three cups of potatoes make six servings at 99 calories each. On Nutrisystem, this side counts as one SmartCarb and one Extra.

9. Instant Pot Key Lime Cheesecake >

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This isn’t the only cheesecake on the Nutrisystem diet, but it might become your favorite. It’s a satisfying cream cheese-ricotta style cake with a kicked-up lime flavor thanks to two whole limes zested and juiced, and sweetened with stevia, an all-nautural plant-based sweetener. You’ll need a mixer or a fork to work the ingredients together, but the rest is all Instant Pot. Best of all, this Instant Pot recipe is only 157 calories a serving and the recipe makes five servings, which each count as one PowerFuel and three Extras.

10. Instant Pot Rice Pudding >

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It’s up to you what you want to call this. It could be breakfast, dessert or your afternoon snack. Made with brown rice, raw cranberries, skim milk, light coconut milk, with a sprinkle of cinnamon and stevia, this 152-calorie bowl of comfort counts as one SmartCarb and one Extra.

11. Instant Pot Buffalo Chicken Lettuce Wraps >

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Buffalo chicken lover? You need to bookmark this recipe. Shredded buffalo chicken is cooked to perfection with this help of an instant pot and served atop a lettuce wrap for a spicy and hearty meal. Complete with a homemade blue cheese dressing, this diet-friendly instant pot recipe has all the flavors of your favorite buffalo chicken dish without the added calories!

Check out the rules for our instant pot giveaway here >

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5 Signs You’re Prone to Emotional Eating

Are you a mindless muncher? A comfort food connoisseur? Or a break-up binger? Don’t be ashamed. For many people, emotions and food are so intertwined, it’s hard to differentiate between eating for fuel and feeding your feelings.

Hence the term, “emotional eating.”

There are two types of hunger—emotional and physical. Emotional hunger is the need to eat when physical hunger isn’t present. It is essentially feeding our feelings with food.

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Emotional eating is a vice. Food elicits a wide array of hormones and chemicals that dance around in our brains, sending us feelings of comfort, happiness and ease. According to the National Institute of Health, eating releases dopamine, which activates the pleasure center of the brain. The long and short of it? Food makes us feel good.

And while studies suggest thatpeople with a body mass index (BMI) in the overweight or obese range more commonly turn to food as a coping mechanism, determining the reason for thus is a bit of a “chicken and egg” situation; there is an ongoing debate over whether the binging tendency or the weight gain comes first.

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Like many vices, emotional eating is a health concern. It is obvious that eating beyond your physical needs can cause serious weight gain. And with excess weight comes an increased risk for diseases like cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, among others. Eating disorders can also develop when emotional hunger is accompanied by cycles of binging and purging. But the signs aren’t always so extreme or so obvious.

So how do you know if you’re an emotional eater?

Here are five common indicators that emotional eating is a problem for you:

1. You Turn to Food When You’ve Had an Argument with A Loved One

File this one under comfort food or food for comfort.

Difficult emotions are, well, difficult. An argument can cause stress hormones to spike. Initially, stress may decrease appetite, but as the stress persists, hormones are released that can increase your cravings. During prolonged periods of stress, appetite can remain high regardless of physical hunger or nutritional needs.

Unfortunately, carrot sticks and celery boats may not be enough to satisfy your stress-induced appetite either. Studies have found emotional hunger causes very specific cravings. Sad people prefer ice cream and cookies, not salad and broccoli.

2. You Overeat While Working Late or Studying

The big issue with emotional hunger is that we eat more than we normally would, which puts us at risk for weight gain. Psychologists call this unconscious eating. While performing a task like studying or working on a big project, we can let ourselves become too tired and too hungry. Hormones go crazy and send sudden urges to your brain requesting food. We polish off the entire bag of chips, box of cookies or gallon of soda. We finish the rest of the pizza or find ourselves elbow deep in a big bowl of buttery popcorn. Overconsumption of calories leads to obesity. Consuming foods high in sodium leads to hypertension. Saturated-fat-laden treats endanger our hearts. Unconscious eating, while seemingly innocent, can become a danger to our health.

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3. You Turn To Food When You’re Bored

The American Psychological Association found in 2012 that when boredom was added to the emotional eating scale it became the most commonly cited emotion while eating. Cravings can be specific for bored eating, too. Research has shown that people who eat out of boredom crave salty, crunchy snacks. Eating these foods releases chemicals in the brain similar to chemicals released by some drugs. Like a drug, food creates a soothing, calming effect. That’s why we look forward to food when things get a bit wearisome. As with all forms of emotional eating, eating because of boredom leads to extra calories, possibly spiraling into significant weight gain. Even in the absence of stress or sadness, bored eating can be the root of a failed weight loss effort or sudden jump on the scale.

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4. You Hide What You Eat

But why? Emotional hunger feels sudden and urgent. It’s irrational. We make bad choices. We eat too much. This causes feelings of guilt. The guilt can then create feelings of shame, which may further fuel the binge. The National Eating Disorder Association lists secretive behaviors such as eating alone, hiding or hoarding food as a behavioral characteristic of binge eating.

Shame and guilt are powerful emotions. A 2014 study found that feelings of shame coupled with anxiety elicited larger binge episodes in women compared to anxiety alone.

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5. You Eat When You’re Anxious

We all get anxious: A new job, a big meeting, an intense social gathering… A study in 2012 found that higher rates of anxiety in college woman correlated with higher reports of emotional eating. At the beginning of the semester, anxiety was at its peak, with new classes, new faces and new adjustments. Of course, emotional eating was at its highest then, as the college students coped with this anxiety.

As far back as 1957, research has confirmed that overeating can be a means of easing emotional discomfort and anxiety. To complicate the issue even more, overconsuming high fatcomfort foods can exacerbate negative emotions and stress. Hence, the vicious cycle of overeating and anxiety sets in motion.

Emotional eating, regardless of the source, is certainly a cause for concern. The longer the cycle continues, the more difficult it could be to break from it. The key is finding new ways to cope with the underlying stress, anxiety and boredom, that don’t involve food.

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The next time an emotional experience has you plunging into the pantry, throw on your sneakers and head outside for a brisk stroll instead. A number of studies indicate that participating in aerobic exercise can help decrease tension, boost mood, improve sleep and improve self-esteem. The best part? You could experience anti-anxiety effects after just five minutes of aerobic exercise. Or, step away from the snacks and reach for the radio instead. Studies suggest that listening to music can elevate your mood and reduce stress levels. (Check out this article for even more reasons to crank up the tunes today).

Have a pet? Cash in on some extra cuddle time. Studies suggest that spending time with animals can help boost your mood and alleviate feelings of loneliness. Want even more reason to pamper your pet today? We’ve got you covered with this article: 8 Reasons Your Pet is Good for Your Health.

Other strategies for avoiding emotional eating? Try calling a friend to discuss how you’re feeling, or tackling that closet clean-out project you’ve been putting off. And, if you find that you absolutely cannot cope without sitting down to a snack, make sure you opt for a healthier version of the food you’re craving. If it’s ice cream you’re after, try one of these “Nice Cream” recipes. If crunchy, salty stuff has your heart, try making your own veggie chips or fries . You can also stock up on your favorite Nutrisystem snacks, so you’ve got healthy options on hand when cravings strike. Here is a list of the 20 most popular Nutrisystem snacks and sweets.

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