NSV: my doctor hugged me

I last saw my PCP in December 2024. I went in today for a check-up, 40 pounds lighter. She was so impressed and happy for me. She asked me how and I said “just like another doctor told me 40 years ago: CICO.” She wanted to see a photo of me from before I started my weight loss journey (I showed her my worst one). And when I was leaving she said how proud she was of me, and gave me a big hug (she’d never done that before).

I had really been looking forward to this appointment because she was the last person I know that hadn’t yet seen my weight loss. She really made my day.

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Advice on my motivation goals?

Hi everyone!

Woman in my late 20's starting my journey again after some success in the past. While I was able to truly kick binge eating during my weight loss in the past, I had a really suicidal past 2 years where I slowly gained steadily to where I maintain my current weight.

So my current life maintains a weight around 180-185, which is right around the border of when overweight becomes Obese and I want to change that.

But given my mental health issues before, where I stop caring because I don't feel like living any more, I'm thinking of including a lot of positive goals to help me on my journey, which is why I'm here to ask for advice. (I'm definitely in long term medical care for mental stuff and will keep it going, dw!)

So here it goes:

I'm starting at 183.5 lbs and while I've had success in the past with diet + exercise, I never quite made it to a healthy weighted. For my height, healthy weight would be <145lbs.

Because of this, I'm thinking of setting 5lbs and 10lbs goals to keep me moving but also hold me accountable all the way down to healthy weight.

173.5 -- buy digital piano (also gives me time to save up for my dream one)

163.5 -- domestic trip ($1k budget) also open up to dating again/make hinge account

153.5 -- book my dream tattoo artist

143.5 -- book my dream vacation (~$5k budget)

Every 5lbs, I plan to splurge on a new piece of clothing or splurge on something I want in the $100-200 range. That way my rewards stop being so food driven and I can have a healthier relationship with my body -- not looking for the 'later' body, but at myself right now.

How does this look? would you make any changes?

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My dad passed away at 51 from weight related issues

Over a year and a half ago, I started walking every couple of days. At first, it wasn't to lose weight, I just thought it could help me feel better because people always say walking makes them feel good. I slowly started watching more and more fitness and health/nutrition channels on youtube. The channel of Kiana Docherty is always the first one I remember watching and that woman really planted the seeds to my transformation.

My highest weight recorded was 265 pounds at 5'6 so my bmi was in the highest category of obesity. When I started walking I was 257 pounds. I lost about 10 more pounds before I saw a nutritionist (or dietitian? idk but here where I live, I know 100% she was a certified specialist).

I started tracking calories like crazy, trying to eat healthier food and I was able to move more and more. I started doing strength training 3 times a week and I walked a lot too. Last summer I was doing 8k-10k daily. I'm now down to about 170 pounds.

I live with my family. My dad, my step mom and my grandparents who live in an apartment right next to the house. They saw me "melt" away. I think it inspired them but now enough to truly make a difference.. I know my dad and my step mom were trying to eat healthier since the new years but I don't know how serious they were about it.. I always tried to give little tips since the new years but I don't know.

My dad was obese. He had a couple of health issues that were for sure related to his weight. He had diabetes and sleep apnea. He had other issues that were probably not related to his weight too but his death had to be weight related.. His heart gave up.

Obviously, I don't feel like it's my fault but I wish I had "woken up" sooner and lost the weight a couple of years earlier.. My dad would've had the time to lose enough weight to live longer if I had lost it earlier.

My grandma just got on Ozempic for her diabetes and her weight and she lost over 25 pounds in about 6 months I think.

My uncle keeps telling me I'm a big inspiration for his own weight loss right now. He had a car accident a couple months ago, he was drunk driving. He cut out alcohol completely and he's trying to lose weight at the same time. He already lost 20 pounds. He's 4 years younger than my father but his children are way younger than me. I really hope he gets to a healthy weight because I don't want his children to lose him at 50...

I loved my dad, he was very smart. I think everyone around him felt safe because he knew how to get shit done. I think we're all scared now.

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First Signs of Weight Loss?

Currently 94.1kg at 175cm

My scale fluctuates alot i weighed myself after showering (evening) got 94.6 and then 95.6kg. I know scale fluctuates but sometimes i get 98-99kg and I'm worried my current weight may not be what I'm at. Bare in mind I get 94.1kg when the scale is on the floor barefoot hungry and haven't eaten anything. My fat around my body also feels softer, so i'm confused, again I don't know if this is a good sign or not, but thank you. A week or so ago I got 94.9kg as my lowest for reference.

