Monday, January 6, 2020

What the heck is wrong with me? (lol)

I (24F) have been obese my whole life.. 3 years ago I joined a weight loss clinic and lost 140 lbs. It felt really good but it was hard to process the changes in some ways, I noticed that ppl treated me so different in both good and bad ways. People would still make comments about my weight for example and I had a really bad experience with someone too which I don't want to get into. After seeing the dark side of my weight loss I spiraled into a depression and gained all the weight back.

Now I want to lose it all again..but..I've been saying that for literally a year now. I know how to do it, and what to do but I just can't find myself to start. I have shopped for my groceries and will go to bed saying "I'm starting day 1 when I wake up" then I wake up and I just don't eat all day. It's really weird. I can't understand if I'm just scared to fail or what weird mental block this is. Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

TL;DR I lost 140 lbs 3 years ago and gained it all back. I keep saying I'll restart my weight loss journey but I don't bc I feel a mental block. Well idk actually. I just feel stuck.

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People who rejected me are now interested after my weight loss, can anyone relate?

Down 83lbs and 30lbs to go.

This is something that I am struggling with. It has now happened a few times and I am wondering if anyone can relate or give some advice.

The most recent guy who done this, we dated for 6 weeks. He seemed super into me but overnight he just became distant. Shortly after, he told me there was 'no spark' between us. I was disappointed but there was nothing I could do. I told him I understood and tried to move on. I definitely felt a spark so I assumed he met someone else or just wasn't attracted to me. To me, 'spark' means sexual attraction.

When we were seeing each-other, I was down 50-55lbs. I have now lost a further 30lbs+ and I posted a picture to my instagram a few weeks ago. This guy has started to contact me again and just asked me out yesterday. I told him I would have to think about it.

I don't know what to do. I understand that everyone has a preference but he kinda strung me along for 6 weeks if he wasn't attracted to me or he was just waiting for something 'better' to come along. I did like him but I hate the idea that I am now only suddenly good enough for him. Can anyone relate or share a similar story?

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(SV) [SW:364lbs, CW: 263, GW: 214?] Officially down 100lbs in about a year and a half. Here's all my knowledge to you just starting or wanting to start!

So, where do I begin? Here's the progress pics!

Went from a size 52 pant to 38. Went from a 4X shirt to an XL. Went from not being able to run to able to run 2 miles.

When I started this journey, I was dang near 400lbs. I was depressed, I was fat, and I was most of all, miserable. I was living in a nightmare. So ashamed of what I had become. After a suicide attempt, I really took a deep hard look at my life. I wasn't happy with anything. Especially with how I looked and how miserable it made me. That really opened my eyes. This is my third and final time of losing weight. I'm tired of "yo-yo-ing".

What have I done to get to this point? Well, initially I started off lifting. I did 5 days of lifting. Very little cardio. Did this out of sheer laziness. The thing that really kicked my ass into gear was in the fall of 2018. My gym did a Lazy Man Triathlon. I had six weeks to complete an Iron Man Triathlon. So I had to bike 112 miles, swim 3, and run, walk, or on the elliptical for 26.2 miles. I needed this to really kick my ass into gear. And it worked. I set a goal to get this event done in a month. Guess what? I finished it under four weeks. This is what really got me back into cardio. Cardio is hard and it sucks. But it's what gets results. It's a key component in it all. I was also working out 6 days a week and would split cardio and lifting into 3 and 3. I divided out my muscle groups on those days. But, seeing as this is the third time I've done all this, I know the love I have for cardio and running and biking. It's been a long struggle, but I was even able to do my first triathlon in June of 2018. It sucked but I was able to do it.

Diet wise, I lost my first 65ish pounds intermittent fasting. Not really focusing so much on the diet, but the whole CICO process. It worked but it didn't teach me how to eat. Just how not to eat. So, I eventually fell off that train and decided to learn how to eat healthy. I was very fortunate to have an accountability friend who I would send pictures of the gym to so he knew I was there. However, I also fell of losing weight. I stagnated from like, June 2018 until about October 2018. Didn't budge at all. As my friend told me, "Weight loss starts in the kitchen." That quote hit me so hard. So I asked him if he was okay with me sending him pictures of my meals. He's in residency and is all about a healthy lifestyle, so I lucked out even further there. It was a real struggle to impress him. I always heard about how I could do this or that or that I didn't have enough vegetables. Eat more fruit. Less this or that. Do a sweet potato over a regular potato. But you know what? It's made me realize the importance of what I put in my body and now, I love vegetables and eating clean.

My takeaway here is that, CICO and eating a healthy, well balanced diet is going to be key to a weight loss journey. Even making sure that you are working out and pushing yourself within your limits and recovering properly are just some of the many factors. It's not easy, but it is so worth it. I'm the happiest I've been in years. If you are thinking of making the journey, know that it will be worth it. It will be hard, but my god is it rewarding. This sub has been such an inspiration to me so I am looking to give back just like so many others have. Thank you /r/loseit. I hope I've inspired at least one person! 😁

TL;DR- Weight loss starts in the kitchen. Keep at it!!

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Celebrate your successes, even if they don’t feel like success to you

I started last year at 190lbs. I made myself a goal to reach 145lbs by the end of the year. Needless to say, I didn’t succeed. I did lose 20lbs, but progress has felt so slow that I don’t really feel like I’ve done much.

Over Christmas I saw a bunch of relatives I don’t see frequently, and several of them commented on my weight loss, saying I looked great and encouraging my commitment to my health. I was genuinely surprised at their comments, as I didn’t think my weight loss was noticeable at all. I’d attributed jeans getting looser as cheap material stretching, even though I saw the scale going down.

