Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Any advice for long term weight loss success?

I lost a lot of weight in my early 20’s by excessively counting an extremely low cal diet and basically not eating. I obviously lost weight fast which I think is what made it easy to stick to after the initial hump. I started exercising and eating a little more healthy foods and was able to maintain my weight loss for five years. Now I have had four kids in four years and I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been and I hate it. The truth is I start out great and lose a couple of pounds but then I start getting discouraged because I feel I should be losing weight quicker then I start to get lazy with my goals. Does anyone have any advice for losing weight in the long term? I’m not really sure why this time I’m having such a hard time getting over the hump to have long term success.

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Reach All Your Goals—Every Time!

You’ve heard it before—set a goal, then write it down. Don’t believe it? Consider this: A study conducted by Harvard Business School found that people who wrote down their goals were making 10 times as much money after 10 years than those who didn’t put pen to paper. And it will probably help your weight loss and fitness goals, too. Before you start scribbling, though, check out these tips to make every goal you set more likely to succeed.

Be SMART – SMART is an acronym that will help you set effective goals. If your goals meet all five criteria spelled out by the capital letters, the SMART system says you’re more likely to reach them.

  • S is for specific. Instead of saying, “I want to lose weight,” go for “I want to look great in a little black dress.”
  • M is for measurable: Maybe it’s a specific dress you’re after, or a specific size, which can be measured.
  • A is attainable: If the dress you’re after is too short for you, it may not work at all. Make sure the goal isn’t so ambitious that it can never be reached.
  • R is realistic, which is different from attainable: It’s not whether you think you can do something, but whether you will or want to attain this goal. Are you willing to do what it takes to reach the goal? If so, set a deadline:
  • T is for time-bound. In our dress example, a SMART goal might be: “I want to lose 18 pounds to fit into the black dress I wore to my 10-year high school reunion in six months.”

Set Goals You Can Control Experts talk about “outcome” goals, which revolve around the potential end results of a group of actions, and “process” goals, which focus on the means that can result in those ends. Outcome goals, especially in weight loss, can be out of your control: If you goal is to lose 10 pounds in a certain period, you may fall short because your menstrual cycle causes you to retain water or other things you can’t fix. But a process goal is within your control, and leads you towards your desired outcome. That’s why psychologists prefer this style. A process goal to “stay on my diet plan for 9 out of 10 meals each week,” or “exercise 12 times each month” is entirely up to you—and it can help you reach the outcome you’re after.

Go Big Now that you’re SMART and are thinking process, come up with an ambitious, visionary goal. In a study from The Journal of Consumer Research, participants who set more ambitious goals had higher rates of satisfaction—no matter the outcome—than those who set more conservative goals. So start with an end state in mind, and get really specific about it: What does your goal physique entail, and what do you want to do with that body? What kind of clothes do you wear? What activities do you enjoy? Use this far-off goal as your ultimate endgame, and something from which to frame your smaller goals.

Go Small The smaller goals you set are mileposts on the journey to the larger goal. You may not see the incremental progress towards your ultimate goal, but you can put a notch in your belt because in your second week, you ate an extra serving of vegetables each day or walked for 5 minutes more than the week before. And small, achievable goals are important. According to a 2011 study from the Netherlands, arthritis patients who reached small, realistic physical activity goals saw a direct improvement benefit in their condition and quality of life. The study says these participants experienced higher levels of self-efficacy: That is, they came to believe they were capable of doing things and making changes.

Reaching smaller, shorter-term goals (and having more to strive for) can also keep you motivated—you’ll see obvious progress every day.

Try this Strategy: 5×5
To create a short- and long-term plan, try this five-goal system: Start with a SMART goal for 5 years from now. Then set a goal for 5 months from now that’s on the way to the five-year goal. Then set one for 5 weeks from now. Then 5 days from now. And finally, a goal for 5 hours from the moment you start setting goals. The healthier living example listed above would look like this:
• In 5 years, I will be a person who exercises 4 times per week, eats vegetables with every meal, and wears the same size jeans I did when I was 25.
• In 5 months, I will fit into the black dress I wore to my 10-year high school reunion
• In 5 weeks, I will have exercised 13 or more times to progress towards my goal.
• In 5 days, I will have completed a food log of my eating for 3 out of 5 days.
• In 5 hours, I will have swapped a full-calorie soda for a large glass of water.

Every time you reach a goal, set new SMART ones using this strategy. And write them down!

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Giving it my all in 2022

I'm 38M, 5'11". As of three weeks ago, I was 131.6 kg (290.1 lb). I haven't weighed myself since then, and if I'm honest, I'm afraid to. I know that due to a combination of being quarantined due to potential COVID exposure, plus the holiday season, I weigh more than that today.

But I need to change things now.

The truth is that I'm not happy. There are many things that I need to change in my life, including my weight. And while I'm not one of those people who thinks that they'll suddenly be happy if they get down to a certain weight, I do think that my weight is quite realistically an obstacle to some of the things I need to do to make my life better. My greatest fear is that things in my life won't get better, so I need to take charge staring right now.

