Sunday, November 4, 2018

I had an honest talk with myself, sharing so maybe it helps others too.

I think it's always important to remind ourselves that context is everything, especially when it comes to the weight loss journey all of us are on. Basically, I made a list of things I always ask myself when approaching diet, exercise, weight, weight loss, and fitness. Then I answered my own questions and found the explanations and reality of the assumptions I tend to make. I'm sharing it in the hopes that it might help someone on their journey too.

  1. What's the secret to losing weight? Is it discipline? Is it a diet? Is it something else?
    I think this was the hardest question to answer and also the major reason I've Yo-yoed in my journey. This is the second time I've seriously taken this journey and I needed to answer the questions to be able to rationalize what I was doing.
    For me, there are two simple secrets.
    1, eat at a deficit. This sub has people doing Keto, Intermittent Fasters, Paleo, Veganism, vegetarians, pescatarians, and so many others, but the bottom line has always been Calories In Calories Out. No matter what you eat, as long as you are at a deficit you will lose weight.
    2, keep the routine simple. When people talk about habits of successful businessmen or athletes or whatever else it comes up in one way or another every time. Steve Jobs wore the same jeans and black shirt all the time. Warren Buffet has the same suit he wears all the time. Your favorite baseball team or the frat dudes or sorority gals all went to the gym and ate at the same time. I spent a lot of my time looking at what they looked like rather than the process they followed to get the results they got. But then I tried the routine myself. I had a great gym and a great schedule. I went to the gym from 8pm to 10pm every time. When I was a beginner it was twice a week. As I got stronger I started going more often.

  2. Can I lose weight in a specific area?
    I think this is the question I look back on a feel most frustrated with myself for asking. It has to do with a lack on understanding what it is at a very basic level. The simple answer is, unless you are already relatively small/ fit, no.
    Why?
    Well, think of fat as storage. Any excess food that you consume becomes pooped out or, in the case of sugar, turned into the unit stored in fat tissue. Your body is made to store fat in certain areas, your hips, your gut, your butt, your chest/boobs, and your thighs. After a point, it will also show up in your extremities, neck, face, etc. It stores them, but it stores them pretty evenly everywhere.

  3. The natural follow up question. So where does muscle and working out fall in?
    Muscle, unlike fat, is a functional unit. You build muscle to do more work. Your work out muscles which you want to work harder. Your core is your abs and back, they give you the balance, stability, and control for movements of your torso. Your legs will let you carry heavier loads and/or move for longer. Your arms will let you push, grab, and pull heavier things and how you use them will help with the type of work you do better.
    Think of the gas you put in a car. If you aren't turned on and going anywhere the gas stays in the tank right? The gas in this instance is food. Now imaging that you keep getting gas at a steady rate. If you don't use it, you can put that gas in smaller tanks and store them on/in your car. That is fat. If you continue to fill extra tanks, then you put them wherever you have space but if you never get used they just sit there.
    Now, think of the engine. The engine is what makes work possible. It is the muscle. In a normal car it'll take you from point A to point B and it'll be pretty uneventful. Now think of a sports car, monster truck or semi/ lorry. Those cars have a lot more power so that can move more weight, go faster. That's how they go faster and work harder. The muscle is the same way. We build muscle so that they can do more work. Doing more work requires more energy. So even if they have a continuous flow of gas, if they're using it, they won't need to store it.
    A small clarification on types of muscle using cars.
    A sports car goes from A to B quickly. A normal car will get there and if it tried to keep up it would take a greater toll on the car than the sports car because it was built for speed. That is how you can look at a sprinter vs us normal people. Lots of power.
    A semi/ lorry truck can move a great amount of weight for a great distance. It uses more gas, stores more gas, and has more power. A normal car attempting to pull the same weight/ heavy weight? Forget about it! Either, something would break, it would try hard but not get very far before running out of energy, or a combination of both. That's something like a boxer, swimmer, or football player. Lots of endurance and power.
    Anyways, it's not a great analogy, but I think the idea is there. Regardless, to burn more energy, you have to eat less and/or move more, that is the only way the extra gas in the spare cans gets burned off.

  4. How do I stay motivated?
    Everyone has moments of weakness. Everyone. But recognizing a momentary lapse and becoming discouraged because of one moment aren't the end of the world. So, you build in flexibility. I eat at a 750 calorie deficit so that if I get tempted by a cookie or a piece of chocolate on one day, I can have it and still be okay in my loss.

  5. What should I expect?
    The biggest thing for me, is to be realistic. I can't go from the Michelin Man to Ryan Reynolds overnight. I can't even expect myself to do it within a few month and sometimes ever. I might not have the body shape to ever look like those people, but as long as I know where I'm going and I'm honest with myself, I know I'll be somewhere that makes me a lot happier looking at myself in the mirror than I am now.

