Wednesday, April 17, 2019

Today is the day my weight loss journey turns into a fitness journey. Mission complete.

2 years ago i had my click moment. I knew it was time to change. I still don’t know what made me click but i am so thankful it happened.

Ive lost 115lbs in the last 2 years through exercise and C.I.C.O. The first few weeks were hell but i was determined to improve my life and change my lifestyle.

I am a type 1 diabetic so throughout my whole journey i was having to deal with low blood sugars which really suck because you have to consume calories when your blood sugars low or you will die. Ive also been working very closely with my doctors at the diabetic clinic who have been extremely helpful and supportive of me. They are very pleased with the progress I’ve made.

At my heaviest i was 280lbs. I was miserable, depressed and had no confidence at all. Today i feel amazing. I have a regular workout routine and feel so much better about myself and who i am. I love myself.

I want to thank each and every one of you here on loseit for keeping me motivated to reach my goal. This community is so important to me and i tell everyone about how much it has helped me.

Anything is possible.

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Someone called me fat again and I can’t get over it

I don’t know if this is the right subreddit to post this to but I am literally in tears right now.

I’ve changed my lifestyle four months ago. I’ve lost around 20 lbs. I’m 10 lbs away from healthy weight range. I’ve had bad relationship with food for as long as I can remember and now I finally don’t. I was so incredibly happy with my progress.

Yesterday, I’ve met with a family member I haven’t seen in a while and the first thing they told me is that I’m still fat.

I ignored it at first because I’m used to getting called fat but now I’m just sad and I can’t get over it. I thought I was doing okay with my weight loss. I was happy with myself. I was proud of how far I’ve come. Another family member that heard the remark approached me later and told me to not take it to heart. How can I not?

Once again, I’m sorry if this is the wrong sub but I don’t have anyone to talk to. If anyone has any advice on how to deal with these types of situations and how to not let it get to me, it would be great. Thanks in advance.

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For the first time ever, I am confident about maintenance

Hi all. Love, love, love this sub. Thank you to everyone on here. You guys motivate me daily.

So, I'm getting close to my (32F, 5"6') goal weight (SW:193, CW:157. GW:147). I have lost weight in the past, and regained, and lost and regained. This time feels completely different. I am a big planner (love lists, calendars, projections... all that jazz) and I have always made rigorous plans for how to get to my goal weight in years gone by. The problem was, not once did I ever make a rigorous plan of maintaining that weight loss. It usually went something like... great, I've met goal, now I can eat what I want again and pack in this whole exercise agony. It's so stupid now that I realise it, but honestly it's what I always did. I know in my heart that this time will be different because:

- I have found a workout regime that I love (weightlifting 5 times a week) and fully plan to keep this going after I have reached my weight loss goal. Loving the fact that my increased muscle/decreased body fat will allow me to consume a few more calories overall.

- I am actually aware of what my necessary calories will be to maintain my new weight. TDEE for me at goal is approx 2,250 cals to maintain. Can't wait to enjoy a few more treats than usual, without going overboard of course.

- I have taken the time to learn about all the different support tools I have at my disposal: TDEE calculators, myfitnesspal food tracker, this sub, fitness bloggers on instagram, support for friends and family helps too.

- I have built good habits over the long-term such as:
1) Journaling. This is a biggie because I have been prone to binging on high sugar high fat stuff in the past, then having the mentality of, 'well I've already messed up, I may as well go whole hog'. By keeping track of my feelings in a little journal, I can see patterns of behaviour, how I feel afterwards, and it helps me to make better choices.
2) Keeping a food log. Absolutely essential.
3) tracking progress in many ways: scale, tape measure, body fat, progress pics, personal bests in workouts.
4) Planning my meals a week in advance and always bringing a packed lunch to work.

- Lastly, I making new goals that are not related to the number on the scale, such as beating my 5K time, or increasing the amount I can deadlift/squat etc. If I always have something to work towards, it keeps me motivated.

I hope some of that will be helpful to someone else out there who knows the sting of losing and regaining. We can do this!

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NSV--went to a restaurant and didn't binge!!!!

I have always--ALWAYS--struggled with restaurants. They're my kryptonite. I've never been able to order the healthy option or practice portion control. It's like once I'm through the restaurant doors, all bets are off.

It's such a problem that during my weight loss, the only solution was to just not go. So we just didn't go. 99% of the time, food came from home. And it worked!! I lost ~80 lbs after my last pregnancy. I've been maintaining for a year and a half now but still struggle with restaurants so we usually stay away.

But sometimes you have to go to a restaurant. For social events, a loved one, etc. In my family, we do a favorite meal for birthdays. For my birthday, I usually choose a fancy meal to cook, for example. One of my kids had a bday yesterday, and they chose Chili's for their favorite meal. Chili's is one of the worst for me because I'm a burger and fries fiend.

I was nervous all day. Looked up low cal options that I knew I wasn't gonna really order (because burger). Went running just in case. And then the moment of truth came. Y'all. I ordered the 6 oz sirloin, loaded mashed potatoes, and steamed broccoli. Ate every bit. The fried onions appetizer--usually a weak spot for me--didn't even appeal to me. I didn't touch it. I didn't steal a single fry from my husband or kids. Dessert came and I took a few bites of the warm cookie.

And that was it. I was done. Full but not grossly full. No aching stomach from eating a huge burger and all the fries. My calorie count came in at 935, which is high, but I still finished the day with a ~200 cal deficit.

Y'all. I am so freaking proud of myself. And so relieved. It's like now I know I can do this in the future now. I'm not a slave to fatty, greasy foods.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 17 April 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Who else is definitely not skinny, but also not really that fat either?

Hey, all!

I see a lot of posts here that are really awesome and inspiring, but I have a hard time relating. I'm 20F, 5'3" and weigh 140 pounds. I have been this weight since I was probably a freshman in high school. I wouldn't say I look unhealthy or bad by any means, but I definitely don't carry my weight super well. I often see/hear of these amazing transformations, and while I love seeing them and am so happy for these people, I simply can't apply the logic to my own weight loss journey. It's hard to stay motivated with goals I can't even imagine, and probably won't notice such a large change in day-to-day life because of said weight loss.

So, average size friends, what is your mindset? You goals? How do you stay motivated when you have a bit of weight to lose, but not all that much?

Thank you!

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How do you stop using food as an anti depressant?

I imagine there are a few people on here that would understand this.

I started my weight loss journey in January. For a few months, maintaining my deficit wasn’t too bad. There were certainly moments where I resented my roommate for being able to eat Doritos or I felt hungry/missed being able to eat indiscriminately, but I was feeling more energetic and I felt determined. The idea of getting to my goal weight by the end of the year motivated me.

But I have (and always have had) trouble with depression. It just never quite goes away for me, and it loves to stick it’s head up and say hello. I am seeing a psychiatrist so I’m not going it alone. But when the depression hits my motivation is zero and I also have such a tendency to eat to compensate for how little energy I have. It’s not even a purely emotional choice, I’m so tired and unable to do anything that my body seems to crave hits of sugar to get me going.

I feel guilty for eating above my deficit and I know I’m slipping, but then I also feel like there’s no point, I’m tired, I’m sad etc. I don’t even have the energy to think about eating better today, and that’s scary.

Anyone relate?

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