Thursday, January 7, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 08 January 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Red Cross tech asked me if I was “a runner or a swimmer.”

I went to donate blood and during the pre screen my Red Cross tech checked my blood pressure. Afterwards, he sat back in his chair, a puzzled look on his face, and put the stethoscope on his neck. He then asked me if I was a runner or a swimmer! Turns out my blood pressure was too low. He rechecked and I was all good, but it felt amazing for that to be immediately where his mind went. A moderate pace walk was pretty arduous at my heaviest weight - though I’m still not a runner by any means.

I’m still overweight, but out of obesity and edging ever closer to healthy weight! I use CICO exclusively for weight loss, but I do also do daily cardio (25 minute treadmill power walk) to keep my depression and back pain under control. MyFitnessPal is my app of choice, but only really because it knows all my food at this point, lol. I would otherwise probably use Loseit or Fooducate.

It’s taken 2.5 years, with plenty of highs and lows, but I’m down 31lbs, just 10lbs from my goal weight! Hoping to get there this spring and embrace maintenance over the summer.

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Embarrassing Experience....I can't keep going down this path

Today I found out that I have too much fat in the way (mostly from my chest & belly) to remove my period cup. I finally got it but it was very difficult & I had to contort my body in so many ways. I kind of panicked during the process. I haven't had to wear it in a few of months because of my irregular periods, so this was the first time in a while.

Wow...I just can't believe it has come to this. I've been consistently gaining weight for years, ever since I graduated high school. I started off at 5'3", 120 lbs at high school graduation in 2007 and now I'm 5'3" 235 lbs.

I know what I need to do. I've been researching extensively for years and years....just have never committed to it. I don't want to continue on this path. I don't want to find out what else I won't be able to do by myself if I continue to get bigger.

Has anyone else had an embarrassing experience like this that jump-started their weight loss journey?

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me thinking about stuff

Here’s something that helped motivate me. I was thinking that my weight loss goal is really far away and it’ll take forever to reach it. But then I realized something.

I’m an artist, and I started drawing about 3 and a half years ago now. Going from one month to the next it looked like there was little improvement, but after looking at the span of a couple months/years, I can really see how far I’ve come. So I’m going to look at weight loss the same way - it’s gonna be hard but the results will pay off after a while.

I hope this doesn’t count as self promotion but if anyone wants to see what I mean, I post my art here! https://www.instagram.com/kalaski_draws/ That has art from 2017-now.

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Oh, so you've done this before...

Once I was having a small personal crisis, and I ran into an acquaintance and after chatting for a bit about what was bothering me, something clicked for him and he said "Oh... so you've done this before?" And he was totally right, it was a pattern.

I've lost 30+ pounds a good 3-4 times, and all of those times I have managed to maintain for a while (sometimes years) before things fell apart. And it got me thinking: What lessons have I learned?

  • Don't go on a diet where you hate the food. You can't have all your favorite treats when dieting, but your food should at least be pleasant.
  • Find an exercise that you will stick with because you enjoy it. Keep trying different things until something clicks.
  • Personally, high carbs are not my friend. I've done the high-carb/low-fat vegan thing and I love the food, but I don't lose anything. Conversely, I've done keto and learned that I can tolerate higher carbs than most people and <20g carbs is too extreme for me. YMMV, but different people have different diets that work for them, look at your history and figure out what works for you. We're not all the same.
  • Life is going to fuck up your maintenance sometimes. Pregnancy. Your mom gets cancer. You get your dream job with a looooong commute. Global pandemic. Is it OK that these things have meant that I gain weight? Sure, they're all stressful things. But I need to figure out some kind of backstop so that I gain 5-10 pounds and then put a stop to the gaining. Not sure how to do this. Yet. Gonna figure it out.

So this thread is for those of us who have done the weight loss thing before. What have you learned that will help you this time? What have you learned NOT to do? Where has your maintenance collapsed and what can you do to prevent that from happening again?

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Admitting defeat...need help

In 2019 I lost 95 lbs. in about 7-8 months. I was about 5 lbs from my goal. I did it with an extremely low carb diet and heavily restricted calories (about 1,100 calories). I did not exercise. I weighed myself every day and can admit I had an unhealthy obsession with weight loss, weighing myself, and everything that comes with that. During that time my pre-diabetes went away, and although my high blood pressure was somewhat controlled and I was able to get off my meds, my doctor told me in order to get it completely controlled was to start exercising. I didn’t listen. Enter quarantine, virtual schooling two kids, WFH, anxiety, etc. Last I weighed I’ve gained about half of it back. I weighed in a month ago and...well, holidays...so whatever a human can possibly gain in a month I’ve probably gained, or more. I don’t want to weigh myself. I’m so mad at myself and can’t even stand to look at myself. My body feels completely different. The way I move, my face feels so heavy...just everything.

Here’s where I admit defeat and need some help processing and maybe someone to tell me, even not nicely, and to slap me back to reality. My problem is I lost the weight the first time with what I put in my mouth. I was miserable though. There was no exercise, so I wasn’t miserable, miserable if you know what I mean. Thing is I just can’t justify in my mind that I NEED to exercise. I mean, even before I gained it back I needed to for my blood pressure, and I just didn’t do it. I don’t know how my blood pressure is now. I’m scared to weigh myself and to do a blood pressure check. I know I need to lose the weight again for my health. My brain just tells me if I restrict and be miserable again for a few months I can do it again. I don’t know if this makes any sense, but I want to want to exercise, but I don’t want to. I feel like I have such a long road ahead and I’m mad that I just don’t want to. Sometimes I think maybe if I exercise I can eat a little more and still lose weight.

I think my problem is that I’ve heard so many times that weight loss is all about what you put in your mouth that my mind can’t comprehend anymore why exercise is important. Maybe I just need to hear stories of people being able to lose weight at a steady rate by exercising. Or how exercising helped you. I know I can google why exercise is beneficial, and my brain knows all the facts, but I think I just need personal stories of how it helped you, why it was beneficial. Anything. Anecdotes, a stern talking to. I need help. I’m afraid I’ll never get back to my 95lb weight loss and I’m beginning to self sabotage. And this is going to lead to my death if I continue at this rate. My body won’t be able to take such drastic weight loss and weight gains much longer.

Any help would be appreciated.

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Accepting the fact that it's a lifelong pursuit...

I just wanted to share something, a mindset, that has helped me to reframe my efforts.

"Each day, for the rest of my life, I will need to put a little bit of my effort towards healthy living."

I used to find this idea oppressive. I now find it liberating. Let me explain. If you go through life waiting for that arrival date where you will no longer need to worry about food, your body, or healthy living, you will always be disappointed. Those of us who have learned to use food as a drug, a coping mechanism, an emotional support tool, will always battle with that urge. We aren't going to all of a sudden reach our goal weight and never need to worry again. That's not how it works. We need to actively retrain our brain and remind ourselves of what we hope to accomplish every day.

The other thing I've been reflecting on lately is that our efforts, even our failed ones, are not in vain. Many of us, if left without any checks and balances, would be much larger and less healthy than we currently are. We often forget this. We see our excess weight and think of it as a failure, rather than seeing all of the many successes we have had over the years in keeping more weight off.

So with that in mind, I find it helpful to consider my efforts each day as one part of a lifelong decision to manage my weight. I won't always be successful in each season, but I will always devote a bit of energy and attention to the pursuit of healthy living each day. It helps to banish this all or nothing mentality and remind us that fast weight loss should not be the goal. Lifelong management should be our goal.

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