  6. What is the difference between weight loss and physical fitness?
    This one was huge for me.
    Weight loss is simply that, losing weight and poundage. Weight loss isn't a guarantee of a six pack. It isn't the guarantee of big muscles. It isn't even the guarantee that your 'goal outfit' will fit you well. What it is, is the ability to control how close you can get to those goals efficiently and effectively. For me, a distinction is also the gym. You don't need the gym to lose weight. Of course you'll lose inches and feel better, but when you see those little stubborn things, like the love handles, small biceps, or lack of tone in the booty or anywhere else you'll have to turn to fitness, working out, and/or gym.
    People use the word fit a lot, but what is it? Physical fitness for me, is having a body that will do what I want it to do at any given moment. (Okay maybe I'll need to stretch and warm up first, but you get the idea.) If I need to be fit enough to run a 5k, then I'm going to have to start with walking. I can build my stamina with walking and then introduce some running. After a while I'll be able to run more and eventually I'll reach the end goal of the full 5k. For someone who wants something more aggressive, it'll probably take more time, but the concept is the same. The end goal is for your body to do what you want. That's why you build muscle. It is a functional unit. They can increase in power in in endurance depending on how you work them.

Finally, I'm sorry if this went on for a bit. This sub is a great place for support. I suppose, this is my way of saying thanks and giving back a little.

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Weight loss and depression

Wondering if anyone has any experiences or strategies to share.

I'm currently dealing with some depression. I'm taking the necessary steps to get myself mentally and emotionally well but it takes time. Food and TV have been my crutch and continue to be. Last year I lost 20kgs, so I know what I need to do. I've put 12kgs back on in the last 6 months that I've been feeling sad.

My issue is, how do I get and keep motivated when my need to feel better and escape the pain of depression (short term gratification of eating and watching tv) are stronger than my want to loose the weight and get healthy (looking at my body in the mirror makes me feel quite sad).

If anyone has any ideas, strategies, stories, experiences - is be glad to hear them! Thanks

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How to Lose Weight on Antidepressants and Anti-Anxiety Medication?

Hi everyone,

I am currently on Duloxetine and Pregabalin, for Major Depressive Disorder and Generalised Anxiety Disorder (diagnosed by a Psychiatrist at the beginning of this year).

I have put on over 2.5 stone (around 16kg) within 10 months, due to poor mental health affecting my appetite and eating behaviours, but I am wondering if in my pursuit to start losing this weight that the medication may have an effect?

Does anyone know if mental health medication affects weight loss? If so, how do you lose weight effectively on meds?

I do not want to have medication as an excuse for my unhealthy behaviours, and would love to know how people have lost weight whilst tackling depression/anxiety too.

Thank you so much!

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I lost 90lbs in one year, and have kept it off for 13 years now. AMA!

Hi reddit! I've done one of these annually for the past few years to pretty positive reception, so I thought I'd check back in.

As a teenager I was ~250lbs at 6’1”. Around 2005, when I was 19, I decided to make some changes. Through some careful (but not super drastic) diet and exercise I lost nearly 90lbs over the course of one year, and I’ve kept it off ever since.

Since most stories you hear about are immediately after, or during, someone's weight loss I thought people might be interested to hear from someone who’s maintained the change over a long period of time. Overall I’ve kept a pretty consistent level of fitness since the initial weight loss, which I mostly attribute to emphasizing safe, enjoyable, and sustainable changes. My overall goal is to stay fit for many years to come, so I emphasize that over putting up the biggest possible numbers right now.

I found a long-term mindset, as well as getting educated about nutrition and exercise, to be very important to losing the weight. I really cannot over-state how important education has been for me - it makes everything so much easier if you have a basic understanding of nutrition and exercise science.

Below you can see where I started off, where I've been over the last few years since I started these AMAs, and where I am today:

Since dropping that weight I have tried to maintain balance in my life, striving to stay healthy and fit without devoting hours and hours of my time to doing so. I spend about 5 hours per week exercising, (a mixture of cardio and resistance training) and my diet is sensible but not amazing.

I'm happy to expand on any of what I mention above, or to answer any other questions you may have. In other words, AMA!

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Why am I stumbling now after a year of success?

I started my lifestyle change in July 2017. It was slow and steady, an average change of 1-2lbs per week. I focused on getting 10000 steps daily and began tracking in MFP. I adhered to strict CICO but didn’t give up any specific foods, I dropped from obese to overweight in less than a month. When summer ended I had a harder time staying active, but I was able to recognize that if my CO dropped my CI needed to be lower too. It seemed manageable. In January, after a slight holiday plateau, I finally crossed into healthy BMI. The whole time up until then I knew my TDEE was changing and that my weight loss would slow down eventually so I started stepping up my exercise game. I changed the Fitbit goal, joined 52 hike challenge, and hit a BMI of 22 in April. And then it stopped. I didn’t consciously decide to switch to maintenance, it just happened. I’ve been fluctuating between BMI of 22 and 24 all summer and fall. I added trail running to hiking. I dropped to 21 for a week and then was right back at 22.

