Sunday, January 19, 2020

Family keeps trying to sabotage weight loss

I've started losing weight for about two months, and it's going pretty well. I'm fourteen, for reference, and I don't have a license and all the gyms nearby require you to be older than 15 to go, so I just work out at home with some push-ups and burpees and stuff, things that require no equipment but my own body. Eating I've restricted myself to 1,700 calories which is a big stepdown to the I think 2,500 I had been eating per day. I've cut out fast food from my diet and now I wake up extra early to pack myself a lunch instead of buying one at school and I make sure to never bring money so I don't end up falling off the wagon and buying a donut or something.

The good news is, it's working. I've since, after a few speedbumps, dropped 20 lbs. The problem is, my family has started noticing and they don't like it. They always buy my favourite treats (Lays Classic chips, hotdogs, cheese pizza, hot wings, fries) and leave it in the pantry for me, knowing I'll root through it when I get hungry. My parents don't let me leave the house sometimes because they're saying I'm getting an eating disorder and need to stay under their watchful eye.
My parents are kind of uneducated on terms of healthy eating and when I was a kid they really didn't know what was healthy and what wasn't and so I was fed Nesquik cereal, Twinkies, Push Pops, and whatever they saw on TV that looked like it was for little kids.
Now it's made its point and the entire family is pretty much overweight. Not by much, they're all just a tiny bit over what they're supposed to but I'm like way over. Lunches and dinners are horrifically buttered, cheesy, and greasy foods if it's homemade or else we'll probably just have takeout. I've stopped eating that and I started making myself salads out of the few vegetables we have in our house. Once it got wind of them I was losing, my mom told me I was too skinny and forced me to eat the pizza my older sister had ordered that evening. It was a slice of my favourite cheese and I scarfed down the whole thing. It felt terrible.

My older sister's 16 and for the first time in both of our lives, I weigh less than her. She keeps telling me I'm ugly, I'll gain it all back, and whenever I get my big brother (the only person in the family who doesn't undermine me for losing) to buy some veggies, she uses them in heavily fat-saturated stir-fry and I end up just not eating anything. I tell her to stop but she's getting more and more aggressive, and my mom too who keeps trying to sabotage my diet by offering to pack my lunch and then when I open it it's chips and a grilled cheese with Coke. I just shared my best friend's lunch that day.

What can I do? My brother's stopped buying stuff for me because it's a waste and my mom and sister are actively trying to make me gain weight. My stepdad hasn't said anything about it, he hasn't complimented or insulted me, he just keeps quiet but he always takes my mom's side in everything so I know I don't have help in him.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 19 January 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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I fell off the wagon, having an extremely hard time hopping back on.

I started my weight loss in September. From September to mid November, I lost 23lbs. I was feeling great, looking great, doing great.

The holidays came. A painful breakup came. A general rough patch in my life came. And I fell off...

Now it’s mid/late January. I start good in the morning, but by the afternoon, I lose my motivation and stop caring..

I was doing cico EVERY SINGLE DAY without fail from late August/September, to late in December. I was even counting while I was overeating every day. But now that I’ve stopped, I just can’t seem to start again...

How do you guys motivate yourselves to get back on the horse? Usually I could just go to the gym and that alone would motivate me enough to keep me on track. But lately, I haven’t been able to bring myself to get to the gym. I’ll get all my gym clothes on, get my shoes out, and the second before I leave, I just get a rush of negative emotions and have to lay down, I physically can’t get up.

I wanted to go today, but of course, I got sick. Having some flu-like symptoms.

I think I might be depressed. I’m not sure. I’m also the most broke I’ve ever been in my life, I have not had more than $30 in my bank account since before Christmas. So I’ve been eating whatever my parents bring home. Which is always junk of course. And I cannot afford to fill my tank often which also keeps me from going to the gym (it’s a 30 minute drive.)

There’s just not a lot working out for me right now. I can never even pull myself out of bed. I can’t keep communication with friends up. I’m so unmotivated, I just feel like I’m dying

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I feel robbed of joy at weight loss progress

Long time lurker, first time poster. I have been doing CICO moderately well using Myfitnesspal and going to the gym pretty steadily for the last 6 months. Progress had been slow but definitely happening, my family had started to notice! I was proud of what I had achieved so far both on the scales and at the gym.

A few weeks ago a whole lot of pressure at work, a death in the family and a few other factors caused me to lose my appetite in a pretty major way. It's been weird, my usual MO had always been less control and overeating when stressed. Perhaps things have just gone a bit further this time?

Anyway, the kilos have been dropping and I can't take any joy in it. I recently passed a milestone of the lowest weight I have been in 10 years, it was a significant progress goal for me and I just can't get excited about that. I haven't done the work for it, it's not a healthy way to be losing weight and I'm probably losing much more muscle than if things were slowed down so my performance is probably going to be negatively affected too.

