Wednesday, November 13, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 13 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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My wife told me I was starting to look sickly

A friend is on a low carb diet and we were discussing weight loss. He made a remark about getting super skinny and I realized that he was making a jab, so I said "Hey, I'll have you know that I've gained 3 lbs". His wife replied, "Oh, I thought you were looking healthier". I asked my wife about this and she said that I was starting to look "sickly" at a certain point. She couldn't really explain it any better than that. The other 2 had also told me that I was too skinny multiple times.

I lost weight by cutting calories in a yo-yo fashion to prevent plateaus, upping protein, taking supplements and doing resistance training every day. My goal was 150 lbs and I hit it. I also got stronger than I've ever been. I went as low as 148 and then ate more to quit losing because none of my clothes fit. I'm a 5'6" manlet. I don't understand how 5'6" at 150 could look sickly. I'm simply a small human. Help me understand.

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Stuck on what to do next? Really need help

Hey everyone, first off thank you for your help!

I’m a 5ft 3, 24F who is currently at 124lb (started at 132, 8 weeks ago). For my height and frame I know this is healthy however I do still have some fat stored around my stomach area and thighs that I am trying to lose. So would really like to get down to around 118

I’m really struggling at the moment as it seems like I’ve hit a mental block. I will admit I went in quite determined and would eat at around 1100 calories a day and was working out 3 times a week (mix of running and weight training to tone up). However, what I’m struggling with now is these last few pounds and sticking to such a restrictive diet. I am no stranger to dieting and weight loss and I know that what I was doing isn’t sustainable, however again, due to my short height I struggle to lose weight if I’m not being restrictive.

I really need some advice on how to lose these final few pounds without losing my mind and kicking myself every time I eat at maintainence. What doesn’t help is over the weekend I had takeout and on Monday ate more “pop chips” which meant the scale showed that I gained 3/4 of a lb. I know this is a small amount and probably water due to extra salt and carbs. But this will take me around 2 days of being “on track” to lose.

I’m also very conscious of the fact that, how do I maintain this in order to not gain weight once I’ve reached my goal. The only solution I can think of is calorie cycling? So eating in a deficit on some days, and maintainence or slightly over on occasions

I really appreciate help as I think now I’ve hit the 8 week mark, my body is trying to do everything it can to increase my calories (intense cravings and hunger) and it’s starting to stress me

Really appreciate the help, thank you!

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Tuesday, November 12, 2019

My Journey So Far

Hey all. I've been following this sub for a while but never really posted anything. I just kind of want to share what all I've done/been doing in hopes that it could maybe help someone.

TLDR: I'm actually losing weight successfully for the first time in my life.

I started the year around 226 (I am a 5'4" 18 year old female) and that was just not great. I was still wearing all the clothes I had but had to buy a size up as I had gained almost 50 pounds after graduating/moving out and going to college. I had actually invested in a nicely sized wardrobe around 175/180 and literally none of that fit after about four months.

I spent a lot of my time in the biggest shirts I had and squeezing into clothing because I really didn't want to buy new stuff as most of my money went to rent and my car. Around February or so I used keto to get down to about 193 and then stopped due to just not caring. I stayed around 193 and then went back up to 202 around June of this year. I've always been somewhat overweight but when I was at 226 it was not great, I didn't really notice being that heavy but looking back on it now I was really unhealthy and dear god my eating habits were a mess.

Fast forward to October and I'm looking into joining the military. I choose the army for a number of reasons, and go into the recruiting office.Everything is going all well and stuff and then suddenly she asks to weigh me and I remember that I am definitely overweight and not in weight standards for enlistment. Anyway, we weigh me and I'm still 202. She just tells me I have to lose weight and sends me off to see me in two weeks.

I initially started this round of weight loss with just CICO but that didn't work super great for me. I would count calories on food that wasn't necessarily super nutrient dense, leaving me hungry and wanting to binge. There is no doubt in my mind that I have some variation of binge-eating disorder so this didn't work great for me. I went back to keto and lose about 10 pounds the first two weeks.

Things were all good, but then my weight stalled and I felt like a failure. I don't work out a lot as it is the last stretch for school and I work upwards of 50 hours a week at two jobs, but I was eating in keto and I didn't understand why my weight had plateaued. One day when I was watching keto videos I heard something on a video and realized something: I'm not counting my calories. Oh boy was that a mistake.

Not counting calories was literally the death of my diet. I lost enough but after it stopped I realized something was up. I started counting calories and I literally went down 5 more pounds in the first week, from 193 lbs. Counting calories has actually worked a lot better for me, along with the keto diet. The thing to remember here is that no matter what diet you're on, you can always still gain weight due to calorie surplus.