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Peri-menopausal and other health issues, how can I start losing weight?

Heya. So I have a very rare condition that's less than one in a million for my age group as far as I'm aware (premature ovarian failure). I was diagnosed with it at 16, started puberty for the first time that same year, and have been peri-menopausal since (I'm currently 19). Along with being peri-menopausal, I seem to have chronic stress, which I've read can impact hormones and thus impact weight gain/loss.

Currently? I walk about 10 miles a week, roughly 2 miles total a day, Monday through Friday just to get to and from my university courses.

TW: mentions of depression induced fasting/not eating in the past

Despite having been through a bout of severe depression where I wasn't eating more than 2 meals a day with dinner often being the only meal I had (think 250 calorie Belvita bar for breakfast or a wheat bread peanut butter and jelly sandwich for lunch if I did have two meals in a day), to the point where I had to be physically dragged out of bed (got carpet burns) by my older brothers, I didn't lose any weight at all during then. Back then, I was walking around about 4 to 6 miles a week. Since then, I've started making sure I eat meals and they're often pretty small though I have a pretty low metabolism.

I'm not sure at all how to start losing weight. Or I can even do so. I have heard of people with very similar hormonal conditions to mine not being able to lose weight with exercise and diet and having to go on weight loss drugs. My diet has improved decently, and I regularly eat rice, meats like sausage, turkey, ham, and spam, scrambled eggs, and some veggies like bell peppers and onions. This is along with soups that have beans and protein plus chili cans, and over the past two months, apples and oranges.

I'm not sure if I need to start doing more exercise beyond the ten miles. If anything, I think I've gained about 20 pounds since I've actually started eating meals instead of going all day with no food. I'm around 180 pounds now at 4'11 (149.86 cm ish). Ah, also I'm a trans guy. Please refer to me by he/him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. In terms of diet, I'd strongly prefer recommendations on the cheaper side. Thanks.

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Whey vs creatine?

Whey vs creatine

I 23f, has an history of ed, it was either starvation or little to no food, this made my metabolism collapse and i developed hypothyroidism by 16, i gained weight like alot - 30 kgs in just a year, I was demotivated all these years but now I want to change it but i don't have a proper guidance as I'm trying to workout from home, I've been doing cardio (an hour on cross trainer) for a month but i don't see much changes. I need advice to add suppliments as i'm easily fatigued without even doing much. I would add like some details for understanding.

I'm on medicine for hypothyroidism, i'm also on metformin 1000 mg twice a day, i don't have much protein as i'm still in college and food is expensive to me, i have insomnia which I've fixed about 30%, i need supplements for my fatigue, tiredness but also help in my weight loss journey, I'm doing cross trainer for cardio and strength training has been little to no right now as I have sprained wrist and can't lift. I can't buy whey and creatine together as of now so i wanna go with what's best, i don't want to ask Ai.

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getting started!

hi everyone! basic info: i’m 24f, 5'6", 215 lbs (bmi around 35). my goal is to get back into a healthy bmi range eventually but i’m not putting a strict timeline on it.

i used to be around 150–160 lbs until 2021 when i gained weight quickly because of antipsychotic meds. i’ve been off psych meds since april 2025, but with life stuff (including a death in the family) i’ve had a hard time finding the motivation to really work on losing weight.

lately i’ve been having more back and knee pain at the end of the day, which is one of the main reasons i want to lose weight. other reasons are self-confidence, health risks, and honestly just wanting things like airplane seatbelts to not feel tight.

i’ve had phases over the last few years where i wanted to lose weight but never stayed consistent.

my main issue right now is i feel like i don’t really understand what i should be doing. i’ve read that a calorie deficit is the main thing, and exercise helps, but i don’t know how much to limit calories or what workouts are best starting out.

right now i’ve been going to planet fitness and doing about 10-15 minutes on the elliptical just to get some movement in and help my knees.

i’d really appreciate advice on:

• how to figure out a realistic calorie deficit
• beginner workouts that help with weight loss
• what you eat on a calorie deficit with a really small budget
• how you meal plan

any advice or motivation would mean a lot, thank you :)

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