Thursday, November 1, 2018

Struggling With Weight Loss - Family / Friends Say I'm In "Starvation Mode"

Hi all,

I know starvation mode is talked about on here a lot and I'm struggling with coming to terms on why I can't lose weight. I am an avid CICO proponent and stand fast in the "eat less, move more" motto.

However, I have not been able to lose weight despite my efforts and was recently diagnosed with a pituitary micro-adenoma (a tumor on my pituitary gland) which is causing (hopefully) low testosterone. My doctor did bloodwork twice and I came back with testosterone levels of 236 ng/dl. I am a 30 year old, healthy, male standing 6'2" and 240 lbs, with approximately 25% body fat. According to my doctor, the average 30 year old male has a testosterone measurement of between 600-800 ng/dl, so I have about 1/3 the testosterone of an average 30 year old male.

Anyway, enough about my health background. I'm relatively active person, I play soccer occasionally and I go to the gym regularly (3-4 days per week). I usually lift weights for approximately 1-1.5 hours and, depending on how much energy I have, I might do 10-20 minutes of relatively light treadmill cardio. According to my fitness watch, I burn between 300-500 calories during a workout (sometimes more if I'm on the treadmill for a while).

So, my BMR is approximately 2,300 and my TDEE is approximately 3,160 as "lightly active" (I have a desk job M-F 8-5). I've been eating in the realm of 1,800 - 2,200 calories per day with the goal of losing at least 1lb per week. I track my calories through My Fitness Pal and try and be as truthful as I can about drinks, snacks, etc. Based on my BMR of 2,300 and a deficit of 500 calories, 1,800 is about where I should be and then I work out a few days per week and I do not eat back the calories spent on working out. So, if I burn 500 calories at the gym and eat the minimum of 1,800 calories (it's usually closer to 2,000) then I'm still at 1,300 calories for the day.

My brother, girlfriend, and everyone else is telling me that I'm not losing weight due to being in "starvation mode". I try to explain to them that that's not the case because I'm still well above what would be considered starving myself (<800 calories per day). My brother is an avid gym goer and power lifter and is 6' 240 lbs and very strong. He keeps telling me that I should be eating 2,500 - 3,000 at a minimum to lose weight and the fact that I'm only taking in 1,800 - 2,200 calories per day is starving my body and having it hold onto fat and burn my muscle (for the record, I've always had a really hard time trying to put on muscle, if I can put on any at all).

I don't know if they are right and I'm eating too little, or if it's my testosterone that is not allowing me to lose weight. I'm scheduled with an endocrinologist later this month to go over steps moving forward and possible surgery, but I've stopped working out for the last month because I've become discouraged that I can't seem to get below 230 lbs.

I apologize for the long post and I'm happy to answer any information questions I have missed. I look forward to hearing from you all to see if you can point me in the right direction.

PS: My brother has given me the below links to persuade me that I'm eating too little:

https://www.muscleforlife.com/how-to-speed-up-metabolism/

https://healthyeater.com/eat-to-lose-weight

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3673773/

https://bayesianbodybuilding.com/energy-balance-myths/

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Post-birth thoughts about weight gain.

Before I got pregnant I lost 100lbs and went from obese to normal weight. It definitely left me with some loose skin and some areas (looking at you thighs) that I was less than happy with.. When I became pregnant I was so happy that I was going to enter that journey with not only a healthier body but also a healthier mindset. Of course I endulged some in those 9 months cause, who are we kidding, cravings are intense! And while I think it's definitely important to eat healthily while pregnant, I didn't want my diet to dictate my happiness at that point so I avoided the scale.

I gained approx. 40lbs.

My son is 6 weeks tomorrow and I know that 6 weeks isn't all that much in that grand scale of things but I am truly struggling mentally with those extra pounds, much more than I did while still pregnant. I miss my clothes that I worked so hard to fit into. I miss the compliments that my weight loss brought on (my husband still compliments me every day about other things so I know how selfish that sounds). I used to savor those rare treats but now I feel guilty every time.

I want to get back to where I was, and I slowly am (lost around 15 pounds), and yet I feel totally lost this time around. Most days I am too worn out to even think about counting calories. I don't really snack during the day, thankfully, but I know my portions are bigger than they need be and not always very healthy. Walks with the stroller is my only work out. I know what I need to do. I've done it before. Why does it seem impossible?

