Does anyone else have a friend who is just so negative and jealous about your weight loss journey?
My friend and I have both been wanting to lose weight, and I finally started to seriously count macros about a month ago. I’m down about 6lbs and I’m so happy! I have 10lbs to hit my goal weight.
My friend has about 40lbs to lose, but she refuses to make any changes. She’s constantly eating high caloric meals with red meat, cheese, carbs, etc, but then will always complain that she’s bloated, having skin issues, or other gastro issues. If I ever mention a healthy swap, like cauliflower rice or almond milk, she scoffs at me and things like “ew, that’s disgusting.” How do you expect to feel better if you’re not doing anything about it? She always says it’s some crazy health issue, and it’s never ever what she eats. Like right now, she’s convinced she has parasites, yet is drinking raw milk. And I’m just like ????? The cognitive dissonance is astounding.
This morning, I mentioned that I want to get back into running because I feel like losing 6lbs will make my mile time faster, and she was sooo negative and was like “that won’t make a difference.” Okay??? Like thanks for the encouragement? I’m so frustrated! I’m trying to be encouraging by giving her tips that have worked for me and she just won’t listen and claims “oh that won’t work for my body.” Like did you even try??? Ugh!
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