Thursday, August 8, 2019

CICO works! I'm not overweight today!

I became overweight (per BMI) 2 years ago after a cruise. I had never been overweight before and vowed that I would quickly lose the extra one or two pounds. Well, over a year I actually GAINED about 10-15 more pounds, being 190 as my heighest weight for a 190 lb female at 5'10. This was highly distressing for me because growing up the repetitive message from my mom was that being overweight was bad and fat people were to be pitied and pointed out. As someone who is a lot more compassionate than my mom, I thought that was incredibly judgmental but still struggled with the idea that she was judging me harshly every time she saw me. I exercised regularly, as I always have, but of course it was not enough.

I have also struggled a lot with alcohol my whole adult life and that hindered my weight loss. It also gave me some insight when reading other stories on here about binge eaters and their stuggles. They treated food the way I treated alcohol. I tried CICO while also trying to drink a bottle or more of wine a night and up to 2 bottles or sometimes more on Fridays and Saturdays. It was impossible to lose weight this way because I didn't feel satisfied with having enough food when I was saving 650 calories for wine on a weeknight.

Over time I started meditation, therapy, read books, and developed a whole bunch of coping skills and learned that alcohol did me absolutely no favors. I've been sober awhile now and loving it. It was really hard at first but now it's easy because I don't want to drink. I've deconditioned myself towards alcohol. It makes CICO so much easier. When I was drinking I'd snack past my calorie limit and then on the weekends when I was more hungover I'd eat fattening brunches. That all stopped and today I weighed in at a normal weight (per BMI) for the first time in years.

I'm also doing loose intermittent fasting. I don't eat until noon, have a smallish lunch, and a big dinner. I usually stop eating around 8 or 9pm. This helps me manage my calorie deficit.

5'10 female; highest weight: 190; current: 173.6; goal: 155

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Depression and Weight Loss

I’ve been in the battle of attempting to lose weight for YEARS.

To set the stage, I’m a 30 year old female with a wonderful husband and an adorable six month old son. Before I met my husband, I was in the Army for four years and was in great shape. Once I got out due to PTSD and depression, I ate. And I ate. And I ate some more.

I met my husband when I was 212 lbs. We got married when I was 235 lbs. I got myself down to 187 lbs and was on my way before we hopped states and then surprise! I’m pregnant.

I got myself back down to 195 post baby but then PPD hit and it hit hard. Now I turn to food for comfort. I’m the moneymaker while my husband is on daddy duty and tbh I prefer it this way. I’m not a housewife type of person and I have a degree already. I’m currently working on my Bachelors degree while I work full time. So add another stressor on top of everything.

Before you ask, yes I’m attempting to get therapy. I say attempting because my first appt isn’t until November. But I’m very concerned about my binging habits. I will sneak food without telling my husband. He only realizes it when he checks our bank account and I’ve had multiple fast food runs all week.

So my question is this: how do you all keep yourself from binging and turning to food to comfort you when you’re having a bad day? I tell myself at the beginning of the day that I’ll stay on track, count my calories, and not cheat on my count. But by midday I’m in my car for lunch heading to Wendy’s.

Is this a mental battle that I need to figure out how to win? I want to stop this before I gain even more weight and get to a point where it’s out of control. I want to be healthy for my son.

Thank you if you read all of this and you have any advice!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 08 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Lost 3 lbs and I couldn’t be happier

Almost my (28F) entire life I’ve struggled with being overweight. I have constantly, throughout the years, yo-yo’d between the same 20 to 40 lbs of extra weight. I’ve done all the fad diets and have gone through periods of very fast weight loss, always followed by eventually gaining the weight back. But I always, always continued to try.

Until this past year when I hit a low point...I fell into a really deep depression the likes of which I’d never experienced. I stopped giving a single fuck about my appearance...something I’d always cared about. I sought console in food and alcohol. I wanted in my heart so badly to snap out of it but I just couldn’t find the drive. I saw it getting worse, went up a pant size even from my already “fat” pants. I felt lethargic, weak, out of breath, I knew I had to find the source of this feeling and I needed to try to fix it ASAP.

I decided I needed a change in my environment. I sought changes in my life, applied for a new job, cut off toxic relationships, sought out a therapist. Little by little I have been feeling like myself again.

Last week I finally found the motivation to try again...I actually got myself to the gym...I managed to say no to cake at the office...I...I can hardly believe it.

This week I lost 3 lbs...and I did it because finally I feel a little love for myself again.

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Does anyone else have a hard time accepting weight loss compliments?

I don’t know if this belongs on here but I have been having some personal conflict with myself about this. I have started my second weight loss journey and I lost about 52 lbs so far, it is a great accomplishment and I felt great. However when the comment from strangers (people at work I have NEVER talked to) started complimenting me and saying “I looked good” made me feel very insecure. I knew I looked good but them telling me and noticing made me have the opposite effect to be honest. I realized that after hearing that people start noticing my weight loss I start sabotaging myself. I stopped working out and going back to my unhealthy eating habits.

Two months later and I feel that I’ve gained maybe 15-20lbs back. Honestly I feel I haven’t gained more because I’m actually conscious about it this time and not eating super bad, but I was still got going to the gym. About 4 years ago I started my first weight loss journey and lost about 65lbs but eventually gained it all back. I honestly dont want to go back to being really heavy, and it seems like I’m not really helping myself to getting to my goal, specially when people “congratulate” me on my weight loss.

Today for the first time in two months i went back to the gym, i just dont want to repeat this cycle again. Has anyone experienced this before or have any input would be appreciated.

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What to do when everything is centered around food

For years now, I have made failed attempts at sustained weight loss, I am beginning the process of undergoing bariatric surgery to assist in making important lifestyle changes. As I mentally prepare and consider the challenges that will arise, I realize that SOO much of my family’s way of celebrating and partaking in tradition is focused on food. Birthdays are going out to a special dinner, holidays are centered around giant meals. In addition to this, I grew up loving to cook and really appreciating good food.

Right now, I’m trying to figure out how I can work around this. I’m worried about how I navigate remaining in the traditions and celebrations without over eating. I know that sounds silly, but it’s just how it is? Also, I’m uncertain if I’ll still be able to enjoy good food while only eating small portions of it. A lot of this screams dysfunctional eating, but that’s also why many of us get into the position of needing to reset our lifestyles. I could really use some advice/support/thoughts.

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I have a Binge Eating Disorder but I need to lose weight. Advice?

For the last 9 years, I’ve been struggling off and on with a binge eating disorder. When I was 16, I managed to get down to a healthy weight (I’m F, 5’4, and I reached 130 lbs), but unfortunately I gained it all back by binging. The binge eating started before I began dieting, but dieting has made it worse. I’m at an unhealthy weight currently, however (156 lbs), and I would really like to get back to 130. I can’t seem to stop the binge eating, however. I’ll have a good streak for 2-7 days, and then I’ll break it with a binge. I’ve tried counting calories and IF, but no matter what I eat or when I eat it, I still binge. Currently, I’m wondering if it would be best for me to stop focusing on weight loss, and instead focus on recovering from the disorder first instead. Has anyone else ever had a similar issue? Would love to hear your stories.

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