I hope this isn't inappropriate for this sub, I'm definitely still overweight and one of the things I'm concerned about is losing the motivation to continue tracking calories and doing things right when my system starts to return to normal. I have seen my doctor who has ordered some blood tests and given me a medical certificate for a week to rest.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice I'd appreciate your words.

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Absolutely dying to lose weight, but I can't lose a pound.

My diet has not always been the greatest. But I've done muay thai for about 3 years. I got pretty ripped down to a solid 180lbs. I'm 6'1, 30 years old. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in May 2019. Up until that point, I was probably 185 as I hadn't trained for a few months due to a bulging disc and sciatica. I hadnt done any working out for a few months following. I would say up to mid September when I started going back. But due to my lack of diet and my anxiety that made me feel like I needed to eat to be comfortable, I ballooned up to about 210. It's obviously all fat. I've since seen this absolutely legendary osteopath who has made me feel back to normal with ZERO back discomfort. So now I'm able to finally train again. I started off doing maximum incline for 25 minutes at 3.5mph. Wearing a sweater, and drinking my 4+L of water every day. My diet during this time was chicken, rice, and veggies for dinner, and the same for lunch, and breakfast was eggs and steel cut oats. Supplements was Multivitamin Fish Oil B100 Complex Niacin 500mg Digestive Enzymes Vitamin D Vitamin C 1000mg ZMA.

No weight loss from about 3-4 weeks. For the last 2-3 weeks, In an attempt to try something else, I ditched the 4L and did maximum of 3 so I wasn't so water heavy all the time. I switched to green tea for the mornings, a diuretic, and water weight supplements. I fast all day up until about 5pm to which I'll pretty much eat chicken or beef. My cardio is now 20 minutes of running at 7.5mph on a 3 (out of 20) incline. And then 15 minutes of elliptical with varying levels of difficulty. Again, I'm not losing a pound.

I'm just so fatty around my hips. I have high hips, so it's so noticeable. I'm just sad. I can't afford a nutritionist. And I don't feel intelligent enough to do my research online and feel confident that whatever I find is going to convince me that is the diet I should do. My thoughts are "calories in, calories out." I burn more calories than I eat. But I don't understand what I'm doing wrong I guess. When I look at macro calculators, it tells me different values depending on the website. And they always seem like too many calories to lose weight. I don't mind doing an aggressive weight loss. But I just feel lost.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. I can handle constructive criticism.

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Saturday, January 18, 2020

Am I eating too little?

I started my weight loss journey on December 23rd. I was 290 lbs and 6’4 at the time. All I did was cut out every drink that wasn’t water. On January 7th, I downloaded MyFitnessPal and started tracking my calories. I ate how I normally would for the first day or two and had no problem meeting the goal. (My guess is that drinking lots of Pepsi was my downfall). Now, I’ve noticed that some days I only get between 1200-2000 calories. I still eat normally, just less. The point is that I’m not meeting the daily calorie goal unless I actively eat more (the goal in the app is losing 2lbs a week which I know they say not to do). Is something wrong with this? Could it be dangerous for me eating this low? Thanks for reading!

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6 Signs You’re Not Eating Enough (Yes, It’s Possible!)

When you gained weight, the problem was that you were eating too much. But when you’re trying to lose weight, the problem can sometimes become that you’re not eating enough.

Yes, really: Eating too little can slow your metabolism down. When you take in dramatically less energy than your body needs, your body can slow down how much fuel it uses, meaning you burn off far fewer calories than normal, which can sabotage your weight loss.

And eating too little can have other consequences on how your body functions, too: Certain nutrients, like Vitamins A and D, need to dissolve in dietary fat before being carried to your bloodstream. So if you’re eating too little (specifically, too little fat), your body won’t be able to use those nutrients that you do eat. And the weight you do lose won’t be the kind you’re trying to shed: According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, “extreme” dieting leads to weight loss that is 30 percent from muscle mass, not fat mass.

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So how much is the right amount to eat for healthy weight loss? It depends on your weight. Your body weight determines your “basal metabolic rate,” or BMR, which is a measure of how many calories you’d burn if you did nothing at all—basically, how much energy your body needs simply to function. You can create an approximation of your BMR using the following formulas:

For men: (10 x your weight in kg) + (6.25 x your height in cm) – (5 x your age) + 5
For women: (10 x your weight in kg) + (6.25 x your height in cm) – (5 x your age) – 161

You’ve got to factor in exercise, too. If you exercise almost not at all, multiply your approximate BMR by 1.2. If you exercise 1 to 3 times per week, multiply it by 1.375. The resulting number is an approximation of your “maintenance calories”: That is, if you ate that much, you’d stay at roughly the same weight you are now.

