Tuesday, March 10, 2020

Starting my weight loss journey now :)

I quit smoking 57 days ago. Now that my respiratory system is healing well (so I can exercise!) and the increased appetite that you get after quitting is normalizing again (so I can make changes to my diet!), I feel ready to make this next big change for my health and wellbeing.

I am 95 kg. I aim to weigh 80 kg. I expect to require 20 weeks to get there, about 5 months. If it's a year then it's fine too. I am content with where I am now, I look fine, but I see that carrying around a few kgs less could make life a little bit lighter.

Exercise:

  • daily exercise routine in the morning; mostly bodyweight exercises
  • one or two walks during the workday.
  • cycling to work when the weather is good (will become more hard-core later, but cycling for 30 kilometers on good weather days is already good)
  • swimming once a week
  • running a few times per week

Diet:

  • will rarely drink alcohol.
  • will not buy chips for myself
  • will cook my own meals on most days
  • will make my own lunch (instead of buying premade)
  • will basically learn what a healthy diet is, not just for weight loss but also for getting enough nutrients and energy to stay healthy and strong.
  • will make my healthy food tasty. That's also important.

Social:

  • I will tell exactly 0 people (irl) that I am losing weight or making lifestyle changes. No one, not one conversation started by me. You are the (anonymous) exception ;). People may notice, or not, and if they do I will say "thank you, you look good as well" when they compliment me, and if they ask me "have you lost weight?" I will answer "maybe, have you found it?". If they are worried, I know some people respond in that way, I will say "don't worry it was just my winter fur ;)". I do not want to draw attention to myself for my looks or my lifestyle. I used to talk a lot about changes I was making, but I wish to get rid of this habit. It gives people expectations of me, I share things that are personal and like I say I draw attention to myself in a way that I don't want to do. I'd rather just be a positive, strong, confident and reliable person, and not through words, but through action.

Mental

  • I will only weigh myself every week or so, perhaps even less, not more. I do not want to become obsessed by the numbers (that is one of my pitfalls)
  • I will not count calories and log them. I know that works for many, but I know myself and it wouldn't work for me. I will calculate my calories every now and then to see if what I am doing is enough, but I won't track them.
  • I'll write in a training/food/sleep log every day. Keeping it simple.
  • will not see this losing weight as a project. Taking care of my health is a lifelong thing and you do it through a healthy lifestyle. Living healthier is my goal, losing weight is just an outcome. Perhaps I will gain some later when I gain more muscle, that is fine.
  • I aim to be strong and fit for life, and like I said I will get there through a healthy lifestyle, but in order to do that this lifestyle must be fulfilling, realistic and it should work for me, meaning I eat foods that Iike and do exercises that I like. Feeling good and having fun are important as well! Otherwise, I know that something in me will revolt and I will stop exercising and eating healthy.
  • will make the changes slowly, this plan here explains the direction that I am going, I don't have to be perfect from the start, or ever.

That's it! Curious what you think of my plan!

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
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Monday, March 9, 2020

Emotionally I can’t begin to loseit

Parts of this may seem off topic so I apologize, but it all comes together at the end.

I’m currently at a point where I know I’m overweight (35m, 6’2, 255lbs) but for specific heartbreaking reasons I just cant bring myself to want to diet or workout, it seriously makes me want to cry. I’ll give you all some backstory so you’ll understand my shitty dilemma.

My wife has always been a semi health conscious person, and always into new fad diets, I’ve never really much been into any of that, when we got together 14years ago I was just a typical computer geek kinda guy (I was probably 220lbs back then). But as we got older and had three kids she slowed down on the diets and fitness til a couple years ago when she became obsessed with orange theory gym and some other spin class gym, she was hitting it hard and shedding weight.. she would make comments to me like “I want to experience being with someone who’s fit, you’ve never been in good shape I really wish you’d work out”

Well 6 months into that foray she traveled back to our home state by herself to visit family and ended up sleeping with one of her old fwb from before me and her started dating. (there was an extended affair via txting and facetime etc which started when she first started going hard on the weight loss) Her affair was not an accident and I found that she planned the whole affair out in detail.. The thing is, she also slept with the same guy while we were engaged and I didn’t find out til midway thru our marriage, to which I thought we were trying to work through that one (vow renewals, counseling, and since we were only engaged then, and now we have the kids and love for each other and all that)... Its been 17 months since the out of town affair and so far it’s getting easier trying to forgive her because I do love her, I don’t want to be a part time dad, and I want to believe it was a mistake she regrets etc etc, however it’s never easier it just becomes numb in my memory.

how I found out and the emotional drama that ensued after the discovery is too off topic for this sub, feel free to PM me, but we’re trying to move on from it.

but here’s my ultimate quandary...

That guy she chose to cheat on me with is some jacked dude who power lifts professionally and is constantly working out and eating healthy and dieting etc.