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Newly Instituted Timeline for Weight Loss

Well, it's official. I have the worst life, and am going to get paid to spend a week in the Virgin Islands next May. Woe is me, I know! But, also, now I actually have a timeline for losing weight. Any tips on how to transition from "I'm going to do this the healthy way no matter how long it takes" to "I need to keep this healthy but also I want to look good in a bikini dammit"?

For context, this is a semi-work trip - my boss is a member of a hoity-toity senior executives only social/learning/club/group thing. I'm helping him (and by that I mean I'm doing the majority of the work) plan a retreat. SO I'll be working but also expected to be a good sport and participate and 'be the life of the party' as necessary to make sure it's an exceptional experience. Hence the desire to be confident, which will entail looking decent in a bathing suit.

Anyone have any tricks for motivating myself? On the one hand this is all super awesome and I'm so lucky, but on the other UGH I was hoping to avoid a timeline!

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My weight loss struggle. (And a request for help)

Wall of text. Backstory here, back in 2010 I weighed in at 340 lbs at 6'2". I was massively unhealthy and morbidly obese. I went through some tough situations in life and one morning i realized i didn't want to be like that anymore. I worked my butt off through diet and exercise and by 2013 i weighed in at 190 lbs. I went from a 44 in waist to a 32. Hadn't felt that good in years. I kept it up for a couple years, but then had a career change.

My schedule at work now prevents me from having any sort of regular regimen. (I work anywhere from 72 hours to 100 depending on the week). And over the course of the last 3 years I've lost control of my weight again and am now back up to 255. I've been trying for the last year to get back into shape, but anytime I make progress I'll wind up getting very very sick and then I fall back into the sedentary trap.

My diet has remained mostly healthy (I track every day with an app) but its not enough due to my lack of exercise, and I really can't bring myself to go full vegan (which would be the next step).

This situation has me really disheartened. I wanna get back under 200lbs.

I need some helpful advice to get me through this struggle.

TLDR : made huge fitness progress years ago, lost progress, struggling to get it back through sedentary job and frequent illness.

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Stress-Free Holiday Tips

As excitement for the holiday season continues to grow, it’s important to establish a game plan so you can make this year’s festivities as stress-free as possible. With all of the decorations, gift-giving, dinner parties, traveling and family gatherings, it can be easy to get caught up in the chaos and exhaustion. It’s a hectic time of year, and it’s often tempting to throw in the towel on healthy habits until the New Year. 

When it comes to the holidays, research suggests that nearly 40% of people experience higher stress levels with participants citing lack of time, lack of money, the push of commercialism and an increase in responsibility as their top stressors. To help combat these stats and to prepare you for the next eight weeks of holiday havoc, we’ve identified a few routine ways you can help make this year more manageable and a little less stressful. 

Plan Ahead: 

As obvious as this one seems, it’s important to give yourself enough lead time to prepare for all of the extra events, cooking, shopping and hosting duties that seem to be never-ending. When it comes to kitchen organization, preparing meals and resisting temptations at parties, having a game plan ahead of time will help you stay on track: 

  • Go through and organize storage areas in your kitchen to remove expired and unhealthy foods that may be taking up unnecessary space and getting in the way of your health goals. This will also make grocery shopping a little less hectic when you find yourself making a list and not having to franticly check it twice. If you haven’t used it in the last several months, it’s probably time to pitch. 
  • If you’re the guest at a party, plan to bring your own healthy food to share. Some go-to ideas include: vegetable platters, hummus trays, fruit and cheese trays, mini meatballs, cold cut platter, shrimp cocktail, assorted nuts, etc. Feel free to get creative too. A crowd favorite is plain, full fat Greek yogurt mixed with a scoop of vanilla Life Time collagen peptides as a dip alongside some fruit. If bringing your own food isn’t an option, plan to have a snack ahead of time that includes protein, healthy fat and fiber to keep you full and satisfied. 
  • If you’re having guests over for a meal, try to make 75% of the meals and snacks a day or two beforehand. Some of the easiest things to make ahead of time and reheat (if needed) are sweet potato dishes, mashed cauliflower (for those with a lower carb approach) and desserts.  

Power Through Your Workouts: 

Take a breather and remember: your to-do list can wait when it means putting your health first. Overtime, skipping workouts can really add up and negatively impact the exercise regimen you’ve worked so hard to establish. While it’s tempting to tell yourself you’ll get back on track after the holidays, consider this:

  • Endurance/cardiovascular training helps reduce stress, so if you’re avoiding it during a more stressful time of the year, you may be accumulating more stress by not exercising.  
  • The biggest battle will be getting to the club, but once you arrive, chances are your motivation will increase because you’ll be surrounded by like-minded people who are also chasing after their health goals. An effective trick is to aim to commit to just 10 minutes of movement. If you complete the 10 minutes, you achieved your goal. What you’ll find, however, is that once you get going, it’s much easier to actually get a full workout done. 
  • If you workout before going to a holiday event, you’ll likely make better decisions about what you eat, not wanting to negate the benefits of the workout you just did.