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For effective weight loss, experts recommend several ranges below your personal maintenance level. For those hoping to lose just a little weight, that range is usually around 500 calories below the maintenance number, while for obese individuals, this can rise to just over 1,000 calories below maintenance. Consistently go any lower, though, and you could sabotage your efforts.

Luckily, if you’re on the Nutrisystem program, you can feel confident that you are eating the right balance of nutrients and calories to keep you feeling great while you lose weight. But if you’re guilty of not eating all of your foods, or skipping your add ins like SmartCarbs, PowerFuels and non-starchy veggies, you just might be guilty of eating too little.

Here are six signs that you’re not eating enough:

1. Your weight loss has stalled.


Weight loss plateaus—where you’ve lost weight, and now can’t seem to anymore—can come from lots of different things: After a bit of success with strict tracking and portion control, some dieters start to get comfortable (and a little lazy) about their plan. Others forget to adjust their food intake down to match their new weight—so they’re still eating at a weight loss level for their starting weight, which isn’t as big a deficit for their current weight.

But some just aren’t eating enough. This messes with your hormones—including hunger hormones and thyroid hormones which can contribute to the metabolism slowdown. Consuming a meal that’s slightly higher in carbs and calories can have an effect on your hormones all week: It raise your levels of leptin, a hormone associated with fullness, and lower levels of ghrelin, a hormone associated with hunger. It can also re-balance the thyroid hormones that can contribute to slowing your metabolism.

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2. You feel sluggish and weak.


Your muscles store carbohydrates inside for fuel as something called glycogen—this fuel is used by your fast-twitch muscle fibers in high-performance situations like picking up something really heavy or sprinting. When you aren’t eating enough, your body can eat through your glycogen stores, which robs your muscle of this high-performance fuel.

Robbed of calories and forced into a “starvation mode,” your body will also start to eat away at muscle for energy rather than attacking your fat stores—that’s why people on extremely low-calorie diets often lose 30 percent of their weight as muscle, and why starvation dieters often look “skinny fat” rather than healthy and slim.

The compound effect is that you’ll feel tired and weak if you’re not eating enough. And don’t think you can just sleep it off: One side effect reported from extremely low-calorie diets is a difficulty falling and staying asleep, a symptom experts associate with uneven blood sugar levels.

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3. You’re very, very “hangry.”


That feeling when you can’t control your emotions, snap at people, and feel irrationally angry because you’re so hungry? That’s being “hangry,” and science backs up its existence: When your blood sugar gets low, studies suggest that self-control is one of the first things to go. So you can’t control your emotions, and you snap—you might be losing weight, but you might also lose all your friends.

That loss of self-control also means a loss of impulse control—so when you’re hangry, you may also be susceptible to a big, caloric binge, which would undo all the supposed “good” you did while undereating.

The solution: Eat enough to maintain a balanced blood sugar level. If you’re getting “hangry,” you may be eating too little.

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4. Your skin’s dry, flaky or itchy.


This one has to do with fat calories: The fatty oils in your diet not only make skin-helping Vitamins like A, D, and E more bio-available, but the fat itself can improve the health of your skin.

And multiple studies have shown that eating the right fats—“healthy” fats like those found in olive oil—can help your body lose weight, specifically around your belly. Dieters in Germany were given yogurt with olive oil added in as a supplement to their normal diet. Even though this yogurt was added as extra calories, the dieters did not gain weight or body fat—and they had more feelings of fullness than those who ate the yogurt without the oil.

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5. You’re having abnormal diarrhea or constipation.


When your body slows down to conserve energy—because you’re not eating enough—your digestive system can also slow down. Your intestinal lining can become damaged or less effective in this case—meaning that the food you do eat doesn’t get digested correctly. Not only does this cause a deficiency in how many nutrients are absorbed by the body, but it can also cause diarrhea or constipation. And that just makes things worse: When you have diarrhea, your body is depleted of vitamins and minerals.

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6. Your diet is just really hard to stick to.


When a weight loss plan is sustainable, it creates what you may have heard of as a “lifestyle change”: Successful dieters learn to make better choices that they can continue to make in the long run. It’s that feeling of “I can do this!” that keeps people on track, losing and, eventually, staying healthy.

When you’re not eating enough, though, the weight loss plan can feel like a diet—an impossible struggle of hunger, anger, pain and anguish. That’s a strategy that results in relapse, not lifestyle change. Add in the effects on your metabolism and exercise performance, and the extremely low-calorie diet isn’t even faster or more effective. Eat the right amount, and you may have an easier time staying on plan.

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