And now I’m hitting a wall. It’s winter. My job has gotten super stressful. I haven’t hit my step goal on a weekday in over a month. My BMI hasn’t been at 22 in weeks. It hasn’t crossed back above 25 yet, but the lows aren’t as low and the highs are creeping higher.

I know that if my CO is low my CI needs to be low too. But at my current sedentary TDEE the calories I need to consume to keep from gaining don’t feel fulfilling. I am hungry all the time and I’m not even getting exercise. I have also been experiencing more cravings and have been succumbing to them more often. I’m super nervous that I’m going to screw everything up.

Last winter I was still overweight and my TDEE when sedentary was 1720 a day. When I added just a smidge of exercise I could really eat exactly what was comfortable for me. But now, at my current TDEE of about 1550, I struggle to get even 200 extra calories on most weekdays and I go to bed hungry, or end up making snack choices I regret. I don’t know how to shift my thinking or my behavior.

I know I’m still at a healthy BMI and this kind of panic is probably not necessary or healthy. I know part of the plateau is that I am reaching maintenance and it’s probably a good thing that I’m not getting too thin. But I also want to make sure that I never go back. And part of my change has been about consistent self improvement. I was hoping at this point to be starting to work on strength training and athleticism. Instead I feel like I’m fighting not to backslide. But I wonder if this is part of the healthy person’s experience. Do people who were always thin get sluggish in the winter? Is this because my lifestyle change isn’t sustainable, or is a small amount of ebb and flow a part of healthy weight maintenance? Should I try to do something to kick myself into gear and shed those last 6-8 lbs or is that likely to backfire or be temporary?

I’m not sure what advice I’m even asking for, this is honestly mostly a desperation rant. Anyway

TLDR; should I be worried about this plateau/slight regain, or is this just a part of reaching maintenance?

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Here we go again

A few years ago, I lost 130 lbs in just over a year with healthy eating, calorie counting, and exercise. I was at my lowest adult weight in April of 2016. I felt amazing, my confidence level was through the roof and I finally felt that my goal weight was in sight. My next big goal was 199... my weight hadn't started with a 1 since I was 15 and I was excited for this next big milestone.

I hit 200.0 on 4/23/16-- 130.5 lbs lighter than my highest adult weight... and I started to self-sabotage. I went on vacation and my eating was out of control, and I was never able to reign it in. Disappointment in myself and my inability to hit my goals turned into depression and I self-medicated with food.

I was gaining as fast as I had been losing. In August of this year, I had gained back 100 lbs of what I had lost. Still a way from my highest weight, but at 299.4 I REFUSED to hit 300 pounds again. So I'm back at it. This is the 3rd or 4th major attempt at weight loss as an adult, and I'd love to say that I'm going to hit a healthy weight this time, but who knows. I can say that right now I'm motivated and I plan to keep it up. I want the confidence that I had before.

I'm currently at 268. Down 31 pounds since August. Religiously tracking my intake, eating whole foods (95% paleo-ish diet), stepping on the scale every morning for accountability, and sticking to a ~1300 calorie daily goal. The weight is coming off and I'm feeling confident in my ability, but I think I need to add some tools to my belt to help me deal with emotional eating that may come in the future.

I think that weight loss in this age is kind of amazing. I've had Fitbit and a wifi scale since 2012, so the past six years of my weight is conveniently graphed, with its ups and downs and all. I know that my eating and my weight is intrinsically linked to my mental well-being. I can mark all of the major events of my life over the past 6 years and see how they've affected my eating habits.

I tend to turn to food for comfort-- in fact, I can pinpoint the exact moment that my weight-loss journey did a 180 after my mom died. I had been doing awesome-- I had lost around 40 lbs. I got pregnant with my first child, so my weight loss had slowed, but I was still staying on track with my diet. The second I got the call that she was gone, that all went away. Completely lost in despair, someone brought me a latte and a snowman cookie from Starbucks. For the tiniest second, the enjoyment of the cookie outweighed my grief, so I kept chasing that feeling. Over and over again until I ballooned to 330 lbs and couldn't walk down the hall without getting winded. That was my rock bottom and when I lost my first huge amount of weight.

Every day I kick myself for not sticking to it. But, I try to bury those thoughts with the knowledge that I've lost this weight before so I know that I can do it again. I have around 120 pounds to hit my ultimate goal weight-- and I've done that before! I've lost more than that before!

I'm not sure what the point of this post is, tbh. I check in and read /r/loseit every day, just as I did the last time I was losing, so I thought I'd finally post this time around to make my efforts 'official'. Maybe there are some of you who have dealt with emotional eating as well, and can give me pointers in avoiding it in the future? Have any of you gone to therapy for your eating habits? I've been considering it-- I really want to set myself up for success in all ways that I can. I owe it to myself and to my family to be healthy and to be a good role model. What do you do to actively keep yourselves from falling back into old habits?

tl;dr: I lost a lot of weight. Then I gained most back. Losing again; want advice on sticking with it this time.

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