Monday, May 10, 2021

Accountability Post

I’m turning a new page this morning, and hoping this will be the last time I have to do so. I have attempted “diets” and weight loss journeys before, all within different ranges of success. My goal this time is not to lose weight necessarily, but to improve my quality of life, my life style habits, and my mental health. I woke up at 6am today with a full 8 hours of sleep, took a shower, vitamins, brushed my teeth, and ate a healthy breakfast, all things that I’ve been struggling to do at all. What normally ruins my attempts is my struggles with mental health, anxiety, insomnia, depression all make it difficult to put any thought or care into anything I want to do. Yet I find that each time I improve my physical health, my mental improves as well. Welcome to any tips on how to maintain this association and not lose motivation to eat well and exercise even if I lose motivation for everything else. Wish me luck!

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Sharing meals to make friends, and how I’m struggling with it

I’d say every weekday for months I’ve been doing an incredibly great job with regards to eating healthy food, cooking my own meals, portioning, eating total calories below my daily intake level, and getting active every day.

Yet for this entire time, I have been hovering at around the same weight at which I started, with little progress.

It’s been frustrating but after giving it some thought, I realized this is because I’m eating out too often. While it sounds like there’s an easy fix here, for me it is not, and I’m hoping to get some advice on how to improve.

See, I have settled in with a new friend group that loves to eat out. I also love eating out, and we like trying new foods together. When I started my weight loss I promised I wouldn’t forbid myself from eating out as long as it was reasonable, maybe once a week. But my friends are not pestering me to go with them three or four times per week.

It seems like the easy answer is to say no most of the time but to me, food is how I bond with people and make friends. I grew up always struggling to make friends so I made a personal rule where if someone asked me to hang out, including to grab dinner etc. I would never say No even if my shy self wanted to stay home. So now when my new friends ask me to eat out with them I’m hesitant to say No because I don’t want them to think I’m not down to hang out or hard to convince, et cetera, but all this eating out is causing me to stall on my weight loss. What do I do?

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Can a dietician help me lose wight? Should I seek assistance?

Hi all

I won't bore you too much but weight loss has been hard for me. I am beginning to think that I have a very unhealthy relationship with food and alcohol and possible disordered thoughts about food.

I feel so lost and confused. Keto really messed with my head a few years ago...weight loss was effective but it was MISERY daily. Restricting food groups was bad for my mental health. However I do think fats are healthy, and some saturated fats are important.

I worry that a dietician will spout the same public health nonsense that has led to Americans being sick and fat for the last 60 years...red meat is the devil, seed oils and margarine only, lots of grains.

I know how to eat less or eat fewer calories...the problem is that I'm hungry all the time. And I have cravings and obsess about food. I feel trapped. Can anything help with this? Are there therapy services that can deal with it somehow? I love eating healthy food. I know how to count calories. I know how to do it. The problem is, my entire life becomes obsessive about food when I restrict and it's messed me up so bad mentally.

I am beginning to feel like I'm just trapped like this forever.

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Sunday, May 9, 2021

Work provides me with a Seamless/UberEats budget every night and it's becoming difficult to keep a check on my diet - any suggestions from others in similar situations or suggestions on what/where to order from? Becomes specially difficult due to a gluten-intolerance

First of all, want to recognize the position of privilege I am in. Not having to think about buying groceries and cooking dinner every night is an absolute blessing and having such a high budget every night is absurd.

However, since I started (July of last year) I have put on something like 30 pounds (185 --> 215 as a 6'3 male) due to eating delivery every single night M-F and weekends whenever I have to work. My usual methods for weight loss (IF + CICO) have been working all way up until I get to dinner, and then it all falls apart, even when I'm trying to order healthy. A big part of it is also the stress from my first job and how high pressure it is (trying to leave ASAP as I don't think it is good for my mental or physical health, and feel I could do much better elsewhere) but the delivery has been the vehicle through which that stress has transformed into weight gain. I would cook every night, but I work quite late and often don't have time to step way (again, bad job).

Have been able to lose significant weight in the past as I used to weigh 275 pounds in high school, and also lost 20 from March to July of last year, but has been significantly more difficult lately. An additional obstacle is the discovery of a gluten intolerance a couple of years ago, but also general stomach/gas problems that make my relationship with food difficult

Would love to hear anyone's perspectives on how to handle. Really struggling to manage through the pandemic / new employment & stress / gaining weight all at the same time

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 10 May 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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First week down!

Today marks 1 full week since I started my weight loss mission! Last Saturday I went and calculated my maintenance calories and made a few “example day” menus that would keep me at or under a 500 calorie deficit, started counting calories using the loseit app last Sunday. So far, I’ve stayed below my calorie budget every single day this week!

On top of that, I’ve also been going on walks in the morning after I drop my kiddo off at school, and try to do about 2 miles each walk (started out doing 1 mile for a few days, then moved up to 2!) and doing some short exercise routines at home before bed (basics mostly, squats, mountain climbers, inchworms, planks and plank variations etc.). Also been drinking a ton of water, as I cut out soda/other liquid calories.

I’m feeling good, sleeping great, and not starving! But, I’m scared to get on the scale yet, worried that if I don’t see progress I’ll get discouraged. How long did it take you to see the scale move down?? Any other tips also appreciated!

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Feeling down

CW: eating disorders

This is my first ever post, although I’ve been coming to this page frequently over the past few months. I’ve lost about 25 pounds with CICO and running since the beginning of March (F27 5’4 SW: 230 CW: 204 GW: 140). It’s going ok, and sometimes I’m feeling pretty positive about my progress. But for the most part I just feel pretty depressed and anxious about this whole process. I’m working on my PhD right now but the only thing I can ever think about is losing weight. I spend hours on this page and looking up weight loss before and after pictures for inspiration. I weigh myself multiple times a day and obsessively recalculate how much I’ll weigh every month of the coming year based on my current rate of weight loss. I have a history of EDs and am attempting a relaxed approach at calorie counting where I just try to eat a reasonable amount of calories under 1500 (usually 1200-1300 + a couple hundred more on days I run over 5 miles). But lately, I consider purging whenever I eat more than 1400 calories. I just want to be skinny, and I know slow and steady progress and sustainable lifestyle changes are key but it also depresses me how long it’s taking. I lost a lot of weight quickly in the past due to my eating disorders, but started gaining while in recovery/therapy. I was diagnosed with PCOS recently, and it makes me so tired all the time and I have really intense PMS that makes me both depressed and ravenous. Plus my periods are so painful that I’m stuck in bed at least three days a month. It’s making me feel pretty bad about myself. I know I’m losing weight but I feel fatter than ever when I look in the mirror. And I know that I need to get back in therapy and I’m trying (I’m on a waiting list currently). I don’t even know why I’m writing this - I guess I just feel really alone right now. I live by myself after a recent breakup, and I don’t talk to anyone about my weight loss journey. I’m not going to give up - but I feel my mental health crumbling.

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