Pick Your Plate Wisely: 

Just because you’ve always made your holiday dishes the same way doesn’t mean you need to keep doing that. Take heart, you can find ways of making similar dishes that still taste great and don’t have all the junk in them.

If you’re going to a party or an event and know you’re going to run into some foods that are hard to resist, don’t go hungry and make sure you have a craving strategy in place. For most, using a protein powder prior to that event can help keep cravings at bay and keep your blood sugars stable so your energy doesn’t drop (causing a craving).

Pour Yourself More Water: 

Constantly sipping on water will keep you hydrated and reduce the amount of food you’ll want to eat. It’s common to mistake hunger for thirst, so prioritizing hydration can go a long way with holiday temptations.

While festive drinks can be hard to avoid during this time of year, keep a water bottle nearby so you’re less tempted to reach for a glass of punch, alcohol or some other higher-calorie sugary drink. Plus, dressing up your water by using sparkling water with lemon or lime is an easy way to minimize the number of holiday cocktails- while (for the most part) keeping commentary from others at bay. Hydration is usually easier in the summer months and can easily be overlooked due to cooler temperatures, so before you reach for a peppermint mocha to warm you up, consider drinking a glass or two of water first. 

Put Down the Electronics: 

While it can be difficult to reduce screen time at work, consider limiting the amount of time you spend online when you’re at home or off the clock. If you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through your phone while in the company of others, late at night, or every other minute, it may be time to impose some new boundaries. Screen time not only adds up quickly, but it can negatively impact the quality of your sleep. Instead of checking email or social media yet again, put the phone down and consider going for a walk to your local park, playing a board game or meeting up with some friends to volunteer for a good cause. 

Pamper Yourself: 

It can be easy to prioritize the needs of others before our own, but in order to wholeheartedly pour into others, we must first make sure we’re filled up. Whether you have a few hours or even a few minutes, do what you need in order to get yourself back in the game. Whether taking a restorative yoga class, taking a walk around the block, scheduling a massage at the Life Spa or taking a quick cat nap, be sure you pocket time for self-care. 

 

What's your plan of action to de-stress and stay on track this holiday season?

If you’ve found these tips helpful, but aren’t sure where to start, our next Holiday 60day is kicking off on November 10 and is a great starting point for those who want to take a deeper dive into developing a game plan that is actionable. You can register here

Even with the busy holiday season right around the corner, the 60day is a structured program packed with healthy recipes, daily workouts, digital coaching and in-studio lectures by our experts that will help get you back on track through the rest of the year and have you feeling healthier, stronger and more alive. If you’re still looking for some inspiration, check out last year’s 60day success stories

 

- Life Time Weight Loss Staff

This article is not intended for the treatment or prevention of disease, nor as a substitute for medical treatment, nor as an alternative to medical advice. Use of recommendations in this and other articles is at the choice and risk of the reader. 



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Old Habits, laziness and a bad mentality die REALLY hard (Long post)

I've attempted to keep at it with CICO for 1 month. The first two weeks I was able to stick with it, track almost everything and keep the motivation and mindset. The last couple of weeks, not so much. They say it can take 21 days to make a habit. I didn't make it 15 days.

A little bit about me: 34 Female, weighing in around 244 pounds. When I started CICO I was 248. I did not weight myself this morning because I was afraid of what it would be. At the beginning of this year I was roughly 255-258. Winter always becomes my very sedentary time and once Spring hits I become more active with my kayak fishing competing (yes its a thing). I have been through cycles of becoming a couch potato in the late fall up until April for several years now. I hate winter, I hate dark mornings and dark evenings, I hate the cold, and any activity outside in the cold is somewhat impossible due to cold induced asthma. I have also given up very easily in the past with other diet trends, mainly because they were so restrictive and knew it would not work and also didn't have the mindset.

