Monday, November 30, 2020

I need to vent

I’ve (24F) been on this weight loss journey since the first UK lockdown at the beginning of April, I started at 238lbs and I’m now at 177lbs with a goal of 154lbs. I’m 5’10”.

I’ve had ups and downs. Achievements and failures. Good days and bad days. I recovered from my alcohol addiction, stopped smoking, started working out, ran my first 5k, all the achievements to better my health. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy that I’ve ended up here, nearly at my goal, and I see the difference in everywhere on my body except for the one place that matters to me.

My stomach and love handles.

I’m frustrated that my stomach is still 41in. I’m frustrated my love handles are still there. How much farther do I have to go? So many people my height look great at the weight I’m at now, and I don’t.

I just don’t know where to go from here.

I’m scared I’ll get to my goal weight and I’ll still have the stomach and love handles. I just want them to go. I hope they go. I’m doing everything I think is right.

Sorry. Needed to vent.

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Fell off the wagon for the last week, time to get serious again

For the last week (thanksgiving week in US) it’s been tough staying with all my newly formed habits. Gyms closed again in my area and it’s far too cold to do any workout outside, and it’s difficult to do workouts indoors for me as walking and resistance training are huge parts of what I do, and during a week where eating a lot os tradition, it’s been tough. But I’m back today, determined to find a way to make it work until gyms open again. They say diet is 90% of weight loss and I hope that’s true because I feel like that will be easier to continue doing than working out but I suppose we’ll see. Wish me luck!

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Weight Loss and Chronic Injury

Ok so..I'm new and desperate.

Introduction: 28F 5'7 SW:181 GW:148 no real job, anxiety, depression, potential food addiction, chronic injuries. Heaviest weight 183, lowest fit weight 155.

I suffered 2 herniated disks in a car accident about 6 years ago (one low lumber and one low cervical). -I have been in 10 car accidents (only 1 my fault and only by law as it was rear end in NY, they slammed the brakes). I have had multiple cervical sprains, back soreness and the messed up disks. I am almost constantly hurt (current is an MCL sprain). -It seems no matter how I try to get back into being active I get hurt again. I enjoy yoga, sports, jogging, and sometimes HIIT. I always stretch. Previous injuries include multiple broken bones, sprained wrists and ankles, knees that just pop out, cervical sprains. I know I need to strengthen my hips. I LOVE eating. -I will eat and eat. I'm active but I still eat too much of the wrong things and I know it. I love sugar and sweets. I have a texture sensitivity so certain foods are ALWAYS out (ie fish, I just cannot stand the texture) I'd say I can eat right up to 5 days in a week but I will binge probably 2 times a month (think 1000 extra calories)

So I'm here because I need some help. I do things for my anxiety and depression and I know how exercise can help. I've tried a dietitian and nutritionist and they were no help to me. I'd rather be more active than change what I eat, but I'm constantly getting injured.

I want to "start from zero". I'm thinking stretching and yoga daily with some an work. (I am currently limited by my MCL sprain and only allowed to work in the sagittal plane. This mostly knocks out yoga. I am in PT.) My problem is that I don't know how to take it slow. I have a heavy bag calling my name and I know I need to wait.

What comes after stretching and yoga and light walking? How can I rehab my entire body and move up the ladder to strengthening and jogging?

With not working and being "at-risk" in a pandemic I cannot go to the gym or pay a personal trainer. I, unfortunately, also cannot continue down this road. My Heaviest ever was 183 and I swore I would never go there again. I've always wanted to be around 150 (GW 148.5) but never gotten there. I'm begging anyone out there who can help me to help me figure this out. My problem isn't with moving itself, but avoiding constant sideline injuries.

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Absolutely terrified of gaining back the weight a second time

Some background: 5’8-5’9 male, around 3 years ago I started losing weight from 95kg at a pretty low point in my life, and managed to get all the way down to below 70kg. I thought I’d “take a break” the week leading up to my birthday.... and that break lasted forever.

Few months ago my life was the most miserable it’s ever been because of several factors, some due to COVID, some not, but most were my fault. I figured if I could do one thing right it was getting back to a healthy weight. Through CICO, exercise, and intermittent fasting, I’ve been losing a kilo a week, and so far I’ve gotten down from 100kg (my all time max) to 86 or so now. It’s going great honestly, consistent with minimal plateaus, but I don’t wanna yo-yo this time, and am still not completely sure why I did so last time. Why I wanted to take that break.

One possible reason is that even though intermittent fasting suits me, I may have gone too far and started OMAD when I wasn’t ready for it. Another might be that I was trying to gain muscle at the same time, and pushing myself at the gym beyond what I’d be comfortable doing regularly and sustainably. This time I won’t worry about muscle or looking toned until I lose the fat, and will stick to a relatively large and flexible eating window like 16:8. But I’m also worried that, the only two times in my life I’ve been motivated to start losing weight was because my life was down in the gutter, and the first time I just gave up when life got good again. I don’t want that to happen again. I want to stay healthy for the rest of my life, through highs and lows. The weight loss is going fine for now, but it’s just a matter of seeing whether or not I can maintain once I reach my goal.

I wanna hear about what some of you guys’ experiences are with yo-yoing and weight maintenance. When you finally stopped gaining the weight back, what was it that you did different? I’ll take all the wisdom I can get.

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Maintenance Monday: November 30, 2020

If you've reached your goal weight and you're looking for a space to discuss with fellow maintainers, this is the thread for you! Whether you're brand new to maintenance or you've been doing it for years, you're welcome to use this space to chat about anything and everything related to the experience of maintaining your weight loss.

Hey gang, here's your weekly discussion thread! Tell us how maintenance and life in general is going for you this week! And if you missed last week's (or simply want to reread), here's a link.

If there's a specific topic you'd like to see covered in a future thread, please drop a comment or message!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 30 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Has anyone had this experience/ issue with weight loss? If so, how did you handle it?

 Hello all! I started my weight loss journey around mid-August of this year, and I weighed 287.0 LBS (20-year old male, 6 feet tall). Currently, I weigh 274.0 LBS, which is not at all where I wanted to be over 3 months after my start. I’ve now realized the core issue that I have with weight loss, and why over these past few months I have ultimately failed with each new attempt. I begin each attempt with a fresh mindset, weekly goal in mind, and the “I will do this” attitude. I do well for usually a week, and I will see some results—which excites me. Then, I may fight with my spouse, a new financial difficulty may arise, or maybe even I just become too bored...then I turn to restaurants. Pizza, chicken, soda...everything I shouldn’t eat. I don’t keep pleasure food at my house, but when I am upset by sometimes even minor things, I take comfort in eating. Most recently, as an example, my spouse was very upset about one of her courses, so my first response was to go get a pizza from one of our favorite restaurants. This was of course after I had already eaten for the day, and I even told myself in the moment that I didn’t need to eat it—I knew it was a bad idea. Unfortunately, for one reason or another, I always lose the internal conflict within me when it comes to eating for comfort vs weight loss. It has become a cycle for the past few months where I will diet successfully for a time, then I will relapse back into old habits, then I will find courage again, and so forth. My question is if anyone here has dealt with emotional eating like I have, what was/ is your success story? How did you overcome it? Or, if someone hasn’t necessarily had this same problem, what advice do you have? 

Thanks all!

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