Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Can't figure out why I'm overeating/my activity level

For some background: I'm 5'0 and currently around 133lbs, down 7lbs from 140. I'm definitely not new to weight loss, as a teenager I had an eating disorder and my lowest weight was around 85-90lbs which I dropped to from 140lbs (seems to be the highest weight I get to). I've been trying to lose weight for years, ever since I got to my HW again and every time I've failed. I sincerely know quite a bit on nutrition and weight loss. I've recently started paying more attention to my body and what works best for it and I've noticed I do quite well eating substantial carbs (in a calorie deficit) and so on.

What I've noticed though is that when I'm eating whole foods there will be times when I just want to eat weirdly. For the past two months there are days when I've just eaten so much processed chicken or I just want to eat less nutritious food like ramen all the time and thinking about normal whole foods makes me so adamantly not want to eat them, like a 8 year old has taken over my body. First I thought maybe I'm not getting enough protein or that I'm underestimating my activity level. Over summer I've worked in a cafe, I walk around 6000 steps to and from work, and I don't know how many steps I walk in my 6-8 hour shifts because we can't wear activity trackers.

I try to stay at around 1200 calories because I'm so short but often I'm going WAY over it with my weird chicken nugget binges and being poorly disciplined. When I want to eat a lot of food it's not that I'm always hungry, its more like I just HAVE to eat it (I've realised it comes from my ED past) and I literally can't settle until I do. I do also have a binging problem obviously.

At this point, I'm not sure if I should eat more calories from just assuming I'm underestimating my activity level (incase I gain) or if I should just try and eat awfully processed food in a calorie deficit?

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Weight loss inquity

Hey Reddit! I've got a simple inquiry that has me kind of concerned and I'm not really sure what to do. I've never really been big on this subreddit but I've been dropping pounds because I've been fat nearly my whole life and have gotten sick of it. I'm male, 5'9", and at my worst (about a year ago), I weighed ~178 pounds. Fast forward to now and I'm around 153 pounds (I lost this weight by exercising every now and then and cutting way down on sugar consumption). The problem I'm having is that I'm seeing very little improvement. I'm still clearly visibly fat and have "bitch tits" despite 150-155 being a relatively normal weight for my height and sex. How much more weight should I have to lose in order to stop being visibly fat? Has this ever happened to anyone else?

also inquiry* from the title lol

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Body Dysmorphia exasperated by misshaped body due to health issues

I was born with biliary atresia. Don’t worry if you haven’t heard of it. It’s rare. Basically it is a liver disorder where the bile duct is filled with scar tissue. I had a surgery when I was three weeks old to remove the scar tissue. Some complications from this disease is an enlarged spleen and enlarged hardened liver. I still have my native liver and I’m in my thirties. A blessing I never want to take for granted.

However, with this enlarged spleen and liver, my torso is lopsided and sticks out way further than it should. Now even though I’ve lost over 100 lbs in the past couple years, I feel as though I look the same or worse sometimes. I know realistically I can’t with a 100 lbs loss. However, I’m having a hard time getting around the fact that although I weigh under 200lbs, I feel as though I look 300lbs.

Does anyone else have health issues that distort their body where their weight loss isn’t as noticeable? If so, how do you deal with it?

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How should I take comments from people about my “weight loss?”

I’m not sure if this belongs here, so if it’s not allowed that’s totally fine. I’m just looking for some advice and to see if I’m being too sensitive.

But, does anyone else feel bad when people find out you’re trying to lose weight?

Let me preface this by saying I’m a week into a new healthy lifestyle. This is not my first rodeo, it’s probably my 100th honestly. But it does feel different this time.

A little backstory: My husband has lost about 50 pounds already and it’s noticeable. I’m so proud of him, and he’s inspired me to get my act together now.

However because everyone is noticing it they comment on his weight loss. He’s proud, as he should be. But somehow these people find out that I’m also trying to lose weight too. And then it’s “Oh wow I thought so!!! You look so good too!” And in my head I’m like dude, I’ve lost 2 pounds. Stop trying to kid us both.

I don’t want praise for something I should have done years ago. I don’t want people finding out that I’m actively trying to lose weight because then it’s this massive conversation that makes me feel beyond self conscious and then when I fall off the wagon I feel guilty for letting all these people believe in me.

Anyway, I’m trying my hardest to not fall off the wagon this time, but how do I go about telling people not to mention my weight loss to me? And am I being a jerk by feeling this way?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 20 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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My family see the difference in me, but I dont

Ok so for a couple of months I've been trying to lose weight and it worked! I started at about 130lbs, now I'm about 125lbs and it's not a lot, but in the future I hope to be 100lbs. Please bare in mind I'm small at 4 ft 11" and am turning 16 in about a week. This small victory has made me happy, as I'm no longer 'overweight' on the bmi scale.

A couple of days ago, my aunt visited me from down south, and she says it looks like I've lost weight. But I dont see it. My parents also agree with my aunt, but I look just as fat as I was before. Is this normal? It may just because I've only lost 5 lbs and that it needs to be more significant, although now in clothing I'm a 10/12 whereas before I was more of a 12/14 person? Maybe it's just because I see myself multiple times a day so i dont recognise any visual signs of weight loss, or maybe my family are lying to me? I dont think its the last option as my overthinking makes me think that everyone is lying to me all the time.

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I ate a lot last week and that's ok

This past week of my weight loss journey felt a little extra indulgent, so I’m here to process it with you, r/loseit.

I love food. I love to cook. I love to eat. That’s never going to change, and I don’t think it ever has to. You know what doesn’t feel good? Getting down on myself for doing something I love to do (spoiler: it’s eating). So, I’m not going to do that. Instead I’m going to celebrate and reflect on my past week. Here are some highlights and reflections:

I shared some amazing nachos with a friend who I hadn’t seen in a while. But I was hungry like 2 hours after I ate them, and that felt frustrating. Maybe I can pick something more nourishing and nutrient dense next time. Will I have nachos again? Hell yes, they’re delicious. But next time? No, thanks.

I went wine tasting on Saturday night. I then proceeded to munch on salty bar snacks and go out for ice cream. It was all so delightful and it felt like a night of taking care of my social health. Do I need to have another night that has wine AND snacks AND ice cream again soon? No. Will I do it again? Absolutely, but it doesn’t need to be my normal.

I had Chinese food with my mom tonight. Did I eat more than I told myself I would? Yes – I love dumplings. But I didn’t eat until I was stuffed to the brim which is honestly a step in the right direction.

In truth, I’m going to have weeks, maybe even months at a time where I’m not eating at my best. That doesn’t mean I’m a bad person or that I’m weak or lazy or unhealthy or unlovable. It probably just means that I have something other than food and how much I weigh on my mind for once, which is so refreshing because I’ve been thinking about it constantly for probably the last 10 years.

But once I have the time and capacity to start feeding myself well again, I’ll just pick up where I left off. No need to “cleanse” or “work off” what I ate. I refuse to punish myself, mentally or physically, for eating. I’ll just go back to what normal looks like for me.

What is my normal? Well, I guess I get to be the one to decide that, and that’s part of what this whole journey is. My normal definitely includes weeks like the one I just had. But I think more often than not my normal is going to look like thoughtfully planned, veggie-packed, well portioned meals.

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