I’m normally a lurker so I just wanted to make this post to remind myself and others that even if you don’t see it, you are making progress. No matter how small it feels to you, it does make a difference in the end, and I’m thrilled to head into 2020 with a healthier and happier body!

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Summary of Reddit's weight loss tips (sorted by points)

Mindset

  • (~11k points) Don’t reserve happiness for a later date or weight.
  • (~5k points) Weight loss happens in the kitchen: it's much more effective to consume less than it is to work the calories off through exercise. BUT don't discount the mental benefits of exercise, like improved mood and motivation, to make you more able to implement diet changes
    • Even eating healthy (or at least not badly), you can eat too much. And you can't "out exercise" a bad diet. (e.g. cookie - 3.5 miles)
  • (~2k points) Losing weight is not easy but it is simple: Consume fewer calories than you burn
  • (~1.2k points) The best diet or workout is one you'll keep doing. Your success isn't measured by an individual day's success or failure. It's about a lifestyle change. So even if you don't see results as quickly as you'd hope, don't give up
    • Choose to do cardio you like over that which you don’t (e.g. running).
    • Make small, easy changes vs big changes (e.g. small calorie reduction vs working out every day)
  • (~1k points) Keep patience. Losing weight (especially a significant amount of weight) takes a considerable amount of time.

The following three tips had negligible support, but I found them too important to omit:

  • You will eventually start losing weight at a slower rate and that it normal. Remember that it will take time and to not give up. It's a marathon and not a sprint.
  • Don’t start an intense exercise routine until you know you can maintain a healthy diet because it is easy to pig out when tired
  • Be honest with yourself about how much you exercise and what you eat (how many calories, sugars, etc.) because the first step to changing your habits is to acknowledge what they are.

Diet

  • (~4.6k points) Calories In, Calories Out: You must burn more calories than you eat
    • o Any diet can work if there is a calorie deficient. Try MyFitnessPal to find the appropriate calorie restriction for your size and activity level.
    • If calorie counting sounds too unwieldy, consider only counting for a few weeks until you get the idea of the calories of your typical foods
  • (~2.3k points) Meal prepping. Know exactly what you’re putting into your body every day.
  • (~2.1k points) Use a calorie counter app / nutrition calculator (e.g. MyFitnessPal)
  • (~1.5k points) Stop drinking your calories: Cut out sugary drinks (e.g. soda, juice, Gatorade)
  • (~1.3k points) 70% rule: eat 70% of your meal. Take a break and drink water before coming back to it.
  • (~1.1k points) Cut-out alcohol or switch to low-cal alcoholic drinks like liquor with minimal mixers
  • (~1.1k points) Drink more water. Keep yourself hydrated while avoiding hunger disguised as thirst
  • (~1k points) Use a smaller plate (e.g. saucers for dinner plates)
  • (~750 points) Intermittent fasting
    • It can help you remember what real hunger feels like, compared to stress and comfort hunger
  • (~600 points) Keto
  • (~400 points) Stop buying junk food. You wouldn't leave drugs in the home of a drug addict
    • o Bring to-go containers to avoid wasting food

Exercise

  • (~1.2k points) Walking (e.g. make it a part of your routine or commute)
  • (~850 points) Cycling or some form of cardio in place of harder to maintain habits like running
  • (~400 points) Go to gym BEFORE work. Doing so helps you wake up and feel ready for day and more motivation than going at end of day. ALTHOUGH, what works best for your schedule and when you naturally feel most motivation might be different.
  • (~400 points) Dancing (for white guys preferably. The uncoordinated, flailing burns maximal calories)
  • (~300 points) Join a sport. It would help you make exercise more naturally a part of your routine
  • (~300 points) Weight training, for building muscle most quickly

Other

  • (~200 points) Practice good sleep hygiene. It plays a huge role in your ability to follow through with your goals

Honorable mentions

  • Have heart broken/shattered, sleep all day (depression diet)

Most controversial

  • 1. Keto
  • 2. Vegan
  • 3. Intermittent fasting
  • 4. No sugar

Controversial

  • Weigh yourself daily
  • Paleolithic diet
  • Only eat when you’re hungry / you only lose weight when you're hungry
  • No bread
  • Eat before 6PM
  • Cocaine
  • No meat
  • Calories burned > calories in
  • Low carb diet
  • Meth

I rounded the points by 50s or 100s (depending on the popularity of the comment) from about 30 threads related to weight-loss.

I did not tally the number of times a suggestion came up as controversial. I only noticed that when sorted by controversial, Keto, Vegan, Intermittent fasting, and no sugar comments reigned supreme.

I hope you found this list useful.

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Maintenance Monday: Before and After

Happy new year and new decade, gang!

This week I thought it would be fun to share photos to inspire any new losers and reinvigorate the maintainers among us. Without the SVs and NSVs of weight loss, and as time passes and you get used to the New You, we can start to take for granted how far we've come. With any luck, new habits were formed, old coping mechanisms were outgrown, your health may have improved, you may have reached and re-set activity goals, but at its simplest, you look different now, right? There is less of you. Even on days when I'm outside my maintenance range (hi), and even if I'm beating myself up, I can look in a mirror and objectively, I'm slim. I did that! So today, let's give ourselves props for setting and reaching goals, demonstrate that losing weight and keeping it off is possible, and show off a little! You could do a classic B&A, just the A, or share a dexa scan if you're fancy and security conscious.

(Feel free to set your photos to private on imgur and/or obscure your face for security purposes. This is also 100% voluntary!)


Anything else on your mind pertaining to maintenance? Is your diet going effortlessly, or have the last few weeks been more of a struggle? All questions, remarks and worries are welcome topics of conversation!

Previous Maintenance Monday threads can be found here.

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