I've struggled with my body image/weight/eating habits for almost six years now, but this time I have finally been able to continually keep up with the process and I actually feel a lot better about food and my weight in general. I think maybe for me it was having a goal, because I literally cannot go into the army without losing weight and that is something that I really want to do. I'm just so happy I've been able to actually follow through and make a good dent in my weight loss journey in such a short time.

That said, my clothes are actually loose now, and I can fit into the clothes I bought back in high school. Being able to wear and completely button a shirt I literally couldn't fit into at the beginning of the year feels just so great, and even my smallest pair of pants is a little too big. I still have about 35 pounds to lose to get enlisted and 55 to my end goal, but everyday I feel closer and closer to success and I am so happy I can finally say I am losing weight.

I listen to the r/loseit subreddit readings a lot on YouTube as well as often browsing this subreddit and it has really helped me push myself in the right direction. I can't wait to get where I need to be and get what I want to get done done.

Thank you all for being so awesome, supportive, and proactive in other people's weight loss journeys. And those of you who are newer here, welcome, you can do this, and we're all here for you.

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Protruding tailbone and pain after losing weight!

I have googled this a bit and it seems to be a somewhat common result of weight loss but man is it annoying! I’ve lost almost 70 pounds since January and a few months ago I thought something was very wrong with me when I could feel the shape of my tailbone sticking out of my body between my butt cheeks. I ended up going to the doctor after a couple days of excruciating pain from sitting/lying down and she said I must have bruised it. That pain has gone away but I am constantly in a little bit of tailbone pain. Anyone else experienced that?? My BMI is 20.5 now and I have found that I am way more bony looking than I was when I was at this weight before (around 13 or 14 years old). Let me know your tips!

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People losing >150lbs: did you ever go through periods of no progress?

I started at 372lbs. I am currently at 220lbs. I dunno what my final goal is but I wanna at least get down to 155-160. I am female almost 30. I have binge eating disorder and I have had long stretches of time where it’s been under control.

It’s like ever 70 or 75 lbs I just can’t keep going. Last time, it was a life upheaval, death in the family, etc and I just stayed stagnant for months. I would track in the morning and eat whatever at night. Got back on track, down another 75 or so.

Now, a messy breakup (he loved me for what was on the inside aka it was r/deadbedrooms lol). And the last few months I just can’t keep to my calories for more than two days. I’ve probably gained 3lbs.

I dunno what to do. It’s like I am right back where I started. I’ve learned no lessons and my relationship with food is the same. I do the all or nothing mentality or the day is ruined may as well pig out. I tell myself I will start fresh tomorrow. I am just. So. Tired. At the end of the day, I fucking lose every coping skill I thought I had.

Anyone who had to do or is in a long haul of tons of weight to lose been here? Is it normal to go stagnant for a few months? What helped you get back to it? Should I go back to IF? Should I meal prep? Ugh.

I have a social life with some girl and guy friends and tbh it’s a mixed blessing cause people always eat at get togethers. I am starting to get the hardcore loose skin and I’ve come to the conclusion that I won’t be dating because it would require mutual attraction, which is not gonna be a thing for me. And it makes me feel separate from normal people like a weirdo. I am super into lifting and exercising which honestly just makes me fucking starving. I am realizing I gotta tone it down and it gives me anxiety cause I think I use my exercise to manage take the edge off my binge eating. I also get anxiety that I will just lose muscle mass and not fat, even though I eat all the protein.

I doubt I can access professional help for my binge eating disorder which objectively needs professional help the same way an anorexic needs it but here I am. Any advice? Are there eating disorder subs you recommend? Books? I honestly feel like I haven’t lost a pound in my entire life. I intellectually know everything that needs to happen, I’ve lost 150lbs, but I can’t seem to implement it. I can’t have my weight loss stall every time I have a life event!!

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Weight loss with whey protein to 'maintain' muscle mass. Anyone experienced with this?

Hello all, I'm trying to lose weight and have restricted my calorie intake to a certain limit. I'm told that with weight loss come both fat and muscle mass loss. But I've also heard from a few sources that, if I supplement this diet with whey protein, it will help me "maintain" my muscle mass (as opposed to building new muscle mass). So in that sense, the weight loss would be exclusive to 'fat loss'.

I want to ask anyone familiar enough with whey protein whether this mass building powder during weight loss won't actually be counterproductive. Even the supplement websites have said it still could be used during weight loss, but I'm still somewhat skeptical. Thanks for any help!

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