I had been in a funk for about 2 years with no reason/motivation/mindset, etc to try or even attempt weight loss. I knew I just didn't have it in me mentally to do it. I recently got married 9/8/18 so there was a lot on my plate for that. The week off after the wedding something inside finally woke back up. I got motivated, I got the mindset back. Its like the on switch that I couldn't find was on full power. I was ready to make a change. There is literally nothing keeping me from loosing weight but myself. I kept seeing posts on this subreddit and it gave me even more inspiration. I bought resistance bands, printed off motivational posters, I did things to prep myself and hoped I could keep at it. I didn't want to let myself get into my normal winter potato mode. I wanted to get myself in better shape for the kayak bass fishing national championship next March down in Louisiana. (Kayak Fishing is my heart, soul and passion). I had the vision of being slimmer and in better shape for this event. I had such good intentions, motivation, and support from my husband who I had tried to get into it years before. Now it feels and seems that I have just automatically given up, but the switch is still somewhat on, which I'm terrified I'll loose access to completely again.

I tracked my food/calories with the loseit app and made a simple goal to track everything and keep my calorie limit within reason (1600-1700/day). Sounded and seemed easy enough. The first 2 weeks I was able to stick with it completely and logged everything even if I went over, but it wasn't going over by much (70-100 calories). I didn't limit myself on certain foods, etc but realized within the first 2 days that it was still going to be a challenge mentally since I have a big sweet tooth and its really opened my eyes as to how many calories are in anything and everything.

Around the end of the 2nd week I hit the wall again. I would track most of the day, or parts of the day, then the evening is where I would run into trouble. I would want to have larger portions of dinner and have that evening snack. I couldn't deal with actually seeing how bad I did by tracking and it would make me feel ashamed of myself if I did. I also have had issues with binging (usually around the time of the month). I used the resistance bands once.

It's so easy to get off track, go back to old habits and just continue to be lazy because its the EASY thing to do and requires the least amount of effort.

It's easy to come home, get dinner ready, etc and then just sit on the couch because its easy and requires little effort/energy.

It's easy to give up right away because there has been no progress visually/mentally/etc and its the easy thing to do.

It's been easy to always think I'm never going to be good enough to loose weight because I have always failed or given up and have constantly yo-yo'd throughout the years.

It's easy to get discouraged and give up when the scale barely moves.

It's so easy to make whatever food you want and not have to count calories for every single ingredient because that can take alot work and even investigation.

It's easy to give up looking for better and different foods, recipes, etc because its an endless monster in itself since there can literally be 100 variations of 1 recipe. There's also a lot of really weird shit out there for recipes and foods. I was also faced with the reality of the meals I had made in the past were HUGE calorie eaters. My ghoulash recipe is 650 calories alone.... not a lot of room for other meals and foods in the day.

Now the positive side of things that my mind has accepted/realizes (My mind has a hard time seeing positives as this has been a struggle since high school, which is when I was diagnosed with depression).

By doing CICO there has not been any junk food, candy etc in the house for quite some time. Even when I gave up I have still not succumbed to buying crap food from the grocery store. Its a matter of not having the temptation in the house and also budgeting since we are working on paying off credit card debt to eventually be able to buy a house. Meal planning and prep has been on Sundays and made things easier for knowing what lunches and dinner will be, but on the other side of that is that there is alot more for me to do, since I do 95% of the meal planning, prep and 100% cooking. My husband is supportive, encouraging etc, but couldn't cook to save his life. Our kitchen is tiny in a house we rent so that makes things challenging if he wants to try to help Our local Krogers now has the Clicklist where you order ahead and pick up your groceries. The only downside is that it has to be made within 4 hours of wanting to pick it up and they stop pick up after 8pm.

I'm trying to see the how/why/what etc that got me off track and has caused me to automatically think I have failed. There's one part of my mind that desperately wants to keep trying, but another part that is already in the given up and lets go back to easy/lazy mode. The battle in my mind seems to be the wall. I wish I could just shut this part off so I can keep myself going.

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Christmas as a newly fledged loser?!

I’m sure this must have been asked before but I couldn’t find it.

I’m about a month and a half in to my brand new weight loss journey. Brand spanking new mindset and all. I’ve currently lost 14 lbs and am feeling FANTASTIC for it.

But Christmas is looming and it is my absolute favourite food time of year! As well as the stress eating aspect as I’m sure since I have the biggest house the family will come to me. Pigs in blankets, everything fried, everything breaded, everything cheese and even more chocolate. I’m terrified. How can I keep this up at Christmas?! I’m actually genuinely scared. My whole family are foodies and my mother is an ex chef so her cooking is fecking delicious.

I honestly need some tips on how to cope. There will be left overs ramming my fridge and grandparents basically force feeding me?! Send.help.

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