I have three main daily goals:

  • Calorie and nutrition goals - The most important, to be broken only on days when there are professional or social reasons I can't stick to my goals that day. This will be tough, as I know that I have addiction issues when it comes to food and using it to distract myself from emotional pain, so this will take a lot of daily effort.
  • Maximize movement - Second most important. Not as important to overall weight loss. I'm not going to sabotage myself by setting a big daily exercise goal and becoming discouraged when I can't meet it, so simply saying to maximize it as much as is practical is a fair goal, I think. For reference, I did 19,196 steps yesterday.
  • Minimize diet soft drink consumption - Like with food, this is an addiction. I'm not going to say that I'm going to give it up altogether, because I think that given the choice between missing my daily food goals and this one, this is the lesser of two evils. But I'm still going to try to absolutely minimize it, and drink only water where possible.

My long-term weight goal is 80kg (176.4 lb). I'm giving it all I have.

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Obese, thyroid, knee problems. how to lose weight

A family member of mine is obese and has problems with one knee and the other foot. She needs to lose weight but can't walk. Even a 15-minute walk is challenging. Then she has pain all day. She is on a diet but still cannot lose weight because there is a problem with her thyroid. We are thinking of doing upper body training with dumbbells or resistance bands. Does this work for weight loss? What moves should you make? Is there any other advice you can give for someone in this situation?

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Monday, January 3, 2022

You think your holidays were rough? I’m up 43 pounds over the past two months. Time to get back on track.

Yeah, you read that right. Over the past two months, I am now up 43 pounds on the scale. Some of it is water weight from the past weekend that will come off quick but I have also probably gained a significant amount of fat.

After losing ~270 pounds and mostly living between 170 and 180, I’m now back up to my highest weight in years. I hope this serves as a good reminder that your journey doesn’t end when you hit your goal weight and that you have to remain vigilant and committed.

I’m hoping to find a specialist to try to tackle my issues with binge eating on vacations and during the holidays but until then I’m ready to get back into my normal routine so that I can be back around 170 by June 1, the 5 year anniversary of the start of my weight loss journey.

I guess I just wanted to make sure to show everyone the struggles and not just the successes so people don’t think that getting to and maintaining a healthy weight is easy for some people. It’s a struggle for all of us.

Weight gain

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Therapy homework

Hi all

I have 15-20 lbs left in my weight loss journey. I know I have family issues. I know they’re all bonkers and the one comment that keeps replaying in my head is my aunt who gets meaner every year at thanksgiving saying how I look great but I’m gonna gain it all back and then some. I know how I gained the weight-knee injury and a shoulder surgery on a previously athletic personality and a very short frame! I’ve loved my body every step of the way because I can walk and hold things that I couldn’t do before and the less stress on my injuries the happier I feel.

But I haven’t been ok since thanksgiving. I feel this compulsive need to prove that I can do it to spite her and it’s actually turning into the opposite, where I’m being way more relaxed with my diet than ever in this journey.

Any negative family interaction since then and I feel driven to eat like never before.

So I’m going back through my therapy journals and trying to return to that state of gratitude I was thriving in.. and having done so I came across this text:

***Individuals who were raised in a family where their parents invalidated their views or feelings are more likely to binge and purge or have other disordered eating behaviors. If your family put a lot of emphasis on achievement and success and the need to control one’s emotions, you may have used compulsive exercise as a way of regulating your emotions

I feel like this statement captures my whole food journey and puts this new development into perspective. I’m not ok but I will be and it’s nice to feel validated.

I hope someone else will feel this paragraph as hard as I did today ❤️

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Is it possible to eat whatever I want and lose weight?

Firstly, I'd like to say that my situation is probably not the same as most people in here but I'm going to try my luck in hopes that somebody answers and I'll try and go by that since there's a lot of news articles on the internet where one says no and 3 says yes.

Some stats about me before I begin: I am currently 188 cm tall (that's like 6 foot 2 in freedom units) and weigh about 105 kg (about 230 pounds). I am starting to build up a bit of excessive fat even though I go to the gym every day and have a fair share of muscle on my frame. My cutting calorie intake is at about 2200 calories per day - I go to the gym almost everyday and I do about 10K steps+ each day.

So, basically as the title states can I eat whatever I want and still lose weight. I am under the believe that when it comes to fat loss / weight loss it's calories in and calories out so I don't follow a specific diet (like keto, vegan etc etc). I follow a wide variety of food choices like lean meats, beef, veggies, rice and so on and so forth but there's always going to be days where I am just not in the mood to cook my own food and here's my question: Is it okay to eat as an example McDonalds so long I track everything and don't go too overboard with calories - let's say I eat 800 calories or 1000 calories worth of McDonalds - is that going to have a significant impact on losing fat?

Much appreciation to anybody taking time out of their day to reply to this.

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