So when I think about my own weight loss now, these horrible memories creep back in and I become pissed and decide fuck working out and fuck eating healthy.. that’s what the other guy does and I’m not going to give in and be like that douche, or try to be some mirage of myself she wishes I would be. Literally every time I think about starting a weight loss or fitness journey that’s all I can think about and it hurts and makes me sad, to the point I just say fuck it. It does not help she’s now on her peloton bike all the time and starting new fad diets all of a sudden and wanting me to do it all with her, I’m feeling lost

But am I overthinking this? How do I overcome this shitty attitude I have towards dieting and working out when I’ve been hurt by it emotionally in a way :(

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Please help

Hi so I'm knew to this group f19, 5 7 and currently weigh 94kg (207 pounds). When I started my weight loss journey in November I weighed 98kg so I've lost 4kg or about 9 pounds but now I'm stuck. I can't seem to lose anymore weight. I've been stuck on 94 since the middle of February and I'm so frustrated and disheartened. I'm eating at a calorie deficit, around 1300 - 1500 everyday. Im eating as healthily and clean as possible. I walk 4km 4-5 times a week and get around 10,000 steps in a day.

I really don't know what more to do. Should I start doing other exercises? Has anyone gone through something similar?

Please please help, i really want to keep losing weight and get to being healthy I just don't know what more to do.

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Just Need Some Reassurance

I've been doing pretty fantastic so far on CICO/whole foods/plant focussed lifestyle. I dropped like 10 lbs of water weight initially then started losing ~0.1-0.2 lbs a day and averaging 1-2 a week (which is the obvious goal).

Its gone SO smooth. So well that I haven't realized I've become OBSESSED with the scale. I weigh myself everyday expecting to be just a very littleeee bit lighter each day. At first I couldn't believe it.

But now I've come to expect it.

But then.

Two weeks ago some pretty rough medical bills came up and I had to stretch my pay check and therefore my meals a taaaad more. I eeked out an extra serving in some of my meal preps and cut down my snacking. I went from 1900 calories a day to about 1500.

Despite KNOWING it wasn't healthy I still allowed myself to get excited about the extra weight loss.

But now that I'm back up to 1900 my weight has been all over the place. I'll lose two pounds, gain three, lose 0.4...

And while I know there will be a net loss, its really annoying to see my weight like this. Especially because its hard to conceptualize in my lizard brain while I keep seeing the scale go up.

I know this isn't long term. I know cutting down to 1500 calories won't help me.

My workout routine hasn't changed any (its always been run with my dog 30 mins a day). I haven't done anything crazy.

The only thing I can think is maybe cortisol from the stressful budget.

I guess I just need some logic thrown at me. I want to know that I'm doing this right and this is indeed, absolutely normal. My anxiety brain is running away on me and I think getting this out will stop me from deciding 1500 calories is a healthy food intake.

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Large amount of belly fat at 181 lbs

Hello,

I'll give you a brief overview of my journey before I go more into detail about my problems. Basically, I weighed 245 lbs, and now I weigh 181 lbs, but I still have a muffin top, and it isn't small. It's not ginormous, but it isn't small. I still have pronounced love handles and my stomach still hangs. I.e. my stomach hangs and creates a fat fold on the bottom of my abdomen.

I wish I could post a picture here to show what I'm talking about because people are like "Oh Nic, you look great hon!" and I'm over here like "Am I crazy? This is fat right? I can feel this? It's not just my mind playing tricks on me is it?"

So basically. I'm at a loss here, weight loss is getting harder and harder as I've shrunk, and I've been stuck in the 180s for more than a month now. I was doing 20:4 fasting at first, then I moved onto keto+fasting, now I'm back to doing 20:4.

How do I get rid of this unsightly body fat? And can I still lose weight doing 20:4? I've lost 60lbs doing it, and besides when I was doing keto. I didn't really change what I was eating. I don't eat sugary drinks. I do eat sugary things, some days I eat a lot of sugary things, but most days it's pretty balanced and not overboard. I estimate between 1500-2000 calories maximum. Some days less than a thousand. This is what I was doing before keto and I lost 40-45 lbs doing that while fasting. So I am just kind of lost right now.

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My weight loss journey would have been so much more difficult without breakfast cereals. Cereal appreciation thread.

As I'm approaching 120 pounds lost since last year, I'm just thinking man, what would I do without cereal lol. One of my biggest guilty pleasures was eating a full pack of cookies with milk roughly 2000 just for one "snack" not including everything else I ate during the day.

I've always loved cereal, so making this a core part of my daily eating is huge for me, and oftentimes I eat 2-3 servings a day (a serving is no more than 300 calories for me, usually one cup of cereal with 1/2 cup whole milk). Yeah some cereal has very high added sugar amounts, but I stick to the cereals that I don't deem as too bad since they also have huge amounts of fiber and sometimes protein such as Mini-wheats and raisin bran.

One of the best things about cereals is just the vast amount of variety available, it never makes cereal boring to eat. I can eat chocolate or strawberry mini-wheats, cinnamon special K (high protein), among many others. However the real life saver is the rare times I feel like eating cookies, I just buy Cookie Crisps or Reese's puffs. A cup without milk is like 150-180 calories, way better than the 2000 calories splurge I used to do.

On a side note, I recently discovered the Fiber One 70 calories brownies, my gawd. A pack has 6 brownies (420 calories total) and I splurged on it 3 times last month completely guilt free with 1 cup of milk. All in all 570 calories, the amount of fiber in a pack is like a little over 100% DV, it makes me use the bathroom crazy, but it makes me feel full for a while.

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